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Fears Labour’s Islamophobia definition could silence women’s rights campaigners - Baroness Falkner

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IwantToRetire · 08/12/2025 01:02

Labour's Islamophobia definition could be used to silence women’s rights campaigners, the recent head of the equalities watchdog has warned.

Baroness Falkner said the new definition could be weaponised against those who “dare” say that Muslim women are being suppressed.

The new definition – which has not yet been published by Communities Secretary Steve Reed – has been criticised by Tories as a route to a “de facto blasphemy law”.

Criticising the plans, Baroness Falkner told Sky News: “If they’re going to bring in yet another area where, for example, anyone who’s defending women’s rights is going to be accused by those ethnic minority men of Islamophobia, if they dare say something about how Muslim women are suppressed.

“I’m a Muslim woman myself. I know all about this.

“I know the community.”

NB source is the Sun! Link for full article https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/37562911/labour-islamophobia-definition-silence-womens-rights/

Fears Labour’s Islamophobia definition could 'silence' women’s rights activists

LABOUR’S Islamophobia definition could be used to silence women’s rights campaigners, the recent head of the equalities watchdog has warned.  Baroness Falkner said the new definition could be …

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/37562911/labour-islamophobia-definition-silence-womens-rights/

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BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 12:01

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 11:18

I didn't mention Jewish people.

Oh sorry, Jehovah’s witnesses. Still not relevant.

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 11:18

BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 11:16

You suddenly started talking about incel teenagers and excommunicating Jewish people on a thread about free speech, forgive me if I’m not following your specific train of thought.

People who know Muslims, have eaten in their homes and hugged their babies don't speak like you do. You can protest all you want, but I simply think you are lying.

You are accusing me of lying because I’ve mentioned harmful practices that some Muslims (NOT ALL MUSLIMS) adhere to. That’s a bit odd.

Is our Home Secretary also lying about having Muslim friends? Is Baroness Falkner lying?

I didn't mention Jewish people.

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 11:18

BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 11:10

Yes but FGM isnt a Muslim practice.

It is though. Not all Muslims (as I keep repeating) but some. If you had looked at the world map I shared above you would see that many of the countries with the highest number of cases (85-100% prevalence) are almost entirely Muslim. Only Eritrea is 50/50 Muslim/Christian as far as I can see but I haven’t done an exhaustive check - maybe you could do that?)

Why do you think you are better situated to challenge first cousin marriage practices than people from that community who do and can better advise where funding and government assistance might help?

Where have I said that I am the best person to challenge first cousin marriage? I have highlighted that our government are refusing to support a law banning it and trying to reduce the significant harm caused to thousands of babies.

How will you handle women from that community who argue for their right to marry their cousin if they want to?

Why would anyone demand the right to do something that is known to be harmful to health? I would expect people to abide by UK law the same as we abide by the law that says you can’t marry your grandfather or brother. The law is there for a very good reason.

Do you think that all Pakistanis are totally oblivious to the risks of consanguinity?

This was a good documentary some years ago. https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p056gvhm

You know, if you look around the world, you'll find that all cows are animals. But more animals are not cows.

BBC Three - Should I Marry My Cousin?

Teenager Hiba explores the controversial but legal custom of first-cousin marriage.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p056gvhm

BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 11:16

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You suddenly started talking about incel teenagers and excommunicating Jewish people on a thread about free speech, forgive me if I’m not following your specific train of thought.

People who know Muslims, have eaten in their homes and hugged their babies don't speak like you do. You can protest all you want, but I simply think you are lying.

You are accusing me of lying because I’ve mentioned harmful practices that some Muslims (NOT ALL MUSLIMS) adhere to. That’s a bit odd.

Is our Home Secretary also lying about having Muslim friends? Is Baroness Falkner lying?

BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 11:10

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 08:19

Yes but FGM isnt a Muslim practice. The countries where cocaine use is most prevalent are Christian or Catholic. That doesn't mean all Christians are cokeheads or drug smuggling bandits.

Why do you think you are better situated to challenge first cousin marriage practices than people from that community who do and can better advise where funding and government assistance might help? How will you handle women from that community who argue for their right to marry their cousin if they want to?

Yes but FGM isnt a Muslim practice.

It is though. Not all Muslims (as I keep repeating) but some. If you had looked at the world map I shared above you would see that many of the countries with the highest number of cases (85-100% prevalence) are almost entirely Muslim. Only Eritrea is 50/50 Muslim/Christian as far as I can see but I haven’t done an exhaustive check - maybe you could do that?)

Why do you think you are better situated to challenge first cousin marriage practices than people from that community who do and can better advise where funding and government assistance might help?

Where have I said that I am the best person to challenge first cousin marriage? I have highlighted that our government are refusing to support a law banning it and trying to reduce the significant harm caused to thousands of babies.

How will you handle women from that community who argue for their right to marry their cousin if they want to?

Why would anyone demand the right to do something that is known to be harmful to health? I would expect people to abide by UK law the same as we abide by the law that says you can’t marry your grandfather or brother. The law is there for a very good reason.

BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 10:33

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 07:11

There's significant problems with all types of men exploting girls. In groups and otherwise. There is also significant social issues in white working class families that obstruct proper safeguarding of children. Anyone remember Charlene Downes?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15284129/charlene-downes-case-paedophile-raymond-munro-living-home-police-suspected-abuse.html

If the middle and upper classes of all political persuasion were more interested in equality for their poor than they are division and discrimination against other groups, the world would be so much better.

That is not being disputed though.

The issue is that one specific group are working with the government to silence discussion/awareness/and ultimately prosecution on the abuse perpetrated by some members of their group.

We can’t allow another ‘sacred caste’ to be embedded further. Arguably it has already happened - see Muslim grooming gangs (as opposed to white grooming gangs). One group are enabled and still being shielded and allegedly allowed to continue by the authorities and even government, and the other get the full force of the law when caught.

This is partly what I mean by the power of the 6%.

EasternStandard · 09/12/2025 09:05

GallantKumquat · 09/12/2025 08:40

o.O
Is this thread not about a Muslim woman, Falkner, who is concerned about the religious/cultural aspects of the child grooming cases? This is just an attempt at gaslighting: I must not have read what I plainly did just read.

Gaslighting yes, it seems to be pp saying don’t talk about it.

GallantKumquat · 09/12/2025 08:40

BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 08:14

Haha my Muslim friends will be tickled to know that you are erasing their existence.

The rest of your post is incoherent - can you try again please?

o.O
Is this thread not about a Muslim woman, Falkner, who is concerned about the religious/cultural aspects of the child grooming cases? This is just an attempt at gaslighting: I must not have read what I plainly did just read.

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 08:34

EasternStandard · 09/12/2025 08:33

I think it’s ok to question and criticise even some of the practices of the religion, particularly since it impacts women and girls.

But grooming gangs arent a Muslim practice. Just like sodomy of little boys isnt a Catholic practice.

EasternStandard · 09/12/2025 08:33

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 08:28

That's not what I am saying but I think you know that. If you believe grooming gangs are representative of Muslims in any way, then my bet is that you do not have a single Muslim friend who considers themselves to be practicing. You might know Muslims. None of them count you as a friend though and you likely don't see them as a friend unless for the purposes of these types of conversations.

I think it’s ok to question and criticise even some of the practices of the religion, particularly since it impacts women and girls.

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 08:28

EasternStandard · 09/12/2025 08:25

Are you saying the pp shouldn’t think of those grooming gangs? Why

That's not what I am saying but I think you know that. If you believe grooming gangs are representative of Muslims in any way, then my bet is that you do not have a single Muslim friend who considers themselves to be practicing. You might know Muslims. None of them count you as a friend though and you likely don't see them as a friend unless for the purposes of these types of conversations.

EasternStandard · 09/12/2025 08:25

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Are you saying the pp shouldn’t think of those grooming gangs? Why

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 08:22

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Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 08:19

BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 08:12

Between 55%-65% of Pakistani marriages are between first cousins. Repeated first cousin marriage causes a high proportion of congenital abnormalities and deaths.

https://wikiislam.net/wiki/Cousin_Marriage_in_Islamic_Law

As I said upthread, other religions do practise FGM but the countries where it is MOST prevalent are almost all Muslim. Last time I looked those other religions were not trying to make discussion in FGM unlawful.

Same with forced and child marriage. The country that recently reduced the age of consent to 9 is Muslim.

Obviously we know that not all types of Muslims are in support of this but we need a way of differentiating them from those who do. Suppression of conversation in this will not help that.

nationalfgmcentre.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/Hard-Copy-Map.pdf

Yes but FGM isnt a Muslim practice. The countries where cocaine use is most prevalent are Christian or Catholic. That doesn't mean all Christians are cokeheads or drug smuggling bandits.

Why do you think you are better situated to challenge first cousin marriage practices than people from that community who do and can better advise where funding and government assistance might help? How will you handle women from that community who argue for their right to marry their cousin if they want to?

BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 08:14

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 06:19

I dont believe you.

People that actually know Muslims wouldnt be thinking about child grooming gangs etc no more than I'd think a white teen is an incel who is about to go and molest some children or shoot up a school.

How many white Jehovah Witnesses do you know who have been ex communicated?

Haha my Muslim friends will be tickled to know that you are erasing their existence.

The rest of your post is incoherent - can you try again please?

BundleBoogie · 09/12/2025 08:12

Aisha176 · 09/12/2025 03:56

The problem with this view is that Muslims share diverse ethnic and cultural backgrounds on a worldwide scale. Child marriage & FGM are very particular practices to certain areas in North Africa rather than globally. Cousin marriage rates vary by region, community, and education level, with roots in tradition, tribal solidarity, and economic reasons that don't necessarily apply globally or in western settings. Therefore to assume these are typical behaviours of Muslims particularly in the west is not only false but creates a damaging view of them. That's not to say the practices themselves shouldn't be called out rather they shouldn't be ascribed broadly as they shouldn’t those of Christian or fundamentalists or Orthodox Jews to Christians or Jews.

In terms of women being silenced & abused in relationships, this certainly isn't exclusive to muslims & again should be called out generally.

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Between 55%-65% of Pakistani marriages are between first cousins. Repeated first cousin marriage causes a high proportion of congenital abnormalities and deaths.

https://wikiislam.net/wiki/Cousin_Marriage_in_Islamic_Law

As I said upthread, other religions do practise FGM but the countries where it is MOST prevalent are almost all Muslim. Last time I looked those other religions were not trying to make discussion in FGM unlawful.

Same with forced and child marriage. The country that recently reduced the age of consent to 9 is Muslim.

Obviously we know that not all types of Muslims are in support of this but we need a way of differentiating them from those who do. Suppression of conversation in this will not help that.

nationalfgmcentre.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/Hard-Copy-Map.pdf

MoltenLasagne · 09/12/2025 08:03

This feels like a blasphemy law by the backdoor, and the biggest threat will be to ex-Muslims and more liberal Muslims.

I had Muslim friends with relatively liberal parents growing up but when new immigrants brought more hardline Islam to their mosque, they were told they weren't allowed to be friends with white girls any more. The parents who held out were shamed and more extreme Muslim kids, mostly nasty jealous boys, used to report back to their families. It was insidious. One of my closest friends never came back from a family holiday to Pakistan when she was 14 - it was arranged by an uncle.

Most men who put themselves forward as Community Leaders by definition are more extreme in their version of Islam because it is the key part of their identity.

We should be very wary of taking guidance on an Islamophobia law from anyone that would use the words infidel or apostate.

EasternStandard · 09/12/2025 07:51

DrBlackbird · 08/12/2025 19:24

And again with the not so subtle use of language… why does it have to be outrage? Why can’t it just be concerns of women based on the prior evidence of previous definitions, the lack of open consultation on changing it, as well as the evidence of the analysis into ‘perceptions of Muslimness’ spoken about in reports on grooming gangs?

Yep and the ‘manufactured’ part. As if women can’t just speak about what concerns them.

Agree with pp on Labour supporters wanting discussion to be squashed.

Aisha176 · 09/12/2025 07:43

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2025 07:13

Reminder that this thread is about freedom of speech and criminal law, not our personal opinions about Muslims or anyone else. Even if you think it’s wrong to focus on Pakistani grooming gangs, people should be able to voice why they disagree, shouldn’t they?

Depends what, where & by whom. Socially, I don't see that as problematic as opposed to the work place.

In terms of media, wide spread hate speech has been a precursor to many genocides in the past 100 years so guard rails/regulation is a necessary precaution.

That's not to say certain ideas should be verboten rather its whether they are framed in stereotypical dehumanising & demonising rhetoric that makes them dangerous. It's one thing to discuss the problems with immigration & quite another to ascribe entire ethnicities /races/religions as national security threats.

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 07:17

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2025 07:13

Reminder that this thread is about freedom of speech and criminal law, not our personal opinions about Muslims or anyone else. Even if you think it’s wrong to focus on Pakistani grooming gangs, people should be able to voice why they disagree, shouldn’t they?

Free speech means we can all voice our opinions but people might challenge them.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2025 07:14

You’re kind of proving Baroness Falkner’s point here, so well done.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2025 07:13

Reminder that this thread is about freedom of speech and criminal law, not our personal opinions about Muslims or anyone else. Even if you think it’s wrong to focus on Pakistani grooming gangs, people should be able to voice why they disagree, shouldn’t they?

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 07:11

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2025 07:05

I’ve known many Muslims socially and as colleagues and currently I’m in a Muslim country. I have no problem with Muslim people, followers of Islam or religious people in general. I’m an agnostic atheist personally. I don’t actively disbelieve in god, I just don’t positively have a religious belief.

Whether you want to admit it or not, there is a significant problem with gangs of Pakistani men sexually abusing working class white girls. That’s just reality. It doesn’t mean there is no other sexual abuse or that all resources should focus on this abuse. But some should, no? Baroness Falkner (a Muslim woman) knows it and so do I.

There's significant problems with all types of men exploting girls. In groups and otherwise. There is also significant social issues in white working class families that obstruct proper safeguarding of children. Anyone remember Charlene Downes?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15284129/charlene-downes-case-paedophile-raymond-munro-living-home-police-suspected-abuse.html

If the middle and upper classes of all political persuasion were more interested in equality for their poor than they are division and discrimination against other groups, the world would be so much better.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2025 07:05

Squishedpassenger · 09/12/2025 06:19

I dont believe you.

People that actually know Muslims wouldnt be thinking about child grooming gangs etc no more than I'd think a white teen is an incel who is about to go and molest some children or shoot up a school.

How many white Jehovah Witnesses do you know who have been ex communicated?

I’ve known many Muslims socially and as colleagues and currently I’m in a Muslim country. I have no problem with Muslim people, followers of Islam or religious people in general. I’m an agnostic atheist personally. I don’t actively disbelieve in god, I just don’t positively have a religious belief.

Whether you want to admit it or not, there is a significant problem with gangs of Pakistani men sexually abusing working class white girls. That’s just reality. It doesn’t mean there is no other sexual abuse or that all resources should focus on this abuse. But some should, no? Baroness Falkner (a Muslim woman) knows it and so do I.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2025 06:55

Anyone should be able to criticise anyone’s religious practices and customs without it being a criminal offence, however accurate or wrong they are. Freedom of speech and expression.