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Banned from Reddit for saying trans women are not biological women

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Oryx54321 · 02/12/2025 12:39

I’ve managed to get myself banned for inciting hatred from Reddit for 3 days for saying that I don’t have a problem with trans women as long as they don’t claim to be biological women and demand rights to female sex protected spaces. Googled what social media channels allow any discussion on trans issues so here I am. Hi!

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Tofufuton · 03/12/2025 00:15

GrimDamnFanjo · 02/12/2025 23:52

Welcome.
i managed to get banned by Digital Spy!

Same! Screw 'em.

OP, you managed a whole 3 days at TRA central? You deserve a medal!

Ariana12 · 02/12/2025 23:58

Waitingfordoggo · 02/12/2025 13:13

Welcome. You can have proper discussions about the issues here. MN will delete posts which are blatantly transphobic, but here you are allowed to say that men aren’t women, that no woman has a penis, that people cannot change sex, that AGP exists and that telling children they were born in the wrong body is abusive.

There are some incredibly wise women here; enjoy the conversations 🙂

And MN has provided a sane platform from which we have been able to shift the dial in so many other places too

Tadpolesinponds · 02/12/2025 23:57

There's a discussion going on on Reddit about what it's like being a transwoman in the UK but outside of London. The majority of posters say that they have experienced no, or almost no negative incidents - over a period of years. At worst, maybe the odd "microaggression" of a double take by someone. A lot of them say they feel that the huge majority of people don't care whether they're trans or not, and that they've had support from their local community. This seems very different from the experience that a lot of women have - experiencing sexual harassment pretty frequently, and often feeling physically unsafe. I didn't get the sense that transwomen are in fact some of the most vulnerable people in the UK.

GrimDamnFanjo · 02/12/2025 23:52

Welcome.
i managed to get banned by Digital Spy!

JanesLittleGirl · 02/12/2025 23:47

Boiledbeetle · 02/12/2025 23:42

I might have another go tomorrow!

Thanks Boily. Happy with that one.

Boiledbeetle · 02/12/2025 23:42

JanesLittleGirl · 02/12/2025 23:10

Can you do me one that says 'Came for the feminism; stayed for the Tunnocks'?

I might have another go tomorrow!

Banned from Reddit for saying trans women are not biological women
Copperoliverbear · 02/12/2025 23:13

You can’t have freedom of speech in the country anymore.

JanesLittleGirl · 02/12/2025 23:10

Boiledbeetle · 02/12/2025 22:21

We need badges.

Can you do me one that says 'Came for the feminism; stayed for the Tunnocks'?

Wbeezer · 02/12/2025 22:51

SexRealismBeliefs · 02/12/2025 13:34

@Wbeezer - you got banned for being sex realist?

Yes, for stating that I didn’t believe that trans women are actually women.
Did me a favour, Reddit wasn’t good for my peace of mind.

murasaki · 02/12/2025 22:43

MowingMachine · 02/12/2025 22:19

Threaded comments (Reddit) versus flat (Mumsnet).

Nothing to do with the reactions being public or not.

Ah, ok, thanks.

Boiledbeetle · 02/12/2025 22:21

MarieDeGournay · 02/12/2025 15:39

Welcome, OP. I think 'Banned by Reddit' has become something of a badge of honour!

The irony is that some transwomen say openly that they are not biological women, but they are women, because it's about more than biology....or something.
So a transwoman might have posted the same thing and Reddit might have banned them for being transphobic🙄

There's lots of thoughtful and well-researched input here from knowledgeable posters. There's also a lot of wit, sometimes downright silliness [check out The Bluestocking Women's Pub for instance!,] and sometimes really inspired, erudite and clever silliness.😁 And there's always support for anybody going through a hard time - MN even introduced a 'support' button recently, so there's a lot of it around Smile

So I hope you stick around and enjoy being here.

We need badges.

Banned from Reddit for saying trans women are not biological women
MowingMachine · 02/12/2025 22:19

ParentOfOne · 02/12/2025 22:12

@murasaki It's different, though. I don't know what the technical term is, but mumsnet is one of those old style forums where posts appear one after the other.

With Reddit, instead, posts are hierarchical.
You make a post. I reply (level 1). If someone replies to me, their post appears under min (level 2). If someone replied to the original post, it's a different level 1 reply.

These various levels end up nested one into the other. Those with more votes are pushed up, those with fewer votes are hidden and collapsed.

Supporters say that reddit subs get too much traffic and a mumsnet-like model wouldn't work.
Detractors point out the toxicity and the groupthink

Threaded comments (Reddit) versus flat (Mumsnet).

Nothing to do with the reactions being public or not.

ParentOfOne · 02/12/2025 22:12

@murasaki It's different, though. I don't know what the technical term is, but mumsnet is one of those old style forums where posts appear one after the other.

With Reddit, instead, posts are hierarchical.
You make a post. I reply (level 1). If someone replies to me, their post appears under min (level 2). If someone replied to the original post, it's a different level 1 reply.

These various levels end up nested one into the other. Those with more votes are pushed up, those with fewer votes are hidden and collapsed.

Supporters say that reddit subs get too much traffic and a mumsnet-like model wouldn't work.
Detractors point out the toxicity and the groupthink

murasaki · 02/12/2025 21:18

LemonLeaves · 02/12/2025 20:16

Yes. I can see how originally it was designed to try and encourage engagement.

But when you consider the dopamine hit of people up-voting - and the negative emotions when someone down-votes - it was inevitable that people would shy away from disagreeing with the majority view. And unsurprising that increasingly aggressive and abusive posts and moderation become accepted as the norm, as those behaving this way have been emboldened because nobody dares deviate from the accepted group-think.

I will always remember when the GC sub got taken down.

I think that's why mumsnet made the reactions private.

ParentOfOne · 02/12/2025 20:41

But the https://www.reddit.com/r/GenderCynical/ GenderCynical sub, which mocks GenderCritical, is still up!!!

LemonLeaves · 02/12/2025 20:16

Yes. I can see how originally it was designed to try and encourage engagement.

But when you consider the dopamine hit of people up-voting - and the negative emotions when someone down-votes - it was inevitable that people would shy away from disagreeing with the majority view. And unsurprising that increasingly aggressive and abusive posts and moderation become accepted as the norm, as those behaving this way have been emboldened because nobody dares deviate from the accepted group-think.

I will always remember when the GC sub got taken down.

ParentOfOne · 02/12/2025 20:04

Reddit would ban the UK Supreme Court, if it could...

moggly · 02/12/2025 20:03

I get banned from there at least a couple of times a year for feminist speech.

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ParentOfOne · 02/12/2025 20:00

@LemonLeaves got down-voted to oblivion with the usual abuse about being bigoted fascists.
Reddit's downvoting system can be quite toxic. It certainly favours an echo chamber.

You say X in a sub where everyone supports Y, and, even if you don't get banned, your comment will get downvoted and therefore hidden

This system of voting encourages group think and radicalisation

You can see it on the big topics (politics, religion, etc) but also on mundane stuff like one brand of car vs another, or one brand of phone vs another. Crazy

MowingMachine · 02/12/2025 19:54

Oryx54321 · 02/12/2025 12:56

a post in a political forum asking whether its members would tolerate transwomen. Unfortunately it seems reality isn’t tolerated by Reddit’s automod.

When you say "political forum"... I assume you were discussing Your Party?

ParentOfOne · 02/12/2025 19:46

@Oryx54321 were you blocked by an automod of the sub or of Reddit?
Which sub was it?

Each sub has different rules and automod bots. So you could get banned for saying something in one sub, but another sub would not ban you for saying the same.

I'm not sure if there are also Reddit-wide automod bots that would ban you in any sub

LemonLeaves · 02/12/2025 19:26

SunshineHello · 02/12/2025 19:01

I’m amazed it’s taken you so long, I was banned about three years ago.

I’m actually surprised there’s any women with GC views remaining on that site, I had a look post-Olympic ban announcement a few weeks ago to see if there were any dissenters remaining and they seemed few and far between.

It is the ultimate echo chamber on the topic - see some profiles of the moderators there who all seem to be trans or non-binary furries and it all makes sense.

It is an echo chamber - but I think there are cracks in the walls. I can't remember which sub I saw it on - it was a discussion about the Upton case a couple of months ago.

There were two or three comments talking about biological sex. They were very much the tiny minority, and got down-voted to oblivion with the usual abuse about being bigoted fascists.

But one response to this stuck in my mind. It pointed out that the posters in the sub were an echo chamber, because they were used to the deletion and banning of almost every GC comment. And because they weren't used to seeing any dissent, they were falling into the trap of believing that their view is representative of real life.

They could down vote away, but it wouldn't change reality. If they were to ask people to answer honestly, without fear of abuse or retaliation, they'd likely be shocked at the real responses they'd get - because most people do not believe that people can change their sex.

It's a tiny step - but I don't think that comment thread would have been allowed to run a couple of years ago.

MowingMachine · 02/12/2025 19:07

Welcome. We have biscuits Biscuit

SunshineHello · 02/12/2025 19:01

I’m amazed it’s taken you so long, I was banned about three years ago.

I’m actually surprised there’s any women with GC views remaining on that site, I had a look post-Olympic ban announcement a few weeks ago to see if there were any dissenters remaining and they seemed few and far between.

It is the ultimate echo chamber on the topic - see some profiles of the moderators there who all seem to be trans or non-binary furries and it all makes sense.

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