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It was all a fever dream guys, don't know what you are all on about...<whistles and kicks floor>

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Shedmistress · 15/11/2025 07:58

Stephen Whittle the Ex President of WPATH declares it never happened.

And if it did happen you made it up to make her and her ilk look bad.

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 20/11/2025 14:51

Just plopping by to say that regardless of at what stage in their life a male (or female) human decides their personality is not aligned with their physical sex, and regardless of whether or not this feeling has a biological element, it is still not the same thing as actually being the opposite sex and still does not justify the TRA demand that female only language, protections and provisions be extended to male people on its basis.

So finding an undeniable biological cause for transgender idenities will still not mean some male people are actually female and vice versa, any more than knowing exactly how someone lost a leg means they actually have two legs.

The presence of structures, beliefs, feelings or preferences that society or science assumed to be exclusively female in the brains/minds of the physically male doesn't mean some male people are female, it means that society or science was wrong in assuming they were exclusively female.

Observing a black swan we logically conclude that some swans are black, not that some swans are crows.

TempestTost · 20/11/2025 14:51

BundleBoogie · 20/11/2025 13:54

Interesting. So it was claimed to be a medical condition which should have some sort of science based medical diagnosis but that isn’t convenient for the trans activists who actually don’t want there to be a medical diagnosis as that’s ‘gatekeeping’.

Essentially confirming that they want anyone and everyone to be able to self identify into this ‘condition’.

Imagine how it would sound if a medical diagnostic technique was called ‘gatekeeping’ that condition? ‘Gatekeeping’ cancer for example, or ADHD.

ADHD is probably going that way, tbh.

It was actually mentioned in the linked article I mentioned as an example where people take what is meant to be, in the DSM, a kind of heuristic "diagnosis," and reify it to treat it as an objective thing in itself.

So perhaps we could hypothesise that categories like that are particularly prone to first being reified, but then becoming subjective self-declarations. Which is indeed an interesting trajectory.

BundleBoogie · 20/11/2025 13:54

TempestTost · 20/11/2025 12:35

This is really interesting. I remember this kind of explanation in my psychology textbook back in the early 90s.

I think it's worth remembering that regular people were not just pulling this idea out of thin air, it was popularly distributed. I used to know a transwoman who medically transitioned back around 1980, so quite early on. It seemed to have been completely treated as a clear medical condition by the doctors. Looking back I think that this person probably suffered from AGP, or possibly was autistic, but that wasn't the message from the medical people involved. And even more than now, people then tended to accept what doctors said, you weren't going on the internet to look up other theories when you were just a regular person.

There is a very interesting link to an article/study on the reification of conditions in the DSM. It suggests to me that this isn't purely an issue with gender medicine, it's a wider problem in how disorders are being defined and understood.

Interesting. So it was claimed to be a medical condition which should have some sort of science based medical diagnosis but that isn’t convenient for the trans activists who actually don’t want there to be a medical diagnosis as that’s ‘gatekeeping’.

Essentially confirming that they want anyone and everyone to be able to self identify into this ‘condition’.

Imagine how it would sound if a medical diagnostic technique was called ‘gatekeeping’ that condition? ‘Gatekeeping’ cancer for example, or ADHD.

BundleBoogie · 20/11/2025 13:47

Helleofabore · 20/11/2025 10:44

But remember Whittle thinks it is all fine for girls to be having sex with scouts as she did when she went to camp.

Oh yes I saw that - although she got shirty when someone assumed she was talking about young teens and claimed she meant the older ‘rangers’ - 17/18.

There seems to be an underlying thread of dishonesty coming from her. Not surprising really.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 20/11/2025 12:56

@TempestTost, I’m curious about how much of the reification of DSM conditions started from the American healthcare model, where in order to treat someone you have to have a medical code number to give their insurance company. I suspect it’s a tricky old knotty mess to untangle.

TempestTost · 20/11/2025 12:35

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 20/11/2025 12:12

There’s a nice summary of the “prenatal hormone pathway error” theory (which in turn is one of the explanations proposed for the supposed “brain-body mismatch” in trans people) here:

www.city-journal.org/article/transgender-medicine-biological-bias-gender-affirming

This is really interesting. I remember this kind of explanation in my psychology textbook back in the early 90s.

I think it's worth remembering that regular people were not just pulling this idea out of thin air, it was popularly distributed. I used to know a transwoman who medically transitioned back around 1980, so quite early on. It seemed to have been completely treated as a clear medical condition by the doctors. Looking back I think that this person probably suffered from AGP, or possibly was autistic, but that wasn't the message from the medical people involved. And even more than now, people then tended to accept what doctors said, you weren't going on the internet to look up other theories when you were just a regular person.

There is a very interesting link to an article/study on the reification of conditions in the DSM. It suggests to me that this isn't purely an issue with gender medicine, it's a wider problem in how disorders are being defined and understood.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 20/11/2025 12:12

There’s a nice summary of the “prenatal hormone pathway error” theory (which in turn is one of the explanations proposed for the supposed “brain-body mismatch” in trans people) here:

www.city-journal.org/article/transgender-medicine-biological-bias-gender-affirming

TempestTost · 20/11/2025 11:54

OldCrone · 20/11/2025 02:57

I was thinking that it is outrageous that Webberly claims a child has a trans identity from conception

From conception? That's even more insane than Diane Ehrensaft who believes that babies can be trans.

People like this would say the same about sexuality, and they think it's the same kind of thing in both cases, biologically, even genetically, determined.

Helleofabore · 20/11/2025 10:44

BundleBoogie · 20/11/2025 09:01

Wow that’s an interesting thread.

The following stood out to me - Whittle was talking about Girl Guides 11-15:
All children and parents (including trans child plus parent) are then reminded (as they should always be reminded before any residential event) that:

  1. Barrier/emergency contraception is carried by the leaders, and girls who request it, will not be told off, or considered wrong or bad, but:
😱. Why the hell does she think it appropriate to bring up such a thing on a GG camp? And the circumstances that would even make it relevant.

and

In the UK there has only been one reported problem with a situation where a trans woman, wished to enter a female sauna (it was just after the Gender Recognition Act 2004 which was why we heard about this)
She was pre-genital surgery. We were all very surprised, until it was acknowledged that she was in the middle of a serious psychotic episode.
A month later she was abject about what she had done.

So Whittle and chums knew about a psychotic male who was using a female sauna but didn’t do anything about it?

But remember Whittle thinks it is all fine for girls to be having sex with scouts as she did when she went to camp.

ArabellaSaurus · 20/11/2025 09:20

On that note, that Sauna that got struggle sessioned for holding a women's only session now has women only sessions that include anyone that fancies using them.

'Women’s sessions welcome all who identify as women, including transgender women, as well as non-binary individuals who feel comfortable in women-only spaces'

https://beachboxspa.co.uk/dei-policy/

DEI POLICY | Beach Box

The DEI POLICY page of the Beach Box website.

https://beachboxspa.co.uk/dei-policy/

ArabellaSaurus · 20/11/2025 09:08

In the UK there has only been one reported problem with a situation where a trans woman, wished to enter a female sauna (it was just after the Gender Recognition Act 2004 which was why we heard about this)
She was pre-genital surgery. We were all very surprised, until it was acknowledged that she was in the middle of a serious psychotic episode.
A month later she was abject about what she had done.

Jesus. Just the one psychotic man invading a women's sauna, then. Hey ho.

BundleBoogie · 20/11/2025 09:01

OldCrone · 20/11/2025 02:51

Wow that’s an interesting thread.

The following stood out to me - Whittle was talking about Girl Guides 11-15:
All children and parents (including trans child plus parent) are then reminded (as they should always be reminded before any residential event) that:

  1. Barrier/emergency contraception is carried by the leaders, and girls who request it, will not be told off, or considered wrong or bad, but:
😱. Why the hell does she think it appropriate to bring up such a thing on a GG camp? And the circumstances that would even make it relevant.

and

In the UK there has only been one reported problem with a situation where a trans woman, wished to enter a female sauna (it was just after the Gender Recognition Act 2004 which was why we heard about this)
She was pre-genital surgery. We were all very surprised, until it was acknowledged that she was in the middle of a serious psychotic episode.
A month later she was abject about what she had done.

So Whittle and chums knew about a psychotic male who was using a female sauna but didn’t do anything about it?

ArabellaSaurus · 20/11/2025 07:42

OldCrone · 20/11/2025 02:57

I was thinking that it is outrageous that Webberly claims a child has a trans identity from conception

From conception? That's even more insane than Diane Ehrensaft who believes that babies can be trans.

IDK, in the context of 'trans' being a religious belief, it makes a sort of mad sense.

OldCrone · 20/11/2025 02:57

I was thinking that it is outrageous that Webberly claims a child has a trans identity from conception

From conception? That's even more insane than Diane Ehrensaft who believes that babies can be trans.

OldCrone · 20/11/2025 02:51

EweProfessorSurnameDoctorProfessor · 19/11/2025 22:20

Wasn’t it that she couldn’t remember her children’s friends’ names rather than the names of her actual children? If I’ve got this wrong, that’s truly mind boggling

Yes, you're right. It's in this thread.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3212371-Where-are-all-the-trans-men-An-Answer

Where are all the trans men? An Answer. | Mumsnet

Someone asked: I have also wondered where the trans men are in all this! So decided to do a little of record ethnographic research and talked to a...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3212371-Where-are-all-the-trans-men-An-Answer

BundleBoogie · 19/11/2025 23:41

ArabellaSaurus · 19/11/2025 22:31

the specific ages would be removed to ensure greater access to care for more people

😶

Quite. I guess when you remember that ‘gender affirming care’ = a potential $1 million of profit per patient across their lifetime, it makes more sense.

I’m sure plenty of research has been done into the background, funding and supporters of WPATH but all of their board members make a living from harming vulnerable people in the name of ‘trans’.

ArabellaSaurus · 19/11/2025 22:31

the specific ages would be removed to ensure greater access to care for more people

😶

EweProfessorSurnameDoctorProfessor · 19/11/2025 22:20

OldCrone · 19/11/2025 21:19

Whittle has admitted that she isn't an effective parent. She leaves the parenting to her wife and boasts that she can't even remember her children's names. She's a real man, you see.

Wasn’t it that she couldn’t remember her children’s friends’ names rather than the names of her actual children? If I’ve got this wrong, that’s truly mind boggling

ArabellaSaurus · 19/11/2025 21:50

ArabellaSaurus · 19/11/2025 20:47

Right, I've done the transcript of Webberly's interview.

It's right at the fucking end, of course.

'But when do you think transgender adults become transgender? Do you think it
happens at 18 or do you think it actually is their identity from within them from whenever they were conceived? '

I was thinking that it is outrageous that Webberly claims a child has a trans identity from conception, but then realised that WPATH have no lower age limits for trans healthcare. Apparently on direct instructions from the US gov.

Article:

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/25/health/transgender-minors-surgeries.html

Excerpt from WPAtH FAQs (pdf so can't link):

' A previous version of the WPATH Standards included specific ages for medical procedures. Why were those ages removed in the SOC-8? Minimum ages for providing gender-affirming medical care were removed from the SOC-8 and replaced by strengthened criteria to help codify the framework that enables every TGD adolescent the opportunity to get their appropriate medical needs met at the appropriate time; these changes to the SOC-8 reflect the fact that one-size-fits-all health care models, especially transgender care, are not accurate or appropriate for every individual person.

Prior to its September 2022 release, WPATH announced a public open comment period to the draft SOC-8 in December 2021 through January 2022. This comment period allowed input and feedback from professionals in the field from around the world who were concerned that the listing of ages would lead to further limitations to care by creating or reinforcing arbitrary boundaries to care and/or by ignoring possible contributing health factors including mental health, family support, or other individual health needs.

After comments were reviewed and discussed by chapter authors and co-chairs, it was determined that the specific ages would be removed to ensure greater access to care for more people. What do medical experts say about these standards of care? Every major U.S. medical and mental health organization, including the American Medical Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics, and the American Psychological Association, plus global health organizations including the Endocrine Society, the Pediatric Endocrine Society, the Society for Adolescent Health and Medicine, and the World Medical Association, and the World Health organization support access to age-appropriate, individualized gender-affirming care for youth and adults.'

OldCrone · 19/11/2025 21:22

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 19/11/2025 21:21

She has children?!?

Words fail me.

I think her wife is the biological mother and she adopted them.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 19/11/2025 21:21

OldCrone · 19/11/2025 21:19

Whittle has admitted that she isn't an effective parent. She leaves the parenting to her wife and boasts that she can't even remember her children's names. She's a real man, you see.

She has children?!?

Words fail me.

OldCrone · 19/11/2025 21:19

Whittle has admitted that she isn't an effective parent. She leaves the parenting to her wife and boasts that she can't even remember her children's names. She's a real man, you see.

ChillBarrog · 19/11/2025 21:08

ArabellaSaurus · 19/11/2025 09:11

Recent exchange on X:

Whittle: 'Some people, all too quickly, forget the promise they made when their baby was born “I will do anything for you to be happy” - a commitment to letting a child grow, boundaries that do not destroy their imagination, & make no expectations of them beyond becoming a good citizen'

Other Xer:( No one is telling children that they are not valued- growing up is confusing for many children & it’s the role of parents to help & support their children them And some that support may involve saying “no”)

Whittle: 'I have no problem with that, but good parenting also includes recognising a young person’s developing autonomy. How do we support their mental as well as physical wellbeing? By being open to many possibilities, with our hands outstretched. & ready to catch them when they fall'

I mean these are platitudes. But bear in mind the discussion in question is whether a two year old child shoudl be affirmed when he says he's a girl.

“I will do anything for you to be happy”

Is a strangely controlling and pointless phrase. One can't make one's child happy. One can ensure their safety, do one's best, nurture, coach, teach, care for them.

'By being open to many possibilities'

Yes. But changing sex is not a possibility.

That would be a terrible promise to make to.a child.

I think "I will do anything (reasonable and within my power) to keep you safe" is more common

ArabellaSaurus · 19/11/2025 20:47

ArabellaSaurus · 19/11/2025 16:51

The narrative is, I believe, that people can be 'trans' from conception. I'm pretty sure I heard Webberly say that. Will need to check.

Right, I've done the transcript of Webberly's interview.

It's right at the fucking end, of course.

'But when do you think transgender adults become transgender? Do you think it
happens at 18 or do you think it actually is their identity from within them from whenever they were conceived? '

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OldCrone · 19/11/2025 20:39

EmpressaurusKitty · 19/11/2025 11:02

And we keep receipts. We didn’t have the quote function back in 2018, so standard procedure was to copy the comment you were replying to & bold it. The bolded comment is from another MNer. Whittle’s reply is from Really? onwards.

I don't think it was Whittle who made the sturdy pyjamas comment. I think Whittle always posted under some variation of her real name, as in this thread that she started where she talked about having sex with a scout on a mixed sex scout/guide camp.

Where are all the trans men? An Answer. | Mumsnet

This is the sturdy pyjamas comment.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3314566-another-girlguiding-update

Where are all the trans men? An Answer. | Mumsnet

Someone asked: I have also wondered where the trans men are in all this! So decided to do a little of record ethnographic research and talked to a...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3212371-Where-are-all-the-trans-men-An-Answer