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HR tell trans identified person to use work toilets that match biological sex. Person refuses. Colleagues complain about their presence in incorrect toilets to HR. What's the legal position of all parties?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 14/11/2025 09:07

Whats the legal position for the workplace (repped by HR) as well as the trans identifying person? Will it depend on written policies in the workplace? Or by toilets saying Male/Female on them (or with the recognised signs for sexed spaces).

Different from the NHS cases, as this time HR is saying "don't do that". Could the trans identifying person get constructive dismissal?

Does it just become a disciplinary thing for not doing what you are told?

This isn't actually a hypothetical, I read this reddit thread https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1ovzfde/hradvice/ along with the advice given to the OP.

(Do read all the comments if you have the chance ESPECIALLY the downvoted ones at the end by a user called "Protect-the-dollz" . I personally think it's awful there is so much disinformation and poor advice everywhere and people are risking their lives and mental health off of it)

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BonfireLady · 16/11/2025 12:20

DramaQueenlady · 16/11/2025 08:26

This is not law. Its a set of guidelines that has been brought in. But as yet not law. Not sure how it would hold up in a court of law.

What's not the law?

The Equality Act 2010? The Workplace (Health, Safety and Welfare) Regulations 1992?

Yes, these are the law. That there has been (alleged) activism to stop the release a delay the release of the guidelines that helps organisations understand how they can follow it is irrelevant. The only difference is that currently, they have to follow it without being given ideas about how they can do so. They'll have to figure that out for themselves, until that becomes available, and accept the inevitable law suits coming through if they get it wrong. Unlucky, but there we are.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/11/2025 12:15

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/11/2025 11:50

I’m pretty sure we all know Parliament can change the law.

SerendipityJane · 16/11/2025 11:21

t has gone through a court of law. There is no higher UK court than the SC.

Actually there is.

Parliament.

British constitutional law makes Parliament supreme with no body higher.

If the SC take a view that is contrary to the will of parliament, then parliament can quite easily remedy that in statute.

(Parliament has actually sat as a court - what do people think a "writ of attainder" is ? I'm no lawyer. But I am a history vulture).

Shedmistress · 16/11/2025 11:14

DramaQueenlady · 16/11/2025 08:26

This is not law. Its a set of guidelines that has been brought in. But as yet not law. Not sure how it would hold up in a court of law.

What is not the law?

Lovelyview · 16/11/2025 11:14

DramaQueenlady · 16/11/2025 08:26

This is not law. Its a set of guidelines that has been brought in. But as yet not law. Not sure how it would hold up in a court of law.

Out of interest, where did you get this idea? The EHRC guidelines set out how to obey the Equality Act which was clarified by the Supreme Court decision.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/11/2025 10:38

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OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/11/2025 10:29

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HermioneWeasley · 16/11/2025 10:07

DramaQueenlady · 16/11/2025 08:26

This is not law. Its a set of guidelines that has been brought in. But as yet not law. Not sure how it would hold up in a court of law.

Ding ding ding! That’s wrong. Thanks for playing.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 16/11/2025 09:27

DramaQueenlady · 16/11/2025 08:26

This is not law. Its a set of guidelines that has been brought in. But as yet not law. Not sure how it would hold up in a court of law.

This is not true. The Supreme Court decision clarified the law as it is. The law is the law irrespective of the EHRC guidelines.

WandaSiri · 16/11/2025 09:14

DramaQueenlady · 16/11/2025 08:26

This is not law. Its a set of guidelines that has been brought in. But as yet not law. Not sure how it would hold up in a court of law.

This is the law.

The guidance - not guidelines - is a summary of the legal position with practical examples. There are two sets, which are designed to assist service providers and employers respectively in complying.

MumoftwoNC · 16/11/2025 09:00

ArabellaSaurus · 15/11/2025 17:20

ACAS are reviewing their advice post SC judgement:

'Important: We are reviewing our advice following the court decision on 16 April 2025. The Supreme Court ruled that 'sex' in the Equality Act 2010 refers to biological sex.'

https://www.acas.org.uk/acas-response-on-uk-supreme-court-decision-on-sex

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Why are all these organisations "reviewing" their guidance, publishing draft and interim guidance, and generally procrastinating and prevaricating? What are they all waiting for? Who are they expecting to declare first? Lazy cowards. This just enables everyone to carry on with the status quo at the expense of women, because they are waiting for the final guidance which never seems to come

April, they started "reviewing". It's now November. It's dickensian

DramaQueenlady · 16/11/2025 08:26

This is not law. Its a set of guidelines that has been brought in. But as yet not law. Not sure how it would hold up in a court of law.

CanaryChaffinch · 16/11/2025 05:58

I would be happy with “unisex” - I really just want any reference to “gender” removed from toilet signage.

GotoAnotherSquare · 16/11/2025 04:00

Hmmm if and when we get an update. Interesting. IANAL.

Even before the SC judgement employers could exclude transgender individuals from single sex facilities. This is where the "proportionate means to a legitimate end" part comes in from previous ECHR guidance, here the dignity of their female employees, "the germs".

I may be wrong but I'm not aware of an court case where the employer ticked all the right process boxes, excluded a trans from a single sex space or service and was successfully sued. So I don't agree there's a legal ambiguity, though IANAL and that assumes HR has ticked all boxes.

As an employee, ignoring a HR request by going in the toilets anyway is clearly an immature and inappropriate way to react. They had a problem they should have raised it. That would likely be looked down on at any employment tribunal.

We don't know what alternative facilities have been offered which is also relevant. It's entirely possible there already is a gender neutral toilet. It's also unclear if the individual has any gender dysphoria causing them actual distress using the men's.

WandaSiri · 16/11/2025 00:24

RareGoalsVerge · 15/11/2025 23:53

Specifically unisex single occupancy though.

Used a few ciblcle-cluster unisex loos on holiday in The Netherlands. Every time, there's a bloke using a cubicle who didn't bother to lock the door and you push the door ooen and see more than you wanted to. Single occpancy opening into public hogh-traffic areas ought to discourage that.

We already have properly designed, fully enclosed unisex toilets. They are underutilised. The men who are happy to use the men's toilets are doing so already - pointing this out is a much better way of demonstrating that unisex toilets are not essential to people with cross sex identities than requiring businesses to spend money or sacrifice space to create new facilities which will also be underutilised.

There might be a court case, but my non-expert opinion is that there is no detriment to a man who wants to use the women's toilets because none of the other men are allowed to, either.

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WandaSiri · 16/11/2025 00:08

Harassedevictee · 16/11/2025 00:03

I like clear language. Single Sex and Unisex toilets = consistent sex based language. It’s clear and says exactly what they are.

Unisex means both sexes, so anyone can use unisex toilets. Clothing is unisex, hairstyles are unisex, make-up is unisex etc.

Gender Neutral = a sop to appease people who believe in GI. I use it because I believe we need to move the narrative so the norm is SS and Unisex provision but recognise Unisex is too big a leap for many believers.

Ah, I got the wrong end of the stick. I thought you meant that you preferred to use unisex toilets.

Harassedevictee · 16/11/2025 00:03

WandaSiri · 15/11/2025 23:23

Why do you prefer unisex, out of interest?

I like clear language. Single Sex and Unisex toilets = consistent sex based language. It’s clear and says exactly what they are.

Unisex means both sexes, so anyone can use unisex toilets. Clothing is unisex, hairstyles are unisex, make-up is unisex etc.

Gender Neutral = a sop to appease people who believe in GI. I use it because I believe we need to move the narrative so the norm is SS and Unisex provision but recognise Unisex is too big a leap for many believers.

RareGoalsVerge · 15/11/2025 23:53

Specifically unisex single occupancy though.

Used a few ciblcle-cluster unisex loos on holiday in The Netherlands. Every time, there's a bloke using a cubicle who didn't bother to lock the door and you push the door ooen and see more than you wanted to. Single occpancy opening into public hogh-traffic areas ought to discourage that.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 15/11/2025 23:51

Which they will kick up a stink about, and not use it.

With the Darlington nurses tribunal, the women were shunted off to a crappy old office, while Mr Most Important Man in the Hospital, obviously still used the ladies.
I’m surprised he wasn’t pig headed enough to decamp to the crappy old office.

Lovelyview · 15/11/2025 23:36

As a pp said. Unisex is probably the best descriptor.

Lovelyview · 15/11/2025 23:35

CanaryChaffinch · 15/11/2025 21:12

Whatever I think the term gender neutral needs to go and be replaced by ‘mixed sex’. The less that ‘gender’ is used when sex is meant, the better.

I sort of agree but to me mixed sex toilet implies men and women sharing a multi cubicle toilet area.

RareGoalsVerge · 15/11/2025 23:34

Portakalkedi · 15/11/2025 22:56

Those saying a 'gender neutral' toilet is the answer - the whole point is that trans identifying men want to use the WOMEN'S toilets. That's where the thrill lies.

Obviously yes. But if employers provide a gender neutral option that is presented as "for anyone" (not as "for trans people" so it isn't "othering") then the trans people have no legal basis for claiming discrimination/toxic work environment due to being forced into a dysphoric situation whenever they need a wee. Of course we know that for some of them the true point is the thrill of transgressing women's boundaries and forcing women to comply with their fantasy but they don't usually say that bit out loud and realistically it's simply not going to happen that society will flip on its axis and actually start insisting that transwomen use the men's in all circumstances. A universal understanding that sex and gender are different, and that single sex facilities belong only to people of that sex by birth, is achievable and is within reach but that result will not be secured without a clear requirement to also accommodate trans people in unisex facilities. Of course that will be inconvenient and expensive but it's necessary because the majority of ordinary people - who know full well that men can't be women but who don't feel it matters that much because they've never experienced situations where it really did matter (and who will currently e teetering on the brink of acknowledging that ok well maybe there is enough reason to say it natters sometimes) will not go along with a total reversal to a system that forces trans believers to deny they own deeply held beliefs. The fact that trans people don't want 3rd spaces is irrelevant. Ensuring that 3rd spaces are provided wherever possible - and that all facilities are single-occupancy if there isn't room for 3 spaces - is the only thing that will make it certain that their ongoing fight for access to wrong-sex spaces will be seen and understood for what it is.

I know there are crusaders against unisex facilities but they are the lesser evil. If we don't establish a requirement for all employers and organisations to accommodate trans believers in one way or another without allowing access to wrong-sex facilities, there is a serious danger that the alternative that they will succeed in regaining ground for the idea that accessing the wrong-sex option is the only way they can survive.

Sparklybutold · 15/11/2025 23:27

No organisational policies or HR personnel will ever trump the law. The law has made this issue very clear. Sex equates to biology and women (and men) should have separate toilets based on there sex.

WandaSiri · 15/11/2025 23:23

Harassedevictee · 15/11/2025 23:21

I think this is an accepted fact for many TW. However, NB and Trans rights supporters are now seeing GN toilets as the answer.

However, the point of this thread is the legal basis on which an employer can take disciplinary action if a TP persistently uses SS toilets for their gender not biological sex. Having GN toilets alongside SS undermines any claims of fear using SS toilets for biological sex.

@CanaryChaffinch I personally prefer unisex toilets so Male, Female, Unisex and disabled.

@SerendipityJane I disagree there are far more disabled people 24% of population or 16 + million compared to TP 1% or c200,000 to 500,000. Most disabilities are not visible.

Why do you prefer unisex, out of interest?

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