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Girlguiding faces legal action from parent over trans policy

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Misla · 07/11/2025 16:11

Good. Well done that parent!

Charity is accused of failing to follow Supreme Court ruling on gender, leaving girls ‘exposed to harassment’

Girlguiding is facing legal action from a parent over its transgender policy which she claims discriminates against her seven-year-old daughter.

The claimant, who has asked to remain anonymous to protect her daughter’s identity, has alleged in a pre-action letter to Girlguiding that the organisation’s policy “exposes girls to harassment”.

Under the policy, trans girls — boys who identify as girls — are allowed to join Girlguiding, and trans women — adult males who identify as female — are permitted to undertake volunteer roles previously reserved for women.

“It constitutes and encourages unwanted conduct which violates their [girls’] dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment,” the correspondence said.

“This includes, but is not limited to: sharing toilets, showers or changing facilities with boys, contact sports with boys, and sharing accommodation with boys, all without their prior knowledge or consent.”

The letter goes on to point out that Girlguiding operates “as a charity for the benefit of girls and young women”.

Girlguiding faces legal action from parent over trans policy

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TheignT · 08/11/2025 12:42

Datun · 08/11/2025 12:09

Safeguarding isn't about individual people, tho, is it.

You don't base your safeguarding policy on one leader who says oh I'm fine.

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Funnily enough I worked with other leaders and we were a safe space for all our children.

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 12:41

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:38

Logging off from this toxic thread — I’d rather spend my time with people who don’t mistake empathy for weakness, and who see that compassion and inclusion aren’t threats to feminism

If your main priority is the inclusion of men and boys to the detriment of women and girls, you aren't a feminist. You are a male rights activist.

EuclidianGeometryFan · 08/11/2025 12:41

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:25

Just to be clear, I didn’t bring sexuality into this. Others did, by implying that trans girls would somehow be a risk to other girls because of sexual intent or behaviour. That’s what I was responding to.

And honestly, that suggestion is what’s inappropriate here. We’re talking about children and young people who just want to belong somewhere safe. To assume that a trans girl’s presence automatically carries a sexual threat is not only wrong, it’s deeply damaging.

Girlguiding already has robust safeguarding processes that apply to everyone — that’s how we protect girls. Turning inclusion into a conversation about sex says more about adults’ prejudices than it does about the young people involved.

And please don’t use Muslim families as a reason to exclude trans girls. Girlguiding already handles faith and cultural needs sensitively, parents discuss sleeping arrangements, and safeguarding applies to everyone.No one is suddenly “put in a tent with a boy.” Trans girls are treated as girls and their presence is supported carefully - an inclusive culture for all faiths, abilities and genders should be celebrated.

Just to be clear, I didn’t bring sexuality into this. Others did, by implying that trans girls would somehow be a risk to other girls because of sexual intent or behaviour. That’s what I was responding to.

Okay I can see where the confusion arose. Bringing lesbians into the argument did muddy the waters.

You do realise that teenage 'trans girls' are teenage males? You do realise how strong male pubescent sexuality is?
Many may be confused about their sexuality. Some will be gay males, some will be straight males. Some will be bisexual males.
It is daft and very naïve to think it is correct safeguarding to let male teenagers into female changing spaces and sleeping tents.
There absolutely is a risk, no matter how a male 'identifies'.
Even if a particular male child is "absolutely safe", policy is made by considering groups and classifications, not individuals. You can't run an organisation on a case-by-case basis.

And even if the poor male child is dosed up on hormones or puberty blockers, it is wrong as a matter of principle to let males into female spaces.

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:40

Thinking men can be women is a threat to feminism

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:38

Logging off from this toxic thread — I’d rather spend my time with people who don’t mistake empathy for weakness, and who see that compassion and inclusion aren’t threats to feminism

Theeyeballsinthesky · 08/11/2025 12:37

believe all girls, including trans girls boys, deserve safety, respect, and the freedom to be themselves without being treated as a threat

fixed it for you

trans girls are boys. On what planet do you live that you cannot understand that teenage boys can be a threat to girls?

SusannaSpiderHands · 08/11/2025 12:35

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:22

Don't forget that Girl Guides wouldn't allow girls who identified as boys to join although I believe they have now changed that policy. That was unlawful discrimination based on the PC of GR

At the time this blew my mind. We had a transboy then who had been with us since Brownies and we just fudged it. She was young, vulnerable and autistic - as seems to be the way. I deal mainly in practicalities and there was no practical reason not to include her. Over the years she's dropped the trans and she's still involved in guiding.

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:32

Transgirls are boys

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:30

Datun · 08/11/2025 11:18

Good Lord. Who brought you up to believe that women and girls are nothing more than a resource for men and boys?

Support humans, denying their own name, space and feelings, just in order to validate the sex that you think is vastly more important.

Shocking, I know, but women and girls are human, and we operate independently. We're not just a service for males.

edited to add:

the only thing standing in the way is a broken ruling from the supreme court (which organisations have the freedom to interpret)

lol

Edited

That's an offensive, nasty and manipulative response and an inaccurate reading of my post. I’ve never suggested women or girls exist to serve anyone, quite the opposite.

I believe all girls, including trans girls, deserve safety, respect, and the freedom to be themselves without being treated as a threat. Supporting a marginalised minority of young people doesn’t diminish women; it’s part of what equality actually means.

You seem to have very little compassion - do you work with young people?

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:28

Girlguiding already has robust safeguarding processes that apply to everyone — that’s how we protect girls

No it doesn't not when it treats men as if they were women. Not when their rule is not to inform parents that their daughter will be sharing a tent with a boy.

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 12:28

Datun · 08/11/2025 12:17

No, the ruling said that if you are using the single sex exemptions to make your organisation female only, then that is only for biological females.

You can't say it's female only, and then make it mixed sex.

You could include boys, if you want to, but you cannot then use the single six exemption. It has to be advertised as a mixed sex organisation, like the Scouts.

Among other things, what this means is you cannot allow boys to join an organisation that is just for girls, in order to validate their self perception. If they want to join, they can, but then so can every other boy.

It is not the job of women and young girls to sit around validating males by undermining their own organisations.

Couldn't put it better. All this waffling about the Gender reassignment characteristic is completely irrelevant in relation to an single sex exemption being used..

Talkinpeace · 08/11/2025 12:27

Trans means not
Trans girls are not girls
they are boys
from conception onwards they are male
and may not use female single sex spaces or facilities

MyAmpleSheep · 08/11/2025 12:27

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:11

I’m well aware of what the Supreme Court ruling says, and I’m also aware of what it doesn’t say. It clarified that “sex” in the Equality Act refers to biological sex for the purposes of that protected characteristic. It did not remove protection for trans people under the separate “gender reassignment” characteristic, nor did it make it unlawful for organisations to include trans people if they choose to.

That’s why Girlguiding and many other youth and community organisations are standing by their inclusive policies. They’re not “ignoring” the ruling; they’re interpreting it in line with the full Equality Act, which recognises more than one protected characteristic.

As for your point about “betrayal,” I see it differently. Girlguiding is, and always has been, about building confidence, belonging, and leadership skills for all girls — especially those who most need that support. Trans girls are not “boys in dresses”; they are children and young people navigating extraordinarily difficult social realities. Giving them access to a safe, affirming environment harms no one and helps them thrive.

Safeguarding applies equally to everyone, cis, trans, gay, straight and that’s exactly how it should be.

Giving them access to a safe, affirming environment harms no one

Evidence for this quite extraordinary claim, please?

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:25

sashh · 08/11/2025 10:56

They are not girls, abused or otherwise. No they do not need access to single sex spaces for women and girls. And you have not provided any evidence

Sexuality does not come in to this. Why would you even introduce this?

No one is hating 'trans girls' just that they should not be welcome in a female only space, it stops that space being female only.

That impacts every girl guide and the leaders.

It also makes it harder / impossible for girls from a strict religious / cultural background to join. Growing up in northern town when I went to guides it was all white girls even though the area has a significant Muslim population.

Muslim parents are not going to send their daughter to camp with a boy in the tent. And if that girl goes to camp and it is only then that she realises there is a boy that can be culturally very difficult and the ramifications will include Muslim (possibly Jewish) and other 'sheltered' girls being withdrawn.

Just to be clear, I didn’t bring sexuality into this. Others did, by implying that trans girls would somehow be a risk to other girls because of sexual intent or behaviour. That’s what I was responding to.

And honestly, that suggestion is what’s inappropriate here. We’re talking about children and young people who just want to belong somewhere safe. To assume that a trans girl’s presence automatically carries a sexual threat is not only wrong, it’s deeply damaging.

Girlguiding already has robust safeguarding processes that apply to everyone — that’s how we protect girls. Turning inclusion into a conversation about sex says more about adults’ prejudices than it does about the young people involved.

And please don’t use Muslim families as a reason to exclude trans girls. Girlguiding already handles faith and cultural needs sensitively, parents discuss sleeping arrangements, and safeguarding applies to everyone.No one is suddenly “put in a tent with a boy.” Trans girls are treated as girls and their presence is supported carefully - an inclusive culture for all faiths, abilities and genders should be celebrated.

Witchlite · 08/11/2025 12:24

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:11

I’m well aware of what the Supreme Court ruling says, and I’m also aware of what it doesn’t say. It clarified that “sex” in the Equality Act refers to biological sex for the purposes of that protected characteristic. It did not remove protection for trans people under the separate “gender reassignment” characteristic, nor did it make it unlawful for organisations to include trans people if they choose to.

That’s why Girlguiding and many other youth and community organisations are standing by their inclusive policies. They’re not “ignoring” the ruling; they’re interpreting it in line with the full Equality Act, which recognises more than one protected characteristic.

As for your point about “betrayal,” I see it differently. Girlguiding is, and always has been, about building confidence, belonging, and leadership skills for all girls — especially those who most need that support. Trans girls are not “boys in dresses”; they are children and young people navigating extraordinarily difficult social realities. Giving them access to a safe, affirming environment harms no one and helps them thrive.

Safeguarding applies equally to everyone, cis, trans, gay, straight and that’s exactly how it should be.

Absolutely, they can include boys ( which includes transgirls) but they cannot include transgirls, but not the rest of the boys. As soon as transgirls are included it becomes mixed sex - this goes against their stated aims.

They will still be trans inclusive. Transboys would and should be included - there was a time they GG started to say they weren’t welcome, with is totally transphobic and disgusting.

On the other hand, I find Misogyny pretty disgusting too.

Datun · 08/11/2025 12:22

Having the PC of GR does not give people the legal right to use single sex spaces of the opposite sex

This.

they have the protected characteristic of gender reassignment, Mammamumma, which means they cannot be discriminated against on the basis of it.

But the Supreme Court ruling clarified that they're not being discriminated against on that basis, (because girls who are trans can be included), but on the basis of their sex.

Hence the need to clarify that boys, however they identify, are still biologically male.

SusannaSpiderHands · 08/11/2025 12:22

TheignT · 08/11/2025 11:59

I was a leader in Beavers and Cubs. I dislike the implication that we weren't a safe space for any child. The boys and girls I supported had fun and thrived and were definitely in a safe space.

I don't know scouts at all, but I assume beavers and cubs are at the age where mixed sex activities are fine anyway . But I'd also assume different safeguarding will apply to older children. Scouting is presumably set up to be mixed sex, guiding isn't.

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:22

Don't forget that Girl Guides wouldn't allow girls who identified as boys to join although I believe they have now changed that policy. That was unlawful discrimination based on the PC of GR

Waitwhat23 · 08/11/2025 12:21

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:11

I’m well aware of what the Supreme Court ruling says, and I’m also aware of what it doesn’t say. It clarified that “sex” in the Equality Act refers to biological sex for the purposes of that protected characteristic. It did not remove protection for trans people under the separate “gender reassignment” characteristic, nor did it make it unlawful for organisations to include trans people if they choose to.

That’s why Girlguiding and many other youth and community organisations are standing by their inclusive policies. They’re not “ignoring” the ruling; they’re interpreting it in line with the full Equality Act, which recognises more than one protected characteristic.

As for your point about “betrayal,” I see it differently. Girlguiding is, and always has been, about building confidence, belonging, and leadership skills for all girls — especially those who most need that support. Trans girls are not “boys in dresses”; they are children and young people navigating extraordinarily difficult social realities. Giving them access to a safe, affirming environment harms no one and helps them thrive.

Safeguarding applies equally to everyone, cis, trans, gay, straight and that’s exactly how it should be.

Absolute nonsense.

At least be honest that you're centring boys and girls are being used as validation tools.

EuclidianGeometryFan · 08/11/2025 12:21

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 10:31

What astonishes me reading these posts is the ongoing conflation of sexuality (and by that I don't mean genetic sex) and gender... The truth is that most trans girls (and they are in a very small minority) have probably been through hell in their journey to express their gender identity and are desperately in need of a safe girl-only space in which they can be their true selves and find some solace away from the very same damaging patriarchal behaviour and mysogeny that the majority of posters on here are calling out. Its simply is NOT the case that a boy would put on girls clothes and live his every day life as a GIRL just so that he could infiltrate female only spaces - that makes absolutely no sense! And what about lesbian leaders? Are we saying they shouldn't have access to female only spaces? No. Because they've been through safeguarding checks - the same checks that a trans man or a cis man would go through. And queer girl-guides? What to do with them? Because that absolutely exists, but no-one seems to be worrying (quite rightly) about conduct in same sex spaces because there are standards that are upheld and safeguarding procedures in place to deal with issues and misconduct. We already have all of the tools, procedures and policies in place to welcome trans girls to girl-guiding, the only thing standing in the way is a broken ruling from the supreme court (which organisations have the freedom to interpret) and, yes, I'm sorry to say it, but transphobia and utter ignorance surrounding trans-identity from the majority of people posting on this thread. Go ahead and shoot me down. I stand by the fact that trans-girls are amongst the bravest, most vulnerable and most maligned, abused girls in our society and they deserve our support, not our hate

What astonishes me reading these posts is the ongoing conflation of sexuality (and by that I don't mean genetic sex) and gender
No one is conflating sexuality and gender. Sexuality is irrelevant to this issue.

The truth is that most trans girls (and they are in a very small minority) have probably been through hell in their journey to express their gender identity and are desperately in need of a safe girl-only space in which they can be their true selves and find some solace away from the very same damaging patriarchal behaviour and mysogeny that the majority of posters on here are calling out.
They may be desperate to be in a girl-only space, but why should that mean that a girls-only organisation should welcome them in? Sometimes in life you can't have what you want.

Its simply is NOT the case that a boy would put on girls clothes and live his every day life as a GIRL just so that he could infiltrate female only spaces - that makes absolutely no sense!
Yet in your previous paragraph you said that trans girls (male children) are desperate to be in girl-only spaces.
Of course male children who are not "real" trans girls won't do it just to be in with the females for sexual kicks. I agree that argument (which no-one else here is making) makes no sense in prepubescent males. Adult males are another matter.

And what about lesbian leaders? Are we saying they shouldn't have access to female only spaces? No.
No one is saying that. Their sexuality is utterly irrelevant.

Because they've been through safeguarding checks - the same checks that a trans man or a cis man would go through.
Lesbians are welcome, not because they have been through checks, but because they are female, in a female-only organisation.

And queer girl-guides? What to do with them? Because that absolutely exists,
They can be whatever "gender" they like as long as they are biologically female.

but no-one seems to be worrying (quite rightly) about conduct in same sex spaces because there are standards that are upheld and safeguarding procedures in place to deal with issues and misconduct.
But these safeguarding standards are NOT being upheld if male teenagers are in sleeping tents, changing rooms, contact sports, etc. with females. Not only that, but it is being done in secret without informing all the parents.

We already have all of the tools, procedures and policies in place to welcome trans girls to girl-guiding
But we don't want males in a female only organisation.

, the only thing standing in the way is a broken ruling from the supreme court (which organisations have the freedom to interpret)
Factually incorrect

and, yes, I'm sorry to say it, but transphobia and utter ignorance surrounding trans-identity from the majority of people posting on this thread.
It is not transphobic to want female only organisations to remain female only. If you think that is transphobic, then it just shows you don't think females have the moral right to exclude males - utterly misogynistic of you.

Go ahead and shoot me down. I stand by the fact that trans-girls are amongst the bravest, most vulnerable and most maligned, abused girls in our society and they deserve our support, not our hate
It is irrelevant how vulnerable and maligned and abused the trans girls (male children) are. They still don't belong in female only organisations.

It is possible to feel desperately sad for these male children, horrified at how they have come to be in this situation, and still prioritise the female children's right to female spaces.

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 12:20

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:16

Trans girls are not boys. Anyone who has ever worked with trans young people knows this. They are people trying to move through the world and be accepted for who they are, not who others think they should be. They are a very small number of children who identify and live as girls, often at great personal cost. Girlguiding’s approach doesn’t remove anything from other girls, it simply makes sure that those few young people aren’t excluded from the same friendship, confidence and safety that Guiding does such an excellent job of providing.

Girlguiding can still be a girl-only organisation and include trans girls, because the Equality Act protects both sex and gender reassignment. Inclusion doesn’t need to erase anyone - we can widen the circle of care without anyone losing our if we just let go of such damaging rhetoric and transphobic views.

Humans can't change sex. Boys who identify as girls remain boys.

Sex and gender reassignment are seperate protected chararacteristics. The single sex exemptions in the EA are on the basis of sex only and are unaffected by the PC of GR.

Having the PC of GR does not give people the legal right to use single sex spaces of the opposite sex

Datun · 08/11/2025 12:19

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:16

Trans girls are not boys. Anyone who has ever worked with trans young people knows this. They are people trying to move through the world and be accepted for who they are, not who others think they should be. They are a very small number of children who identify and live as girls, often at great personal cost. Girlguiding’s approach doesn’t remove anything from other girls, it simply makes sure that those few young people aren’t excluded from the same friendship, confidence and safety that Guiding does such an excellent job of providing.

Girlguiding can still be a girl-only organisation and include trans girls, because the Equality Act protects both sex and gender reassignment. Inclusion doesn’t need to erase anyone - we can widen the circle of care without anyone losing our if we just let go of such damaging rhetoric and transphobic views.

Trans girls are not boys

they are biological males. And that is the wording of the Supreme Court judgement. Biological males.

Datun · 08/11/2025 12:17

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:11

I’m well aware of what the Supreme Court ruling says, and I’m also aware of what it doesn’t say. It clarified that “sex” in the Equality Act refers to biological sex for the purposes of that protected characteristic. It did not remove protection for trans people under the separate “gender reassignment” characteristic, nor did it make it unlawful for organisations to include trans people if they choose to.

That’s why Girlguiding and many other youth and community organisations are standing by their inclusive policies. They’re not “ignoring” the ruling; they’re interpreting it in line with the full Equality Act, which recognises more than one protected characteristic.

As for your point about “betrayal,” I see it differently. Girlguiding is, and always has been, about building confidence, belonging, and leadership skills for all girls — especially those who most need that support. Trans girls are not “boys in dresses”; they are children and young people navigating extraordinarily difficult social realities. Giving them access to a safe, affirming environment harms no one and helps them thrive.

Safeguarding applies equally to everyone, cis, trans, gay, straight and that’s exactly how it should be.

No, the ruling said that if you are using the single sex exemptions to make your organisation female only, then that is only for biological females.

You can't say it's female only, and then make it mixed sex.

You could include boys, if you want to, but you cannot then use the single six exemption. It has to be advertised as a mixed sex organisation, like the Scouts.

Among other things, what this means is you cannot allow boys to join an organisation that is just for girls, in order to validate their self perception. If they want to join, they can, but then so can every other boy.

It is not the job of women and young girls to sit around validating males by undermining their own organisations.

Taytoface · 08/11/2025 12:16

This would be one that would bring ALOT of sunshine if it gets to court. They will be able to highlight the role of the incredibly damaged Amy Challenor in the creation of the trans friendly policies. I think that could peak alot of people, when the understand that some, not all, but some of the most influential TRAs have got backgrounds that would have even the most laid back parent questioning why they have been allowed around kids

Mammamumma · 08/11/2025 12:16

spannasaurus · 08/11/2025 10:58

"Transgirls" are boys so by wanting them to be able to join a girls group you are centering boys over girls

Trans girls are not boys. Anyone who has ever worked with trans young people knows this. They are people trying to move through the world and be accepted for who they are, not who others think they should be. They are a very small number of children who identify and live as girls, often at great personal cost. Girlguiding’s approach doesn’t remove anything from other girls, it simply makes sure that those few young people aren’t excluded from the same friendship, confidence and safety that Guiding does such an excellent job of providing.

Girlguiding can still be a girl-only organisation and include trans girls, because the Equality Act protects both sex and gender reassignment. Inclusion doesn’t need to erase anyone - we can widen the circle of care without anyone losing our if we just let go of such damaging rhetoric and transphobic views.

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