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School governors told to ‘dismiss’ grooming gangs concerns

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NoNever · 05/11/2025 02:15

Article in the Telegraph.

Quote “ School governors have been encouraged to dismiss concerns about grooming gangs as “disinformation”, The Telegraph can disclose.
Thousands of governors undergoing safeguarding training this year were presented with a scenario involving rumours of “men belonging to a particular religion” committing “violent crimes against women”.
They were asked to identify the scenario as an “online safety risk” because children were spreading “disinformation”.”

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2025/11/04/school-governors-told-to-dismiss-grooming-gangs-concerns/

This is infuriating. For decades girls were told to shut up about grooming gangs and this is the training school governors are being provided in 2025.

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 06/11/2025 12:21

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 12:02

Yes, it seems to me that they were alluding to people they perceive as “far right influencers” eg Tommy Robinson types.

The thing is, like The Boy Who Cried Wolf, "far right influencers" aren't necessarily lying this time.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 12:19

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 11:41

You’ve literally referred to the “motives” you’re drawing from people’s posts several times.

I referred to questioning the motives of one poster, who made ludicrous allegations against me without any foundation.

With regard to your own posts, I was genuinely seeking clarification of what you were actually saying. If you don't want to clarify, that's fine.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 06/11/2025 12:17

@Imnobody4 made a good spot. I'm going to abuse the bigly letters because this is important to highlight.

"My issue is the 5000 governors trained with no complaints."

5000 adults with accountability for children's safety at school didn't see this question and say "wait, what?" 5000. Accountable for the safety of your children in schools.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 06/11/2025 12:12

Armsandlegsrecruitment · 06/11/2025 11:29

There is too much hate on this thread for reason unfortunately.

Yes.
I hate rapists and I hate people who make it more difficult to seek justice for their victims.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 06/11/2025 12:12

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 12:00

I agree with you @Imnobody4, and I’m sorry if I’ve contributed to derailing. My point was that a couple of people decided that they had better experience of what was intended because they had had “similar training”. I said that I’d had Prevent training which disproportionately focussed on the “far right”. An example of an approved narrative I felt existed, which we also see in how discussions about grooming gangs, sexual violence by immigrants etc are managed. That’s all.

It's a fundamental flaw to have "Prevent training" separately from the rest of safeguarding training. Protecting kids from extremism and protecting them from sexual abuse cannot be separated from each other. Think of how cults use the control they have over their members to facilitate sexual abuse. Think of how the (majority white, I hasten to highlight) manosphere's entire raison d'être is male grievance that women have the right de jure to say no to sex and finally have sufficient structural power to do so de facto by earning their own money and living alone, and how many mass killings that manosphere adherents have perpetrated. Think of how the muslim extremist group Boko Haram abducted the Chibok girls and married many of them off to its members.

Extremism is a route to power, and whenever men hold power, some of them will abuse it to get sexual access to women.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 12:02

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 06/11/2025 12:00

The issue that I have with the choice of scenario is that I can't think of a situation in which a teacher could confidently know that a rumour is without foundation without this being properly investigated, and so I consider the premise of the question to be flawed.^

Yes, this is the point of the thread.

However, I don't think it's at all accurate to suggest that governors were being taught to treat alleged abuse by particular groups as disinformation, as that very clearly wasn't the case.

Except that, in that question, they were being taught that. You can never safely dismiss abuse allegations as disinformation, misinformation, or a conspiracy theory.

If the staff governor had reporting overhearing kids discussing an EDL video claiming that Muslim grooming gangs are everywhere in the UK coming for white girls and the kids were sharing it to try to keep each other safe, that might be a different matter because the EDL are known racists and the claim is not specific to the area. Even then, the failsafe option is still to refer it to DSL, because there might be a new technology (e.g. an encrypted messaging platform) or legal loophole being adopted by gangs everywhere to facilitate grooming. But the scenario was talking about a local gang deploying specific, novel tactics. This can never safely be dismissed without investigation.

Yes, it seems to me that they were alluding to people they perceive as “far right influencers” eg Tommy Robinson types.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 12:00

I agree with you @Imnobody4, and I’m sorry if I’ve contributed to derailing. My point was that a couple of people decided that they had better experience of what was intended because they had had “similar training”. I said that I’d had Prevent training which disproportionately focussed on the “far right”. An example of an approved narrative I felt existed, which we also see in how discussions about grooming gangs, sexual violence by immigrants etc are managed. That’s all.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 06/11/2025 12:00

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 01:39

I think it was clumsily designed in a way that wasn't intended but had the potential for misinterpretation (and also deliberate misrepresentation).

I was not familiar with the Governor Hub training site as the school where I'm a Governor doesn't use it, but I had a look at their website and read the statement that they had put out in response to the telegraph article.

The scenario that was provided in the example was not given in the context of training governors on how to respond to allegations of sexual abuse or grooming or exploitation etc, which was covered in a completely separate section or perhaps in a different training session altogether. The focus of that section certainly didn't have anything to do with how schools or governors should respond to such concerns.

What it was intended to do was to help illustrate the difference between misinformation, disinformation and conspiracy theories, and participants were supposed to identify which of those three categories applied to a series of different scenarios. With regard to the question that has been scrutinised, the scenario stated that the teacher "knew" the rumours to be false but was aware that the children were circulating them to help keep each other safe. Participants were supposed to select "misinformation" because the information was known to be false but was not being circulated for malicious reasons.

The issue that I have with the choice of scenario is that I can't think of a situation in which a teacher could confidently know that a rumour is without foundation without this being properly investigated, and so I consider the premise of the question to be flawed. However, I don't think it's at all accurate to suggest that governors were being taught to treat alleged abuse by particular groups as disinformation, as that very clearly wasn't the case.

The issue that I have with the choice of scenario is that I can't think of a situation in which a teacher could confidently know that a rumour is without foundation without this being properly investigated, and so I consider the premise of the question to be flawed.^

Yes, this is the point of the thread.

However, I don't think it's at all accurate to suggest that governors were being taught to treat alleged abuse by particular groups as disinformation, as that very clearly wasn't the case.

Except that, in that question, they were being taught that. You can never safely dismiss abuse allegations as disinformation, misinformation, or a conspiracy theory.

If the staff governor had reporting overhearing kids discussing an EDL video claiming that Muslim grooming gangs are everywhere in the UK coming for white girls and the kids were sharing it to try to keep each other safe, that might be a different matter because the EDL are known racists and the claim is not specific to the area. Even then, the failsafe option is still to refer it to DSL, because there might be a new technology (e.g. an encrypted messaging platform) or legal loophole being adopted by gangs everywhere to facilitate grooming. But the scenario was talking about a local gang deploying specific, novel tactics. This can never safely be dismissed without investigation.

Imnobody4 · 06/11/2025 11:57

I feel very frustrated by the way this thread has been derailed. The issue is about the competence and motives of organisations training staff and governors. We have seen too many examples of rogue activist as well as well meaning trainers encouraging and defending particular biases. We've seen it in PHSE. The government is trying to introduce education on disinformation etc. This will only be successful if the biases of those delivering training are scrutinised and challenged.
This example is a big fail in my opinion and I'm pleased that others have received better training. My issue is the 5000 governors trained with no complaints.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 11:55

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 10:45

Referrals can come from a wide range of sources, and inevitably there will be people who don't understand what Prevent is for. Hence there are many referrals which are outside the scope of the programme and don't result in any intervention.

It is my understanding that referrals are individually risk assessed in order to decide whether or not they should be adopted by Channel. So there is already a process of assessing the threat and allocating resources accordingly. I'm sure that there will be individual instances of that process not working as it should, but the overall principle seems sound.

Apologies if I've misunderstood, but you seem to be saying that the far right shouldn't be the focus because they don't present a risk of terror attacks on UK soil? Please feel free to correct me if I've read that wrong.

As I said, you don’t seem to understand what the programme was set up to do. It doesn’t have infinite funding and can’t do everything. It is intended to prevent terrorism. I do believe many ideological movements, including both far right and far left are capable of terrorism but it should be assessed on the level of threat, and the report the government commissioned found that in practice it wasn’t proportionately focusing on the main terror threat in this country, Al Qaeda and Isis. Probably because a lot of the people working for and with it don’t understand fully what it’s for either. Anyway, this misunderstanding seems to be endemic in the lanyard class, as people call it, so it’s a pointless exercise my arguing with you about it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 11:43

Armsandlegsrecruitment · 06/11/2025 11:29

There is too much hate on this thread for reason unfortunately.

Where is the “hate” on this thread? Please quote.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 11:41

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 10:47

I'm simply trying to understand what you're actually saying. You're the one that seems to be jumping to conclusions about the "motives" that you think I'm attributing. That's a shame as I was trying to have a civilised discussion. Oh well.

You’ve literally referred to the “motives” you’re drawing from people’s posts several times.

BundleBoogie · 06/11/2025 11:38

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 00:19

I do think we should be able to debate issues freely. I agree with you about first cousin marriage and personally I would make it illegal. Forced marriage is already illegal.

But there is also a huge amount of hate and violence aimed at innocent Muslims. And indeed, often aimed at non-Muslims who happen to be brown because people can't always tell the difference. Do you not think that they need to be protected?

There is a vast difference between having a reasonable debate about specific issues and showing outright hostility/aggression towards people who are (or are assumed to be) from a particular faith group. Perhaps having a legal definition would help to distinguish between the two?

True. My take on this is that the debate on this has been stifled for so long that we haven’t quite got the hang of it.

Many need practice in wording our thoughts carefully on this complex topic as it is easy to have misunderstandings and we also need to get away from the people attacking every mention of small boats or immigrants etc as racist as it removes normal peoples means of calibrating their views.

I don’t believe that the vast majority of the country has suddenly become horrendous racists and I certainly am not, but I have been directly called a racist on several occasions recently although no clarification on exactly what I have said that they object to has been forthcoming. There are genuine racists out there obviously but I believe that they are in a small minority.

Most of what I share in the relevant threads is statistics from authorities like the Mayor of London’s website. Yet one poster started throwing out wild accusations of inciting racial hatred and hate crimes which does absolutely nothing to help.

We definitely need better words or terms to clarify what we are saying. I constantly have to repeat ‘not all Muslims/boat people/immigrants’ otherwise I get accused of generalising where I wasn’t. We need to be able to differentiate between the many decent people who follow moderate Islam in this country, respect our democracy and laws and also object to the ones that hate us and want to kill us.

We need to be clear about the extremists as well those in the middle who live fairly assimilated lives and are fairly quiet in their views but also believe that homosexuality should be outlawed, first cousin marriage is ok and democracy is there to be abused (the democracy issue has been found to be predominantly Bangladeshi and Pakistani Muslims) and disapprove of our Western lifestyles but are keeping it quiet while slowly gathering political power and influence.

We can already see that they have considerable influence over the Labour government.

I do believe that talking on here is hugely valuable and so many are desperate to discuss the issues. I also value reading your points and having productive conversations.

Armsandlegsrecruitment · 06/11/2025 11:29

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 05/11/2025 15:31

I'm not whatabouting about anything. I just don't think it's helpful to focus on Pakistani grooming gangs to the exclusion of all others. Yes, it was dreadful that nobody did anything, but it wasn't unique. We have problems with our society turning a blind eye to abuse in general, and not only when the perpetrators happen to be Pakistani. Think of the open secret that was Jimmy Saville.

I'm not sure why you're asking about threads on MN deflecting from the rapes of Epstein and his cronies. I didn't make reference to any such threads. What I did say was that our society has allowed such behaviour to go under the radar, and even now, there seems to be very little accountability or transparency for the perpetrators.

It absolutely isn't about minimising what happened in Rotherham and elsewhere - we have to face up to the truth of what happened to those poor girls and we have to confront the difficult questions about the role which ethnicity and race may have played in those cases. These issues have been covered up for far too long, and of course, we need to understand exactly what happened and what went wrong. But at the same time, it would be stupid not to acknowledge that the failure to act in Rotherham is part of a much wider problem that we need to tackle as a society.

There is too much hate on this thread for reason unfortunately.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 11:26

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/11/2025 11:14

Have you actually read what I wrote? "I may be making [an assumption] in my interpretation of the incomplete facts I have read about this."

Fair enough. I wasn't clear as to what you had looked at and what you hadn't. The trouble is that many people look at the headlines and reach conclusions without actually looking at the detail.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 11:25

CurlewKate · 06/11/2025 11:16

Before I scroll, is there a report on this from anywhere but the Telegraph?

When I googled it last night, I saw a link to GN News.Wink

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 11:25

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 06/11/2025 11:18

No absolutely didn’t mean to address it to you.
I know your stance. I’m not interested in further musings of someone with zero experience of it.

That's fine by me.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 06/11/2025 11:18

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 08:47

I think you meant to address that to me. If so, please re-read my posts. I made it very clear that I wanted absolute transparency, accountability, justice and truth with regard to the grooming gangs, both in relation to the rapists themselves and in relation to those who were complicit because they failed to act. The fact that I want to acknowledge that these things occurred within a wider context of the abuse and exploitation of girls being allowed to continue in other situations does not mean that I want to cover up the specificity of the reasons in these particular cases. I want to look at the detail of these cases and the bigger picture. I do not believe that you could read and understand my posts and genuinely take from them that I wanted to "protect rapists", you just wanted to shut me down by trying to be deliberately inflammatory.

No absolutely didn’t mean to address it to you.
I know your stance. I’m not interested in further musings of someone with zero experience of it.

CurlewKate · 06/11/2025 11:16

Before I scroll, is there a report on this from anywhere but the Telegraph?

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/11/2025 11:14

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 10:59

Have you actually looked into the detail of this, or have you just read the Telegraph article? I think the training was fundamentally flawed for the reasons that I have already outlined, but I don't agree that the implication of the training was that rumours which "sound racist" should be quashed. That isn't what the training conveyed at all.

If the Telegraph article had focused on the question of how the teacher could confidently know that rumour was false, then I would have agreed with it. I can't agree with the suggestion that governors were actually being taught to dismiss safeguarding concerns as misinformation, because the evidence just doesn't back that up.

Have you actually read what I wrote? "I may be making [an assumption] in my interpretation of the incomplete facts I have read about this."

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 10:59

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/11/2025 10:39

I agreed with you until your last sentence. There was, in my opinion, an implication that may not have been intentional, that because the rumour sounded suspiciously racist, it must therefore actually be racist, and racism isn't permitted, so the rumour must be quashed. It is very easy for us lo make assumptions – and indeed I may be making one in my interpretation of the incomplete facts I have read about this.

It is often stated that when someone alleges abuse, we must believe them. In my opinion this isn't quite right (and dangerously so). I think it would be better ti say that when someone alleges abuse, we mustn't disbelieve them. We should take their words, and their feelings, seriously; we should not display doubt about what they are telling us; but we are very rarely in a position to judge the truth of the allegation. Safeguarding means taking action to lessen the chances of [further] abuse, and reporting the allegation as appropriate to safeguarding leads (and it may need reporting to police). It does not mean taking sides when there are two conflicting stories; it does sometimes mean taking active measures to prevent the alleged abuser from being in a position to abuse.

Have you actually looked into the detail of this, or have you just read the Telegraph article? I think the training was fundamentally flawed for the reasons that I have already outlined, but I don't agree that the implication of the training was that rumours which "sound racist" should be quashed. That isn't what the training conveyed at all.

If the Telegraph article had focused on the question of how the teacher could confidently know that rumour was false, then I would have agreed with it. I can't agree with the suggestion that governors were actually being taught to dismiss safeguarding concerns as misinformation, because the evidence just doesn't back that up.

BundleBoogie · 06/11/2025 10:57

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 00:09

I didn't make anything up. There are absolutely far right voices trying to push the narrative that this kind of abuse is predominantly perpetrated by Muslim men. If you haven't come across that narrative, then I'm glad to hear it. Sadly, I've come across quite a lot of it.

That doesn't mean that I think anyone who is disturbed by what happened in Rotherham and want the truth/justice/accountability etc are racist for feeling that way. Of course they aren't, and I share their feelings completely. But there are some racists who are more than happy to exploit the trauma that these poor women experienced to promote their own agenda.

I don't think we are really disagreeing - I would like to see justice for the grooming gang victims as much as anyone. I want to see justice for all women who have been sexually abused and exploited, regardless of the perpetrators.

Re JP - yes, there may be a conflict of interests, and as I say, she should step away if her involvement is going to get in the way of the inquiry. It had been my understanding that no steps had actually been taken to broaden the scope of the inquiry, and that this was merely a question included in the consultation with survivors as different views had been expressed. It was also my understanding that the women who were supporting Philips were survivors of the grooming gang abuse. However, there is so much conflicting information out there about this that it is hard to know what to believe, and I may well have got this wrong.

It does sound like we are agreeing here.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 10:47

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 10:38

I’ve explained my perspective, and my reason for bringing it up. You do seem to be focussed on imagined “motives” rather than what people are saying.

I'm simply trying to understand what you're actually saying. You're the one that seems to be jumping to conclusions about the "motives" that you think I'm attributing. That's a shame as I was trying to have a civilised discussion. Oh well.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/11/2025 10:45

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 10:02

Prevent is about ideology, and that includes both right wing and left wing ideology as well as religious ones. However, the number one credible threat to the security of the UK and its people is and always has been (after the Good Friday agreement) Islamist terrorism as the report was clear on and the government acknowledged. Yet most referrals are either not based on ideology (and aren’t taken up) or they are “far right” indicative that there is still a problem with people not understanding the focus of the programme which is to prevent terror attacks on British soil.

Referrals can come from a wide range of sources, and inevitably there will be people who don't understand what Prevent is for. Hence there are many referrals which are outside the scope of the programme and don't result in any intervention.

It is my understanding that referrals are individually risk assessed in order to decide whether or not they should be adopted by Channel. So there is already a process of assessing the threat and allocating resources accordingly. I'm sure that there will be individual instances of that process not working as it should, but the overall principle seems sound.

Apologies if I've misunderstood, but you seem to be saying that the far right shouldn't be the focus because they don't present a risk of terror attacks on UK soil? Please feel free to correct me if I've read that wrong.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 10:41

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/11/2025 09:31

This is something of a derail, but my intention was to make the point that there is often an “approved narrative” that applies to these training sessions, such as my Prevent one. To me, this seems like an example of same.

I’ll repeat what my point was in bringing up my experience of Prevent training (in 2016).

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