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Times Interview with Kate Clanchy - shared article in post

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NorthSouthEast · 04/11/2025 10:48

This is a sobering, thoughtful, harrowing, blood-boiling read. What Kate Clanchy went through 😡. I’ve put this in FWR as it’s yet another story of a woman being cancelled on the basis of rumour, supposition and hearsay with self-righteous people scrambling to jump on the “be kind” wagon as it rolls another human being and their career into the mud.

Kate Clanchy: I was cancelled. It made me contemplate suicide

www.thetimes.com/article/7681d5ec-3773-4b36-ab95-e4ab409d7899?shareToken=e76def471fd13ded750d7295fd554675

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ArabellaSaurus · 09/11/2025 21:57

Some of his output is utterly horrific.

I didn't read Adam Kay's book but I watched the first episode of This is Going to Hurt and I didn't want to watch any more.
I like Ben Wishaw (Paddington Bear). And I like Jarvis Cocker who did the music but I didn't want to continue after the doctor deliberately sewed up a woman wrong who had a dolphin tattoo which he ruins and he laughed about it. His malpractice was justified because the patient was racist.

Sexism / misogyny is fine but perceived racism or transphobia ends your career.

Why was it ok for the slightly fictional / dramatised version of Adam Kay to be spiteful but not ok for the slightly fictional version of Kate Clanchy to sometimes give judgemental descriptions of composite characters (in the introduction to the memoir she says children's identities were protected, names were changed, no individuals should have been identifiable).

I think this is part of the problem, separating reality from fiction especially with memoirs where we expect them to be non fiction but really they're a mix like Oranges Are Not The Only Fruit which was originally marketed as a fictional novel but is a memoir / semi autobiographical.

When I hear Kate Clanchy talk about the Kate in her memoir it's clear in her mind that the written Kate is a fictionalised or dramatised version of herself but we the reader (or podcast listener) don't know the real Kate from the fictional Kate so how are we able to compare?

I have now listened to the whole 'Anatomy of a Cancellation' and in my opinion Monisha Rajesh was let off lightly. She was asked why she called Kate "KKKlanchy" and Rajesh said she felt attacked by Kate! Who didn't call her any names.
Rajesh never apologised and played the victim when she was the bully.

This article might explain some of her twitter outbursts. She says she raged during lockdown and needed anger management for postnatal 'depression'. It must have been quite scary for her kids to witness. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/aug/31/moment-changed-me-smashed-toddlers-toy-kitchen-smithereens-knew-i-needed-help

Rajesh mentions being bullied as a kid and having abusive teachers and I feel her whole response to Kate's book has been Rajesh projecting her experiences onto Kate. Kate is now viewed as the abusive teacher Rajesh had and she is again the child experiencing racism. To which I can only suggest you need more therapy Monisha rather than continue the cycle of abuse.

A moment that changed me: I smashed my toddler’s toy kitchen to smithereens

Most new parents are made aware of postnatal depression and the symptoms to look out for. But nobody mentions the rage, which I experienced during lockdown

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/aug/31/moment-changed-me-smashed-toddlers-toy-kitchen-smithereens-knew-i-needed-help

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 22:05

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2025 22:00

But these 'responses' seem to be limited to a tiny number of people with an axe to grind on social media. Overall, reviews seem to have been positive. It won the Orwell prize.

Yeah it was all very overheated and intense at the time. I think they had a lot of staff who were upset too.

this was during 2021, at that point where no one was thinking clearly from staying indoors for too long and things online seemed more real than they actually were.

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2025 22:00

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 21:54

This is what they said at the time:

"We have been listening to the responses to what we said about Kate Clanchy’s Some Kids I Taught and What They Taught Me and we want to apologise profoundly for the hurt we have caused, the emotional anguish experienced by many of you who took the time to engage with the text, and to hold us to account.
“We realise our response was too slow. We vigorously condemn the despicable online bullying of many of those who have spoken out. This has no place in our community.
“We understand that readers wish to know specifically what will be done about the book, we’re actively working on this now and we will communicate this as soon as possible."

But these 'responses' seem to be limited to a tiny number of people with an axe to grind on social media. Overall, reviews seem to have been positive. It won the Orwell prize.

ArabellaSaurus · 09/11/2025 21:57

keyano · 09/11/2025 20:50

Adam Kay's This is Going To Hurt is quite viciously misogynistic in my view in several passages. Of course that is, rather than career-ending, turned into a successful TV and lauded TV series (where a brown woman co-protagonist is created that didn't exist in the book)

Some of his output is utterly horrific.

ArabellaSaurus · 09/11/2025 21:57

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 21:54

This is what they said at the time:

"We have been listening to the responses to what we said about Kate Clanchy’s Some Kids I Taught and What They Taught Me and we want to apologise profoundly for the hurt we have caused, the emotional anguish experienced by many of you who took the time to engage with the text, and to hold us to account.
“We realise our response was too slow. We vigorously condemn the despicable online bullying of many of those who have spoken out. This has no place in our community.
“We understand that readers wish to know specifically what will be done about the book, we’re actively working on this now and we will communicate this as soon as possible."

What fecking 'community'?

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 21:54

This is what they said at the time:

"We have been listening to the responses to what we said about Kate Clanchy’s Some Kids I Taught and What They Taught Me and we want to apologise profoundly for the hurt we have caused, the emotional anguish experienced by many of you who took the time to engage with the text, and to hold us to account.
“We realise our response was too slow. We vigorously condemn the despicable online bullying of many of those who have spoken out. This has no place in our community.
“We understand that readers wish to know specifically what will be done about the book, we’re actively working on this now and we will communicate this as soon as possible."

OldCrone · 09/11/2025 21:20

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2025 20:45

I just don't get why all the ire has been for Clanchy. Someone else took the decision to publish it and therefore their responsibility is much greater.

She's visible. The publishers are behind the scenes and it's harder to find out who the actual people are who made the decisions. They might even turn out to be male. The witch burners need a witch to burn.

How many men have been cancelled like this compared to women?

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2025 21:11

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 20:46

I think it’s because Picador apologised but Kate Clanchy is still banging the drum and seems unrepentant.

What did they apologise for?

keyano · 09/11/2025 20:50

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 20:44

I mean, publishers are just people. The book had plenty of redeeming qualities, it was engaging and entertaining.

Adam Kay’s professional memoir had been a massive bestseller just before Kate’s was published and in that book he is humorously rude about his patients. I wonder if it’s a feature of that genre of book.

Adam Kay's This is Going To Hurt is quite viciously misogynistic in my view in several passages. Of course that is, rather than career-ending, turned into a successful TV and lauded TV series (where a brown woman co-protagonist is created that didn't exist in the book)

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 20:46

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2025 20:45

I just don't get why all the ire has been for Clanchy. Someone else took the decision to publish it and therefore their responsibility is much greater.

I think it’s because Picador apologised but Kate Clanchy is still banging the drum and seems unrepentant.

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2025 20:45

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 20:44

I mean, publishers are just people. The book had plenty of redeeming qualities, it was engaging and entertaining.

Adam Kay’s professional memoir had been a massive bestseller just before Kate’s was published and in that book he is humorously rude about his patients. I wonder if it’s a feature of that genre of book.

I just don't get why all the ire has been for Clanchy. Someone else took the decision to publish it and therefore their responsibility is much greater.

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 20:44

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2025 20:36

I read the book. In it, Kate Clanchy is just generally mean and unkind about loads of kids’ appearances. The overall tone is just a bit icky.

Why did the publishers publish it then? Why aren't they taking responsibility for their actions?

Anyone can write a book about anything, there are no rules. But the publishers are the ones who take the decision to unleash it onto the world.

I mean, publishers are just people. The book had plenty of redeeming qualities, it was engaging and entertaining.

Adam Kay’s professional memoir had been a massive bestseller just before Kate’s was published and in that book he is humorously rude about his patients. I wonder if it’s a feature of that genre of book.

keyano · 09/11/2025 20:39

Neither Christina Lamb not Kate Clanchy deserved horrific online abuse and threats to their career. But both used descriptive phrases (even if CL was alluding to Prince Phillips gaffs she said 'we rather enjoy them, and used the 'slitty eyes' gaff as the direct illustration') that were pretty problematic. It's interesting that CL apologised quickly and copiously, it seems, though I missed the furore at the time. I wonder, if KL had engaged with her critics and done the same, if it would have changed anything. I think it was the right thing to do anyway. But I suspect an apology would have done very little to ease the hostility. Of course there is zero context in any of it. It should be possible to consider KC's thirty years of working with under privileged kids and nurturing extraordinary creativity, without saying it negates the questionable descriptive terms, but concluding, contextually, that her work with those kids is extraordinary. But there is no nuance of course. The social and psychological mechanics of purity spirals are pretty terrifying. And so much of it seems to come down on pre established tribalism lines which seem an awful lot to do with Israel vs Palestine and the gender wars (which also seem to line up tribally quite a bit which I am a bit surprised by) What has happened to Rachel Rooney, an autistic poet of great talent, is also deeply upsetting - also because she has done absolutely nothing wrong and written nothing of controversy, but her book My Body is Me is a transgression against the Divine Book of Transgender Ideology and therefore she must be burned. The misogyny and hypocrisy (and subsequent lack of interest in it) for her, and the way her career has been destroyed, is appalling. What really gets me though, is how men see women. White men try to appear to hate brown/black women less than white women, because that would be racist, which, finally, after far too long, is seen as a Very Bad Thing, whereas misogyny is still pretty meh. So when white men get a chance to jump on a bandwagon at a white woman - my god the outlet. This is also a large part of the energy behind the gender debate wars imo. Anyway, my two pence worth.

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2025 20:36

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 20:27

I read the book. In it, Kate Clanchy is just generally mean and unkind about loads of kids’ appearances. The overall tone is just a bit icky.

If she had ever once apologised for causing offence, however unintended, and then stopped engaging, this all would have stopped. She did so much to fan the flames, and kicked off the row to begin with.

her publisher seems to have behaved appallingly spinelessly but from the internal emails it seems they were frustrated she refused to follow their advice about how to handle this so were often on the back foot.

The three women who led the campaign against her must regret this now and when you see the tweets resurface the tone & language used is just shocking and so unprofessional. This will follow them for the rest of their lives.

I read the book. In it, Kate Clanchy is just generally mean and unkind about loads of kids’ appearances. The overall tone is just a bit icky.

Why did the publishers publish it then? Why aren't they taking responsibility for their actions?

Anyone can write a book about anything, there are no rules. But the publishers are the ones who take the decision to unleash it onto the world.

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 20:33

I also thought it was interesting that even the sensitivity reader they interviewed on the podcast thought that a post-publication sensitivity read was pointless and actually recommended they add a new introduction instead.

Colinfromaccounts · 09/11/2025 20:27

I read the book. In it, Kate Clanchy is just generally mean and unkind about loads of kids’ appearances. The overall tone is just a bit icky.

If she had ever once apologised for causing offence, however unintended, and then stopped engaging, this all would have stopped. She did so much to fan the flames, and kicked off the row to begin with.

her publisher seems to have behaved appallingly spinelessly but from the internal emails it seems they were frustrated she refused to follow their advice about how to handle this so were often on the back foot.

The three women who led the campaign against her must regret this now and when you see the tweets resurface the tone & language used is just shocking and so unprofessional. This will follow them for the rest of their lives.

RoyalCorgi · 09/11/2025 19:55

Wow, that attack on Christina Lamb quite something, isn't it? These people just enjoy making other people's lives a misery. It's malice, pure and simple.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/11/2025 17:14

OldCrone · 09/11/2025 16:35

Edited

Thank you for that link. Christina has been relentless in exposing the violations of women in war zones. Given the unhinged and abusive language used by her detractors it's unbelievable that they reserve the right to use abusive language while criticising the use of a quotation that Christina has apologised for using.

OldCrone · 09/11/2025 16:35

RoyalCorgi · 09/11/2025 10:20

It's the viciousness of the attacks that take you aback. It's not just the fact that these women were critical of Clanchy, Lamb, Bindel etc, but that they used language like "cunts". Hadley Freeman today links to a screenshot of one of Monisha Rajesh's tweets:

https://x.com/HadleyFreeman/status/1987446856704815215

It's insane. It's such a disproportionate response to the seeming provocation - in this case, a newspaper publishing an interview with Kate Clanchy. No one normal talks like this. The idea that people post offensive, inflammatory comments like this, which can be read by millions of people, suggest to my mind that they are not quite of sound mind.

For those who don't know Christina Lamb, she wrote a superb book on rape as a weapon of war, Our Bodies, Their Battlefield. I can't imagine what she is supposed to have done to provoke these people's anger.

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Christina Lamb explains what she did in this article.

Nothing could prepare me for the online war: Christina Lamb on being attacked by the trolls

Nothing could prepare me for the online war: Christina Lamb on being attacked by the trolls

Second link is to the archive version.

lcakethereforeIam · 09/11/2025 16:14

I've always thought (always being relatively recent) that sensitivity readers are in a bit of a bind. They're getting paid to do this job so I imagine they're under pressure to have something, anything to show for it. If, despite their sensitivity, someone does find something to get offended by and gets some traction then they've failed. They may never work in that field again. Whose feelings are they protecting? What's the baseline? It used to be it was the everyman on the Clapham omnibus. I don't think that's the case anymore.

ArabellaSaurus · 09/11/2025 15:53

38thparallel · 09/11/2025 15:22

I don't want to see them hounded, or abused, or 'cancelled', either.

Maybe not, but I think they should face some consequences for the awful things they said.

I think in situations like this, people create their own consequences, tbh.

ArabellaSaurus · 09/11/2025 15:52

ThirteenOranges · 09/11/2025 13:22

Thanks for posting the archive link to the Unherd article, @icakethereforeIam

Sadly, "compulsorary" is not a word, and this short extract thereby exposes the problem, or one of the problems: that some of the people allowed to exert power over the fate of the book are not, in fact, capable of understanding said book.

I'm nowhere near the centre of this saga, but as a fringe person in publishing I've been following it since it erupted in 2021. There seems to be a never-ending cycle of questions, all unanswerable: (a) Who started it? (b) Is Kate nice or nasty? (c) Are the three women nice or nasty? (d) Was a particular reader offended by the book? (e) Who gets to be a "sensitivity reader"? (f) If someone receives racist abuse from an unidentifiable stranger on the internet, who is responsible? (g) Does it count as being cancelled if everyone is still talking about you?

To my ears now, these questions are as chaff in the wind. The enduringly horrifying thing about this episode is that Pan Macmillan did not stand by the book they had published. Even worse, the publishing staff who caved to the book's critics did so without having read the book first. This part is so disgraceful that it's uttered in a whisper whenever it comes up in conversation, it's that bad.

[NB: My understanding is that the original editor that Kate Clanchy worked with at Pan Macmillan had indeed read the book thoroughly, as would be expected. However, for some reason, he was not at the front line of the response when things erupted in 2021.]

When you think back to the 1980s, when Salman Rushdie had the fatwa on him, the entire publishing industry joined hands to defend him, and were proud to do so. And now, fast-forward to 2021, a publisher gets some criticism on twitter, and just.... keels over? Everyone was aghast. That's why it's still a case study for the publishing industry four years later, and that's why it's bigger than the feelings of any of the individuals who were involved.

Whatever your thoughts about the 2021 debacle, whatever conversations you're having on BlueSky/Threads/X/ WhatsApp, the central question everyone should be grappling with is: should publishers stand by their books? In my opinion, this would be a better place for conversations to start, rather than trying to go back to 2021 to work out who said what on Goodreads.

ISTR recent years have seen some shit and unforgivably cowardly responses wrt Salman Rushdie's experiences, also.

38thparallel · 09/11/2025 15:22

I don't want to see them hounded, or abused, or 'cancelled', either.

Maybe not, but I think they should face some consequences for the awful things they said.

38thparallel · 09/11/2025 15:21

c) Are the three women nice or nasty

I can’t imagine any scenario in which those three women, Monisha Rajesh, Sunny Singh and Chimene Suleyman, could be described as nice. Their hounding of Kate Clanchy and others has been truly shocking. As a pp has said, jealousy may be a driver.

RoyalCorgi · 09/11/2025 14:36

Kate's article in Unherd is so beautifully written. I love what she says about the word "small":

'Besides, “small” is one of the glories of the English language, a word for “little” that we use for knobbly, close, personal things, a word infused with the tenderness we feel for pets and children but which can never be confused with lesser, or petty, a word that never carries scorn. Not to understand that — or to have put up barriers in the mind so you cannot hear it — seems so sad.'

It's obvious, ironically, that the one quality "sensitivity" readers lack is sensitivity. They are apparently completely tin-eared, closed to the nuances of words or meanings.

The mystifying thing in all this, as others have observed, is why the publishers take any notice of these people. How can you take seriously a supposed sensitivity reader who uses "compulsorary" - a non-existent word? Why, when faced with vicious attacks on one of your star authors by people who are, apparently, deranged, do you not mount a robust defence of the star author? Why cave into people who readily reach for the most vile slurs, such as "cunts", rather than stand up for an author you should be proud of, someone who has both won the Orwell prize and whose book is a best-seller?

The whole business reflects very badly indeed on the publishing industry and the people who work in it.