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Times Interview with Kate Clanchy - shared article in post

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NorthSouthEast · 04/11/2025 10:48

This is a sobering, thoughtful, harrowing, blood-boiling read. What Kate Clanchy went through 😡. I’ve put this in FWR as it’s yet another story of a woman being cancelled on the basis of rumour, supposition and hearsay with self-righteous people scrambling to jump on the “be kind” wagon as it rolls another human being and their career into the mud.

Kate Clanchy: I was cancelled. It made me contemplate suicide

www.thetimes.com/article/7681d5ec-3773-4b36-ab95-e4ab409d7899?shareToken=e76def471fd13ded750d7295fd554675

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BundleBoogie · 11/11/2025 20:42

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:23

Your comment is nonsense

I wasn’t talking to you.

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:35

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 20:27

Ah - so you haven’t read her book. Thanks for confirming.

Neither did you! And you work in publishing? How did you miss what seems to be the biggest story of the last 5 years?

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:34

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 20:25

Have you read her book @musicismyboyfriend?

I have read vast swathes of it through various media sources. Even the parts read out to her by the producer on the podcast were disgusting, and hearing her try to justify the language used and bat back all criticism was appalling. I had never heard of the story until the new bbc podcast and I am amazed that people think it rehabilitates her.

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 20:27

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:25

I didn’t lol

Ah - so you haven’t read her book. Thanks for confirming.

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:25

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 19:59

Don’t buy or read her books then.

I didn’t lol

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 20:25

Have you read her book @musicismyboyfriend?

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 20:24

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:09

Have you read the book?

No. I don’t need to in order to support the principle. And I certainly don’t need to to know that comparing Kate Clanchy to Jimmy Savile is foul.

I work in publishing. The actions of her publisher were cowardly in the extreme. Don’t like an author’s words? Don’t publish them. But if you do publish them you support your author.

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:23

BundleBoogie · 07/11/2025 12:12

She wasn’t using the children’s phrasing ‘back at them’ and

as though I was an animal - how on earth did you get from an author using the children’s own terms to describe them in a book, to ‘dehumanising’ them and speaking to them as if they were animals??

For whatever reason you seem hugely triggered by this book and author and I think, especially from your other comments - (Jimmy Saville wth?) that you are rather overwrought and maybe this has clouded your thoughts. I’m very sorry for whatever situation has led you to feeling like this but your attacks on Kate are vicious and unfounded.

Your comment is nonsense

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:16

OldCrone · 07/11/2025 07:53

Perhaps you could answer my questions , which @DeanElderberry has declined to do so far. They're just a couple of posts back, but here they are again. I'd appreciate an answer from anyone who is saying that nobody should be defending her.

In your opinion, what would be an acceptable way for a teacher to write about their experiences?

Can you suggest a book by another author perhaps, who has written about teaching children from different backgrounds in a way which you find more acceptable?

Or do you think that teachers should never write books about their experiences in schools?

its quite boring to have to repeat this again and again, but basically - don’t write about children using the kind of detail you’d find in a eugenics textbook, or shame them for being ‘not pretty’ or losing their looks after being raped, or tell them that ‘English people, white people’ think they all look the same, etc etc etc etc

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:09

Ddakji · 05/11/2025 18:47

What a despicable post. No wonder you side with the foul bullies.

Have you read the book?

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:06

XXRepealtheGRA · 05/11/2025 02:33

Why is it a "horror" to say someone looks like they have an Ashkenazi nose? Only if you believe that it's an insult to be Jewish or look Jewish.

And Jewish people are having nose jobs (Jewish Chronicle) mainly young women. So people can't look diverse and we can't describe diversity? What a horrible world to live in. https://www.thejc.com/news/the-complex-history-of-jews-nose-jobs-and-antisemitism-cygdnrx2

As for Clanchy's other descriptions of children she quoted the children's descriptions of themselves from their own poetry.

From The Times article "She used the phrase “almond eyes”, for example, but did so because it was a term she had learnt was used by the Hazara people of Afghanistan as an “important political term and identifier” of their ethnic group. One of her old pupils had even written a poem that included the line, “In Iran where they offend because of their almond-shaped eyes.” Similarly, a pupil wrote in a poem that “the scorching sun melts my chocolate face”. "

https://www.thetimes.com/article/7681d5ec-3773-4b36-ab95-e4ab409d7899?shareToken=e76def471fd13ded750d7295fd554675

If you or those 3 twitter bullies are offended by what children wrote about themselves that doesn't make Clanchy's work offensive or her the problem.

You’re missing the point - this is someone dealing with children in her care. She is debating with a boy who maintains that his family are not Jewish, yet Kate knows better, he has a particular nose and colouring so he must be. Why is she talking about this with a pupil, let alone in front of his peers, why does she need to keep pursuing it? Has she even had any teacher training? Nope, she just made up a role for herself in the school and pursued newly grieving, vulnerable children to write about their deceased siblings - despite the children’s form tutor telling her to back off three times, she just has to get that bloody poem out of that child. Absolutely weird.

NecessaryScene · 11/11/2025 20:00

To be able to destroy with a good conscience, to be able to behave badly and call your bad behaviour 'righteous indignation' -- this is the height of psychological luxury, the most delicious of moral treats.

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 19:59

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 19:47

I could not agree more. These are children she is writing about so callously. It turned my stomach.

Don’t buy or read her books then.

Reversetail · 11/11/2025 19:51

Listen to anatomy of a scandal podcast, you might have a different opinion. Her book is extremely othering of non white and non British children. She hasn’t taken any feedback on board. I do agree with one of her critics, who also said no hum an is built to withstand the amount of vitriolic abuse that is given on social media.

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 19:47

Rednorth · 04/11/2025 17:31

“She wasn’t a pretty girl, even by the standards of the IU… she was fat, a swathe of freckly flesh bulging out of her collar, blurring her jawline, giving her premature double chins.”

There is a lot to criticse with her so called writing. But the worst was reading her description of a child's physical changes after being raped. It came across to me as absolutely unhinged and sociopathic.

To me, she's no different to creative types making poverty porn... Getting paid off the back of exploiting others under the guise of 'giving a voice to the voiceless' .

The fact she is still getting any airtime at all is a disgrace and clearly demonstrates she has not been 'cancelled' how ever much she doth protest...

I could not agree more. These are children she is writing about so callously. It turned my stomach.

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 19:44

DworkinWasRight · 10/11/2025 21:07

Many people like to use social media to demonstrate what good people they are, simply by virtue of saying the currently approved line about refugees or immigrants or any other topic. Far fewer people actually use their lives to make a difference to others, Kate Clanchy has spent years of her life making sure that refugees and other disadvantaged groups have a chance at a better life. Why not judge her on that rather than the things she said?

How writing a poem a chance at a better life? Patronising, much? It all whacks of her using vulnerable young folk for her own self aggrandisement

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 19:42

Imnobody4 · 04/11/2025 12:49

I think this is a prime example of the hysterical frenzy of cancel culture. Actually have I crossed a line there with 'hysterical'
“I’m interested,” Clanchy says, “that all the people who attacked me were women around my own age, often exactly my own age, often white women just like me. I think that we’re the first generation of women to have succeeded and got anywhere. But the men can relax, because we’re just going to form a circle and shoot each other.”

Seriously I'm starting to worry at this behaviour among successful women who should have enough battle scars to stand firm instead of crumbling before sanctamonious 'sensitivity readers'.

Because it’s so important to describe children’s skulls and argue with them about their own heritage - keep doing the great work, Kate! We really need to know all about those skulls.

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 19:33

’rumour’? ‘Hearsay’?? She literally wrote a creepy book about children, was pulled up on specific passages, then denied that they were in the book. Despite being ‘cancelled’ she continued to work and be published. Any other teacher would not be working in schools now - her attitude to young people is not suited to teaching in the modern age and to me brought to mind that of a colonial missionary or similar.

BundleBoogie · 11/11/2025 13:19

BasicBrumble · 10/11/2025 21:26

Well yes, exactly. She has improved the lives of her students - they have said so. She’s made a difference and I’d rather judge her on that than her use of almond eyes (which the student used herself).

Quite. Did her detractors actually listen to the refugee students she has helped or are they the wrong type of brown/Jewish people whose voices can be ignored?

BasicBrumble · 10/11/2025 21:26

Well yes, exactly. She has improved the lives of her students - they have said so. She’s made a difference and I’d rather judge her on that than her use of almond eyes (which the student used herself).

DworkinWasRight · 10/11/2025 21:07

BasicBrumble · 10/11/2025 16:45

I read this with horror as it played out. I hadn't read Clanchy's book, but I followed her on twitter and loved the poetry that she promoted.

It seems to me that women in book publishing (which I would love to be a part of one day, which is now somewhat a worry) are falling over one another to display their 'kindness' in a weird format that involves pointing out what other women have done wrong.

Clanchy is not perfect, but no one is. Yet in these kindness wars there's no room for nuance and it annoys the hell out of me. If some of her language could've been better, the publisher had a chance to pick it up. It seems to me that on balance she was a fantastic teacher for those children and did not deserve to be repeatedly ripped apart.

But publishing would rather eat itself than stand up for someone who is not perfect.

Many people like to use social media to demonstrate what good people they are, simply by virtue of saying the currently approved line about refugees or immigrants or any other topic. Far fewer people actually use their lives to make a difference to others, Kate Clanchy has spent years of her life making sure that refugees and other disadvantaged groups have a chance at a better life. Why not judge her on that rather than the things she said?

ArabellaSaurus · 10/11/2025 19:54

XXRepealtheGRA · 10/11/2025 00:40

I didn't read Adam Kay's book but I watched the first episode of This is Going to Hurt and I didn't want to watch any more.
I like Ben Wishaw (Paddington Bear). And I like Jarvis Cocker who did the music but I didn't want to continue after the doctor deliberately sewed up a woman wrong who had a dolphin tattoo which he ruins and he laughed about it. His malpractice was justified because the patient was racist.

Sexism / misogyny is fine but perceived racism or transphobia ends your career.

Why was it ok for the slightly fictional / dramatised version of Adam Kay to be spiteful but not ok for the slightly fictional version of Kate Clanchy to sometimes give judgemental descriptions of composite characters (in the introduction to the memoir she says children's identities were protected, names were changed, no individuals should have been identifiable).

I think this is part of the problem, separating reality from fiction especially with memoirs where we expect them to be non fiction but really they're a mix like Oranges Are Not The Only Fruit which was originally marketed as a fictional novel but is a memoir / semi autobiographical.

When I hear Kate Clanchy talk about the Kate in her memoir it's clear in her mind that the written Kate is a fictionalised or dramatised version of herself but we the reader (or podcast listener) don't know the real Kate from the fictional Kate so how are we able to compare?

I have now listened to the whole 'Anatomy of a Cancellation' and in my opinion Monisha Rajesh was let off lightly. She was asked why she called Kate "KKKlanchy" and Rajesh said she felt attacked by Kate! Who didn't call her any names.
Rajesh never apologised and played the victim when she was the bully.

This article might explain some of her twitter outbursts. She says she raged during lockdown and needed anger management for postnatal 'depression'. It must have been quite scary for her kids to witness. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/aug/31/moment-changed-me-smashed-toddlers-toy-kitchen-smithereens-knew-i-needed-help

Rajesh mentions being bullied as a kid and having abusive teachers and I feel her whole response to Kate's book has been Rajesh projecting her experiences onto Kate. Kate is now viewed as the abusive teacher Rajesh had and she is again the child experiencing racism. To which I can only suggest you need more therapy Monisha rather than continue the cycle of abuse.

She does not seem well at all. I hope she seeks and finds suitable support.

Meanwhile, publishing should reflect on the fact it has enabled and supported such vicious and disproportionate attacks. Speaks of a deeply unhealthy culture.

BasicBrumble · 10/11/2025 16:45

I read this with horror as it played out. I hadn't read Clanchy's book, but I followed her on twitter and loved the poetry that she promoted.

It seems to me that women in book publishing (which I would love to be a part of one day, which is now somewhat a worry) are falling over one another to display their 'kindness' in a weird format that involves pointing out what other women have done wrong.

Clanchy is not perfect, but no one is. Yet in these kindness wars there's no room for nuance and it annoys the hell out of me. If some of her language could've been better, the publisher had a chance to pick it up. It seems to me that on balance she was a fantastic teacher for those children and did not deserve to be repeatedly ripped apart.

But publishing would rather eat itself than stand up for someone who is not perfect.

Ddakji · 10/11/2025 13:38

TheKeatingFive · 09/11/2025 22:00

But these 'responses' seem to be limited to a tiny number of people with an axe to grind on social media. Overall, reviews seem to have been positive. It won the Orwell prize.

Never underestimate how terrified senior leaders in publishing can be of the tiniest amount of online criticism regarding the issues of the day. They are gibbering in fear much of the time. I’ve seen it at my workplace and frankly it was embarrassing.

lcakethereforeIam · 10/11/2025 13:26

Victoria Smith has pitched in

Kids, critics and the courage of Kate Clanchy | Victoria Smith | The Critic Magazine https://share.google/QQsVq721dzFizRLhR

I've just started listening to Anatomy of a Cancellation. I like the Rashomon framing.