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Times Interview with Kate Clanchy - shared article in post

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NorthSouthEast · 04/11/2025 10:48

This is a sobering, thoughtful, harrowing, blood-boiling read. What Kate Clanchy went through 😡. I’ve put this in FWR as it’s yet another story of a woman being cancelled on the basis of rumour, supposition and hearsay with self-righteous people scrambling to jump on the “be kind” wagon as it rolls another human being and their career into the mud.

Kate Clanchy: I was cancelled. It made me contemplate suicide

www.thetimes.com/article/7681d5ec-3773-4b36-ab95-e4ab409d7899?shareToken=e76def471fd13ded750d7295fd554675

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TheKeatingFive · 12/11/2025 11:12

ArabellaSaurus · 12/11/2025 11:04

What I expect happens far more often than a teacher encouraging a child to express themselves, is that broken children get no help at all. No teachers offering to listen to them, no counsellors springing up out of nowhere to offer this perfectly appropriate 'support' that people like to imagine exists.

This is a really good point. In the absence of the 'perfect' support, is the answer really none at all? It seems like Clanchy's impact on these children was overall very positive, even if some of her actions can be questioned.

ArabellaSaurus · 12/11/2025 11:07

We hear that in many places, for example, there is zero mental health support available for children. There may be a bit of medication available. But there are no counsellors trained in safeguarding and supporting paediatric mental health.

So should a teacher, confronted with a traumatised child, just ignore that? It is probably the sensible advice if one values one's career and doesn't wish to get into deep shit.

Is it the human thing to do?

ArabellaSaurus · 12/11/2025 11:04

What I expect happens far more often than a teacher encouraging a child to express themselves, is that broken children get no help at all. No teachers offering to listen to them, no counsellors springing up out of nowhere to offer this perfectly appropriate 'support' that people like to imagine exists.

lcakethereforeIam · 12/11/2025 11:04

I think I'm going to have to read it too, but it's going at the end of a long, long tbr pile.

When I was at primary school, a number of decades ago, we were given a book to read that descriptions of Kate Clanchy's book brought to mind

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Wedding-Nicer-Than-Cats-Miss/dp/0435121820

From comments in the reviews it may be there may have been a deliberate effort to have this book widely read. Perhaps to foster empathy for recent immigrants, the problems they faced. I don't doubt were I to go back and reread it I'd find bits problematical, but I think it was well intentioned and probably did massively more good than harm. I think it's out of print now.

Some of the bits quoted from Kate's book have made me uncomfortable. Some of her defences seem nitpicky. Although I don't see the problem with some bits that others criticised.

Amazon.co.uk

Amazon.co.uk

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Wedding-Nicer-Than-Cats-Miss/dp/0435121820?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-womens-rights-5438541-times-interview-with-kate-clanchy-shared-article-in-post

ArabellaSaurus · 12/11/2025 11:01

It's an interesting point. That heartbreaking article seems to me that she was trying to help, and succeeded in helping, deeply traumatised children.

I think the arguments are maybe about very intense human issues. Yes, allowing a child to write poetry may upset them. Yes, children are upset at school. Yes, teachers' jobs include pastoral care that they may not be perfect at. And yes, one could argue that offering to help someone is a risk.

OldCrone · 12/11/2025 09:42

musicismyboyfriend · 12/11/2025 08:57

Well her training is clearly out of date or she has wantonly gone against its principles, as she detailed in her book. You cannot pursue a child (vulnerable or otherwise) over and over again, going against the authority of a child’s key worker/main responsible adult, just to get them to write a poem about their trauma. Or is that ok to you? Does that genuinely seem like a safe thing to do in your eyes?

Where is the evidence that she did any of these things?

TheKeatingFive · 12/11/2025 09:11

musicismyboyfriend · 12/11/2025 09:05

You talk about broader context: how about considering the power of a posh, white, educated, lauded teacher, who publishes your work and takes you into radio etc, and how that dynamic might play out with the children in her care.

This is exactly what I'm talking about.

Everything filtered through this 'identity'or 'oppression' nexus lens. It's just so terminally dull, pointless and shuts down all genuine debate and genuine empathy and understanding.

This woman knew these children well and quite obviously cared about them. The fact that she's white doesn't change that.

musicismyboyfriend · 12/11/2025 09:05

TheKeatingFive · 12/11/2025 09:01

Certainly sounds like it to me. The children themselves were very happy with the output by all accounts.

You talk about broader context: how about considering the power of a posh, white, educated, lauded teacher, who publishes your work and takes you into radio etc, and how that dynamic might play out with the children in her care.

ArabellaSaurus · 12/11/2025 09:02

Isnt the whole point of the book to look at prejudice and discrimination and classism, racism, etc, and how it affects society and education?

TheKeatingFive · 12/11/2025 09:01

musicismyboyfriend · 12/11/2025 08:59

It’s not just ‘a word they don’t like’ - that is a reductive and patronising take.

Certainly sounds like it to me. The children themselves were very happy with the output by all accounts.

musicismyboyfriend · 12/11/2025 08:59

TheKeatingFive · 12/11/2025 08:55

I feel that certain elements of society have become totally incapable of seeing the bigger picture or understanding broader intentions.

They cannot see this commitment.

They just go off on one based on a word they don't like, like pavlov's dog. All broader context and common sense go out the window.

It’s not just ‘a word they don’t like’ - that is a reductive and patronising take.

musicismyboyfriend · 12/11/2025 08:57

OldCrone · 11/11/2025 21:21

Has she even had any teacher training? Nope

It would take you about 30 seconds to discover that this statement is untrue. She trained as a teacher in the 1980s and her memoir was about her 30+ years of teaching.

‘So many of our children had a loss to mourn. Isn’t that what poetry’s for?’ | Kate Clanchy | The Guardian

Well her training is clearly out of date or she has wantonly gone against its principles, as she detailed in her book. You cannot pursue a child (vulnerable or otherwise) over and over again, going against the authority of a child’s key worker/main responsible adult, just to get them to write a poem about their trauma. Or is that ok to you? Does that genuinely seem like a safe thing to do in your eyes?

TheKeatingFive · 12/11/2025 08:55

pollyhemlock · 12/11/2025 08:34

I actually read this book before all the furore because I thought it sounded interesting. What comes through is her commitment to these children and her determination that their voices should be heard. At no point did I feel she dehumanised them, rather the opposite in fact. Yes , occasionally there are bits which make you feel a bit uncomfortable, but since when was it the job of a writer to make the reader feel comfortable all the time?

I feel that certain elements of society have become totally incapable of seeing the bigger picture or understanding broader intentions.

They cannot see this commitment.

They just go off on one based on a word they don't like, like pavlov's dog. All broader context and common sense go out the window.

pollyhemlock · 12/11/2025 08:34

I actually read this book before all the furore because I thought it sounded interesting. What comes through is her commitment to these children and her determination that their voices should be heard. At no point did I feel she dehumanised them, rather the opposite in fact. Yes , occasionally there are bits which make you feel a bit uncomfortable, but since when was it the job of a writer to make the reader feel comfortable all the time?

Ddakji · 12/11/2025 07:04

PermanentTemporary · 12/11/2025 00:11

Really interesting podcast/ documentary. I felt most alienated from the episode about the publisher. How about employing better editors, and giving them more power, and then standing by your publication?

Bevause I did feel shocked at some of what I heard being read out from the book. It seemed to me that it desperately needed a highly involved edit, if it was going to be published at all. I was also a bit WTF at the Orwell prize committee.

I didn’t think the social media accuser came across at all well, and I thought the idea that Clanchy was adding fuel to the fire was pure victim blaming. I felt for her, she sounded broken, but also unseeing. It all certainly reinforced my experience that the world of publishing is like a secondary school playground except the acid tongues soray real acid.

What the Orwell Prize judges said about her book:

“In this book, a brilliantly honest writer tackles a subject that ties so many people up in knots – education and how it is inexorably dominated by class. Yet this is the very opposite of a worthy lecture: Clanchy’s reflections on teaching and the stories of her students are moving, funny, full of love and offer sparkling insights into modern British society.”

I am going to read the book. Because it seems to me that the book is more than just odd snippets taken out of context. I don’t know if I’ll like it or not. But I feel that I owe Kate more than just discussing the theoretics of it on MN.

PermanentTemporary · 12/11/2025 00:11

Really interesting podcast/ documentary. I felt most alienated from the episode about the publisher. How about employing better editors, and giving them more power, and then standing by your publication?

Bevause I did feel shocked at some of what I heard being read out from the book. It seemed to me that it desperately needed a highly involved edit, if it was going to be published at all. I was also a bit WTF at the Orwell prize committee.

I didn’t think the social media accuser came across at all well, and I thought the idea that Clanchy was adding fuel to the fire was pure victim blaming. I felt for her, she sounded broken, but also unseeing. It all certainly reinforced my experience that the world of publishing is like a secondary school playground except the acid tongues soray real acid.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 11/11/2025 21:56

OldCrone · 09/11/2025 16:35

Edited

Sadly I cannot get the archive link to open. I dont subscribe to the Times, so cannot access the other. Is the shared link limited?

OldCrone · 11/11/2025 21:21

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:06

You’re missing the point - this is someone dealing with children in her care. She is debating with a boy who maintains that his family are not Jewish, yet Kate knows better, he has a particular nose and colouring so he must be. Why is she talking about this with a pupil, let alone in front of his peers, why does she need to keep pursuing it? Has she even had any teacher training? Nope, she just made up a role for herself in the school and pursued newly grieving, vulnerable children to write about their deceased siblings - despite the children’s form tutor telling her to back off three times, she just has to get that bloody poem out of that child. Absolutely weird.

Has she even had any teacher training? Nope

It would take you about 30 seconds to discover that this statement is untrue. She trained as a teacher in the 1980s and her memoir was about her 30+ years of teaching.

‘So many of our children had a loss to mourn. Isn’t that what poetry’s for?’ | Kate Clanchy | The Guardian

‘So many of our children had a loss to mourn. Isn’t that what poetry’s for?’

In an extract from her new book, poet and teacher Kate Clanchy on how a school poetry club enabled traumatised pupils to find their voice

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/mar/31/kate-clanchy-some-kids-i-taught-and-what-they-taught-me

OldCrone · 11/11/2025 21:13

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:16

its quite boring to have to repeat this again and again, but basically - don’t write about children using the kind of detail you’d find in a eugenics textbook, or shame them for being ‘not pretty’ or losing their looks after being raped, or tell them that ‘English people, white people’ think they all look the same, etc etc etc etc

Thanks for replying to my post, but could you answer my questions?

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 21:00

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:51

Yes it does

Grow up.

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:51

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 20:48

So you haven’t read it but you think that gives you the right to play judge, jury and hangman.

It doesn’t.

Yes it does

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:50

38thparallel · 09/11/2025 15:22

I don't want to see them hounded, or abused, or 'cancelled', either.

Maybe not, but I think they should face some consequences for the awful things they said.

Nope

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 20:48

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:34

I have read vast swathes of it through various media sources. Even the parts read out to her by the producer on the podcast were disgusting, and hearing her try to justify the language used and bat back all criticism was appalling. I had never heard of the story until the new bbc podcast and I am amazed that people think it rehabilitates her.

So you haven’t read it but you think that gives you the right to play judge, jury and hangman.

It doesn’t.

Ddakji · 11/11/2025 20:47

musicismyboyfriend · 11/11/2025 20:35

Neither did you! And you work in publishing? How did you miss what seems to be the biggest story of the last 5 years?

What on earth makes you think I missed this? I watched it play out at the time.

I don’t have to have read a book to know about it and know what happened.

And the difference is you’re slagging off an author and a book you haven’t read. I’m supporting an author to write her own words and not be thrown under the bus by her cowardly publisher.