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New female single sex student society launched at Cambridge university

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WarriorN · 27/10/2025 09:58

https://genderblog.net/cambridge-students-launch-single-sex-society-for-women/

this is fantastic news. The background to their story is however concerning. It should have never got this bad.

https://x.com/cusocofwomen/status/1982732118695215164?s=46&t=A2fpFNgDRyXF2d6ye97wEA

New female single sex student society launched at Cambridge university
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BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:57

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:54

Please link your reference. @BrightLights989

If you cannot link your reference, why can’t you? You were the one asserting confidently what the meaning of the word ‘slur’ meant. If you only did an AI search, then that tells us pretty much all we need to know to consider whether your point is accurate or even relevant.

Edited

I literally just told you it came from "Google. A.i and Oxford Collind dictionary". You could have easily copied and pasted and varied yourself. I even quoted other definitions for the word "slur" that refer to wood instruments and medical equipment.

Your deflection 'tactics' don't work.

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:54

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:43

My ‘ego’ has nothing to do with our interaction at all. You are not correct in your claims.

It is irrelevant whether you support the women or not if you dismiss the effort and bravery it has taken for them to do what they have done. Posters are pointing out your flawed meaning of ‘slur’ and your dismissal of the use of bravery to a very limited category of actions.

I don't dismiss their effort, but there is no bravery. "We want to set up a group for naturally born women". Cambridge hasn't denied. The law hasn't denied them. Men in general haven't denied them. They're not Nelson Mandela. Hate to brea it to you. They're privlalged women from a privileged class, from privileged society that didn't lie something and decided to change something. That's it.

As for the "slur" definition. I'm not against that being the description being used, but those here are acting as if "T3RF" is the most painful word imaged that has held women down for centuries or something OR equal to words that have held many down. It's a corny acronym that most people in society never heard of.

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:54

Please link your reference. @BrightLights989

If you cannot link your reference, why can’t you? You were the one asserting confidently what the meaning of the word ‘slur’ meant. If you only did an AI search, then that tells us pretty much all we need to know to consider whether your point is accurate or even relevant.

Greyskybluesky · 24/12/2025 15:52

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:48

They did and they lost.

I guess they didn't get the right people on side

merkinmanipulator · 24/12/2025 15:51

I would suggest searching dictionary corner's other posts for an insight into his mind.

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:51

PrettyDamnCosmic · 24/12/2025 15:45

I don't know where you found that definition but the Oxford English Dictionary definition linked upthread gives amongst others this which is the normal meaning of the word in everyday language.

A deliberate slight; an expression or suggestion of disparagement or reproof.

The word 'slur' can be qualified with the adjective racial or sexual but does not require this & stands alone as a useful word without qualification.

I believe that the PP has asked AI and got the meaning drawn from the ‘Oxford learners dictionary’ and believed that that source was appropriate.

I look forward to being shown to be incorrect though.

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:49

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:42

Safety, who is going to attack them. Fellow Cambridge students!? They'll risk their place and freedom for this society that will only be in the founders life for 2 yrs max? I don't see that happening.
The reason I used the paper cut/bullet example because what they're fighting for is not an institutional/global phenomenon/legal oppression women for Trans.

I agree with them (as i have said 5 times). It's just not as brave as you and others claim it to be. They have your support don't they.

Let’s see.

They could be physically attacked, this has happened to women who have spoken out publicly.

They could be suspended such as some female students and university staff have been in the past.

They have all reported having their opportunities limited already.

They could have their studies disrupted or their accommodation compromised. In fact, Thea has directly reported just this.

Apparently though, these are paper cuts that these young women should not describe their overcoming as bravery. Why? Because someone has determined based on limited information that they shouldn’t be called brave in any way.

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:48

Greyskybluesky · 24/12/2025 15:30

What if Britain got in a war with the US? 🤔

They did and they lost.

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:47

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:39

Oh dear.

Can I please suggest that if you choose to post a dictionary definition, can you at least understand that the examples do not limit the application of the word.

https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/slur_2

And if you choose to use AI, check the answer given very thoroughly rather than assuming that it has give you the correct answer.

The mistake you made is you're thinking of the word in all it's meaning to desperately undermine my point. Slur can be used for "Musical Definition" and "Technical & Other Meanings". Cleary im not referring to wood instrumental slur or slurred S-wave" in an ECG.........Come on. Again, you're letting your ego take over. Listen, I don't hate you, just thin you're wrong in the assumption these women in privilege society are brave and the bastion of fighting oppression.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 24/12/2025 15:45

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:32

  • Offensive Term: A highly offensive and socially unacceptable term targeted at a person or group based on characteristics like race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or disability.

I don't know where you found that definition but the Oxford English Dictionary definition linked upthread gives amongst others this which is the normal meaning of the word in everyday language.

A deliberate slight; an expression or suggestion of disparagement or reproof.

The word 'slur' can be qualified with the adjective racial or sexual but does not require this & stands alone as a useful word without qualification.

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:43

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:36

No one thinks that when they use the term "slur" and words meaning adopts a new mean over time. To pretend as if T3RF is just as offensive as any racial slur proves my point of the privilege mindset.
Your ego is not letting you see the bigger picture. I'm on the side of the women at Cambridge. I just don't se it as brave when they have all the protection that many on earth can only dream of to fight this 'oppression'.

My ‘ego’ has nothing to do with our interaction at all. You are not correct in your claims.

It is irrelevant whether you support the women or not if you dismiss the effort and bravery it has taken for them to do what they have done. Posters are pointing out your flawed meaning of ‘slur’ and your dismissal of the use of bravery to a very limited category of actions.

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:42

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:32

Bravery is a strong word. And it is appropriate to use for these young women.

Are you really intending to compare their plight to a ‘paper cut’ vs a bullet ?

Are you really dismissing their fears for safety and their future the way you are coming across as doing?

Safety, who is going to attack them. Fellow Cambridge students!? They'll risk their place and freedom for this society that will only be in the founders life for 2 yrs max? I don't see that happening.
The reason I used the paper cut/bullet example because what they're fighting for is not an institutional/global phenomenon/legal oppression women for Trans.

I agree with them (as i have said 5 times). It's just not as brave as you and others claim it to be. They have your support don't they.

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:39

Oh dear.

Can I please suggest that if you choose to post a dictionary definition, can you at least understand that the examples do not limit the application of the word.

https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/slur_2

And if you choose to use AI, check the answer given very thoroughly rather than assuming that it has give you the correct answer.

slur noun - Definition, pictures, pronunciation and usage notes | Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary at OxfordLearnersDictionaries.com

Definition of slur noun in Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary. Meaning, pronunciation, picture, example sentences, grammar, usage notes, synonyms and more.

https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/slur_2

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:36

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:29

Which Oxford dictionary did you check?

https://www.oed.com/dictionary/slur_n3?tl=true

1.a. 1609–
A deliberate slight; an expression or suggestion of disparagement or reproof.

1.b. 1662–
A mark, stain, or blot; a discredit (incurred by or cast upon a person, etc.). Const. to or upon.

1.c.1654–
In the phrases to cast, put, throw (etc.) a slur on or upon (a person or thing).

Are you using a different Oxford dictionary? Link us up to the reference please.

or are you just relying on AI?

No one thinks that when they use the term "slur" and words meaning adopts a new mean over time. To pretend as if T3RF is just as offensive as any racial slur proves my point of the privilege mindset.
Your ego is not letting you see the bigger picture. I'm on the side of the women at Cambridge. I just don't se it as brave when they have all the protection that many on earth can only dream of to fight this 'oppression'.

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:35

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:32

  • Offensive Term: A highly offensive and socially unacceptable term targeted at a person or group based on characteristics like race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or disability.

Perhaps you should link up your evidence so we can all see where you have drawn this from.

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:32

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:26

If I get a paper cut, I don't complain about it to people who suffered a bullet wound even though both hurts. Where did I say they should be quiet? I said I don't see the bravery in it. Bravery is a strong word.

Bravery is a strong word. And it is appropriate to use for these young women.

Are you really intending to compare their plight to a ‘paper cut’ vs a bullet ?

Are you really dismissing their fears for safety and their future the way you are coming across as doing?

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:32

PrettyDamnCosmic · 24/12/2025 15:28

Is English your first language? That isn't what 'slur' means.

  • Offensive Term: A highly offensive and socially unacceptable term targeted at a person or group based on characteristics like race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or disability.
Greyskybluesky · 24/12/2025 15:30

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:28

The quickest way to get what you want is allyship. If Britain got in a war, wouldn't it make sense to get the USA to help. Not saying its right, but life is not a bouquet

What if Britain got in a war with the US? 🤔

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:29

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:22

Well, Google, A.i and Oxford dictionary state " A highly offensive and socially unacceptable term targeted at a person or group based on characteristics like race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or disability."....Notice "race" and "ethnicity" are mentioned first. That implies the main proponent of the words meaning is sin colour. Also, it states "highly offensive and socially unacceptable term". I don't think T3RF means diddly-squart to most people on planet earth.

Which Oxford dictionary did you check?

https://www.oed.com/dictionary/slur_n3?tl=true

1.a. 1609–
A deliberate slight; an expression or suggestion of disparagement or reproof.

1.b. 1662–
A mark, stain, or blot; a discredit (incurred by or cast upon a person, etc.). Const. to or upon.

1.c.1654–
In the phrases to cast, put, throw (etc.) a slur on or upon (a person or thing).

Are you using a different Oxford dictionary? Link us up to the reference please.

or are you just relying on AI?

slur, n.³ meanings, etymology and more | Oxford English Dictionary

slur, n.³ meanings, etymology, pronunciation and more in the Oxford English Dictionary

https://www.oed.com/dictionary/slur_n3?tl=true

PrettyDamnCosmic · 24/12/2025 15:28

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:12

Slur is a term used when someone says something historically racist. Throwing "slur" around willy-nilly undermines centuries of oppression.

Is English your first language? That isn't what 'slur' means.

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:28

TheKeatingFive · 24/12/2025 15:15

And if you get in trouble, it your own fault for net getting the men on side 🙄

The quickest way to get what you want is allyship. If Britain got in a war, wouldn't it make sense to get the USA to help. Not saying its right, but life is not a bouquet

Greyskybluesky · 24/12/2025 15:27

Oh dear.

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:26

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:13

Don’t worry wims… unless there is violence involved, you should STFU and stop complaining.

And apparently the ‘c’ word is much worse than TERF, so what the fuck are we all complaining about. So many others have it worse, so again just STFU.

If I get a paper cut, I don't complain about it to people who suffered a bullet wound even though both hurts. Where did I say they should be quiet? I said I don't see the bravery in it. Bravery is a strong word.

nutmeg7 · 24/12/2025 15:24

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:18

Indeed! We have been told! And apparently women have never been opressed too… unless the ‘c’ word has been used. It seems that is acceptable to be brave in standing up to.

I am very much looking forward to the evidence that slurs only ever refer to racism. Because I am going to be very surprised by that.

Aha, yes, and don’t forget if it’s not racism/apartheid then you have no right to complain and any abuse doesn’t count in the hierarchy of oppression. White girls at Cambridge cannot possibly be bullied.
(sarcasm)

BrightLights989 · 24/12/2025 15:22

Helleofabore · 24/12/2025 15:15

Maybe you should provide evidence that slur is only referring to racism. Because I think you might be mistaken about the usage of the term.

Well, Google, A.i and Oxford dictionary state " A highly offensive and socially unacceptable term targeted at a person or group based on characteristics like race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or disability."....Notice "race" and "ethnicity" are mentioned first. That implies the main proponent of the words meaning is sin colour. Also, it states "highly offensive and socially unacceptable term". I don't think T3RF means diddly-squart to most people on planet earth.