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Virginia Giuffre claims in book she was sexually abused by her father

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IwantToRetire · 20/10/2025 01:46

Virginia Giuffre describes years of sexual abuse by her father and a family friend in a posthumous memoir to be published next week.

Nobody’s Girl: A Memoir of Surviving Abuse and Fighting for Justice tells the story of how she was recruited by Ghislaine Maxwell at the age of 16 to work as a masseuse for Jeffrey Epstein, the paedophile financier.

Giuffre, who died by suicide at the age of 41 in April, says her early experience of abuse meant she was a “perfect victim” for the pair.

“I know about monsters,” she wrote. “As a child, I experienced nearly every kind of abuse: Incest, parental neglect, severe corporal punishment, molestation, rape.

“As a teen, I had been sexually trafficked by another paedophile even before I met Jeffrey Epstein and Ghislaine Maxwell.”

Her troubled teenage years were used by supporters of Epstein to cast doubt on her allegations that the billionaire abused the teenager.

In her book, which The Telegraph obtained a copy of ahead of its publication next week, she wrote that it was time to tell the whole story.

It paints a picture of a girl who endured horrific abuse, long before she was spotted by Maxwell.

Start of a longer article at https://www.telegraph.co.uk/us/news/2025/10/19/virginia-giuffre-claim-book-sexual-abuse-father/

Also in full at https://archive.is/IKPfJ

Please note, there are some details in the full article that some women may find difficult to read. Just a warning before deciding whether to go to the full article.

Virginia Giuffre claims in book she was sexually abused by her father

Posthumous memoir suggests her early experiences meant she was ‘perfect victim’ for Epstein and Maxwell

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/us/news/2025/10/19/virginia-giuffre-claim-book-sexual-abuse-father/

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hihelenhi · 20/10/2025 11:09

P0PTARTS · 20/10/2025 09:47

It’s very sad reading the comments section. Majority saying they don’t believe her. Mostly men.

I know, it's horrible, isn't it? Calling her a "fantasist" and other things. As I say, a lot of the time, people expect "real victims" to be perfect, their idea of "innocent" or they're not to be believed ever. And abused women and girls often aren't perfect. Hence the likes of Epstein et al, along with all those other powerful men, know they won't ever be believed. And rich and powerful men will take advantage of that and get away with it (I think Andrew is a disgusting scumbag, btw, but he's only the convenient tip of a very large iceberg and so thick & entitled he walked into it, unlike all the other very powerful men who have protected themselves and strangely seem to have had little heat on them.)

hihelenhi · 20/10/2025 11:03

Soontobe60 · 20/10/2025 09:58

I thought the DV was her against her husband.
she seems to have had a very traumatic life- sadly there are far too many women like her.

Possibly them both, but she'd accused him of it previously and there seem to have been a number of incidents.

ChatNoire · 20/10/2025 10:31

I didn’t know anything about of this. Well done Virginia Roberts Giuffre for being the tip of that iceberg, for courageously sharing your story and lifting the lid on how people in high places abuse their wealth and positions to casually wreck the lives of those they use and abuse. I bet none of them gave her a backward glance once they had finished with her. I truly hope that in time everything becomes known and that the perpetrators are made to know their parts in the lives they have ruined.

Greenwitchart · 20/10/2025 10:07

This poor woman had such a horrendous life.

Not surprising that it all started with abuse in the home.

I do hope all the powerful men who abused her finally face the music and end up in jail.

Soontobe60 · 20/10/2025 09:58

deadpan · 20/10/2025 09:52

Oh no, I didn't know that. Bloody hell, how awful! What a sad sad life at the hands of so many people.

I thought the DV was her against her husband.
she seems to have had a very traumatic life- sadly there are far too many women like her.

deadpan · 20/10/2025 09:52

hihelenhi · 20/10/2025 09:30

She didn't have wonderful experiences with her partner by the sounds of it, since DV appears to be a feature, and her children were also eventually taken away from her. It seems by the end she'd just had enough.

But no, it didn't surprise me that she'd been abused in early life. As others have said, it would have made her a vulnerable and easy target for the likes of Maxwell and Epstein (as well as the ongoing attitudes from people who think victims must be "perfect" to count or matter or ever be believed.)

Oh no, I didn't know that. Bloody hell, how awful! What a sad sad life at the hands of so many people.

TheGoddessAthena · 20/10/2025 09:49

Is this new information? I thought it had been established ages ago that Virginia had be abused and neglected as a child and young teen, and this is in part what led her to be targeted as vulnerable by Epstein as she had nobody looking out for her.

P0PTARTS · 20/10/2025 09:47

It’s very sad reading the comments section. Majority saying they don’t believe her. Mostly men.

hihelenhi · 20/10/2025 09:30

deadpan · 20/10/2025 07:25

She lived a life of hell the poor poor woman. I hope she at least had some wonderful experiences with her children and partner before she died. I wonder in a way if it was her children growing up that added to the fire, as well as raking through everything to write the book and fighting so hard. You often see your own life, and compare what your parents were like to how you are with your own kids, when they're growing up, and that must have been really hard.
I saw an interview with another victim, where she said Maxwell and Epstein had asked Virginia to be a surrogate, which I'd never heard before. That was apparently the last straw for her. They said she'd be a "great mom". The utter horror of them saying that to her and knowing how little they valued - not at all - children's lives. And then knowing what future would befall the baby they expected her to give them, must have been overwhelming.

She didn't have wonderful experiences with her partner by the sounds of it, since DV appears to be a feature, and her children were also eventually taken away from her. It seems by the end she'd just had enough.

But no, it didn't surprise me that she'd been abused in early life. As others have said, it would have made her a vulnerable and easy target for the likes of Maxwell and Epstein (as well as the ongoing attitudes from people who think victims must be "perfect" to count or matter or ever be believed.)

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 20/10/2025 08:56

Very sad, but not at all surprising.

Girls with loving parents who take proper care of them do not just fall in with sex trafficking rings at the age of 17.

I can't be the only one who thought, "But what were her parents doing when she was in Palm Beach with Jeffrey Epstein? I was at home doing my homework when I was that age."

Needspaceforlego · 20/10/2025 07:29

Well that answers something I've never understood, why she went back to Epstien after the first time.
Her father was dropping her off at her 'job' at Epstiens.

deadpan · 20/10/2025 07:25

She lived a life of hell the poor poor woman. I hope she at least had some wonderful experiences with her children and partner before she died. I wonder in a way if it was her children growing up that added to the fire, as well as raking through everything to write the book and fighting so hard. You often see your own life, and compare what your parents were like to how you are with your own kids, when they're growing up, and that must have been really hard.
I saw an interview with another victim, where she said Maxwell and Epstein had asked Virginia to be a surrogate, which I'd never heard before. That was apparently the last straw for her. They said she'd be a "great mom". The utter horror of them saying that to her and knowing how little they valued - not at all - children's lives. And then knowing what future would befall the baby they expected her to give them, must have been overwhelming.

AMansAManForAllThat · 20/10/2025 06:52

I won’t read the full article, thank you. But sadly this doesn’t surprise me. We know that victims can be repeatedly victimised and that at first sight they seemed less credible as a result. We know better now, I hope.