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Demonstration against Let Women Speak Oxford

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IwantToRetire · 19/10/2025 03:04

A demonstration organised by the campaign group Let Women Speak (LWS) took place today at Bonn Square. Around 100 counterprotestors also assembled, including members from the Oxford Green Party, Stand Up to Racism, and Oxford for Trans Rights (O4TR).
https://www.cherwell.org/2025/10/18/oxford-trans-counterprotest-women/

Event was https://www.letwomenspeak.org/event-details/let-women-speak-oxford-2

Counterprotesters turn out for trans-exclusionary feminism event - Cherwell

A demonstration organised by the campaign group Let Women Speak (LWS) is taking place at Bonn Square.

https://www.cherwell.org/2025/10/18/oxford-trans-counterprotest-women/

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GreenFriedTomato · 22/10/2025 05:37

deadpan · 21/10/2025 08:50

@GreenFriedTomato I used a vernacular phrase a lot of people use. In the same way I use TRA.

Yes you did. But only when refering to those holding the union flag.
You didn't answer the question. Do you also refer to those waving trans/progress/palestine flags flag shaggers too.
If not why not?. Because those are causes you agree with right?

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 15:29

BundleBoogie · 21/10/2025 14:19

but the approach of the person who interacted with me was odd and found less.

You were the one who called it odd. I didn’t.

Weird that you are lumping such a wide group of people in with football hooligans of the 70s/80s. It explains some of your comments though. I think you might be employing rather too many vastly sweeping generalisations in your attempt to dismiss people you have decided you don’t like for somewhat arbitrary reasons.

Football hooligans are a scurry (had to look up the collective noun for squirrels)

BundleBoogie · 21/10/2025 14:19

deadpan · 21/10/2025 09:21

I'm old enough to remember the football hooligans of the 70's and 80's, hijacking weekend footy matches and rioting, under the guise of patriotism. So thats why I have zero respect for anyone, no matter what colour they are, parading flags and claiming to stand for something that they don't really care about.
If you think our interaction was odd, you set the tone, I replied in the same way.

but the approach of the person who interacted with me was odd and found less.

You were the one who called it odd. I didn’t.

Weird that you are lumping such a wide group of people in with football hooligans of the 70s/80s. It explains some of your comments though. I think you might be employing rather too many vastly sweeping generalisations in your attempt to dismiss people you have decided you don’t like for somewhat arbitrary reasons.

Namelessnelly · 21/10/2025 12:38

deadpan · 21/10/2025 08:00

@MouldyPeppers Obviously not.

Why? The TRA carry lots of flags. What about pro Palestine crowd? They wave lots of flags. So both these groups are also “ flag shaggers? If not, why not?

quantumbutterfly · 21/10/2025 12:24

I never developed an interest in watching any sport but rugby and from what I see there, at matches the aggression is generally confined to the pitch. Though tbf I hear some people have issues with rugger buggers at other social occasions.

Surprisingly I've seen some fairly aggressive support for cricket teams in the last couple of years, as pp says, it's faux/proxy tribalism as an excuse for a punch up in lieu of some other conflict of superiority.

Imnobody4 · 21/10/2025 12:12

Yes KJK seems to annoy all the right people. Long may she continue

ThreeWordHarpy · 21/10/2025 11:17

deadpan · 21/10/2025 09:21

I'm old enough to remember the football hooligans of the 70's and 80's, hijacking weekend footy matches and rioting, under the guise of patriotism. So thats why I have zero respect for anyone, no matter what colour they are, parading flags and claiming to stand for something that they don't really care about.
If you think our interaction was odd, you set the tone, I replied in the same way.

So am I. The football hooliganism wasn’t faux patriotism, it was faux tribalism to “their team” papering over their desire to have a bloody good punch up with someone. Even now, I hear older footie fans of my team reminisce fondly of their younger days antics, like putting in all the windows of the opposing teams coach, or scrapping with the police. The same fans that complain that footie today is sanitised, even as we have safe, modern stadia and many more women and children coming.

“the English disease” is still going strong in Europe, we’ve managed to divert the hot headed testosterone laden aggressive men to other occupations in the UK. Although I would still avoid parts of Glasgow when there’s an Old Firm match on, but there’s a heck of a lot of sectarianism mixed in that one.

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 10:22

KJK and LWS really get under the skin of TRAs. So many posts and so many threads where metaphorical loudspeakers are used to try and drown them out. She must be doing something right to drum up so much ire from aggressive ideologists (including those claiming not to be).

But look! Squirrel!

deadpan · 21/10/2025 09:21

I'm old enough to remember the football hooligans of the 70's and 80's, hijacking weekend footy matches and rioting, under the guise of patriotism. So thats why I have zero respect for anyone, no matter what colour they are, parading flags and claiming to stand for something that they don't really care about.
If you think our interaction was odd, you set the tone, I replied in the same way.

BundleBoogie · 21/10/2025 08:56

deadpan · 21/10/2025 07:41

@GreenFriedTomatoTRA's waving their flags, wearing masks and shouting women down are just as bad as the ones waving George crosses and union jacks wanging on about protecting women and girls, when all they really care about is whether the blokes attacking them are brown.

I’m glad to hear that there are areas of women’s rights on which we would definitely agree.

In my opinion, I can’t agree with your derogatory and sweeping generalisations against a huge number of people with some extra accusations of racism thrown in.

You have no idea if the people you label as ‘flag shaggers’ on those marches or LWS are racist. There were black and brown people there are well - were they racist?

when all they really care about is whether the blokes attacking them are brown.

Maybe you found our interaction odd because you’re not used to being called out on this? Maybe it’s perfectly acceptable in your circles or maybe you haven’t really given it much thought, just picked up on the language of others?

Anyway, I’m off now. Have a good day.

deadpan · 21/10/2025 08:50

@GreenFriedTomato I used a vernacular phrase a lot of people use. In the same way I use TRA.

deadpan · 21/10/2025 08:00

@MouldyPeppers Obviously not.

GreenFriedTomato · 21/10/2025 07:59

deadpan · 21/10/2025 07:41

@GreenFriedTomatoTRA's waving their flags, wearing masks and shouting women down are just as bad as the ones waving George crosses and union jacks wanging on about protecting women and girls, when all they really care about is whether the blokes attacking them are brown.

Do you call the TRA's 'flag shaggers' too then? I've only seen you to use that term when refering to men holding the union flag at the raise the colours rally and LWS events

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 07:52

deadpan · 21/10/2025 07:43

@MouldyPeppers Perhaps if any of you had asked me that straight forward question after you'd read my initial post you'd have found out.

Why bother? Your posts are quite telling.

deadpan · 21/10/2025 07:43

@MouldyPeppers Perhaps if any of you had asked me that straight forward question after you'd read my initial post you'd have found out.

deadpan · 21/10/2025 07:41

@GreenFriedTomatoTRA's waving their flags, wearing masks and shouting women down are just as bad as the ones waving George crosses and union jacks wanging on about protecting women and girls, when all they really care about is whether the blokes attacking them are brown.

deadpan · 21/10/2025 07:33

@Easytoconfuse No idea at all why you seem to think I'm a Tra. I'm a Terf. Feel free to believe what you want but I fully support JKR, Helen Joyce, Sall Grover etc. I've had lots of interesting exchanges on here, but the approach of the person who interacted with me was odd and found less.

MouldyPeppers · 21/10/2025 07:29

I wonder which side of the road Deadpan would have been on had they demonstrated?

I assume this was a rhetorical question as there isn’t any doubt.

GreenFriedTomato · 21/10/2025 06:30

I can't take anyone seriously that uses the term 'flag shaggers'. Besides the fact that it's only used to mock those who display the union/George's cross etc, and never the thousands flooding the streets with progress/trans/Palestinian flags - it's on a level with petty insults such as gammon/snowflake/libtard and so on
What does it even mean? Is it supposed to imply that people masturbate with the flags or what? It's so immature and unpleasant.

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Easytoconfuse · 21/10/2025 06:04

deadpan · 20/10/2025 21:28

Activist? I think you're living up to your username.

Another tick. When in doubt, go for the ad hominem attack. You've already gone for the 'I am entitled to defend myself one.'

It's been an interesting thread, but I'm tired of playing your little games. On a site like Mumsnet it seems entirely appropriate to say 'it isn't big, and it isn't clever'.

Easytoconfuse · 21/10/2025 05:59

BundleBoogie · 20/10/2025 21:46

They also seem to have done the same to other contributors.

So more accusations! Are you referring to my conversation with Cowley Road where she tried to imply that KJK was extremely rude to a ‘lovely’ community imam for no apparent reason other than being anti Muslim? She also falsely accused KJK of being racist to him.

Totally omitting the fact that not only did he turn up to join the men violently protesting LWS, but participated in the abuse by playing conductor to their yelling.

Funnily enough that was another opinion that I expressed about the use of dishonesty to smear KJK and LWS.

I'm starting to get the hang of this now. Deadpan is allowed to 'defend' themselves. We lesser mortals are not. Deadpan can use language such as 'love' because that is how they talk to women and we lesser mortals have, apparently, to put up with it.

I wonder which side of the road Deadpan would have been on had they demonstrated?

BundleBoogie · 20/10/2025 21:46

deadpan · 20/10/2025 20:03

This is hilarious. My initial post was sharing my opinion. Then I was subjected to a barrage of picky comments from one other person. This person didn't give their opinion at all.
Pardon me for sticking up for myself. They also seem to have done the same to other contributors. Good faith didn't come into it

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They also seem to have done the same to other contributors.

So more accusations! Are you referring to my conversation with Cowley Road where she tried to imply that KJK was extremely rude to a ‘lovely’ community imam for no apparent reason other than being anti Muslim? She also falsely accused KJK of being racist to him.

Totally omitting the fact that not only did he turn up to join the men violently protesting LWS, but participated in the abuse by playing conductor to their yelling.

Funnily enough that was another opinion that I expressed about the use of dishonesty to smear KJK and LWS.

deadpan · 20/10/2025 21:34

BundleBoogie · 20/10/2025 21:31

Then I was subjected to a barrage of picky comments from one other person. This person didn't give their opinion at all.

You appear to be referring to me. You call it a ‘barrage of picky comments’, I say it was calling out your unnecessarily nasty and unevidenced claim that ‘flag shaggers ‘ were at LWS.

You pretended that you hadn’t said that and then doubled down with the dishonesty including saying that I supported Tommy Robinson. Then you started calling me ‘love’. You seem to have a short memory for what you are writing - it’s only one page back.

I have expressed several opinions in this thread. One of which is that I dislike dishonest smearing of KJK and LWS.

That's nice that you recognised yourself.

BundleBoogie · 20/10/2025 21:31

deadpan · 20/10/2025 20:03

This is hilarious. My initial post was sharing my opinion. Then I was subjected to a barrage of picky comments from one other person. This person didn't give their opinion at all.
Pardon me for sticking up for myself. They also seem to have done the same to other contributors. Good faith didn't come into it

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Then I was subjected to a barrage of picky comments from one other person. This person didn't give their opinion at all.

You appear to be referring to me. You call it a ‘barrage of picky comments’, I say it was calling out your unnecessarily nasty and unevidenced claim that ‘flag shaggers ‘ were at LWS.

You pretended that you hadn’t said that and then doubled down with the dishonesty including saying that I supported Tommy Robinson. Then you started calling me ‘love’. You seem to have a short memory for what you are writing - it’s only one page back.

I have expressed several opinions in this thread. One of which is that I dislike dishonest smearing of KJK and LWS.

deadpan · 20/10/2025 21:28

Easytoconfuse · 20/10/2025 21:21

Thanks for giving me the final tick on my activist bingo card. It's been very educational seeing you at work and I've learned a lot.

Activist? I think you're living up to your username.

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