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Oxford Union alumni will descend on city to try to oust president-elect

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BonfireLady · 15/10/2025 17:23

Well, that's quite a turn up for the free speech books!

When the president-elect of the Oxford Union debating society hit the headlines with his awful celebration of a violent assassination, I hoped that he would be declared unfit to run it. Yes, I support free speech, including the right to offend. However, he is president-elect of a debating society and is simply not fit for the role if he's advocating assassination in place of debate. Charlie Kirk was killed while debating. Specifically while answering a question about trans(-identifying) people, by a young man who is/was in a romantic relationship with a (transwo)man.

It seems like this university is waking up to the idea that critical thinking is a good thing. Please keep thinking Oxford Union...... 🤞

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/10/14/oxford-union-alumni-descend-city-oust-president-elect/

He's written quite a lengthy statement and this was included:

When a national columnist explicitly calls for you to be shot, and your family receives threats, it creates an environment where reasoned debate cannot exist.

Obviously it's appalling that his family received threats but which national columnist explicitly called for him to be shot? Does anyone know? That sounds rather far-fetched and I would hope that this isn't what happened.

Edited for clarity.

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https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/10/14/oxford-union-alumni-descend-city-oust-president-elect

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Retiredfromthere · 20/10/2025 10:58

GoldThumb · 20/10/2025 10:46

At times there is simply nothing else that can be required other than violent retaliation. And this is a view I wholeheartedly agree with. The view that some institutions are too broken, too regressive, too oppressive to be reformed, like cancers of our society. They must, and they should be taken down, by any means necessary.
—George Abaraonye

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Hm. Hoping that this guy gets 'taken down' by a lot of email proxies.
Also hoping that those who voted when he won the election, and even more so those failed to vote might wake up (the number voting when he was elected was lower than usual).

GoldThumb · 20/10/2025 10:46

At times there is simply nothing else that can be required other than violent retaliation. And this is a view I wholeheartedly agree with. The view that some institutions are too broken, too regressive, too oppressive to be reformed, like cancers of our society. They must, and they should be taken down, by any means necessary.
—George Abaraonye

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 20/10/2025 10:27

Yes it’s an absolute non apology and he has some front implying he has made a sincere apology.
Not surprised Jolyon has got involved, absolutely typical of his combination of publicity hunger and terrible judgement.

Retiredfromthere · 20/10/2025 10:09

Because I worked in UK universities until a decade ago I am fascinated in how things are now. George Abaraonye is reported (Oxford Mail www.oxfordmail.co.uk/news/25553300.oxford-unions-george-abaraonye-we-will-not-silenced/) as having submitted a motion of no confidence in himself in an attempt to reclaim “true accountability and (reaffirm) that the Oxford Union must remain a place where students can make mistakes, apologise sincerely, and learn from them”.

So I looked for the sincere apology. This is all I could find. From the site www.restorerespectoxfordunion.co.uk/ and I think they are right to describe it as a 'conditional apology, widely described as mealy-mouthed'. His words reported there are: "my reaction was shaped by the context of Mr. Kirk’s own rhetoric" and that "my words were no less insensitive than his – arguably less so; the difference is that I had the humility to recognize when I strayed from my core values".

Looking back to whether he was elected by a significant margin (he was) and what his nearest rival (Chapman) offered I found this. Chapman’s campaign emphasized her experience as a long-serving member of the Union committees, an appointed as well as an elected officer whose work spans debates and fundraising efforts alike. Her vision for the union included the launching of an alumni network and increasing revenue through paid opportunities.
Abaraonye’s campaign centered on his desire to remove the focus on student politics to make the Union ‘more enjoyable’ for its members. His plans include working towards “fixing disciplinary processes” and “separating private business
from the debates”. www.oxfordstudent.com/2025/06/14/george-abaraonye-wins-ht26-oxford-union-presidency/#google_vignette

Its interesting that he was going to fix the disciplinary process as - prior to the vote of no confidence - he was reported and being investigated (I think) as part of it. He does seem to have been elected on a 'not taking things too seriously' ticket and so if the adults can press reset the Oxford Union will benefit. I picked up in my searches that he also posted about the late Queen and accused her of genocide. So he won't stop trying to post to shock. And he does not show contrition for this latest stunt. I hope he loses.

SundayAfternoonTea · 20/10/2025 02:22

I saw George's social media for vote "no" (i.e. he should stay President-elect) which was mainly screenshots of racist vitriol against him posted on X.

Obvious I condemn this racism. That he is experiencing this, logically, has nothing to do with whether voters should have confidence in him.

It's ironically illogical from someone who is supposed to have studied formal logic (and debates) although what mark he got in it is anybody's guess.

Probably the delay is challenging members' voting via email.

maltravers · 20/10/2025 01:25

Barr77 · 19/10/2025 22:20

Apparently Jolyon Maugham has thrown his weight behind Abaraonye. The article ends with a “he’s bound to lose now..”.🤔
order-order.com/2025/10/17/campaign-for-charlie-kirk-oxford-union-president-welcomes-support-from-jolyon-maugham/

The supposition on Twitter is that the delay is being caused by a legal challenge. I wonder if the kimonoed one has found a new cause on which to spend legal fees.

ArabellaSaurus · 19/10/2025 22:26

QOrion · 16/10/2025 07:14

BonfireLady
Obviously it's appalling that his family received threats but which national columnist explicitly called for him to be shot? Does anyone know? That sounds rather far-fetched and I would hope that this isn't what happened.

No more far fetched than you claiming he was ‘advocating assassination in place of debate’. George Abaraonye is hardly the first person in the world to be pleased that an unpleasant person is dead, though the Telegraph tells me his comments were actually made before he realised Charlie Kirk was dead and ‘were retracted shortly afterwards’.

I know that you think his work for the Gender Critical cause makes Charlie Kirk a virtual saint but black people like me were chilled by what he had to say about us, and frankly, I was more chilled by the over-the-top reaction to his death, especially on Mumsnet.

But I’m not surprised that racists will travel from far and wide to put the black man in his place. Sorry, I’m just not buying the idea that they are making trips from halfway across the world because they feel George Abaraonye has irredeemably damaged the reputation of the Oxford Union.

I hope the young people in your life are treated similarly harshly when they transgress BonfireLady. Maybe then you will decry the TRA tactic of burning the house down because someone saw a mouse.

his comments were actually made before he realised Charlie Kirk was dead

Oh, so he was just happy that Kirk had been harmed/injured, not that he had been killed. That's far less psychopathic, isn't it?

No, it isn't. Rational people are shocked when someone is hurt/injured/shot at. HTH.

Barr77 · 19/10/2025 22:20

Apparently Jolyon Maugham has thrown his weight behind Abaraonye. The article ends with a “he’s bound to lose now..”.🤔
order-order.com/2025/10/17/campaign-for-charlie-kirk-oxford-union-president-welcomes-support-from-jolyon-maugham/

teawamutu · 19/10/2025 19:32

maltravers · 19/10/2025 19:22

You can strongly support free speech (I do), but still have boundaries. He celebrated murder. That’s beyond the pale imo. I’m not suggesting he should be harmed or sent down. I am suggesting he should be “sacked” as president of a debating club since apparently he thinks it’s funny when people he disagrees with get shot.

Exactly this. All day.

maltravers · 19/10/2025 19:22

You can strongly support free speech (I do), but still have boundaries. He celebrated murder. That’s beyond the pale imo. I’m not suggesting he should be harmed or sent down. I am suggesting he should be “sacked” as president of a debating club since apparently he thinks it’s funny when people he disagrees with get shot.

Todooloo · 19/10/2025 17:18

JeminaTheGiantBear · 17/10/2025 09:54

Seriously I would have thought women would realise by now that legitimising censorship, and punishing disapproved-of speech, unattractive speech, speech that upsets and offends, speech ‘celebrating’ things we don’t like, will ALWAYS rebound on us.

Amazing how many women want to feed the censorship crocodile hunks of bleeding meat - without apparently realising we’re in the water with it too. And it’s hungry.

I dont see this as a free speech issue. It’s a character and a value issue.

No one is saying he cant say it. He’s said it. And thats a good thing because it allowed him to show us who he is.

You really think it would be ok for a woman head or not of a feminist movement/ organisation to celebrate the murder of a transwomen. And that we here would support that?!? Insane. No I can assure you we would not. So I dont see how this has anything to do with us and our free speech.

Anyway the voted are in. Let’s see what Oxford is made of.

BonfireLady · 19/10/2025 13:48

ThatCyanCat · 19/10/2025 13:46

False news, sorry. The results aren't in yet. This is certainly what we hope for but the count is ongoing.

Thank you.

I just had a quick Google after seeing the thread had been updated and couldn't see any news reports confirming it.

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ThatCyanCat · 19/10/2025 13:46

False news, sorry. The results aren't in yet. This is certainly what we hope for but the count is ongoing.

Imnobody4 · 19/10/2025 12:51

George Abaraonye has been removed as President-Elect of the Oxford Union in a confidence motion by the required two thirds majority.
That majority came largely from life members, who either voted by proxy or returned to Oxford today. The adults had to step in. The system worked.

https://x.com/DanielJHannan/status/1979674103381684413?t=CMcVEIR2CpZ2CQ8plqyqLg&s=19

The right result.

Daniel Hannan (@DanielJHannan) on X

George Abaraonye has been removed as President-Elect of the Oxford Union in a confidence motion by the required two thirds majority. That majority came largely from life members, who either voted by proxy or returned to Oxford today. The adults had to...

https://x.com/DanielJHannan/status/1979674103381684413?s=19&t=CMcVEIR2CpZ2CQ8plqyqLg

ThatCyanCat · 17/10/2025 19:42

Tbh if he had any decency he'd just resign. I'd respect that. I really disrespect him trying to cling on and if he succeeds, I'll be disgusted with the institution and lose respect for that too.

Events like this are the entire reason the no confidence process exists. But he should just remove himself.

BonfireLady · 17/10/2025 15:38

This is the ideal way to address it. There's a no confidence process in place at the OU and it has been put into effect. He holds a position where he represents an august institution and many people. He's behaved utterly disgracefully, albeit legally, and now the people he represents can vote on whether or not they want him to remain.

This ⬆️

It's a great way to apply common sense consequences to freedom of speech. The union he represents can decide if that's the type of debating society they want to be or not. Unlike Boghossian, I feel optimistic that critical thinking and common sense are making their way back in to universities. Yes, it might need some alumni to help shift that dial but hopefully the current cohort will have also woken up.

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ThatCyanCat · 17/10/2025 12:42

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 17/10/2025 12:37

In fairness, I now see that he asked for the vote. But it happens often, that people are disappointed by those they elected. There's more than one way of addressing it, and this way seems guaranteed to maximise kerfuffle. Which may have been his objective....

This is the ideal way to address it. There's a no confidence process in place at the OU and it has been put into effect. He holds a position where he represents an august institution and many people. He's behaved utterly disgracefully, albeit legally, and now the people he represents can vote on whether or not they want him to remain. The vote may go in his favour although I hope it doesn't.

I've not seen any calls to hound or arrest him (I'm sure you could find them online if you look hard enough but I'm talking about a significant movement). He represents this institution, now it gets to decide if he really does or not. I can't see anything improper or untoward. Due process, among the people involved.

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 17/10/2025 12:37

ThatCyanCat · 17/10/2025 12:31

What do you mean, lynching? He's acted in a way completely unbecoming to his position and now the people he represents get to vote on whether or not they want him to retain that position, as per due process. What's the electoral distortion? What's the metaphorical lynching?

In fairness, I now see that he asked for the vote. But it happens often, that people are disappointed by those they elected. There's more than one way of addressing it, and this way seems guaranteed to maximise kerfuffle. Which may have been his objective....

ThatCyanCat · 17/10/2025 12:31

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 17/10/2025 12:28

Trial by combat? Force him to debate and win an appropriately worded motion?

Many clubs have elected officials who can be unseated if they break the law or the club rules or behave unbecomingly (eg the Bar Council). This does hand considerable discretionary power to the committee. But I'm not too sure about the alternative of distorting the electoral process by re-running it in the hope of enforcing some kind of lynching.

What do you mean, lynching? He's acted in a way completely unbecoming to his position and now the people he represents get to vote on whether or not they want him to retain that position, as per due process. What's the electoral distortion? What's the metaphorical lynching?

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 17/10/2025 12:28

Trial by combat? Force him to debate and win an appropriately worded motion?

Many clubs have elected officials who can be unseated if they break the law or the club rules or behave unbecomingly (eg the Bar Council). This does hand considerable discretionary power to the committee. But I'm not too sure about the alternative of distorting the electoral process by re-running it in the hope of enforcing some kind of lynching.

maltravers · 17/10/2025 12:17

I take your point countess. I personally can’t bear Boris, god forbid he gets any political power again. But I think we seem to have reached a dangerous place in society where violence is seen as an acceptable solution (the TRAs with their threats for instance). I don’t think this is an acceptable view and George A is the face of it at the moment. If we want to deter those who advocate violence over debate there need to be consequences. He shouldn’t be sent down or hounded, but he shouldn’t head up the debating society either IMO. Otherwise, what message does this send?

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 17/10/2025 12:12

I am eligible to vote in this and I don’t think George Abaraonye deserves to be president but I am really uncomfortable with the whole thing. It feels like the whipping up of a mob which may have people with unsavoury motives behind it. I also don’t feel like it is legitimate for me, having had nothing to do with the Union for 30+ years, to have any say.
I also cringed at the ‘restore respect’ phrasing. The union has always had complete dicks as presidents. Boris Johnson ffs. They can have a leftwing dick for a change instead of a right wing one.

maltravers · 17/10/2025 12:11

teawamutu · 17/10/2025 11:26

I agree with much of what you say, but I'm not sure that he gets any extra leeway for being a "young, dreadlocked black man". If he was a lanky bespectacled white posh boy from Tunbridge Wells - like that unspeakable little twat filmed chanting this week - I'd feel the same.

Arrest him, no. Remove him from position of responsibility and prestige because he's either too bigoted (and high on his own virtue to realise it) or insufficiently mature to handle it? Probably yes.

I agree, his dreads are irrelevant. I’d feel the same if he were white. The comments he made were awful and not consistent with heading up an institution which should be about promoting and exploring free speech and debate.

PeachOctopus · 17/10/2025 12:00

BonfireLady · 17/10/2025 09:02

Ahhhh. I've just remembered that Scotland has a ridiculous hate crime law that we don't have in England. In England a hate crime is an aggravating factor if there is an actual crime. In Scotland it can be a standalone crime if someone takes offence. Anyway, context is key to why the police were investigating..... and it still sounds ridiculous at face value.

I am attaching the link for the interview where the councillor made the comments about being’born and bred’ in Falkirk.

One of the problems is that she seems to enter a kind of Maoist struggle session with herself once she utters the words and was subsequently jumped on by the reporter who sensed her discomfort.
She was reported to police who did not subsequently charge her but was removed from her role as counsellor.

DrBlackbird · 17/10/2025 11:52

ThatCyanCat · 17/10/2025 10:57

But there's a difference between limiting yourself to liking and sharing posts on SM (or writing them) and taking it into the real world like that. Obviously SM acts as communication and networking but if people are prepared to take part in the vote and travel to another city to make their feelings known, it's more than just Internet World.

Yes there are those armchair warriors who never leave the house, that’s true. But I wouldn’t underestimate the power of social contagion spreading through social media resulting in physical action in the real world.

The recent spate of Gen Z protests in Nepal and Morocco arose out of social media campaigns. The Arab Spring likewise was in response to social media campaigns. How do thousands of people come to join the Palestinian protests in the uk? This is why Russia has developed the capacity to cut the internet off and control it domestically should the day come. The power of the medium to incite action in the real world is immense.

@teawamutu you might be right. I was assuming that Oxford Union presidents were all young white affluent males but a quick check shows a diverse group in past years.