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J.K Rowling's Position

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middler · 05/10/2025 21:20

I am not a regular on these boards but I am aware of the controversy over J K Rowling's position as I have encountered so many young people who have become very hostile with me if I do not show that I do not go along with them in their views that she is the equivalent of a racist in her attitude towards racists. I try and stay neutral and not declare my views but that is not enough for them. They want tos ee you express the same vitriol that they have so they can be assured you are on the same side. I find it so anti democratic frankly.

Privately I was relieved with the British ruling that means trans women who may well still have a penis and all the bad actors who could then take full advantage of a law that allowed transwomen into women only spaces, are not allowed to access those women spaces. I appreciate that most transwomen just want to go about leading their daily lives identifying as women and using women spaces is part of that and they have no ill intent. But many do not have bottom surgery and so yes they still have a penis as do the men who can just wake up one day and say they identify as a woman and start using those women only spaces and not have good intent? What am I missing? Why don't the younger generation see this and get that it is a huge risk to women? Do they think that there will be no bad actors? I just do not get it. The law is not to punish transwomen. It's to protect women.

I am not without sympathy for transwomen who genuinely feel uncomfortable going into male spaces. I appreciate that they identify as female but I just feel it's a conflict of rights and that you cannot sacrifice the right of women to feel safe in a women only space so that the smaller % of transwomen do not feel uncomfortable. Safety trumps comfort.

I personally would not react to a transwoman being in a female toilet but then I am aware how do I know it is a genuine transwoman and not a bad actor so I appreciate other women not being comfortable.
Maybe we need additional gender neutral toilets in this day and age.

But when this topic comes up with many younger people I can tell that the fact that I do not join in with the hatred for JK Rowling, that it puts me in the pro JK Rowling camp and I do agree with her support of ensuring that law got passed.

I am not so sure about the comments she made about kids not being trans as I think some kids as teens do seem to think they are in the wrong gender, maybe not in the large numbers that we are seeing today but clearly some people do feel they were born in the wrong gender and as a society I think we do have to support them without sacrificing the rights of an other group.

Rowling has never expressed hate for transpeople as far as I am aware. I do think she can be provocative in how she expressed her views and that is her choice but I just do not understand how the younger generation claim she is the equivalent of a racist but with trans rights? The language they use about her is so strong and I really try to avoid conversations about her because it has become so divisive- it is hard to find a millennial who does not agree with Emma Watson's viewpoint.

I am not 100% up to date with all Rowling has said but what has she said that is so bad that the younger generation have such deep hatred for her? I am just trying to understand it better and be ready to respond to the vitriol I get from younger colleagues when it comes up as it does seem to.

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Helleofabore · 08/10/2025 05:12

Howseitgoin · 08/10/2025 04:34

"And this is again showing your ignorance. Most of the examples that have been posted here on this thread have been examples from well before Musk took over X.

Th difference being hate speech was heavily policed before Musk took over as in reports of abuse were actioned with deletions & suspensions ruthlessly given as they were to provocations that invited them.That's not happening now which only encourages the vicious circle of provocation & retaliation. Of course what Terf Is A Slur.com won't conveniently show is the preceding provocations.

"As to your claim that the interactions are restricted to social media, that is again simply false. Again, just here in the UK we have demonstrated how that violence from social media has translated to violence and intimidation in real life. Where female people have to be protected by lines of police just to enter meeting venues!"

Security at contentious public events IE that target the basic rights & dignity of people has long been a thing prior to social media. The idea that people take oppression lying down is a hot one…

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“The idea that people take oppression lying down is a hot one…”

I see. Do you see the issues with you posting this?

The idea that people take oppression lying down is a hot one…

Do you see it yet? The hypocrisy in that sentence?

Helleofabore · 08/10/2025 04:59

Howseitgoin · 08/10/2025 04:34

"And this is again showing your ignorance. Most of the examples that have been posted here on this thread have been examples from well before Musk took over X.

Th difference being hate speech was heavily policed before Musk took over as in reports of abuse were actioned with deletions & suspensions ruthlessly given as they were to provocations that invited them.That's not happening now which only encourages the vicious circle of provocation & retaliation. Of course what Terf Is A Slur.com won't conveniently show is the preceding provocations.

"As to your claim that the interactions are restricted to social media, that is again simply false. Again, just here in the UK we have demonstrated how that violence from social media has translated to violence and intimidation in real life. Where female people have to be protected by lines of police just to enter meeting venues!"

Security at contentious public events IE that target the basic rights & dignity of people has long been a thing prior to social media. The idea that people take oppression lying down is a hot one…

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“Of course what Terf Is A Slur.com won't conveniently show is the preceding provocations”

Fuck.

There it is again! The victim blaming. More misogynistic posting on a feminist board.

It just keeps coming.

Please enlighten us. What have women said on twitter that was deserving of being considered provocation for those responses?

What has JK Rowling posted that was ‘valid provocation’ to the abuse she gets online ?

What is ‘valid provocation’ for women to be assaulted, abused, intimidated and silenced at women’s meetings?

Helleofabore · 08/10/2025 04:53

Howseitgoin · 08/10/2025 04:34

"And this is again showing your ignorance. Most of the examples that have been posted here on this thread have been examples from well before Musk took over X.

Th difference being hate speech was heavily policed before Musk took over as in reports of abuse were actioned with deletions & suspensions ruthlessly given as they were to provocations that invited them.That's not happening now which only encourages the vicious circle of provocation & retaliation. Of course what Terf Is A Slur.com won't conveniently show is the preceding provocations.

"As to your claim that the interactions are restricted to social media, that is again simply false. Again, just here in the UK we have demonstrated how that violence from social media has translated to violence and intimidation in real life. Where female people have to be protected by lines of police just to enter meeting venues!"

Security at contentious public events IE that target the basic rights & dignity of people has long been a thing prior to social media. The idea that people take oppression lying down is a hot one…

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If hate speech was heavily policed on Twitter before Musk bought it, why were those tweets allowed to stay on twitter?

And they were allowed to remain on twitter before Musk took over because we on MN were still linking to live tweets of that nature.

Helleofabore · 08/10/2025 04:49

OP- you might also notice how that poster has in one post made a statement about the situation between Israel and Palestine to create a chilling warning to women who do not accept male people should be accessing female single sex provisions, and then immediately accused JK Rowling of being anti-Semitic.

The inconsistency that you have just seen is quite common in those who demand that male people should have access to single sex provisions.

Howseitgoin · 08/10/2025 04:36

Helleofabore · 08/10/2025 04:03

“Injustice breeds injustice. Brutality breeds brutality. We just saw this in Gaza & Israel. October 7 didn't come out of a vacuum but decades of violent oppression as did many brutal historical uprisings. It takes two to tango”

Fuck!

You have just done it again.

Women, ‘if you don’t allow male people to enter your groups, male people won’t know how to treat you with respect’.

Women, ‘watch out! If you don’t give this group of male people access to your single sex spaces, then you should expect those male people to retaliate with brutality and violence.’.

Every day there is another form of intimidation coming directly from you on this board. You simply can not accept women saying ‘no’.

Female people saying ‘no’ to male people is not injustice”. Female people saying ‘no’ to male people is not ‘brutality”. It is beyond catastrophising and beyond hyperbolic to leverage the incidents you have just attempted to here.

This line of argument is yet another example of DARVO. It is abusive and it is done for the chilling effect.

Your leverage of the situation in Gaza is showing just how far you will go. You know no boundaries.

Motte bailey…..🥱

Howseitgoin · 08/10/2025 04:34

Helleofabore · 08/10/2025 03:50

“But Musk's free for all on X has normalised demonisation & dehumanisation/hate speech. And that's not just coming from racists & trans people but gender critical feminists.”

And this is again showing your ignorance. Most of the examples that have been posted here on this thread have been examples from well before Musk took over X.

The pattern of behaviour has been established for years. If you had ever bothered to open mindedly started discussing the issue with any of us on this board instead of behaving as you have done now for months you might be a little better informed than you are.

As to your claim that the interactions are restricted to social media, that is again simply false. Again, just here in the UK we have demonstrated how that violence from social media has translated to violence and intimidation in real life. Where female people have to be protected by lines of police just to enter meeting venues!

And that women are being told that our abusers who are male people should be accepted into female single sex spaces.

Shall we also post the violence that happens to women meeting in the USA, NZ and Australia too? It is not just a UK issue.

So your ‘it just remains on social media’ claim is very clearly false.

"And this is again showing your ignorance. Most of the examples that have been posted here on this thread have been examples from well before Musk took over X.

Th difference being hate speech was heavily policed before Musk took over as in reports of abuse were actioned with deletions & suspensions ruthlessly given as they were to provocations that invited them.That's not happening now which only encourages the vicious circle of provocation & retaliation. Of course what Terf Is A Slur.com won't conveniently show is the preceding provocations.

"As to your claim that the interactions are restricted to social media, that is again simply false. Again, just here in the UK we have demonstrated how that violence from social media has translated to violence and intimidation in real life. Where female people have to be protected by lines of police just to enter meeting venues!"

Security at contentious public events IE that target the basic rights & dignity of people has long been a thing prior to social media. The idea that people take oppression lying down is a hot one…

Helleofabore · 08/10/2025 04:15

@middler You are getting a daily demonstration of why those people who disagree with JK Rowling act the way they do and why they believe that they are righteous in doing so.

It can take some time to see what women are referring to when it comes to seeing tactics that are abusive in nature being used to try to influence opinion. For instance, you might end up reading this thread through more than once. It is natural that things will occur to you later that you come back to and ponder.

For instance, my reference to Women, ‘if you don’t allow male people to enter your groups, male people won’t know how to treat you with respect’. is my paraphrased reference to just one of the misogynistic points that poster has used over the past few weeks. All to convince women that we are wrong to want female single sex spaces. I am horrified to see the situation in Gaza being leveraged now to threaten women to accept male people in female single sex spaces.

Knowing also that on this board we are subject to this behaviour over and over while then being told we are the hateful ones, the extremists, and by posters with new user names, is a great example of just what you have been questioning. How you have been treated by those people who say you cannot agree with JK Rowling.

But once you see it, you can pick the pattern.

Helleofabore · 08/10/2025 04:03

Howseitgoin · 08/10/2025 02:16

"What I was originally asking about was larger-scale evidence about the threat that some say trans women pose to women in those primary circumstances described by Rowling.
If you have any links to studies or reviews about the threat that trans women as a population pose to women, please can you post? If studies/reviews don’t exist yet (I’m sure others with more expertise may know better than me) then online sharing of anecdotal experiences of women in those situations could also form important evidence."

Given the numbers of the trans women population is so miniscule (approx 0.5%) its unlikely there's going to be any statistically significant data where meaningful conclusions can be made. As incarceration numbers don't adequately reflect sexual violence offending numbers, offending patterns via self reporting surveys are an indicator of crime but again statistically significant data comes into play as does the unreliability of self reporting. What we can glean for self reporting is generalisations about men offending at a substantially higher rate than women but this is confounded by the categories of men & women who offend at different rates & the circumstances they offend in. Older, wealthier men & gay men offend at substantially lower rates than younger, poorer, straight men. Lesbians offend at much higher rates than heterosexual women with some studies showing lesbians offend at higher rates than gay men for sexual violence. The circumstances indicate that the overwhelming majority of sexual violence by men & women is perpetrated by someone the victim know in the home, workplace, date, friendship group. IE not in public bathrooms.

Given that lesbians are considered a greater risk to women than straight women shouldn't they also be using 'separate spaces' for consistency sake? After all they are a larger population than trans women?

The answer is no because the risk of sexual violence from lesbians just like trans women isn't in public bathrooms. Public bathrooms usually being busy places don't afford opportunities to offenders. Privacy/isolation does.

"What you’ve posted is absolutely alarming. It looks like what I would call ‘secondary content’ - i.e. content where abuse and slurs link to those engaged in the discourse itself, rather than content documenting the experiences of women who’ve been harmed by trans women in situations of concern like those raised by Rowling around female-only spaces. This type of content exemplifies one of my original points about how the inflammatory discourse around this has detracted from and damaged sensible, proportionate discussion like you and I are trying to engage in here."

Inflammatory speech, particularly hate speech on the internet doesn't appear to manifest in direct real world violence on any meaningful scale. Its real harms come about when its so widespread against a particular group that it has the indirect capability of facilitating institutional action as evidenced in numerous genocides so I doubt that a very small pocket of abusive trans people could ever garner any widespread social risk to others. However, that certainly doesn't excuse or condone it & we must work towards eliminating it.

But Musk's free for all on X has normalised demonisation & dehumanisation/hate speech. And that's not just coming from racists & trans people but gender critical feminists. I don't see them calling out Musk for his blind eye to abuse or them lowering the temperature although when pressed will minimise their views as being limited to just 'women's safety'. In fact they laud him for his free speech absolutism. The fact is free speech absolutism & civilised speech are mutually exclusive. And when added to the normalisation of inflammatory rhetoric is going after people's right to self determination, dignity & safety without opportunity for recourse is begging for a back lash of barbaric vigilantism. Injustice breeds injustice. Brutality breeds brutality. We just saw this in Gaza & Israel. October 7 didn't come out of a vacuum but decades of violent oppression as did many brutal historical uprisings. It takes two to tango…

Be the change you want to see? Cue victim blaming as is want in Israel to avoid responsibility.

4, 3, 2, 1….

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/299945533_Sexual_Orientation_and_Involvement_in_Nonviolent_and_Violent_Delinquent_Behaviors_Findings_From_the_National_Longitudinal_Study_of_Adolescent_to_Adult_Health

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/019188699090146I

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-024-02902-9

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/233019813_Knowledge_About_Heterosexual_versus_Lesbian_Battering_Among_Lesbians#:~:text=Over%20the%20past%20few%20decades,public%20discussion%20on%20the%20phenomenon.

Edited

“Injustice breeds injustice. Brutality breeds brutality. We just saw this in Gaza & Israel. October 7 didn't come out of a vacuum but decades of violent oppression as did many brutal historical uprisings. It takes two to tango”

Fuck!

You have just done it again.

Women, ‘if you don’t allow male people to enter your groups, male people won’t know how to treat you with respect’.

Women, ‘watch out! If you don’t give this group of male people access to your single sex spaces, then you should expect those male people to retaliate with brutality and violence.’.

Every day there is another form of intimidation coming directly from you on this board. You simply can not accept women saying ‘no’.

Female people saying ‘no’ to male people is not injustice”. Female people saying ‘no’ to male people is not ‘brutality”. It is beyond catastrophising and beyond hyperbolic to leverage the incidents you have just attempted to here.

This line of argument is yet another example of DARVO. It is abusive and it is done for the chilling effect.

Your leverage of the situation in Gaza is showing just how far you will go. You know no boundaries.

Helleofabore · 08/10/2025 03:50

Howseitgoin · 08/10/2025 02:16

"What I was originally asking about was larger-scale evidence about the threat that some say trans women pose to women in those primary circumstances described by Rowling.
If you have any links to studies or reviews about the threat that trans women as a population pose to women, please can you post? If studies/reviews don’t exist yet (I’m sure others with more expertise may know better than me) then online sharing of anecdotal experiences of women in those situations could also form important evidence."

Given the numbers of the trans women population is so miniscule (approx 0.5%) its unlikely there's going to be any statistically significant data where meaningful conclusions can be made. As incarceration numbers don't adequately reflect sexual violence offending numbers, offending patterns via self reporting surveys are an indicator of crime but again statistically significant data comes into play as does the unreliability of self reporting. What we can glean for self reporting is generalisations about men offending at a substantially higher rate than women but this is confounded by the categories of men & women who offend at different rates & the circumstances they offend in. Older, wealthier men & gay men offend at substantially lower rates than younger, poorer, straight men. Lesbians offend at much higher rates than heterosexual women with some studies showing lesbians offend at higher rates than gay men for sexual violence. The circumstances indicate that the overwhelming majority of sexual violence by men & women is perpetrated by someone the victim know in the home, workplace, date, friendship group. IE not in public bathrooms.

Given that lesbians are considered a greater risk to women than straight women shouldn't they also be using 'separate spaces' for consistency sake? After all they are a larger population than trans women?

The answer is no because the risk of sexual violence from lesbians just like trans women isn't in public bathrooms. Public bathrooms usually being busy places don't afford opportunities to offenders. Privacy/isolation does.

"What you’ve posted is absolutely alarming. It looks like what I would call ‘secondary content’ - i.e. content where abuse and slurs link to those engaged in the discourse itself, rather than content documenting the experiences of women who’ve been harmed by trans women in situations of concern like those raised by Rowling around female-only spaces. This type of content exemplifies one of my original points about how the inflammatory discourse around this has detracted from and damaged sensible, proportionate discussion like you and I are trying to engage in here."

Inflammatory speech, particularly hate speech on the internet doesn't appear to manifest in direct real world violence on any meaningful scale. Its real harms come about when its so widespread against a particular group that it has the indirect capability of facilitating institutional action as evidenced in numerous genocides so I doubt that a very small pocket of abusive trans people could ever garner any widespread social risk to others. However, that certainly doesn't excuse or condone it & we must work towards eliminating it.

But Musk's free for all on X has normalised demonisation & dehumanisation/hate speech. And that's not just coming from racists & trans people but gender critical feminists. I don't see them calling out Musk for his blind eye to abuse or them lowering the temperature although when pressed will minimise their views as being limited to just 'women's safety'. In fact they laud him for his free speech absolutism. The fact is free speech absolutism & civilised speech are mutually exclusive. And when added to the normalisation of inflammatory rhetoric is going after people's right to self determination, dignity & safety without opportunity for recourse is begging for a back lash of barbaric vigilantism. Injustice breeds injustice. Brutality breeds brutality. We just saw this in Gaza & Israel. October 7 didn't come out of a vacuum but decades of violent oppression as did many brutal historical uprisings. It takes two to tango…

Be the change you want to see? Cue victim blaming as is want in Israel to avoid responsibility.

4, 3, 2, 1….

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/299945533_Sexual_Orientation_and_Involvement_in_Nonviolent_and_Violent_Delinquent_Behaviors_Findings_From_the_National_Longitudinal_Study_of_Adolescent_to_Adult_Health

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/019188699090146I

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-024-02902-9

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/233019813_Knowledge_About_Heterosexual_versus_Lesbian_Battering_Among_Lesbians#:~:text=Over%20the%20past%20few%20decades,public%20discussion%20on%20the%20phenomenon.

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“But Musk's free for all on X has normalised demonisation & dehumanisation/hate speech. And that's not just coming from racists & trans people but gender critical feminists.”

And this is again showing your ignorance. Most of the examples that have been posted here on this thread have been examples from well before Musk took over X.

The pattern of behaviour has been established for years. If you had ever bothered to open mindedly started discussing the issue with any of us on this board instead of behaving as you have done now for months you might be a little better informed than you are.

As to your claim that the interactions are restricted to social media, that is again simply false. Again, just here in the UK we have demonstrated how that violence from social media has translated to violence and intimidation in real life. Where female people have to be protected by lines of police just to enter meeting venues!

And that women are being told that our abusers who are male people should be accepted into female single sex spaces.

Shall we also post the violence that happens to women meeting in the USA, NZ and Australia too? It is not just a UK issue.

So your ‘it just remains on social media’ claim is very clearly false.

Howseitgoin · 08/10/2025 02:22

eatfigs · 07/10/2025 18:10

Did you even read what you quoted?

I didn’t deliberately select three Jewish donors; it never occurred to me to think about their religions. Two of the three, it turns out, are indeed Jewish, though that is not something I mention in my book because it is utterly irrelevant.

Do you even know anything about far right anti semitic narratives? It would appear JKR does:

https://x.com/esjesjesj/status/1975244633723879783

evan loves worf (@esjesjesj) on X

Very funny to pretend to care about jews after portraying them like this

https://x.com/esjesjesj/status/1975244633723879783

Howseitgoin · 08/10/2025 02:16

UnintentionalArcher · 07/10/2025 11:01

Thanks very much for responding to me - much appreciated. It’s great to be able to engage in sensible discussion with thoughtful people about this.

That first link isn’t working (I’m getting a website not found message). The second one takes me to a website with screenshots of lots of tweets containing abusive/unpleasant language and slurs about so-called ‘TERFs’ (a divisive term which I really dislike). Can you please tell me if those are posts predominantly from trans women themselves, mainly from other people who for some reason think it’s ok to speak abusively to people who they disagree with, or from a mixture? I can’t see the sources specified anywhere on the website but it would be important to be clear on that before making any further comment. If these posts are significantly coming from trans women without similarly nasty provocation from the ‘other side’ then there’s clearly an issue to be dealt with and (edited to add) could be considered to constitute a secondary threat (either way content like this should be policed and dealt with). Can you please confirm if you’re able to?

What you’ve posted is absolutely alarming. It looks like what I would call ‘secondary content’ - i.e. content where abuse and slurs link to those engaged in the discourse itself, rather than content documenting the experiences of women who’ve been harmed by trans women in situations of concern like those raised by Rowling around female-only spaces. This type of content exemplifies one of my original points about how the inflammatory discourse around this has detracted from and damaged sensible, proportionate discussion like you and I are trying to engage in here.

What I was originally asking about was larger-scale evidence about the threat that some say trans women pose to women in those primary circumstances described by Rowling.
If you have any links to studies or reviews about the threat that trans women as a population pose to women, please can you post? If studies/reviews don’t exist yet (I’m sure others with more expertise may know better than me) then online sharing of anecdotal experiences of women in those situations could also form important evidence. The #MeToo movement relied a lot on women sharing their experiences of sexual harassment and was extremely powerful- if similar anecdotal evidence existed for harms caused by trans women to women in female-only spaces, taking that as just one example of concern, and women can speak out or are speaking out about that en masse on social media, then it would certainly suggest a threat posed at a population level. (To be clear taking just one example, I personally think that transgender women should be housed separately in prisons, for various reasons, but I’m not convinced that there is the population-level threat that many suggest). Naturally I wouldn’t expect there to be the same volume of anecdotes as for #MeToo because of small numbers of trans women as a percentage of the population, but anecdotal evidence of any significance of scale would be useful to see.

I will say that I’m going into hospital today for a period, so will endeavour to check back at in the future to have a look at anything you share, but won’t be able to read anything you post quickly.

All the best.

Edited

"What I was originally asking about was larger-scale evidence about the threat that some say trans women pose to women in those primary circumstances described by Rowling.
If you have any links to studies or reviews about the threat that trans women as a population pose to women, please can you post? If studies/reviews don’t exist yet (I’m sure others with more expertise may know better than me) then online sharing of anecdotal experiences of women in those situations could also form important evidence."

Given the numbers of the trans women population is so miniscule (approx 0.5%) its unlikely there's going to be any statistically significant data where meaningful conclusions can be made. As incarceration numbers don't adequately reflect sexual violence offending numbers, offending patterns via self reporting surveys are an indicator of crime but again statistically significant data comes into play as does the unreliability of self reporting. What we can glean for self reporting is generalisations about men offending at a substantially higher rate than women but this is confounded by the categories of men & women who offend at different rates & the circumstances they offend in. Older, wealthier men & gay men offend at substantially lower rates than younger, poorer, straight men. Lesbians offend at much higher rates than heterosexual women with some studies showing lesbians offend at higher rates than gay men for sexual violence. The circumstances indicate that the overwhelming majority of sexual violence by men & women is perpetrated by someone the victim know in the home, workplace, date, friendship group. IE not in public bathrooms.

Given that lesbians are considered a greater risk to women than straight women shouldn't they also be using 'separate spaces' for consistency sake? After all they are a larger population than trans women?

The answer is no because the risk of sexual violence from lesbians just like trans women isn't in public bathrooms. Public bathrooms usually being busy places don't afford opportunities to offenders. Privacy/isolation does.

"What you’ve posted is absolutely alarming. It looks like what I would call ‘secondary content’ - i.e. content where abuse and slurs link to those engaged in the discourse itself, rather than content documenting the experiences of women who’ve been harmed by trans women in situations of concern like those raised by Rowling around female-only spaces. This type of content exemplifies one of my original points about how the inflammatory discourse around this has detracted from and damaged sensible, proportionate discussion like you and I are trying to engage in here."

Inflammatory speech, particularly hate speech on the internet doesn't appear to manifest in direct real world violence on any meaningful scale. Its real harms come about when its so widespread against a particular group that it has the indirect capability of facilitating institutional action as evidenced in numerous genocides so I doubt that a very small pocket of abusive trans people could ever garner any widespread social risk to others. However, that certainly doesn't excuse or condone it & we must work towards eliminating it.

But Musk's free for all on X has normalised demonisation & dehumanisation/hate speech. And that's not just coming from racists & trans people but gender critical feminists. I don't see them calling out Musk for his blind eye to abuse or them lowering the temperature although when pressed will minimise their views as being limited to just 'women's safety'. In fact they laud him for his free speech absolutism. The fact is free speech absolutism & civilised speech are mutually exclusive. And when added to the normalisation of inflammatory rhetoric is going after people's right to self determination, dignity & safety without opportunity for recourse is begging for a back lash of barbaric vigilantism. Injustice breeds injustice. Brutality breeds brutality. We just saw this in Gaza & Israel. October 7 didn't come out of a vacuum but decades of violent oppression as did many brutal historical uprisings. It takes two to tango…

Be the change you want to see? Cue victim blaming as is want in Israel to avoid responsibility.

4, 3, 2, 1….

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/299945533_Sexual_Orientation_and_Involvement_in_Nonviolent_and_Violent_Delinquent_Behaviors_Findings_From_the_National_Longitudinal_Study_of_Adolescent_to_Adult_Health

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/019188699090146I

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-024-02902-9

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/233019813_Knowledge_About_Heterosexual_versus_Lesbian_Battering_Among_Lesbians#:~:text=Over%20the%20past%20few%20decades,public%20discussion%20on%20the%20phenomenon.

middler · 08/10/2025 00:31

Thank you everyone. I have not read all the responses and it will probably be the weekend when I get to do that as I am busy at work this week. I understand that it is a very difficult area but there are clearly people who are born as men or women but wish to live their lives as the opposite sex or feel like they are born in the wrong sex/gender and I accept that and I can see many of you don't. I think it's the hatred of Rowling that I have been trying to understand since I feel her opinions are not unreasonable but I have found that if you share that you think Rowling's arguments are not unreasonable you are categorized as being a TERF or in that part of the venn diagram and I suppose i am just trying to work through it.

I don't want to make people who are trans ever feel excluded ( they are already in a minority) but I also do for example support the law being upheld in the UK to not allow transwomen for example in womens' spaces, so I am aware there is a contradiction in my position..

I will read through the responses and become more informed and the best option may be to just smile nod and not engage because I would not say to someone I do not believe in gender identity theory as I do deal with people who are trans in my life and workplace. Doesn't everyone today? I certainly want to treat them kindly and fairly but I am sure many of them would think me unkind for finding most of Rowling's views acceptable.

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GaIadriel · 07/10/2025 22:34

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/10/2025 21:58

I recognize there are clearly people who feel they have been born in the wrong sex and wish to transition gender.

but so what? Unless you think such people actually change sex?

Well, arguably some of these people may have a condition similar to other body dysmorphias and should be helped rather than ridiculed. Not to say they should be allowed in women's spaces but there's a big difference between being sympathetic and directing vitriol at them.

Like, it would be wrong to tell an anorexic person that they're fat and go along with their delusion. However, it would be equally wrong to mock and ridicule them for their condition. In reality, this is difficult because some TRAs are obnoxious, confrontational, and there's the obvious changing room conflict where the contentment of each party is mutually exclusive. But in some cases this problem may just be a symptom of the individual genuinely believing they were born as the wrong sex.

FortheloveofPetethePlumber · 07/10/2025 21:43

PencilsInSpace · 07/10/2025 20:46

If studies/reviews don’t exist yet (I’m sure others with more expertise may know better than me) then online sharing of anecdotal experiences of women in those situations could also form important evidence. The #MeToo movement relied a lot on women sharing their experiences of sexual harassment and was extremely powerful- if similar anecdotal evidence existed for harms caused by trans women to women in female-only spaces, taking that as just one example of concern, and women can speak out or are speaking out about that en masse on social media, then it would certainly suggest a threat posed at a population level. (To be clear taking just one example, I personally think that transgender women should be housed separately in prisons, for various reasons, but I’m not convinced that there is the population-level threat that many suggest). Naturally I wouldn’t expect there to be the same volume of anecdotes as for #MeToo because of small numbers of trans women as a percentage of the population, but anecdotal evidence of any significance of scale would be useful to see.

No, women should not have to continuously show our wounds and scars and prove we're vulnerable in order to have our rights respected. We should not have to tell the world the most intimate details of what has happened to us, for our accounts to be picked apart and judged - was it really that serious? Is she just making a fuss? Why didn't she just ...? It's not like #MeToo solved anything is it? It was a cathartic moment but sexual violence and coercion and abuse continue unabated.

Sandy Peggie and the Darlington Nurses should not have had to disclose details of their previous abuse in order for their basic rights to be upheld. Peggie and Maria Kelly should not have had to describe the lurid details of their perimenopausal symptoms.

I find it so offensive that women are expected to do this over and over again when the law is on our side:

Allowing men into women only spaces violates our dignity and creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating and offensive environment for us, related to our sex.

It's unlawful. Why isn't that enough?

Absolutely this. Women have been doing this for years, and it's taken immense courage because they were often punished and derided and bullied and abused for speaking out, and often lost the resource or service.

Sarah Summers - who tried a mixed sex 'women's' rape crisis service, the behaviour of one of the men there made her so distressed in trying to seek help for her rape she asked if she could have a women-only group. There was a men's group, an LGBT group and a women's group open to self identifying men, so in fact men had three options. She was refused and had to fight for years through court because the existence of an accessible service to help her was too offensive to men. Her case is well documented, she is a MNetter.

There were the women in a refuge who asked for a meeting (one was a MNetter and shared here) with leaders and I think an area leader, a well known one, to explain how distressing they found it to have men in the space where their own sons weren't allowed as too traumatic for women. They were openly laughed at by the activist leaders, many of the women sharing their experiences were in tears, and one later told the press that 'no woman had ever shared a problem'. Just simply erasing those women and their stories out of existence.

There are accounts of women sitting in rape crisis service meetings where women are talking about their assaults, where they have observed men who have identified into the group listening to their stories of awful and intimate sexual assault and watched them practice the body language and expressions and then use them and part of the stories they hear from women to create their feminine performace in the group.

Sandie Peggie who asked for privacy to change blood stained scrubs and was told no by a man who stood on his right to be there and watching, and for her to be allowed no escape. The Darlington Nurses, asked by the man in their changing room when they would start taking their clothes off.

It goes on and on and on. Unfortunately it has to be acknowledged that some men find this actively exciting, both women's distress and knowing the woman can't avoid them (what did that male journalist in the Guardian say about choosing the young assistants when he bought women's underwear and how he liked to give them a smile that said 'I know you're not enjoying this but I am' where her discomfort was part of his excitement), and the sexual accounts. And many men enjoy oh so logically 'debating' women's lives from their superior and rational perspective, as an act of power. Read some threads here, read some activist forums, then read some Lundy Bancroft. You'll be staggered.

Helleofabore · 07/10/2025 20:53

PencilsInSpace · 07/10/2025 20:46

If studies/reviews don’t exist yet (I’m sure others with more expertise may know better than me) then online sharing of anecdotal experiences of women in those situations could also form important evidence. The #MeToo movement relied a lot on women sharing their experiences of sexual harassment and was extremely powerful- if similar anecdotal evidence existed for harms caused by trans women to women in female-only spaces, taking that as just one example of concern, and women can speak out or are speaking out about that en masse on social media, then it would certainly suggest a threat posed at a population level. (To be clear taking just one example, I personally think that transgender women should be housed separately in prisons, for various reasons, but I’m not convinced that there is the population-level threat that many suggest). Naturally I wouldn’t expect there to be the same volume of anecdotes as for #MeToo because of small numbers of trans women as a percentage of the population, but anecdotal evidence of any significance of scale would be useful to see.

No, women should not have to continuously show our wounds and scars and prove we're vulnerable in order to have our rights respected. We should not have to tell the world the most intimate details of what has happened to us, for our accounts to be picked apart and judged - was it really that serious? Is she just making a fuss? Why didn't she just ...? It's not like #MeToo solved anything is it? It was a cathartic moment but sexual violence and coercion and abuse continue unabated.

Sandy Peggie and the Darlington Nurses should not have had to disclose details of their previous abuse in order for their basic rights to be upheld. Peggie and Maria Kelly should not have had to describe the lurid details of their perimenopausal symptoms.

I find it so offensive that women are expected to do this over and over again when the law is on our side:

Allowing men into women only spaces violates our dignity and creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating and offensive environment for us, related to our sex.

It's unlawful. Why isn't that enough?

Absolutely Pencils.

And even when we finally discuss our trauma and abuse, it is dismissed as being ‘not significant enough’ for us to have single sex spaces that excludes all male people over the age of about 8 years old. Because it is just an anecdote and also not reported or recorded anywhere.

TheKeatingFive · 07/10/2025 20:51

PencilsInSpace · 07/10/2025 20:46

If studies/reviews don’t exist yet (I’m sure others with more expertise may know better than me) then online sharing of anecdotal experiences of women in those situations could also form important evidence. The #MeToo movement relied a lot on women sharing their experiences of sexual harassment and was extremely powerful- if similar anecdotal evidence existed for harms caused by trans women to women in female-only spaces, taking that as just one example of concern, and women can speak out or are speaking out about that en masse on social media, then it would certainly suggest a threat posed at a population level. (To be clear taking just one example, I personally think that transgender women should be housed separately in prisons, for various reasons, but I’m not convinced that there is the population-level threat that many suggest). Naturally I wouldn’t expect there to be the same volume of anecdotes as for #MeToo because of small numbers of trans women as a percentage of the population, but anecdotal evidence of any significance of scale would be useful to see.

No, women should not have to continuously show our wounds and scars and prove we're vulnerable in order to have our rights respected. We should not have to tell the world the most intimate details of what has happened to us, for our accounts to be picked apart and judged - was it really that serious? Is she just making a fuss? Why didn't she just ...? It's not like #MeToo solved anything is it? It was a cathartic moment but sexual violence and coercion and abuse continue unabated.

Sandy Peggie and the Darlington Nurses should not have had to disclose details of their previous abuse in order for their basic rights to be upheld. Peggie and Maria Kelly should not have had to describe the lurid details of their perimenopausal symptoms.

I find it so offensive that women are expected to do this over and over again when the law is on our side:

Allowing men into women only spaces violates our dignity and creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating and offensive environment for us, related to our sex.

It's unlawful. Why isn't that enough?

Exactly.

Men need to keep out of women's spaces because they aren't men's to access. Men have their own spaces.

End of discussion

PencilsInSpace · 07/10/2025 20:46

UnintentionalArcher · 07/10/2025 11:01

Thanks very much for responding to me - much appreciated. It’s great to be able to engage in sensible discussion with thoughtful people about this.

That first link isn’t working (I’m getting a website not found message). The second one takes me to a website with screenshots of lots of tweets containing abusive/unpleasant language and slurs about so-called ‘TERFs’ (a divisive term which I really dislike). Can you please tell me if those are posts predominantly from trans women themselves, mainly from other people who for some reason think it’s ok to speak abusively to people who they disagree with, or from a mixture? I can’t see the sources specified anywhere on the website but it would be important to be clear on that before making any further comment. If these posts are significantly coming from trans women without similarly nasty provocation from the ‘other side’ then there’s clearly an issue to be dealt with and (edited to add) could be considered to constitute a secondary threat (either way content like this should be policed and dealt with). Can you please confirm if you’re able to?

What you’ve posted is absolutely alarming. It looks like what I would call ‘secondary content’ - i.e. content where abuse and slurs link to those engaged in the discourse itself, rather than content documenting the experiences of women who’ve been harmed by trans women in situations of concern like those raised by Rowling around female-only spaces. This type of content exemplifies one of my original points about how the inflammatory discourse around this has detracted from and damaged sensible, proportionate discussion like you and I are trying to engage in here.

What I was originally asking about was larger-scale evidence about the threat that some say trans women pose to women in those primary circumstances described by Rowling.
If you have any links to studies or reviews about the threat that trans women as a population pose to women, please can you post? If studies/reviews don’t exist yet (I’m sure others with more expertise may know better than me) then online sharing of anecdotal experiences of women in those situations could also form important evidence. The #MeToo movement relied a lot on women sharing their experiences of sexual harassment and was extremely powerful- if similar anecdotal evidence existed for harms caused by trans women to women in female-only spaces, taking that as just one example of concern, and women can speak out or are speaking out about that en masse on social media, then it would certainly suggest a threat posed at a population level. (To be clear taking just one example, I personally think that transgender women should be housed separately in prisons, for various reasons, but I’m not convinced that there is the population-level threat that many suggest). Naturally I wouldn’t expect there to be the same volume of anecdotes as for #MeToo because of small numbers of trans women as a percentage of the population, but anecdotal evidence of any significance of scale would be useful to see.

I will say that I’m going into hospital today for a period, so will endeavour to check back at in the future to have a look at anything you share, but won’t be able to read anything you post quickly.

All the best.

Edited

If studies/reviews don’t exist yet (I’m sure others with more expertise may know better than me) then online sharing of anecdotal experiences of women in those situations could also form important evidence. The #MeToo movement relied a lot on women sharing their experiences of sexual harassment and was extremely powerful- if similar anecdotal evidence existed for harms caused by trans women to women in female-only spaces, taking that as just one example of concern, and women can speak out or are speaking out about that en masse on social media, then it would certainly suggest a threat posed at a population level. (To be clear taking just one example, I personally think that transgender women should be housed separately in prisons, for various reasons, but I’m not convinced that there is the population-level threat that many suggest). Naturally I wouldn’t expect there to be the same volume of anecdotes as for #MeToo because of small numbers of trans women as a percentage of the population, but anecdotal evidence of any significance of scale would be useful to see.

No, women should not have to continuously show our wounds and scars and prove we're vulnerable in order to have our rights respected. We should not have to tell the world the most intimate details of what has happened to us, for our accounts to be picked apart and judged - was it really that serious? Is she just making a fuss? Why didn't she just ...? It's not like #MeToo solved anything is it? It was a cathartic moment but sexual violence and coercion and abuse continue unabated.

Sandy Peggie and the Darlington Nurses should not have had to disclose details of their previous abuse in order for their basic rights to be upheld. Peggie and Maria Kelly should not have had to describe the lurid details of their perimenopausal symptoms.

I find it so offensive that women are expected to do this over and over again when the law is on our side:

Allowing men into women only spaces violates our dignity and creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating and offensive environment for us, related to our sex.

It's unlawful. Why isn't that enough?

eatfigs · 07/10/2025 18:10

Howseitgoin · 07/10/2025 00:38

"In my book I demonstrate that mainstream transactivism is not a grassroots movement, but a top-down one. One part of the evidence is that rich individuals and foundations make large donations to campaign groups that, among other things, lobby to erase biological sex from law and to enshrine gender identity in its place. Some of that money is tied to campaigns for gender self-ID. I discuss the ACLU, HRC and Stonewall in most detail, but there are many others. And I give a sense of the funding that comes from rich individuals by discussing three examples: George Soros via the Open Societies Foundation; Jennifer Pritzker via the Tawani Foundation; and Jon Stryker via the Arcus Foundation.
This is in no sense “dark money”, and I don’t say it is. The information is readily available because all such American foundations and charities are legally required to publish details of where they get their money and what they spend it on. I found the information on their websites. This makes a nonsense of Bilek’s claim that I plagiarised her: that these foundations donate heavily to campaign groups that press for gender self-ID is publicly available information, and she and I are not the only ones to have pointed it out.
I didn’t deliberately select three Jewish donors; it never occurred to me to think about their religions. Two of the three, it turns out, are indeed Jewish, though that is not something I mention in my book because it is utterly irrelevant. Judging by the tenor of conversation on Twitter, Jon Stryker may or may not be Jewish: his religion appears not to be a matter of public record. I have not sought to ascertain it, because—again—I think it’s irrelevant. I also think it’s interesting that the people accusing me of antisemitic dog-whistles are speculating about someone’s religion, when I did not even speculate about it."

'I just happen to only mention jewish donors one of which just happened to be the far right's go to man for 'white great replacement theory'…

George Soros really?🤥

Please. That you believe this is any sort of adequate rebuttal or 'coincidence' is only another example of GC denial of reality.

Did you even read what you quoted?

I didn’t deliberately select three Jewish donors; it never occurred to me to think about their religions. Two of the three, it turns out, are indeed Jewish, though that is not something I mention in my book because it is utterly irrelevant.

FortheloveofPetethePlumber · 07/10/2025 18:06

Helleofabore · 07/10/2025 14:42

Here is the Brighton WPUK

Plus a meeting in Grenache where Labour Party women had met to discuss what the priorities were as far as they were concerned for the Labour Party. The protestors let off smoke bombs! In Grenache! After the horrific Grenache tower fire! Apparently, women in the Labour Party should not be meeting to discuss their needs.

https://x.com/AjaTheEmpress/status/1237140747289272325

Incidentally Aja has the video somewhere on her social media, taken the day she and other women supported a lesbian meeting happening in London. As it was an actual lesbian only meeting that did not include men with gender identities, there was of course a large group of activists outside behaving as expected. The police watched the screaming and shouting and abusive messages without intervening. Aja recieved if I remember at least one if not two racially abusive messages, I seem to remember 'monkey' was involved, from activists present which she had evidence of on her phone. Actual hate crime never mind 'I felt offended' crime, and Aja would have at least 3 protected characteristics involved.

The police shrugged. She has this on film.

Helleofabore · 07/10/2025 17:18

Waitwhat23 · 07/10/2025 12:04

This is helpful also -

It is helpful.

I have been abused by male people with transgender identities at an event, and I was concerned by the prospect of potentially using the toilet with one of my abusers. I cannot imagine what women and children who are being subjected to domestic abuse or have been attacked by a male person feel if they have any chance of encountering them in any female single sex space because that male person feels they can righteously use that space and no one can say otherwise.

Waitwhat23 · 07/10/2025 16:53

https://womansplaceuk.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/A-record-of-the-meetings-organised-by-WPUK.pdf

https://www.edinburghlive.co.uk/news/edinburgh-news/furious-edinburgh-local-screams-witch-21487432.amp (hint, the screamer was not a woman)

The balaclava-d melts at women's rallies, the piss protests outside the EHRC, the spitting in faces and kettling attempts at no less than 3 attempts to screen a film at UoE, the 'decapitate terfs' signs endorsed by Scotland's elected representatives, the shrugs from Police Scotland as a single wanker was allowed to drown out women with his sound system set at a decibel level which actually damaged women's hearing, screaming fascist into a baby's face, repent mother fucker tambourine bullshite,

...etc etc etc

And there's no equivalent. Despite the desperate attempts to 'both sides' the whole thing.

Furious local screams ‘witch’ at 'gender reform' protesters in Edinburgh

It is understood that the counter-protester was shouting ‘witch’ at a group who had met outside the Scottish Parliament to object to the GRA (Gender Recognition Act) reform.

https://www.edinburghlive.co.uk/news/edinburgh-news/furious-edinburgh-local-screams-witch-21487432.amp

Helleofabore · 07/10/2025 15:51

So, if male people with transgender identities have been intimidating women on-line and at women's events, and there are MoJ statistics that show that male people with transgender identities are being convicted for sex offences at rates that do not come anywhere near being the same or at rates lower than female people in the UK, why do we need to prove that male people, ALL male people, should be kept out of female single sex spaces.

Particularly since we also know that even with testosterone suppressed for any length of time, that even the weakest male strength and power remains higher than the highest decile of female strength. We have the performance studies that we can link up and shows this.

Gellman did a calculation of the % of the estimated transgender population of UK being in prison for sex offences, that Howseitgoin posted last month.

-start quote-

"According to Google, the UK’s adult population is 54 million, give or take some change. The best estimates of the trans population is just under 1%, with a more or less 50/50 split between genetic males and genetic females (I use these terms here to disambiguate the necessity to divide the adult population in half for the purpose of estimating trans vs cis population).

That makes around 270,000 trans women in the UK. I’m not going to consider trans kids here because…. that’s just creepy to even think about.

So we have 129 trans women out of 270,000 in prison. That’s 0.047% of the entire trans woman population in prison… at all.

76 are there for sex offences, so that’s 0.028% of the entire trans woman population in prison for sex offences.

Now let’s check that against the cis figures:

3812 cis women equals 0.014% of all cis women. 125 is 0.0005% of all cis women in prison for sex offences.

78781 cis men equals 0.2% of all cis men. 13234 is 0.049% of all cis men in prison for sex offences."

-end quote-

This was based on very generous estimate of how many male people with transgender identities were in the UK at the time, of course.

This above was supposed to convince us that because of the very tiny numbers of male people with transgender identities, that it is disproportionate to continue to treat them like other male people in the UK.

However, these figures do not show that male people with a transgender identity have the same risk profile or lower than female people in the UK.

Let's compare 0.028% male people with transgender identities vs 0.0005% of female people in the UK.

The figures for sex offences for male people with transgender identities is proportionately higher in the last release of MoJ transgender prison statistics. The % of the male people with transgender identities with sex offences that are in the UK prisons is very disproportionate to male prison population and for the female prison population. I will let you look up the latest figures from the MoJ.

It would be safeguarding failure to change policies based on figures like this.

It is not a valid statement to say that male people with transgender identities do not pose a risk to female people in the UK. It is valid to say that they pose greater risk to female people than other female people in the UK. It is probably valid to say that they pose as much a risk to female people as the rest of general male population of the UK.

Can you tell us @UnintentionalArcher what more information do women need to produce to show that a group of male people with transgender identities have not lost their risk of causing female people harm with the aim that we can exclude them from all female single sex spaces?

Keeping in mind that narrowing the discussion to sex and violence offences does not remove these other harms mentioned upthread from consideration for single sex spaces.

We can get more. Plus if you need the punch power and grip strength figures of male people with suppressed testosterone that show just how more powerful a male person is compared to most female people, just ask. We have that.

Helleofabore · 07/10/2025 14:42

Here is the Brighton WPUK

Plus a meeting in Grenache where Labour Party women had met to discuss what the priorities were as far as they were concerned for the Labour Party. The protestors let off smoke bombs! In Grenache! After the horrific Grenache tower fire! Apparently, women in the Labour Party should not be meeting to discuss their needs.

https://x.com/AjaTheEmpress/status/1237140747289272325

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Helleofabore · 07/10/2025 14:06

Protest coverage. This is a very small selection, every month there are multiple women's events that are protested in similar ways.

https://sex-matters.org/about-us/what-we-are-up-against/transactivist-violence-a-timeline/

The list:

sex-matters.org/about-us/what-we-are-up-against/intimidation-threats-and-violence-by-trans-rights-activists/

Sex Matters has compiled a list and there might be some cross over with the following but I have added these as well:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4772051-film-of-protest-outside-the-lesbian-project-meeting

This is describing the Filia feminist conferences in Portsmouth and the header has a picture of the sign. Later today (or others might find it) I will track down images of other signage on the day. There were young male people with transgender identities yelling 'suck my dick' during an outdoor part of the conference where rape victims were speaking to the women and remembering those women and girls who had died due to VAWAG if I remember correctly.

https://unherd.com/newsroom/the-misogyny-of-trans-activists/

Here is a female activist screaming in a baby's face in Brighton. Not a transgender person, but a woman, Carly May Kavanagh, who at the time was working for the MP (Russell Moyle) of the area.

Sarah Baker

Now. @UnintentionalArcher Would you like to know how many protests supporting transgender people get interrupted or counter protested by feminists? I don't know of any in the UK at all. Maybe someone will post incidents that will prove my understanding to be incorrect. I would welcome the correction. But there is no symmetry here.

The misogyny of trans activists

To the annual FiLiA conference in Portsmouth. A 1,000-strong gathering of women of all ages and viewpoints, united by a desire and commitment to ending male violence, oppression and domination of women and girls. Everyone there is interested in dipping...

https://unherd.com/newsroom/the-misogyny-of-trans-activists/

Helleofabore · 07/10/2025 13:41

Helleofabore · 06/10/2025 06:12

As far as large data sets being required for proof of safety or not, how many records need to be collected for an accurate review.

How about this. There is a growing bank of reported incidents. There are only some

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/3348290-It-will-never-happen-resource-thread?latest=0

There is also https://reduxx.info and a site that MN blocks which is “trans crimes Uk dot com” (all one word)

There are UK prisoner statistics broken down into sex offences, there are Canadian, NZ and some USA state statistics. All showing similar patterns. That male people with transgender identities do not commit sex offences at the same rates or lower than the female prisoner population in that country.

What more data and incident repeats are needed by those declaring there is not enough to say there is an issue and we should maintain strong safeguarding where male people are excluded no matter how they identify?

There are also already reports too of female people coming face to face with their male abuser / assaulter in what they expected to be female only spaces. This includes girls. Those female people are being told they have to accept these male people in the spaces they are vulnerable in, dismissed by others.

Even if it is not their abuser specifically, seeing any male person in that space may distress them.

And for those who claim to not be able to reliably identify the correct sex of a human using body cues that cannot be changed, please don’t assume your experience is the universal experience. It is not. For every single male person who ‘transitions’ in real life and with interaction (even if that interaction is limited to observation of movement) there will be atleast one girl or woman who will correctly identify that person’s sex.

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@UnintentionalArcher

Perhaps you missed this post?

Reduxx has been excellent in reporting issues. “trans crimes Uk dot com” (all one word) is UK specific.

The UK has released UK transgender prisoner statistics that break down the transgender UK prisoner numbers into sex and into whether those prisoners have sex offences to their record. Someone posted some that were submitted as part of a submission to parliament up the page here but more recent numbers are out there and easy enough to find.

Here is a response for a FOI request to the NZ prison authority.

https://fyi.org.nz/request/10726/response/38463/attach/html/2/C110191%20Response.pdf.html

Similar findings in Canada

https://torontosun.com/news/national/study-finds-nearly-45-of-trans-women-inmates-convicted-of-sex-crimes

There was a review done for the Wisconsin transgender prisoners too that show very similar trends.

The results are looking similar around the globe.

The comparator for making a general safeguarding policy is not whether that sub group of male people have a lower risk of committing harm to female people compared to other UK male people. It is whether that sub group of male people have the same or lower risk of committing harm to female people as the general female UK population.

There is no evidence at all that that group of male people in the UK with transgender identities have any lower risk profile of committing sex offences than UK male people in general. None at all.

There doesn’t need to be any ‘large’ data collection done to prove there are issues either. Because the ‘harm’ is not only about reportable physical harm. There will be a large amount of harm that will never be reported and only partly because women and girls don’t bother reporting crimes where they are the victim to any authority.

However, safety is but one aspect of the safeguarding needs for female people. There are numerous harms.

Harms include:

-Rape and sexual assault.

-Violence.

-Sexual abuse that is not rape or sexual assault.

-Sexual abuse that also includes solo sexual acts or using the experience in future sexual acts.

-Any other abuse that may include verbal abuse, intimidation in any way etc.

-A male person's presence where female people need privacy and dignity.

-A male person's presence where female people need to feel safe from any male person's presence (over the age of about 8 years old).

-Female people self-excluding knowing that there may be a male person accessing that provision.

Narrowing the discussion to sex and violence offences does not remove these other harms from consideration for single sex spaces.

The point is, why should any female person be subject to higher risk of any of these harms just to allow a group of male people with a philosophical belief about their identity that doesn't reflect material reality access?

It also comes down to asking this question.

How many additional women and girls being attacked or harmed in anyway in female single sex spaces are acceptable to you before we can expect to exclude ALL male people above the age of 8 years old?

We have been given answers such as ‘35’ and ‘over 100 each year’. If you are someone who has dismissed excluding male people because you haven’t seen enough proof that including male people in female spaces is causing harm, what is your number?

My number is zero! And in the UK, we are already well and truly past this.

C110191 Response.pdf

https://fyi.org.nz/request/10726/response/38463/attach/html/2/C110191%20Response.pdf.html

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