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Babies with no biological mother - breakthrough for male same-sex couples, or further erasure of women?

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usernamealreadytaken · 01/10/2025 10:34

I just read what I think is a very scary article regarding the process of mitomeiosis, where skin cells can be used to create an "egg" which can be fertilised by sperm. The skin can come from a man or woman, which enables the person to have a genetic relationship to a baby, where they have no egg. I can totally see the benefits for women who have no eggs, or are infertile due to medical issues such as cancer treatment, but am I the only one who fears this is just another way for male same-sex couples to have children, and the only need for a woman in the process will be to carry the pregnancy?
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/09/30/babies-could-be-born-without-mothers/#:~:text=Babies%20could%20be%20born%20without%20a%20biological%20mother%20after%20scientists,sex%20cell%20ready%20for%20fertilisation.

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https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/09/30/babies-could-be-born-without-mothers#:~:text=Babies%20could%20be%20born%20without%20a%20biological%20mother%20after%20scientists,sex%20cell%20ready%20for%20fertilisation.

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Whereismyjoiedevivre · 03/12/2025 14:09

PumpkinSeasonOctober · 01/10/2025 10:38

It’s barbaric to mess with creating human life like this.

Agree wholeheartedly

Notmymarmosets · 03/12/2025 14:05

But soon they won't need human women to incubate babies. Sorry but this is the truth and lots of women (not me) would welcome this.

EmmyFr · 03/12/2025 13:51

A woman who "carries the baby" IS a biological mother. Duh.

crumpetswithcheeze · 03/12/2025 13:03

Because…..

Pharma is controlled, food is controlled and more so with loss of farmland and farming, water is controlled. In the future it will be easy to provide mass contraception, and then only the chosen ones will procreate. Sounds far fetched, but it’s where we’re heading, and most can’t see it.

WallaceinAnderland · 03/12/2025 12:55

FlirtsWithRhinos · 03/12/2025 08:00

You said "surrogate biological mother" though. A surrogate mother is not the woman who provides the egg, it's the woman who carries the child.

A surrogate mother can also be the biological mother. This sometimes happens when a woman donates her eggs to another woman (often a sister or close friend/relative) and also carries the child to full gestation for her.

Wrongsaidfredd · 03/12/2025 12:50

I think things like this are terrible. Inevitably such a thing would take multiple attempts to perfect meaning a real live person has to live with the potential imperfections of such an experiment.

There are real children in care who could be adopted

FranticFrankie · 03/12/2025 12:45

Brave New World eh? Ffs

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 03/12/2025 12:31

Carla786 · 02/12/2025 18:38

I agree...on formula,,it's good it's there and women shouldn't feel not breastfeeding is the end of the world. But breastmilk is still very important if it can be used.

The hubristic part was running advertising campaigns to tell millions of women that formula was better than breast milk and pushing it in the third world. If they’d created formula but it had remained something that was only used when breastfeeding wasn’t working, it wouldn’t have been hubristic, it would have been addressing a medical need.

Dominoodles · 03/12/2025 11:42

My thoughts are that it is always questionable to create a child, have it carried inside a woman for months, then separate the two. Of course there are situations where this has to be the case, but back when we were doing all our studying for adoption there was so much about the trauma placed on children separated from their birth mothers. They've spent their entire existence hearing her voice, her heartbeat, and it can be harmful to remove them unless absolutely necessary. This is why I'm also kinda on the fence about surrogacy. It's more about the adults wants than the what's best for the child.

moto748e · 03/12/2025 11:30

Wow, what a world indeed.

RovingPublicEnquiry · 03/12/2025 10:08

usernamealreadytaken · 01/10/2025 10:49

I did have a quick Google but can't find anything about that - I thought the sperm was essential which was why they created an egg. Not seen anything about creating a "sperm".

They are definitely looking into making sperm from skin cells as well as eggs. The technology is not exactly the same as that used in the study that generated these latest articles, though, which was about putting genetic material into a donated egg that had had its genetic material removed. In the articles I've read that mention sperm, they are talking about creating stem cells from skin cells and then coaxing those stem cells into becoming eggs or sperm.

What I find really interesting is that while most headlines seem to focus on the advances in creating eggs, I remember reading one article that mentioned how much easier it is to create sperm, they are just a bag of DNA after all, way less complicated. So theoretically, they may perfect the technology to create sperm much sooner, meaning women could soon be able to easily reproduce without men. Just need a quick skin swab from your bestie, a couple of trips to the corner lab, and a turkey baster (or if you're fancy, artificial insemination in a doctor's office 😜). And all our offspring would be girls, because we only have X chromosomes in our cells. All-female colony anyone? Would we miss men? Only kidding. Sort of. 😁

What's actually terrifying, and I've never seen it addressed in any article I've read on this subject, is the door this could open for people to steal other people's gametes and have their babies without them knowing. Taylor Swift fan? All you'd need to do is find an old coffee cup she threw away and you could have her baby! This would apply to men too, because you'd be able to make sperm from a dude's skin cells just as easily. Famous people are going to have to worry about a lot more than the paparazzi if this technology becomes commonplace. We all are. We're used to our gametes being rather difficult to access, giving us full control over who we let near them. But when every cell on our body can be turned into a gamete, that control goes away completely. Scary world we live in.

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 08:40

ShrankLastWinter · 03/12/2025 08:23

Redefining ‘biological mother’ to mean only genetic mother, for example an egg donator, is erasing mothers.

A woman who uses an egg donator but gestates the child herself and raises it is the child’s mother. Not genetic mother, but mother in every other and more important sense, and certainly ‘biologically’.

A woman who uses an egg donator but gestates the child herself and raises it is the child’s mother.

I'm pretty sure, in the UK, legally as well, including if the pregnancy is part of a surrogacy arrangement.

Meadowfinch · 03/12/2025 08:31

Why would you force a child to never have a mother.

That's not parenting, it's quite the opposite. It's just selfish and cruel.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 03/12/2025 08:29

Good point. Perhaps we should start talking about "genetic mother" and "gestational mother" to keep the women who play these roles visible as reproduction becomes more industrialised. Otherwise the fact that real human women are still required by the "machine" may be glossed over and devalued.

ShrankLastWinter · 03/12/2025 08:23

Redefining ‘biological mother’ to mean only genetic mother, for example an egg donator, is erasing mothers.

A woman who uses an egg donator but gestates the child herself and raises it is the child’s mother. Not genetic mother, but mother in every other and more important sense, and certainly ‘biologically’.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 03/12/2025 08:00

WallaceinAnderland · 02/12/2025 22:58

There will have to be a biological mother. We are nowhere near being able to gestate a foetus in anything other than a living woman's womb.

Yes but they still wouldn't necessarily be the biological mother.

The biological mother would be the woman that supplied the egg regardless of who carries the embryo to full gestation.

If there is no egg at all, then there is no biological mother at all.

You said "surrogate biological mother" though. A surrogate mother is not the woman who provides the egg, it's the woman who carries the child.

WallaceinAnderland · 02/12/2025 22:58

There will have to be a biological mother. We are nowhere near being able to gestate a foetus in anything other than a living woman's womb.

Yes but they still wouldn't necessarily be the biological mother.

The biological mother would be the woman that supplied the egg regardless of who carries the embryo to full gestation.

If there is no egg at all, then there is no biological mother at all.

Boiledbeetle · 02/12/2025 21:58

FlirtsWithRhinos · 02/12/2025 21:39

There will have to be a biological mother. We are nowhere near being able to gestate a foetus in anything other than a living woman's womb.

Kickstarting the bundle of cells is the relatively easy bit. You still ain't going to get from that to a baby without a woman.

However, you can bet every coin in your bank account that when that baby is born, the headlines are all about the amazng breakthrough of the bundle of cells, while the vital and irreplaceable role played by a woman to achieve anything that could be considered a success is just taken for granted.

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I did see something the other day about growing lambs in plastic bags of some sort of fluid, but was too icked out by it to register where I read it. I couldn't get my head round it so didn't read to the end and couldn't find it again to see if it segwayed into humans.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 02/12/2025 21:39

WallaceinAnderland · 02/12/2025 18:42

The mothers and fathers will be the people who raise the child. If there is genuinely no biological mother I see no problem with being raised by two fathers.

The only time I have a problem is when there is a surrogate biological mother completely out of the picture. I think the child then misses out on that relationship.

There will have to be a biological mother. We are nowhere near being able to gestate a foetus in anything other than a living woman's womb.

Kickstarting the bundle of cells is the relatively easy bit. You still ain't going to get from that to a baby without a woman.

However, you can bet every coin in your bank account that when that baby is born, the headlines are all about the amazng breakthrough of the bundle of cells, while the vital and irreplaceable role played by a woman to achieve anything that could be considered a success is just taken for granted.

WallaceinAnderland · 02/12/2025 18:42

The mothers and fathers will be the people who raise the child. If there is genuinely no biological mother I see no problem with being raised by two fathers.

The only time I have a problem is when there is a surrogate biological mother completely out of the picture. I think the child then misses out on that relationship.

Carla786 · 02/12/2025 18:38

MumoftwoNC · 02/10/2025 16:54

The problem is that humans have so far have a pretty poor track record at synthetically reproducing nature

This is it. Zealous scientists keep thinking they've replicated something exactly and then decades later find they didn't even know what they didn't know.

For example, when formula was invented, mothers were told it was better than breastmilk. But then they are still finding out all the time, subtle ways that breastmilk has useful stuff in it we didn't even know was there, and can't replicate.

Not least because breastmilk from one mother changes everyday, based on temperature, infection, even mood.

Another example is honey. There's all sorts of interesting compounds in honey that we haven't sequenced yet. And again honeybees will put different stuff in it depending on the weather or local threats etc.

If they can't make formula to be exactly the same as breastmilk, what hope have they of making artificial amniotic fluid that's exactly the same? Especially as it changes daily, based on other stuff going on?

It's hubris, thinking you can replicate this kind of thing. It's not Medicine like a hip replacement or a hearing aid. It's actual new life.

I agree...on formula,,it's good it's there and women shouldn't feel not breastfeeding is the end of the world. But breastmilk is still very important if it can be used.

Carla786 · 02/12/2025 18:37

Gruffporcupine · 02/10/2025 16:12

It's one thing a baby not having a mother due to bad circumstances, but to actually set out to deprive a baby of their mother, by design, feels evil to me. In general, no one will ever love you like your mother loves you.

I agree with your unease: but isn't this a bit hard on fathers? Do you really think they generally don't love their kids as much?

Carla786 · 02/12/2025 18:35

CompleteGinasaur · 02/10/2025 18:03

I might be getting this wrong, but one of the things that irritated me most about the reporting, regardless of the ethical questions involved, was the way the reporter kept referring to this as a game changing miracle for "same sex couples". The last time I looked at least half of those same sex couples were female, and until they can make an egg into sperm surely this technique can't be utilised for lesbian couples? Am I missing something or is this just the usual erasure of half of the human race?

They're also working on IVG for lesbian couples to do the same.

Carla786 · 02/12/2025 18:34

usernamealreadytaken · 01/10/2025 10:34

I just read what I think is a very scary article regarding the process of mitomeiosis, where skin cells can be used to create an "egg" which can be fertilised by sperm. The skin can come from a man or woman, which enables the person to have a genetic relationship to a baby, where they have no egg. I can totally see the benefits for women who have no eggs, or are infertile due to medical issues such as cancer treatment, but am I the only one who fears this is just another way for male same-sex couples to have children, and the only need for a woman in the process will be to carry the pregnancy?
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/09/30/babies-could-be-born-without-mothers/#:~:text=Babies%20could%20be%20born%20without%20a%20biological%20mother%20after%20scientists,sex%20cell%20ready%20for%20fertilisation.

What do you think about IVG for lesbian couples? They're also working on that

CompleteGinasaur · 02/10/2025 18:03

I might be getting this wrong, but one of the things that irritated me most about the reporting, regardless of the ethical questions involved, was the way the reporter kept referring to this as a game changing miracle for "same sex couples". The last time I looked at least half of those same sex couples were female, and until they can make an egg into sperm surely this technique can't be utilised for lesbian couples? Am I missing something or is this just the usual erasure of half of the human race?