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Radio 1 DJ and noted jurist Greg James has given his verdict

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UninformedOfficer · 29/09/2025 19:30

I bought Greg James’ new book, hoping for some entertaining fluff along similar lines to his likeable breakfast show persona. In a chapter on ‘not growing up’ he is talking about accepting new ideas and then - of course - weighs in on the FWS Supreme Court decision.

“It’s a backwards step and another reminder that we all have to try and understand the world as it changes”.

I honestly can’t believe he thought it was worth wasting the paper to print this. Is it too much to ask that people who don’t have the slightest bit of understanding about something could just shut up about it?

Radio 1 DJ and noted jurist Greg James has given his verdict
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Deeprug · 05/10/2025 05:34

As I said upthread, I really had a thing for Greg, but this week, seeing him on everything doing promotion, I've got the ick too. I'm really sad about this. So preachy and arrogant.

nauticant · 04/10/2025 22:20

I've now got the ick.

This is me. I only know him from his Rewinder programme on Radio 4 but from here on in if he comes on the radio I'll think "oh, it's that posh bloke who attacks those who hold view he doesn't view as being correct".

SinnerBoy · 04/10/2025 21:58

National Treasure? I'd never heard of him before this thread.

LittleGreenDuck · 04/10/2025 21:34

I knew someone would post about this. I bought his book because I've really enjoyed listening to him on the radio. He comes across as a really down to earth, genuinely nice chap and engages really well with his listeners.

I've now got the ick. What a load of self important navel gazing waffle, with an additional dumping of patronising lecturing. I haven't even finished it yet, but I read the part about the SC judgment and rolled my eyes so hard they nearly fell out of my head. The next chapter mentions female wrestlers and the change in the way they compete in last few decades. The inability to join the dots is baffling.

He's referred to himself as a National Treasure about four times in what I've read so far. I can't work out if he's being serious. I don't know, maybe he should stick to what he's good at. The rambling nonsense which works on the radio just doesn't translate to the written word.

To be fair, I followed his wife on Instagram for a while and she expressed similar views. I expected better from him, but should have guessed 😢

singthing · 04/10/2025 21:06

I was reading a library book recently where it had a line primly acknowledging how their historical use of "LGBT" was "outdated" and of course they knew the right one was "LGBTQIA+"

I neatly crossed the nonsense parts out and returned the book without reading further.

Not to mention that (a) LGBT should just be LGB; plus (b) their self-congratulatory little comment is also outdated now as well, if they are going by the ever-changing alphabetti-spaghetti lingo. Bigots.

Marieb19 · 04/10/2025 20:55

UninformedOfficer · 29/09/2025 19:47

Also, later: "People with amazing careers who in some cases have changed popular culture and garnered hundreds of millions of fans around the world with the things they've created get called out once for something they've done or said and instead of apologising or asking themselves some probing questions, they decide it's the hill they're willing to die on."

I couldn't possibly imagine who he might be thinking of here 🙄

I think this person (love JKR) has asked herself some probing questions and the answer has been that she would rather speak the truth and stand up for vulnerable women, rather than seek the approval of half witted cowardly celebrities with zero talent or intelligence.

Marieb19 · 03/10/2025 16:03

Don't you just love being lectured by a man who has nothing to lose? He will never lose a sporting title because someone with an unfair advantage cheats, he won't know the fear of having a man in a dress follow you into a changing room or the indignity of sharing a hospital ward or prison cell with a potentially violent or fetishist man. Men have not suffered the indignity of having their langauge cancelled, e.g the NHS erasing the word woman and referring to us as a set of gynaecological parts, people with a cervix, people who menstruate.

Yawhat · 02/10/2025 17:20

Freysimo · 01/10/2025 06:46

I think his opinion is probably written into BBC contracts.

Or likely the Beeb screens for affable dumbos to carry out their bidding, and old Greg's DJ booth is suffering from a fair bit of echoing feedback.

Whatisthisdamnednonsense · 02/10/2025 10:24

MermaidUnicorn · 30/09/2025 19:02

He went to school with Monroe Bergdorf and they are friends so I assume that's where he gets his options from. His wife is similarly captured.

Saves me buying her books then - thank you for the heads up.

Her dad used to be editor of the Guarniad. Hmm interesting…

DrAmanitaPhalloides · 01/10/2025 08:15

Greg absolutely loves Gregggg Wallace.

I had to to stop following his wife on Instagram cos she was always wanging on the same. Her first book was a hard read but got through it. The second was even more boring and couldn't get past first few chapters. What's the deal with everyone thinking they need to write a book. Think you're a woman then you are a woman apparently. Think you're a writer then you are a writer apparently.

BellissimoGecko · 01/10/2025 07:28

‘You’re whoever the hell you know yourself to be.’ Facile, vacuous sound bite. Stupid, thoughtless prick with no thought for women or women’s rights.

Freysimo · 01/10/2025 06:46

I think his opinion is probably written into BBC contracts.

WarriorN · 01/10/2025 06:41

RedToothBrush · 30/09/2025 17:34

Greg James is 39.

He's desperate to prove he's not ready to be pensioned off from R1 and put out to pasture at R2.

He's trying to prove how down with the kids he is.

Trouble is Gen Alpha think this is so Gen Z.

From what I’ve learnt a fair few of the older DJs are sex realist

vernon

the Irish bloke with dark hair (interviewed Jo Phoenix, I think radio 5)

Dozer · 30/09/2025 22:16

Bored of these men being paid to print or broadcast their opinions about this and whatever else.

EyesOpening · 30/09/2025 22:13

MermaidUnicorn · 30/09/2025 19:02

He went to school with Monroe Bergdorf and they are friends so I assume that's where he gets his options from. His wife is similarly captured.

I didn't know that either!

SidewaysOtter · 30/09/2025 21:57

Well, as a woman, can I just take this opportunity to say how glad I am that a man has opined on the matter of feminism and that which pertains to women's rights. Thank goodness!

UninformedOfficer · 30/09/2025 19:35

"Silence is often the preferred option when one does not know what they are talking about, or is doubtful, or conflicted."

🙌Thank you - that's exactly it @Sidekicksimone

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UninformedOfficer · 30/09/2025 19:33

MermaidUnicorn · 30/09/2025 19:02

He went to school with Monroe Bergdorf and they are friends so I assume that's where he gets his options from. His wife is similarly captured.

I did not know this - but that makes perfect sense.

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ohyesido · 30/09/2025 19:29

Anyone with a name like Greg should not be given a publishing deal

Sidekicksimone · 30/09/2025 19:26

Nick Cave’s Red Hand Files today had a useful piece of advice that could have been written specifically for the terminally halfwitted Greg James:

“I am disturbed on a fundamental level by the self-serving, toddler politics of some of my counterparts - I do not believe that silence is violence, complicity, or a lack of courage, but rather that silence is often the preferred option when one does not know what they are talking about, or is doubtful, or conflicted - which, for me, is most of the time. I am mainly at ease with not knowing and find this a spiritually and creatively dynamic position. I believe that there are times when it is almost a sacred duty to shut the fuck up.”

CornflakeGirlsClub · 30/09/2025 19:08

I can’t stand him and his ilk of over-promoted Radio 1 bros, anyway…not at all surprised at his comments or that he knows nothing and cares not a jot about women’s rights.

MermaidUnicorn · 30/09/2025 19:02

He went to school with Monroe Bergdorf and they are friends so I assume that's where he gets his options from. His wife is similarly captured.

Yawhat · 30/09/2025 18:25

Always thought he was a posh blowhard.

UninformedOfficer · 30/09/2025 18:22

Whatisthisdamnednonsense · 30/09/2025 06:16

I’m waaaay too old to listen to Radio 1 any more and so have never heard of this extremely erudite individual but the very fact that he’s used the F word to sound down with the kidz means he’s not worth listening to.

Can you take the book back and get a refund???

Instead of refund I was thinking of damages for loss of enjoyment (of his show), and maybe a nice letter of apology to the SC Justices.

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BettyBooper · 30/09/2025 17:57

'what the fuck does that even meeeeeeeean?'

🤣🤣🤣

What a dummy.

How to show you're as thick as mince in your very own words in your very own book. 😂