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Violent threats to GC women and why they're important

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MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 03:42

I'm at uni & try and raise GC issues quietly with people likely to respond. Recently, I've been trying to explain to a male acquaintance how serious the abuse is that GC women have been through.

I showed him the website 'TERF is a slur' and similar. He thought it was vile & is GC himself, however he didn't seem to fully understand how serious that kind of stuff is. He argued that there are all kinds of antisocial weirdos online who throw vile threats around & that also a lot of trolls say exaggeratedly horrible stuff just to get a reaction, and that both types are rarely dangerous IRL.

He also argued that male public figures get trolled as much as women but that it's presented as more of a threat when it happens to women. He argued that men often banter via insults etc & male-heavy online spaces like gaming are full of violent/abusive messages, so male figures are more likely to shrug off trolling & perhaps report less.

Frankly this sounded manosphere-y almost to me though I didn' say it. I don't think women' fear of trolling is bc of thin skins- women face tangible harm irl from men, esp outspoken women.

I want to challenge this, and I think it's important to raise awareness more widely. What evidence do we have that the online abuse is not just weird trolls but has affected the public sphere?

I know there was the horrible murder at Michfest. Then physical threats to Posie Parker in Oz at rallies. What other instances of TRA violence spilling over into real life are there?

Obvs the recent terrible shootings in America are evidence of trans ideology & people related to it having radicalising effects. But I'm thinking more of instances in UK & involving GC women who've spoken out.

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WearyLady · 28/09/2025 07:28

2-3 women are killed each week by men in the UK. There’s a reason why women need to take male threats of violence seriously.

Datun · 28/09/2025 06:52

UnmarketableTomato · 28/09/2025 06:38

What about the use of the police against women like Helen Joyce and Caroline Farrow? What about the women who have lost their jobs? What about the employment tribunals?

It's this. Yes there have always weirdos who send threats to people but when their ideology is being backed up by every institution, the police, academia and the government, it's a different kettle of fish altogether.

TRAs are weaponising the police, universities, and the courts with impunity.

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 06:47

UnmarketableTomato · 28/09/2025 06:38

What about the use of the police against women like Helen Joyce and Caroline Farrow? What about the women who have lost their jobs? What about the employment tribunals?

These are all key. I was focusing on violent threats though specifically. There's some very scary stuff on Sex Matters, several threats which police luckily neutralised in time..

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UnmarketableTomato · 28/09/2025 06:38

What about the use of the police against women like Helen Joyce and Caroline Farrow? What about the women who have lost their jobs? What about the employment tribunals?