student university toilets

im a former mature student and still visit the campus fairly regularly, there are no mixed toilets in Cottrell, I can’t speak of pathfoot as it’s been a couple of months since I’ve been in there and maybe things have changed. But Cottrell is entirely single sex, if she’s seeing urinals she’s in the men’s toilets , the maze map will help her but I also described earlier where her nearest ones would be coming into Cottrell.
the gender neutral toilets in the INTO building are full cubicles all contained onto a corridor and I would assume that is the same for pathfoot gender neutral ones but they do still have single sex too, I’m just not aware of what the mixed ones look like in pathfoot.

Is there anyone who has current, in person knowledge of Stirling campus that can clarify the situation rather than posters"helpfully" Googling, which the OP (who has now been hounded off her own thread) could, and possibly did, have done for herself?

I know of at least one institution where toilets in one building were re-furbed/re-configured over the summer (to fully enclosed single occupancy) and they probably aren't the only one. Info on the 'net may not be up-to-date.

Sounds like bollocks to me. All the university unisex toilets I know are individual lockable units.

Please don’t.

Just use the disabled loos. Job done.

And again. You haven’t read what I wrote.

the reasons women want single sex spaces are never moot.

Yes it is moot when you have said they don't exist when they do. Probably for whatever reasons you want them!

They are never moot.

how dare you.

The reasons that someone might want a single sex spaces are moot when they have one and actually the OP did state that her daughter said that the men were essentially flashing her at the urinals. So in this case, perfectly apt.

Yes. Hard agree.

You didn’t read what I wrote.

Oh wow, that must be the first site stuff thread that I ever inspired and I've been on MN for a good 20 years. I don't mind being named on it btw. I don't tell people to fuck off often, when I do I mean it and stand by it.

There are single sex toilets though as many other posters have proven.

Starting a thread mentioning another poster the way that Site stuff thread did is bullying.

She’s a hypocrite in my opinion. Look at some of her posts on this thread.

Nasty to a worried mother.

and nasty in tone.

and calls the daughter a “pathological liar” when she is complicit in the “pathological lie” that people can change sex.

Says it all really.

How many times do you need to be told that women being afraid of men in single sex spaces and wanting a single sex space - as is their legal right - is not about “men waving their dicks at you”?

Strange how LoftyRobin keeps complaining about lies but has no problem with the massive lie that men can become women. And we should all go along with this particular lie.

@cigarsmokingwoman
theres some strange people in this world, they all seem to love posting on this board. I would not concern yourself with them. As long as your daughter is ok, that’s all.
God knows I’ve contacted people upset about something and it turns out I didn’t need to be upset, there was a solution, or I misunderstood.
It was ok to post here, people were helpful I think.

You reported the post on here that you took exception to? When did you report it - before or after you started the thread on site stuff?

Not struggling as I didnt make anything up, did I? I didnt lie about what was said to me like the student lied about their only being mixed sex toilets, so what evidence would you have that I am.strugglimg? I reported something true. There is a difference between true allegations, and false statements. You understand that, right?

Are you struggling on MN @LoftyRobin - is that why you ran over to Site Stuff to try to embarrass posters on FWR by starting a ridiculous thread about application of talk guidelines, without actually following talk guidelines yourself - was it a cry for help?

Well as we established, there are plenty. It really sounds like she is struggling at uni and wants to come home and/or wait a while before joining university so said something that will make you run and grab her and take her home.

She is just frustrated at having to search for a truly female only toilet space.

Ifshe is seeing men in the toilets in Cottrell it’s because she’s in the male toilets (and that’s probably why they’re laughing) as there is no mixed ones in there. It’s only seperate women’s and men’s MazeMap will point them out to her, but as in my pp, there’s the ones on the right the minute she enters Cottrell from the bridge as well as many others.

I agree with @LoftyRobin you should dig into if she’s actually enjoying university, and if maybe it’s all a bit much for her especially as she’s young but also commuting in, it can be tough when you’re not making friends in halls etc. As maybe she’s hoping for an “out” to get out of going to campus.
If she’s nervous about toilets in general and is wanting empty women’s ones and is nervous something like 3rd floor or 4th floor cottrell women’s, which are always basically empty compared to ground.

She may be feeling uncomfortable and I am not shouting anyone down, I am typing. I have been told to fuck off by users who disagree so I'd say it isn't my temper that is flaring here. The fact that she feels uncomfortable but then resorted to a huge lie about her safety says a lot about her mindset and values. I dont think sugarcoating how problematic that is helps anyone.