Ffsake..unbelievable. porn related..

I can't even begin to understand these men. The older I get, the more I despair. The young ones who've been raised on this disgusting shit have no chance, and God help the girls of their generation.

Unfortunately for lots of addicts having pornography in the background becomes a form of regulation. A constant source of dopamine and suppressing any anxiety or stress. They become completely numb from the reality and see it no different to our people might have say this morning on in the background as they make breakfast/clean the kitchen. It's no longer even about masturbation it's become necessary for daily life to function.

Unfortunately it doesn't surprise me and I think if people understood the true number of men and it is absolutely mostly men watching pornography in this way ,at work and daily. It's really a silent epidemic if feels not many are aware of.

I know many success stories too it's not all doom and gloom but it can be difficult to navigate where to find the right help. Society is so keen to keep this view of pornography being "normal"

WTAF?! I hope he feels like absolute shit for the rest of his life. What a fucking disgrace. It's a three hour journey, you're being paid to do it. You can listen to all your favourite tunes, a podcast, put on the radio, but no that's not enough. The absolute dregs of humanity right there. He should be banned from driving for life, he chose this. If you're driving a long distance in an HGV and not looking at the road it is pretty much inevitable you will kill someone.

And yes, what the fuck is wrong with these men?

JFC
Why do they even think of doing this in the first place. They have their own bedroom where they can do whatever they like.

No I've told OPs that I think their partner has been an arse when they are asking for advice if they are being unreasonable or not.

Do you know if they said anything else that would mean it was sexual? I only ask as lorry drivers are well known to take bottles to pee in (and then chuck them out of their cab windows) 🤮

@Anchorage56 every time I see your username it's always in defence of mens shitty behaviour. I'm guessing you're either a man yourself or one of those women that try and justify mens behaviour no matter how awful. You seem like you'd be happier on Reddit imo

Where did I say that? You are getting awfully worked up.

Right now iI’m here to watch the person arguing that men’s poor behaviour is inevitable and must be tolerated, and wondering if it’s down to lack of intellectual ability to see a potentially different world, or something else

I simply suggested to the OP that if she knows it's only some men who behave like this then she shouldnt say why are men fucking animals. As for why they are, who knows?

Ah right so we have a poster who presumably believes that we shouldn't mention that men (not all men tm) behave badly in different situations, lorry cabs and waiting areas mentioned in the thread. I'm guessing that as we don't have the definitive answer for how to make these men behave better, we shouldn't draw attention to their bad behaviour. Perhaps it's women's fault these men behave badly????? Full Chador anyone?

Because the heading interested me. Are you just here for a moan?

Some men are awful and we should never speculate about why or about what could be done about it?

you are posting on a feminist board because..?

We all know some men are awful. What are we going to do about it? Go on tour around lorry firms reminding them not to look at their phones whilst driving.

Thank you Germane Greer for that incisive feminist analysis. Truly your presence here adds value

Ah, we’re NAMALTing I see. And how astonishing that it’s this particular poster

truly, the worst thing about men’s bad behaviour is that it makes men look bad, innit?

Who knows. Why are there so many arseholes in the world, why do bad people exist.

Well then you need to change that statement to- why are some men such fucking animals

I walked into my GP's waiting room to find a lone man gazing at his phone and legs wide open, patting his crotch. He looked at me shiftily then eyes back to the phone and continued - a pat every few seconds. My eyes weren't on him but I could see him peripherally. I had long enough to think WTF when two men entered the room and he put the phone away. So oh yes, it certainly can be an addiction!

Name changed for this.
I live in a ski resort.
The local lift company had issues with the drivers of their piste bashers who were watching porn and wanking while grooming the pistes at night or not even needing the porn and just getting off on the vibrations.
It came to light when someone crashed one. Also their was "evidence" in some of the cabs of the activities which hadn't been cleaned up properly.

Sadly I think people doing this sort of thing while driving vehicles happens a lot more often than you would think.

Well age verification websites will sort this problem out and prevent it from happening again...

Obviously.

Graham Linehan has spoken about his porn addiction, which he managed to overcome and he's now doing fantastic work for the safety of women and girls.

It is something that men can move on from and put behind them with help.