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Shon Faye - 'well, it's over' - a brief eulogy for the "trans rights" movement.

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CassOle · 19/09/2025 20:37

https://shonfaye.substack.com/p/well-its-over

Shon does not understand why the 'trans rights' movement got pushback.

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Datun · 24/09/2025 17:49

viques · 24/09/2025 16:53

“ we are about to become significantly less employable as a class, especially transwomen”

Oh the irony. Welcome to the Wonderful World of Women’s Work Inequality.

At least you won’t be missing out on pension build up due to taking time out to rear children, but if you want to be a woman at work watch out for being the invisible woman in the meeting, having your previously ignored ideas re spoken by men, being the one who has to stand firm about being asked to organise the room, order the coffee, arrange for the distribution of minutes etc. And watch out for the old chestnut of unequal pay - these day disguised as poorer promotion prospects . Hang on to that male entitlement dear, you are going to need it!

Haha, so true!

And I wouldn't mind, but if they hadn't made themselves so fricking obnoxious in the first place no-one would be turning a hair.

Their lack of prospects is fuck all to do with being trans, and everything to do with being tossers.

viques · 24/09/2025 16:53

“ we are about to become significantly less employable as a class, especially transwomen”

Oh the irony. Welcome to the Wonderful World of Women’s Work Inequality.

At least you won’t be missing out on pension build up due to taking time out to rear children, but if you want to be a woman at work watch out for being the invisible woman in the meeting, having your previously ignored ideas re spoken by men, being the one who has to stand firm about being asked to organise the room, order the coffee, arrange for the distribution of minutes etc. And watch out for the old chestnut of unequal pay - these day disguised as poorer promotion prospects . Hang on to that male entitlement dear, you are going to need it!

Helleofabore · 24/09/2025 12:08

MinervaBoudicca · 24/09/2025 01:48

'The middle-class trans micro-economy that boomed in the 2010s: Pride month corporate sponsorship, jobs at LGBT charities, DEI talks and panels, diversity modelling and ad campaigns, progressive theatre, educational books about being trans etc, which some of us used to make a living, has gone'

That's quite an admission of a zeitgeist shift

Isn't it just.

ThatBlackCat · 24/09/2025 05:06

BundleBoogie · 23/09/2025 21:12

I think he's right to be worried about this. It's about to swing way too far in the other direction. Being unemployable and actively discriminated against in society is not a good place to be.

Judging by the behaviour of so many people claiming a trans identity that we come across, they would help their employability by being less disruptive, narcissistic and demanding and start to understand that other people exist in society .

I’m sure it would do them the world of good as well.

Yes, exactly. I admit I myself would not hire a transperson - or at least a transwoman (more than likely I would a trans man), as it's too great a risk that they would sue or cause so much trouble. For example, I would never allow a transwoman to use female toilets or join a female group at work, nor would I respect their mis-sexed pronouns. That would make their daily work life untenable for them. But I simply don't care, I would not cater to them. It's too risky and dangerous to hire them, and they've made it so. They've done themselves out of employment by their narcissistic, batshit demands. Any unemployment or discrimination they face they have 100% entirely brought it on themselves.

MinervaBoudicca · 24/09/2025 01:48

Helleofabore · 19/09/2025 20:51

Here is an archive link

archive.is/iYbzX

'The middle-class trans micro-economy that boomed in the 2010s: Pride month corporate sponsorship, jobs at LGBT charities, DEI talks and panels, diversity modelling and ad campaigns, progressive theatre, educational books about being trans etc, which some of us used to make a living, has gone'

That's quite an admission of a zeitgeist shift

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 24/09/2025 00:15

WimbledonWhites · 20/09/2025 17:20

Has anyone read Shon’s book? I found those few paragraphs genuinely hard to read - is the book any better?

it’s either escorting or the diversity and inclusion panel

Never thought I’d say this but in this instance at least the escorting would be honest work.

I found it largely forgettable. He did a reasonable job of explaining how terribly terribly difficult a trans life is, what with everyone being against you, but this was overshadowed by his naive political take. The abolition of prisons is all very nice for a certain type of person well represented in student politics, but he fails to grapple with the reality of such a policy. Immature and unwilling to think through the consequences on society of his proposals.

BundleBoogie · 23/09/2025 21:12

I think he's right to be worried about this. It's about to swing way too far in the other direction. Being unemployable and actively discriminated against in society is not a good place to be.

Judging by the behaviour of so many people claiming a trans identity that we come across, they would help their employability by being less disruptive, narcissistic and demanding and start to understand that other people exist in society .

I’m sure it would do them the world of good as well.

CassOle · 23/09/2025 19:58

Daleksatemyshed · 23/09/2025 17:40

@GallantKumquat you post makes a lot of sense to me, especially that the whole point of advocacy is to make yourself unnecessary. Stonewall made this mistake, gay rights had been moved forward but they couldn't bring themselves to stop, they took on trans rights to try and stay relevant, now even the trans community is turning their backs on them. Good manners is knowing when to say enough and leave

If Stonewall had turned its campaign towards countries where homosexuality was illegal, it could have done some good and taken on a task that it is hard to see an end to currently.

Taking on the T instead was a huge missed opportunity IMO.

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finallygettingit · 23/09/2025 19:19

WimbledonWhites · 23/09/2025 12:52

I think you might be confusing Shon Faye with Paris Lees.

ah yes you may be right

Daleksatemyshed · 23/09/2025 17:40

@GallantKumquat you post makes a lot of sense to me, especially that the whole point of advocacy is to make yourself unnecessary. Stonewall made this mistake, gay rights had been moved forward but they couldn't bring themselves to stop, they took on trans rights to try and stay relevant, now even the trans community is turning their backs on them. Good manners is knowing when to say enough and leave

RayonSunrise · 23/09/2025 17:35

GallantKumquat · 23/09/2025 17:15

Setting aside that Faye's personality makes him uniquely unsympathetic, his whinging illustrates a deeper problem in advocacy generally - the purpose of most advocacy - and this is certainly the case for trans advocacy - is to make yourself redundant, i.e. to create a society that is so equitable for your cause that your services are no longer necessary. So, Faye's level of employment in trans advocacy should be of no concern because it could be correlated with an improvement or deterioration of the trans situation generally.

But this doesn't even occur to Faye. Instead advocacy is a divine right and its necessity must be accepted a priori. This amounts to moral hazard: the advocate benefits from being both ineffective and from choosing causes that really aren't problems to begin with or from exaggerating their plight. And while Faye's extreme level of narcissistic self-regard is unusual, this is a flaw in sits at the heart of the criticism of the quango state: these organizations benefit by making problems worse and thereby self-perpetuating.

This is not to say that all not-for-profits behave this way, and certainly not all people who work in the sector. But it's an obvious risk that remains unaddressed and trans advocacy in particular lays it bare. There seem to be no institutional tools to address it and no way to discuss it frankly without being accused of being on the side of defunding them and abolishing them, i.e. Reform. (adding that I'm not advocating for or against Reform, the entire political spectrum should view this as a problem, the left even more so than the right)

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Or you get involved in the hard graft side of non profits, like supporting disabled people or helping people find their feet after leaving prison. The “hearts and minds” type should have an end point when acceptance is achieved.

GallantKumquat · 23/09/2025 17:15

Setting aside that Faye's personality makes him uniquely unsympathetic, his whinging illustrates a deeper problem in advocacy generally - the purpose of most advocacy - and this is certainly the case for trans advocacy - is to make yourself redundant, i.e. to create a society that is so equitable for your cause that your services are no longer necessary. So, Faye's level of employment in trans advocacy should be of no concern because it could be correlated with an improvement or deterioration of the trans situation generally.

But this doesn't even occur to Faye. Instead advocacy is a divine right and its necessity must be accepted a priori. This amounts to moral hazard: the advocate benefits from being both ineffective and from choosing causes that really aren't problems to begin with or from exaggerating their plight. And while Faye's extreme level of narcissistic self-regard is unusual, this is a flaw in sits at the heart of the criticism of the quango state: these organizations benefit by making problems worse and thereby self-perpetuating.

This is not to say that all not-for-profits behave this way, and certainly not all people who work in the sector. But it's an obvious risk that remains unaddressed and trans advocacy in particular lays it bare. There seem to be no institutional tools to address it and no way to discuss it frankly without being accused of being on the side of defunding them and abolishing them, i.e. Reform. (adding that I'm not advocating for or against Reform, the entire political spectrum should view this as a problem, the left even more so than the right)

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/09/2025 16:10

miraxxx · 20/09/2025 10:23

I don't think this is the end for the trans movement just the end of its runaway success and the beginning of a pushback. There are enough people still deeply invested in the movement to keep it rolling for a decade or two.

Yes, there is still a long way to go before the craze exhausts itself......but rolling a boulder uphill is hard work; one that that fewer and fewer will have the endurance or motivation for.

Shortshriftandlethal · 23/09/2025 16:04

Skipthisbit · 19/09/2025 23:37

Christ ….. you do realise that “it’s over” because we are all tittering on the fucking edge of right wing fascism taking over - we are a couple of years behind the US. The same people who have pushed back the trans movement will now happily strip women of our rights, bodily autonomy and want us back in the bloody kitchen serving them.
no - not celebrating at all

We're not a "couple of years behind" in Britain, we're years ahead and leading the way when it comes to pushing back against the trans agenda. The U.S is still shit deep in it all.

Merrymouse · 23/09/2025 14:28

eatfigs · 19/09/2025 21:23

I do think that, in the UK context, the all-encompassing focus on the Gender Recognition Act reform from 2017 to 2020 was a grave mistake.

I think he can now see clearly where it all started to go downhill for his activist movement. He and many other men like him were taken by surprise at the tenacity and determination and wisdom and collaboration of so many women to oppose this. Much of it based here on Mumsnet of course!

In the UK, we – transsexuals - are about to become significantly less employable as a class. Especially trans women. The segregation law and reduced access to medical care have rendered us ‘undesirables’ and this will affect how we make money to survive.

I think he's right to be worried about this. It's about to swing way too far in the other direction. Being unemployable and actively discriminated against in society is not a good place to be.

The 'segregation law' just means that he is treated the same as everybody else in, and I think 'reduced access to medical care' just means that treatment in the UK is evidence based.

How does that make him unemployable?

WimbledonWhites · 23/09/2025 12:52

finallygettingit · 23/09/2025 10:25

you'd hope so wouldn't you but his own story (and the screen version) says otherwise
remember all the stories from the Tavistock about parents wanting to 'trans away the gay'
or Susie Green's poor son
the law is one thing but bigotry still exists

I think you might be confusing Shon Faye with Paris Lees.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 23/09/2025 11:20

Skipthisbit · 19/09/2025 23:37

Christ ….. you do realise that “it’s over” because we are all tittering on the fucking edge of right wing fascism taking over - we are a couple of years behind the US. The same people who have pushed back the trans movement will now happily strip women of our rights, bodily autonomy and want us back in the bloody kitchen serving them.
no - not celebrating at all

The kitchen is a great place to be, now that we have machines to do most of the drudgery. I spend more time in there than DW as she doesn't enjoy cooking as much as I do.

finallygettingit · 23/09/2025 10:25

you'd hope so wouldn't you but his own story (and the screen version) says otherwise
remember all the stories from the Tavistock about parents wanting to 'trans away the gay'
or Susie Green's poor son
the law is one thing but bigotry still exists

Beowulfa · 23/09/2025 10:20

There's surely never been a time in the history of the human race (in this country at least) when a flamboyant, feminine man can express his personality so freely, marry his boyfriend and have legal protection from discrimination. Like the 80s but with modern equality law.

finallygettingit · 23/09/2025 10:10

I actually wonder if his next move will be his 'journey to reality and acceptance' sold in memoir form with accompanying interviews, articles, appearances etc
Like a kind of peaking but with additional layers of guilt, regret, remorse. I do actually feel sorry for these people. Or rather, I feel very sorry for the boy he was.

RuttleTuttle · 23/09/2025 09:32

Skipthisbit · 19/09/2025 23:37

Christ ….. you do realise that “it’s over” because we are all tittering on the fucking edge of right wing fascism taking over - we are a couple of years behind the US. The same people who have pushed back the trans movement will now happily strip women of our rights, bodily autonomy and want us back in the bloody kitchen serving them.
no - not celebrating at all

How dare you. How dare you belittle and forget the enormous effort and emotional (and financial) expense that women in the UK have made for years now to stand up for their own rights, in the face of being cancelled, being threatened, losing their jobs - while men like Faye told us to "enjoy ur erasure" and Stonewall captured huge organisations with their fake law?

Don't even try to lump us in with what's happening in the US, or to play in to the TRAs' "they're a load of far right Christo fascists" schtick. Just fuck off with that.

As for Shon - sad times. Time to actually work for a living. But nice try at dragging all the everyday transes down with you.

ArabellaSaurus · 23/09/2025 08:19

RayonSunrise · 23/09/2025 08:17

Too late Shon. Who would have imagined, ten years ago when lesbians and lefty women tried raising their concerns about where the dogmatic TWAW position would logically end up and you told them to enjoy their erasure, that it might all go wrong for you?

Well, we did. And we were quite willing to work with you way back then on finding compromises that would have put transactivism in a stronger and more stable position in mainstream society, but you were too busy telling us to fuck off to see it.

FAFO, indeed.

As I said, he's just a bitter, two-bit bully. Enjoyed sneering at women to make up for his own inadequacies.

RayonSunrise · 23/09/2025 08:17

Too late Shon. Who would have imagined, ten years ago when lesbians and lefty women tried raising their concerns about where the dogmatic TWAW position would logically end up and you told them to enjoy their erasure, that it might all go wrong for you?

Well, we did. And we were quite willing to work with you way back then on finding compromises that would have put transactivism in a stronger and more stable position in mainstream society, but you were too busy telling us to fuck off to see it.

FAFO, indeed.

SinnerBoy · 22/09/2025 22:19

This may not be the thread, but I can't find the recent one about "what happened to the transvestites "? Has anyone watched After Life?

Me and my daughter watched the last episode of series 2 tonight, where they interview the 50 year old man who "identifies" as an 8 year old girl. Daughter is a TWAW and she was slack jawed in horror.

Penny the photographer had a soliloquy about, "They're all transgender now, what happened to the transvestites, the blokes who dressed up as birds, but didn't say they were actually women?

She didn't make any of the usual comments, I'm really hoping that she's ambling slowly up to the peak.

Im not going to show her any Sham Fake stuff yet.