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Defiant nuns flee care home for their abandoned convent in the Alps

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IwantToRetire · 13/09/2025 19:15

Three Austrian nuns in their 80s have run away from the retirement home where they were placed and gone back to their former convent.

Sister Bernadette, 88, Sister Regina, 86, and Sister Rita, 82, are the last three nuns at the Kloster Goldenstein convent in Elsbethen, just outside Salzburg.

They regained access with the help of former students and a locksmith.

Church authorities are not happy - but the nuns are.

"I am so pleased to be home," Sister Rita said. "I was always homesick at the care home. I am so happy and thankful to be back."

The trio say they were taken out of the convent against their will in December 2023.

continues at https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8r2gk0vyo

The Nun's Liberation Movement !!

Three nuns stand in front of the monastery in their habits, with Sister Rita on the left and Sister Regina in the centre both wearing glasses

Defiant nuns flee Austrian care home for their abandoned convent in the Alps

Sisters Bernadette, Regina and Rita needed a locksmith to get back into their convent, defying Church leaders.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8r2gk0vyo

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LaundryGarden · 15/09/2025 17:46

IwantToRetire · 15/09/2025 17:11

Well that's what the explanation I read said, but it seems to me the Nuns in this story were acting more like Sisters.

Or is the difference pupils coming to a convent to be educated, as opposed to a Sister going out to teach at a local school?

Well, they’re Augustinians. The Augustinians have teaching/nursing and contemplative foundations. I assume that if their convent was a former boarding school, they were teaching sisters, rather than contemplatives, and the media just didn’t grasp the difference.

IwantToRetire · 15/09/2025 17:11

NotAtMyAge · 15/09/2025 17:05

Historically nuns belong to contemplative orders and sisters to active ones.

Well that's what the explanation I read said, but it seems to me the Nuns in this story were acting more like Sisters.

Or is the difference pupils coming to a convent to be educated, as opposed to a Sister going out to teach at a local school?

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LaundryGarden · 15/09/2025 17:08

NotAtMyAge · 15/09/2025 17:05

Historically nuns belong to contemplative orders and sisters to active ones.

This. So the women in nursing and teaching orders are sisters, whereas Poor Clares are nuns.

NotAtMyAge · 15/09/2025 17:05

IwantToRetire · 15/09/2025 16:45

In reading up on this I have just learnt that there is a difference between Sisters and Nuns.

Who knew?

But not sure if this is true between the various Christians groupings, eg Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox and ..... ?

Historically nuns belong to contemplative orders and sisters to active ones.

NotAtMyAge · 15/09/2025 17:01

ForestAtTheSea · 15/09/2025 16:07

I found a statement by the relevant church higher-ups. There they address these rules that this specific group of nuns is connected to; that they cannot elect a new "Oberin" when there are fewer than five people and someone from another order takes over responsibility - but after discussions, not unilaterally.
It is explained that the care home is from the same spiritual order, so that they receive "spiritual" care, too. So both topics - practical and spiritual - would be addressed. But of course we don't know who speaks the truth, and how much is lost in the media.
I suspect behind the story which would make a movie is the typical conflict between "I am independent and way to young for a care home, plus I have my rights from the contract which says I can stay here" and "the independence is scaffolded by a lot of help and the building and medical situation is fragile".
I can understand both sides but for people who are mentally still very sharp, a care home must be excruciating.

I wish there were better options instead.

Would be interesting to know what they planned to do with the nun's quarters; someone who seemed to know the local situation said that most of the building is taken up by the school and boarding school quarters, which makes it unlikely someone will convert the whole thing into a spa or whatever.

German original:
https://www.ordensgemeinschaften.at/9586/stellungnahmen-zur-berichterstattung-ueber-die-goldensteiner-schwestern&ts=1757949325237

Automated translatation:
https://www-ordensgemeinschaften-at.translate.goog/9586/stellungnahmen-zur-berichterstattung-ueber-die-goldensteiner-schwestern&ts=1757949325237?_x_tr_sl=auto&_x_tr_tl=en&_x_tr_hl=en-US&_x_tr_pto=wapp

I've just had a look at these links and been reminded that Austria is a very Catholic country. For a country with a population not much over 9 million it has a LOT of monasteries and convents for both men and women and a good number of the communities concerned still wear the traditional habit, or close approximations of it. It means that the three escapee nuns are simply wearing what they have always worn since they entered their community so many years ago.

IwantToRetire · 15/09/2025 16:45

In reading up on this I have just learnt that there is a difference between Sisters and Nuns.

Who knew?

But not sure if this is true between the various Christians groupings, eg Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox and ..... ?

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IwantToRetire · 15/09/2025 16:44

but anyone who has had to deal with an elderly person who needs or will soon need specialised help, but isn't willing to go to where that is available, knows that it's not always as simple as "let them stay."

But that reflects the other side of the "problem".

Those who say it is much more efficient to have an institution devoted to this, as opposed to those (who probably have memories of when this was common in communities and families) that older people with whatever level of need were able to rely on local and family support.

So on one level those who should be having a critical look at is those who helped them return to their home, and to find out how committed they are to provide the framework that allows them to continue to live there.

So the escape is a one off rewarding event. But will there still be the same number of people, in the middle of the winter months?

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TempestTost · 15/09/2025 16:22

Toddlerteaplease · 15/09/2025 10:13

This is not going to end well. If they actually do need proper care. The adaptations they had previously have all been removed.
surprised that they weren’t moved to other convents rather than a care home, as people be usual practice in a situation where a convent closes, that bit makes no sense.

It may be they chose the home because it was closer to where they were already living in the community. Or because the care required was likely to become more specialised.

It's a very fun story on the surface, but anyone who has had to deal with an elderly person who needs or will soon need specialised help, but isn't willing to go to where that is available, knows that it's not always as simple as "let them stay."

ForestAtTheSea · 15/09/2025 16:07

Toddlerteaplease · 15/09/2025 10:13

This is not going to end well. If they actually do need proper care. The adaptations they had previously have all been removed.
surprised that they weren’t moved to other convents rather than a care home, as people be usual practice in a situation where a convent closes, that bit makes no sense.

I found a statement by the relevant church higher-ups. There they address these rules that this specific group of nuns is connected to; that they cannot elect a new "Oberin" when there are fewer than five people and someone from another order takes over responsibility - but after discussions, not unilaterally.
It is explained that the care home is from the same spiritual order, so that they receive "spiritual" care, too. So both topics - practical and spiritual - would be addressed. But of course we don't know who speaks the truth, and how much is lost in the media.
I suspect behind the story which would make a movie is the typical conflict between "I am independent and way to young for a care home, plus I have my rights from the contract which says I can stay here" and "the independence is scaffolded by a lot of help and the building and medical situation is fragile".
I can understand both sides but for people who are mentally still very sharp, a care home must be excruciating.

I wish there were better options instead.

Would be interesting to know what they planned to do with the nun's quarters; someone who seemed to know the local situation said that most of the building is taken up by the school and boarding school quarters, which makes it unlikely someone will convert the whole thing into a spa or whatever.

German original:
https://www.ordensgemeinschaften.at/9586/stellungnahmen-zur-berichterstattung-ueber-die-goldensteiner-schwestern&ts=1757949325237

Automated translatation:
https://www-ordensgemeinschaften-at.translate.goog/9586/stellungnahmen-zur-berichterstattung-ueber-die-goldensteiner-schwestern&ts=1757949325237?_x_tr_sl=auto&_x_tr_tl=en&_x_tr_hl=en-US&_x_tr_pto=wapp

LittleBitofBread · 15/09/2025 15:29

murasaki · 13/09/2025 23:39

Actually I might sub out Judi Dench for Stephanie Cole who played Diana in Waiting for God, she was a battleaxe.

DEFINITELY Stephanie Cole.
Atkins and Imrie are excellent choices for the other two.

LittleBitofBread · 15/09/2025 15:28

GlassofRosePorfavor · 13/09/2025 19:20

cant wait for the Netflix documentary 😂

I'm envisaging a drama rather than a doc.

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:23

Mischance · 13/09/2025 22:48

Yup ... I hold my hand up to that. A convent round here has built itself a huge posh building with fabulous views in lovely grounds and the nuns do nothing for the community ... just live off the vast riches of the catholic church. Nice work if you can get it .....

These nuns are Augustinians i.e. teachers, and their nunnery is still an active Augustinian school.

Toddlerteaplease · 15/09/2025 10:13

This is not going to end well. If they actually do need proper care. The adaptations they had previously have all been removed.
surprised that they weren’t moved to other convents rather than a care home, as people be usual practice in a situation where a convent closes, that bit makes no sense.

Shineonyoucrazy · 15/09/2025 09:59

@MumChpwell that’s their own decision really isn’t it?

Abhannmor · 15/09/2025 09:35

LaundryGarden · 13/09/2025 21:03

There’s always one.

Yes. No plum pudding for you. And say three Hail Marys. 🙏

crumpet · 15/09/2025 09:03

murasaki · 13/09/2025 23:39

Actually I might sub out Judi Dench for Stephanie Cole who played Diana in Waiting for God, she was a battleaxe.

Also Carolyn in Cabin Pressure who I adore!

IwantToRetire · 15/09/2025 00:33

I liked this bit in another article:

Provost Markus Grasl, who has been responsible for the women since 2022, reacted with irritation. He is worried about the women: "It is completely incomprehensible to me why the sisters have left the church-run retirement home ad hoc, as they are embedded in a community there and, above all, receive absolutely necessary, professional and good medical care."

Think I have now found their instagram account https://www.instagram.com/nonnen_goldenstein

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fnonnen_goldenstein%2F&is_from_rle

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ScrollingLeaves · 14/09/2025 23:15

Mischance · 13/09/2025 20:45

Well who is paying their electricity bill or their food bill? Anywhere else old women would be paying for their care and day to day expenses. I have no patience with nuns - they are just spongers.

Anything but.

ForestAtTheSea · 14/09/2025 23:08

I think I know now where their money is. If they live in a care home, their pensions might pay for it, plus assistance (either from the church or from the health insurance or the state), as usually care home costs are much higher than most pensions.
You would need to officially end that care home contract, which doesn't happen overnight, and then they could access their pension money afterwards. But I imagine the paperwork will take a while.

ScrollingLeaves · 14/09/2025 23:05

ForestAtTheSea · 14/09/2025 22:48

Austrian media has more information:
https://salzburg.orf.at/stories/3321288/

Main points:
They were in a catholic care home in a nearby town:
Seniorenresidenz Schloss Kahlsperg in Oberalm (Tennengau)

Now they have medical care through a GP who has her surgery at the same castle (I assume there are several buildings etc)
Food: deliveries through helpers, evening meal cooked by themselves, they used to have a kitchen which was removed in the meantime and which they want back

One nun needs oxygen, another is diabetic

Also removed since they moved out were additional toilets / shower rooms (why?), which they demand back, too.

They had 4 stairlifts in the buildings, which were all removed, and they demand them back, too.

I don't understand why you'd remove parts of rooms when the next use for the building isn't clear yet

There is a dispute about whether you can adapt their building or not; the bishop etc say you can't; but they insist you can and that they didn't refuse adaptation for their needs 3 years ago

Now the church higher-ups say they wouldn't invest any funds for adaptation anymore, all their needs would be taken care of at the care home.

When they moved, the monastery was transferred to an augustinian foundation, and the connected school to the arch diocese of Salzburg.

The previous agreement states that the nuns were allowed to stay as long as it was "justifiable" regarding their health situation. Two of the three were hospitalized before the care home, and then someone (?) made the decision that they couldn't stay there anymore. Possibly they moved everyone so that they could stay together, and realistically one person shouldn't live alone there.

They have a teacher's pension but currently can't access it.

It's a great story, and it is likely that the new owners have financial interests and don't want them living there anymore. If someone lived somewhere 60+ years, it surely is difficult to let that go. There is a danger of de-skilling in care homes, too, when they could do cooking and other tasks by themselves.

On the other hand, when their health varies and one will become more ill, then you will end up with the situation that only 1-2 persons might be left, while the other has to move back to the care home. This will break up their group, too. And the longer they wait with the move, the harder it will be to get used to the new surroundings.

Another aspect which might be important to to them being nuns, is that they are used to a much much calmer environment than a care home is, and that it just drives them crazy, and I can understand that as well.

I don't understand why you'd remove parts of rooms when the next use for the building isn't clear yet

To be able to keep the nuns out.

ScrollingLeaves · 14/09/2025 23:02

It was so nice to see how they were sitting down to eat with everything perfectly laid out - even a table cloth. They evidently still know how to live with simple disciplines.

How sweet they were wheeling along and helping each other. Recently I realised that nuns were in many ways not repressed, but on the contrary, free independent women often pursuing interesting activities.

ForestAtTheSea · 14/09/2025 22:48

Austrian media has more information:
https://salzburg.orf.at/stories/3321288/

Main points:
They were in a catholic care home in a nearby town:
Seniorenresidenz Schloss Kahlsperg in Oberalm (Tennengau)

Now they have medical care through a GP who has her surgery at the same castle (I assume there are several buildings etc)
Food: deliveries through helpers, evening meal cooked by themselves, they used to have a kitchen which was removed in the meantime and which they want back

One nun needs oxygen, another is diabetic

Also removed since they moved out were additional toilets / shower rooms (why?), which they demand back, too.

They had 4 stairlifts in the buildings, which were all removed, and they demand them back, too.

I don't understand why you'd remove parts of rooms when the next use for the building isn't clear yet

There is a dispute about whether you can adapt their building or not; the bishop etc say you can't; but they insist you can and that they didn't refuse adaptation for their needs 3 years ago

Now the church higher-ups say they wouldn't invest any funds for adaptation anymore, all their needs would be taken care of at the care home.

When they moved, the monastery was transferred to an augustinian foundation, and the connected school to the arch diocese of Salzburg.

The previous agreement states that the nuns were allowed to stay as long as it was "justifiable" regarding their health situation. Two of the three were hospitalized before the care home, and then someone (?) made the decision that they couldn't stay there anymore. Possibly they moved everyone so that they could stay together, and realistically one person shouldn't live alone there.

They have a teacher's pension but currently can't access it.

It's a great story, and it is likely that the new owners have financial interests and don't want them living there anymore. If someone lived somewhere 60+ years, it surely is difficult to let that go. There is a danger of de-skilling in care homes, too, when they could do cooking and other tasks by themselves.

On the other hand, when their health varies and one will become more ill, then you will end up with the situation that only 1-2 persons might be left, while the other has to move back to the care home. This will break up their group, too. And the longer they wait with the move, the harder it will be to get used to the new surroundings.

Another aspect which might be important to to them being nuns, is that they are used to a much much calmer environment than a care home is, and that it just drives them crazy, and I can understand that as well.

NotAtMyAge · 14/09/2025 19:19

MarieDeGournay · 13/09/2025 23:58

They look weird - most nuns haven't worn those old-style habits for decades, these days they tend to wear sensible skirts and cardis, and no veil.
Maybe these ones have broken out the old habits to look more photogenic...

It's interest to read posters saying they'd like to join them in their convent - becoming a nun was the only way out of compulsory marriage and annual childbirths for girls in Ireland in the past, and also the only way to get teacher training or a university education, which most families couldn't afford.

Obviously there were pretty serious downsides - chastity probably wasn't the worst of them for some nuns, given the alternatives on offer - but it was a choice which gave women a degree of protection, independence from men on a day-to-day basis, educational opportunities and a job.

In the fields of education and nursing, a lot of them did a good job. Obviously nuns are a mixed bunch, and there are negative stories, but many of us convent girls can remember teaching nuns who encouraged and inspired us.

As a previous poster said: underestimate nuns at your peril!

It's interesting that religious orders putting old nuns in retirement homes is unpopular here in Ireland for a different reason - the feeling is that the orders should be paying reparation to the residents of institutions instead of providing comfy homes for old nuns...

Yes, most orders have simplified their habits or adopted more modern clothing, but not all. Some more conservative orders have held onto their traditional habits, especially on the continent or in the US. Interestingly a few at least of these are actually growing and attracting younger entrants.

NotAtMyAge · 14/09/2025 19:11

Mischance · 13/09/2025 22:48

Yup ... I hold my hand up to that. A convent round here has built itself a huge posh building with fabulous views in lovely grounds and the nuns do nothing for the community ... just live off the vast riches of the catholic church. Nice work if you can get it .....

Where's that? Never-never-land? The nuns I've been fortunate enough to get to know in my now longish life live very simply and work hard, even in old age.

IwantToRetire · 14/09/2025 18:56

Abhannmor · 14/09/2025 09:00

Go sisters!

This reminds me of a similar case in Belgium years ago. The nuns were given eviction notice from their convent which was to be sold by the church. They took legal advice and found the property belonged to their order rather than the diocese. So they sold up and moved to sunny Spain together. They even bought a special ambulance to take one of the sisters who was too ill to fly. Nuns are badass.

Fantastic.

Part of what I like about both stories is that despite what might have been difficult times, or getting aggravated (in a quiet contemplative way), they seem to still like each other.

Or at least get on well enough to want to live together.

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