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Afghan women die after earthquake because male rescuers won't touch women

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TheodoreisntBeth · 07/09/2025 16:33

I just don't know what to say any more. Male rescue workers won't rescue women, and women aren't allowed to work as rescue workers. Women can just die trapped in rubble because misogyny.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2025/09/05/afghan-women-die-rubble-male-rescuers-refuse-touch-them/

<a class="break-all" href="https://archive.ph/2025.09.06-200903/www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2025/09/05/afghan-women-die-rubble-male-rescuers-refuse-touch-them" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://archive.ph/2025.09.06-200903/www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2025/09/05/afghan-women-die-rubble-male-rescuers-refuse-touch-them/

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MsGreying · 31/01/2026 13:33

A million threads wouldn't be too much. This is so awful.

How can we help?

ThisChirpyFox · 31/01/2026 03:08

Tontostitis · 07/09/2025 19:07

I've only seen this thread and wouldn't know about this I suggest @IwantToRetire that you might want to consider stopping policing threads.

Me too. Only say this thread otherwise I'd probably not have been aware of this. Thank you OP

floormops · 31/01/2026 02:50

dodobedo · 08/09/2025 13:48

yes it was horribly obvious that all the survivors were men and there were no women or children survivers seen.

Soon, there won't be any women left in Afghanistan and who will the men bully then?

The men already abuse, rape and bully young boys. Already discussed on MN.

viques · 08/09/2025 23:57

Grammarnut · 08/09/2025 23:41

Misogyny does appear to exist across the region - it is not necessarily a result of the religion, however, but of the cultures already existing that took on the religion.

“Does appear to exist” , here’s a thought, if you open your ears and eyes you will find that misogyny not only exists it is thriving. Heard about the one where Afghan women aren’t allowed to speak outside the home?

viques · 08/09/2025 23:53

Tontostitis · 07/09/2025 19:07

I've only seen this thread and wouldn't know about this I suggest @IwantToRetire that you might want to consider stopping policing threads.

I agree, I haven’t seen the other thread either and think this is an issue which should be highlighted and discussed. If we are only allowed to post one thread on each topic then it will be a very small message board.

Mustbethat · 08/09/2025 23:51

Grammarnut · 08/09/2025 23:44

I suppose the assumption is other women will help them - but if they are not medically trained then that's not much use. Women are not allowed to train as midwives in Afghanistan - one of the professions traditionally done by women. It's nuts. These men seem to think it is okay for women and babies to die in obstructed labour, of pre-eclampsia etc. I suspect, actually, they have not a clue about childbirth and think that the women can handle it themselves as they always have - and that deaths are normal. Again, nuts.

No, from what I read women were not allowed to join the rescue attempts.

Mustbethat · 08/09/2025 23:49

LeftieRightsHoarder · 07/09/2025 18:57

Similarly in Saudi Arabia, 2002, 15 girls died and about 50 more were injured in a fire at their school, when religious police forced them back into the flames because they weren’t wearing the compulsory long cloak and veil.

Police also assaulted people trying to rescue the girls, and forced them away.

Smaller-scale but still one woman’s needless death: a Saudi university student died of a heart attack after teachers refused to let male paramedics help her.

It’s not a country but a culture.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2002_Mecca_girls%27_school_fire

Apparently in the earthquakes many women went back into collapsing buildings for their hijabs.

makes me so angry all these people protesting asylum seekers. If there were a legal route out, do you really think they’d be risking the small boats? Ffs. I actually saw someone saying they should just get visas and get a plane if they were legal. Yep, because I’m sure applying to the taliban for a visa won’t get women killed.

InfoSecInTheCity · 08/09/2025 23:48

dodobedo · 08/09/2025 13:48

yes it was horribly obvious that all the survivors were men and there were no women or children survivers seen.

Soon, there won't be any women left in Afghanistan and who will the men bully then?

There will always be more women, women have no choice over who they marry, whether they procreate and marriageable age. Female babies will continue to be born and a new generation of slaves with no human rights will exist to service the mens wants. It is a truly depressing and horrific situation.

Grammarnut · 08/09/2025 23:44

inigomontoyahwillcox · 08/09/2025 14:39

So what happens in a medical emergency? I’m assuming that women are not allowed to be paramedics/EMTs, so women are just left to die if they have a stroke/heart attack/accident etc?

I suppose the assumption is other women will help them - but if they are not medically trained then that's not much use. Women are not allowed to train as midwives in Afghanistan - one of the professions traditionally done by women. It's nuts. These men seem to think it is okay for women and babies to die in obstructed labour, of pre-eclampsia etc. I suspect, actually, they have not a clue about childbirth and think that the women can handle it themselves as they always have - and that deaths are normal. Again, nuts.

Grammarnut · 08/09/2025 23:41

Summerhillsquare · 08/09/2025 13:40

Oh get stuffed, any opportunity to sneak in a bit of racism, even if women are centred.

Misogyny does appear to exist across the region - it is not necessarily a result of the religion, however, but of the cultures already existing that took on the religion.

inigomontoyahwillcox · 08/09/2025 14:39

So what happens in a medical emergency? I’m assuming that women are not allowed to be paramedics/EMTs, so women are just left to die if they have a stroke/heart attack/accident etc?

dodobedo · 08/09/2025 13:48

Gingefringe · 08/09/2025 08:10

I wondered this when I saw the news coverage as there were no women in sight. Yet they expect the international community to help and (probably) make donations. Those poor women

yes it was horribly obvious that all the survivors were men and there were no women or children survivers seen.

Soon, there won't be any women left in Afghanistan and who will the men bully then?

Summerhillsquare · 08/09/2025 13:40

PurpleChrayn · 07/09/2025 17:34

Because of the misogyny inherent in the religion and culture of the region - let’s not forget that.

Oh get stuffed, any opportunity to sneak in a bit of racism, even if women are centred.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 08/09/2025 09:14

Treaclewell · 08/09/2025 09:07

I think that all this fear of touch probably began as a protection of women, no unnecessary touching - as we know, men will violate women if not controlled - and has become something appallingly counter to that, that assistance cannot be offered. Or is it to protect men from contamination by some female lurgi?

I’d think it started as protection IF anything else in the society was beneficial to women. It isn’t, which suggests to me that men aren’t supposed to touch women because (a) the women belong to other men, owned like livestock, and/or (b) women are filthy and touching them risks contamination for the man.

Treaclewell · 08/09/2025 09:07

I think that all this fear of touch probably began as a protection of women, no unnecessary touching - as we know, men will violate women if not controlled - and has become something appallingly counter to that, that assistance cannot be offered. Or is it to protect men from contamination by some female lurgi?

BlackCoffeeAndSugar · 08/09/2025 08:11

Oh my God. That's just horrific. And all the other examples above. I really don't have words but also didn't want to not post to acknowledge.

Gingefringe · 08/09/2025 08:10

I wondered this when I saw the news coverage as there were no women in sight. Yet they expect the international community to help and (probably) make donations. Those poor women

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 08/09/2025 08:04

Thanks for posting this OP as I hadn’t seen another thread on this article.

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 08/09/2025 07:57

I read this with my jaw on the floor. I can’t comprehend the cruelty shown towards women in Afghanistan just because they’re women.

coxesorangepippin · 08/09/2025 02:30

Strange how the male Islamic leaders are not standing up saying this is wrong etc

How completely odd

Snowfalling · 07/09/2025 23:45

Tontostitis · 07/09/2025 19:07

I've only seen this thread and wouldn't know about this I suggest @IwantToRetire that you might want to consider stopping policing threads.

Exactly. I hadn't seen any other threads.

I remember the utterly shocking tragedy a few years ago of a young Muslim woman drowning in the sea because her own father wouldn't allow the male lifeguards to rescue her as it would involve touching her. Her own father!

Tontostitis · 07/09/2025 19:07

IwantToRetire · 07/09/2025 17:45

Hardly, if each thread is only getting half the information available it isn't that useful is it.

I've only seen this thread and wouldn't know about this I suggest @IwantToRetire that you might want to consider stopping policing threads.

NCembarassed · 07/09/2025 19:07

We know this (and other things) are happening to Afghani women, and yet Farage says he will return female refugees (https://news.sky.com/story/farage-confirms-he-wants-to-deport-women-back-to-taliban-in-afghanistan-13425996).

I will never, ever, vote Reform. Their rhetoric and lies are disgusting.

A few years ago my Eldest was on a course with a young female Afghan refugee in the UK. Her family had seen what was coming, and managed to leave (legally) to come to the UK. She was especially pleased it meant she could continue to study (and her parents will both hopefully be allowed to work in the UK). I know she is glad to be here, and horrified for those she had to leave behind. The family have a very strong community and work ethic, and will contribute to our society.

Onthebusses · 07/09/2025 19:04

AMillionTomorrows · 07/09/2025 17:38

Has any Muslim leader issued any sort of edict against the Taliban’s femicidal laws in the name of Islam? As this might be the only thing that persuades them to change without losing face.

Would that not get him a F4tw4h?

LeftieRightsHoarder · 07/09/2025 18:57

Similarly in Saudi Arabia, 2002, 15 girls died and about 50 more were injured in a fire at their school, when religious police forced them back into the flames because they weren’t wearing the compulsory long cloak and veil.

Police also assaulted people trying to rescue the girls, and forced them away.

Smaller-scale but still one woman’s needless death: a Saudi university student died of a heart attack after teachers refused to let male paramedics help her.

It’s not a country but a culture.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2002_Mecca_girls%27_school_fire

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