There seems to be some confusion out there over what constitutes being gender non conforming / deconstructing gender.
I thought a list might be a handy resource to direct posters to (those who are so keen to explain at length but less inclined to read the board first in order to understand what feminists think about gender or indeed anything).
So what are meaningful ways in which a man or woman can deconstruct gender or be gender non conforming sometimes?
And I mean real ways that actually have an impact beyond visual. Not length of hair. Not possession of moobs or mastectomy. Not choice of shoe.