What would you actually do if you saw a transperson in the wrong toilet/changing room for their sex? Thread 2

I complained about a TiM in the ladies changing room at my gym/pool - as did several other women. The sign on the door says no males over the age of 8. We were told it was company policy to allow TiMs to use the changing room that matched their gender so nothing could be done. I have not been to the Friday session where this person used to turn up since. I imagine the company have now changed their policy but have not checked.
Note, I did not confront the man - but by his actions he knew I disapproved of his presence.

I'm not responsible for other people's responses. I'm responsible for my own. I have shared bathrooms with trans women. I have no issue at all.

Interestingly most aren't answering about changing rooms.

I'd do nothing provided they were simply doing what bathrooms are intended for. If they were behaving in a creepy or inappropriate manner then that's different but if they were just going about their day then this personally wouldn't bother me.

I wouldn't confront a man/transwoman if I was alone with them in an enclosed space.

I guess I might report it to the staff.

I have transmen family and I hope that they still use the 'wrong' toilet. Ie the mens. As if I saw a trans man in the toilets I might think it was an actual man. So better that transmen use the mens, and trans women also use the mens.

They just need to increase the number of cubicles in the mens basically. And reduce the number of urinals. But I guess it's not that simple really.

I wouldn’t say or do anything. I wish I was the type of person who would, but sadly my complete lack of confidence in how right I am in certain situations has historically meant that I tend to put up with discomfort. I imagine this is true for a lot of women. I can’t even guarantee that I wouldn’t be pleasant and engage in conversation, if initiated by him, even though I would feel I was being ‘forced’ into it. I’m very good at getting annoyed from the comfort of my sofa, but in the real world my instinct is not to rock the boat. Whether that’s due to an innate desire to smooth things over to keep myself safe, or because I’m a ridiculous people pleaser, I don’t know. Probably a bit of both.

I’d leave quickly - I’ve been assaulted more than once in a quiet confined space. Plus I’m 5ft 1in and old with hip replacements.

So it's ok for women to feel uncomfortable because a man in a frock is in the ladies? But we mustn't make him feel uncomfortable? I can't believe you think that's ok.

If there were young girls in there I'd hang around for a bit, pretend to brush mybhair etc and make sure they left safely.

Nothing. Not an issue as far as I’m concerned.

Id ignore them and not engage as I refuse to be part of someones sexual fetish against my will. If it was a man being obviously leery, taking photos etc. I'd report it to staff and make sure they logged it as a reported incident and then I'd follow up with a tweet etc. If they were just quietly using the loo and washing their hands I'd ignore and do nothing.

Nothing because I wouldn’t want them to feel uncomfortable.

I don’t agree with trans women competing as women in sport though.

I’d ignore, I wouldn’t engage in anything that they might find validating like smiling or chatting but I also wouldn’t be hostile.