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Duolingo is trying to queer us again.

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PollyHutchen · 24/08/2025 13:35

Not content with describing JK Rowling as 'gemein' mean, Duoling's German course is busy normalising BDSM/kink to users of all ages. Here - image attached - we learn that single Dad Eddy has a leather suit and a whip in the cupboard. Duolingo encourages users to sign up via its family plan. But I wouldn't really fancy explaining this one to younger members of my own family.

Duolingo is trying to queer us again.
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kittykarate · 26/08/2025 15:47

It's called 'Quiero ser como tu' /' I want to be like you'

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 26/08/2025 13:31

Nothibg so exciting in Dutch.

AnSolas · 26/08/2025 11:07

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

👋
MN is glitching this morning😀

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

stayathomegardener · 26/08/2025 09:47

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

I can’t recall the name but it’s section 3 between roughly units 20-50.

AnSolas · 25/08/2025 22:12

BilbaoBaggage · 25/08/2025 20:42

Ich will so sein wie du

If you do the whole story, unless you are old enough to be familiar with the concept of BDSM already, you are not going to read it in a sexual context. This is adults putting their interpretation and spin on it. If a child already knows what 'lederanzug' and 'peitsch' means and that their can be a sexual context, that is because that child has already been exposed to something inappropriate, not because they read in Duolingo that their dad had them in his wardrobe.

This is basic grooming of a child.

The product is sold to be interactive with children

Normalising the idea that it is ok to have a conversation directly like that with child.

Can you explain how it would be acceptable for a German language teacher in a class room full of students to use the idea of a child finding items his parents use during sexual activities as a way to lean German?

Eg what age would the children need to be for it be acceptable?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/08/2025 20:53

PlanetJanette · 24/08/2025 17:56

It’s not minimising anything to ask the OP not to claim with zero basis that this has anything to do with ‘queering’ Duolingo.

You didn’t understand the context the OP was using “queering” in. Whether or not you personally agree that some people use it that way (they do), you completely got the wrong end of the stick.

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:49

BilbaoBaggage · 25/08/2025 20:42

Ich will so sein wie du

If you do the whole story, unless you are old enough to be familiar with the concept of BDSM already, you are not going to read it in a sexual context. This is adults putting their interpretation and spin on it. If a child already knows what 'lederanzug' and 'peitsch' means and that their can be a sexual context, that is because that child has already been exposed to something inappropriate, not because they read in Duolingo that their dad had them in his wardrobe.

I dont have that story so maybe I don't recognise it. Confused

BilbaoBaggage · 25/08/2025 20:42

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

Ich will so sein wie du

If you do the whole story, unless you are old enough to be familiar with the concept of BDSM already, you are not going to read it in a sexual context. This is adults putting their interpretation and spin on it. If a child already knows what 'lederanzug' and 'peitsch' means and that their can be a sexual context, that is because that child has already been exposed to something inappropriate, not because they read in Duolingo that their dad had them in his wardrobe.

AnSolas · 25/08/2025 20:31

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/08/2025 19:18

There is no age at which it is acceptable.

If I (an almost 40 year old woman) decided to take German classes and the teacher came out with stuff like this, I would find it deeply weird and inappropriate.

Agreed to a point.
( in theory the company could sell a specific product for pickup lines or dating in other languages or understanding porn etc. etc.)

But the point in question if a product sold to children, a direct conversational learning of language tool where active participation is needed is the same as a movie which has examined by the State for aged rating and which is designed as passive entertainmentt activity.

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 25/08/2025 20:24

stayathomegardener · 25/08/2025 19:32

Duolingo has the same story in the French version Hmm
I found Jumpspeak was was better App anyway but then just came upon a section demonising someone called Karen HmmHmm
Both surely deliberately used.

What's the story called? I kind of recognise the lion tamer bit, but took it at face value.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/08/2025 20:12

Namelessnelly · 25/08/2025 18:02

so that’s another phrase you do t know the meaning of. It’s ok. Honestly. We can’t all know everything. I mean, you accused me, a NB of not knowing what non binary meant instead of politely asking.

Well, quite!

stayathomegardener · 25/08/2025 19:32

Duolingo has the same story in the French version Hmm
I found Jumpspeak was was better App anyway but then just came upon a section demonising someone called Karen HmmHmm
Both surely deliberately used.

PollyHutchen · 25/08/2025 19:28

Apparently it's rated as suitable for children of 3 years and up. Though children would need to be able to read and write in their first language to get the benefit of it.

Home schooling parents may use Duolingo and some teachers recommend it for additional language practice.

I'm about a year into learning German. It's not improbable that some KS2 children will encounter this material.

Most of the Duolingo content is quite wholesome and - U certificate - small talk about going to the zoo, shopping, travels, household matters.

Which makes the BDSM 'joke' all the creepier. A bit like the friendly, fresh-faced scout leader who suddenly shows your child dodgy photos.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/08/2025 19:18

AnSolas · 25/08/2025 19:16

You are missing the point the company is selling a product which is opening up a conversation about sex with children.

The company are choosing to include this conversation along side other learning points eg asking directions for a how to find a train station..

The companys product is in direct communication with a child with reasonable expectation of adult supervision.

If a teacher started the same conversation as a German language learning point in a class room the school would investigate it as a safeguarding incident.

Can you explain how it would be acceptable for a German language teacher in a class room full of students to use the idea of a child finding items his parents use during sexual activities as a way to lean German?

Eg what age would the children need to be for it be acceptable?

There is no age at which it is acceptable.

If I (an almost 40 year old woman) decided to take German classes and the teacher came out with stuff like this, I would find it deeply weird and inappropriate.

AnSolas · 25/08/2025 19:16

PlanetJanette · 25/08/2025 18:23

Not based on the previous poster's account, where it is exactly depicted as an innocent stumbling on items that are explained away as the parent being a lion tamer.

You are missing the point the company is selling a product which is opening up a conversation about sex with children.

The company are choosing to include this conversation along side other learning points eg asking directions for a how to find a train station..

The companys product is in direct communication with a child with reasonable expectation of adult supervision.

If a teacher started the same conversation as a German language learning point in a class room the school would investigate it as a safeguarding incident.

Can you explain how it would be acceptable for a German language teacher in a class room full of students to use the idea of a child finding items his parents use during sexual activities as a way to lean German?

Eg what age would the children need to be for it be acceptable?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/08/2025 19:01

PlanetJanette · 25/08/2025 18:25

Afraid not.

Perhaps if you actually listened to trans and non-binary people, to the very many gay and lesbian people who either also identify as queer or are comfortable sitting within the queer umbrella, you may get things wrong a bit less.

I have spent far too much time listening to people talking utter nonsense. Hours of my life I'll never get back.

Special shout out to Laurie Penny, who identifies as queer, pansexual, non binary and all the other pointless labels (because she demonstrably does not qualify as L, G, B or T) and wrote at length about her "unexpected heterosexual" wedding.

Mate, what is unexpected about a heterosexual woman marrying a heterosexual man?

I've got nothing against privileged, middle-class, straight, white, married women in their 30s. I am one myself. But pretending that you are one of the rainbow people and as such are oppressed and marginalised is absolute fucking nonsense.