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Who‘s coming to FiLIA?

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lanadelgrey · 23/08/2025 10:33

I‘m starting to get excited.
Are there plans for a MN meetup?

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Gullye · 12/10/2025 07:09

Seriestwo · 12/10/2025 00:51

Looks like feelings are running high

Josh Howie is going to do a report in GB News tonight about how rampant antisemitism has ruined the conference.

Who‘s coming to FiLIA?
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CrocsNotDocs · 12/10/2025 00:59

I’ve been on twitter since 2017 and immediately followed every GC person I could find. On October 6 2023, I was following GC socialists, conservatives, marxists, scientists, progressive philosophers, I’m not a feminist trad wives, rad fems, lesbians and gays from across the political spectrum, people I vehemently disagreed with on almost everything except gender ideology, people who shared my personal political views, free speech advocates, Greens, Labour members Tories. I followed the broadest of church.

I was relieved to find that by October 8 2023, close to 90% of these people expressed absolute horror at October 7 and of these people, the vast majority have remained generally in support of the Jewish people and Israel.

So yes, based on who I followed prior to October 7, the vast majority of GC people who see through the lies and gaslighting on gender issues, also saw through the antisemitism and Jews Don’t Count sentiment post October 7 that infected vast swathes of society.

Dopeydoraz · 12/10/2025 00:48

I didn’t hear anything about fighting? @Seriestwo

Seriestwo · 12/10/2025 00:42

I hear there has been fighting at the disco. Hope everyone is ok.

fabricstash · 12/10/2025 00:11

There have been some fabulous sessions and so much still to fight for!

TinselAngel · 11/10/2025 21:51

Mmmnotsure · 11/10/2025 21:49

I was at the Transwidows session. I thought your sections of the film came over really well.

I don't know if this is helpful in any way, but when the director was introducing the two speakers I noticed that she made a point of the fact that she had become a personal friend of both of them after - and as a consequence of - their involvement in the film. It felt like partly giving the reasons why they were there.

I’ve become friends with V as well. She wanted me there, it was FILIA that vetoed that.

I’m glad you enjoyed the film.

Mmmnotsure · 11/10/2025 21:49

TinselAngel · 11/10/2025 20:56

No update as to how I’m a trouble maker (in a bad way)? Disappointing.

I was at the Transwidows session. I thought your sections of the film came over really well.

I don't know if this is helpful in any way, but when the director was introducing the two speakers I noticed that she made a point of the fact that she had become a personal friend of both of them after - and as a consequence of - their involvement in the film. It felt like partly giving the reasons why they were there.

TinselAngel · 11/10/2025 20:56

No update as to how I’m a trouble maker (in a bad way)? Disappointing.

Mmmnotsure · 11/10/2025 19:43

Talkinpeace · 11/10/2025 16:54

Spycops session right now is good.

That was quite the jaw drop in places.

Anotheremptynester · 11/10/2025 19:27

Parkshort · 11/10/2025 14:47

Same here, although I'm not sure how much of it is pro-Israel and how much is just basic Islamophobia

are you going to help the labour party out and define your use of the term islamophobia?

I am zionist and gender critical, because I recognise Israel as a necessary democratic ally to the west. I feel for the jews born in a terrorised Israel as thats the only home they know, while disliking Netanyahu intensely. I also feel for the terrorised Palestinians as that the only home they know, while disliking Hamas intensely.

see thats how it works, life is not black and white good and evil its really difficult grey and full of compromises.

far easier to wave a flag and take sides though.

Talkinpeace · 11/10/2025 16:54

Spycops session right now is good.

Shedmistress · 11/10/2025 16:29

Toylibre · 11/10/2025 14:08

As someone who has been active on GC Twitter for the last few years I can confirm this is pretty much true unfortunately.

You mean you follow women who are.

That's how Twitter and the algorithm works.

I thought everyone knew this by now.

borntobequiet · 11/10/2025 15:53

TheLarkArising · 11/10/2025 13:08

I’m an unfashionable Zionist

The vast majority of gender critical women are Zionists.

On whose authority? What nonsense.

ParmaVioletTea · 11/10/2025 15:44

Have fun! I’ve had to dip out for a lot of today to deal with a work thing that blew up. But it’s m hoping to get to everything tomorrow!

YouveGotNoBloodyIdea · 11/10/2025 15:12

Checking in - sitting with other MNetters in the cafe …..

Parkshort · 11/10/2025 14:47

Toylibre · 11/10/2025 14:08

As someone who has been active on GC Twitter for the last few years I can confirm this is pretty much true unfortunately.

Same here, although I'm not sure how much of it is pro-Israel and how much is just basic Islamophobia

ParmaVioletTea · 11/10/2025 14:42

Anyway - back to FILUA. I really enjoyed Queenagwrs last night. And it made me grateful about how straightforward menopause had been for me, relatively speaking at any rate.

terryleather · 11/10/2025 14:42

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Oh if only every woman over the centuries who has fought for the rights of women and girls had sat down quietly with their mouths shut and not been "trouble makers", eh?

We all, including you, sit on the shoulders of "troublemakers" because rightly or wrongly they are often the people who get things done.

No idea if you identify as a "trouble maker" Tinsel, but I view it as a compliment in your case.

ParmaVioletTea · 11/10/2025 14:41

Just to reiterate: I’m not castigating anyone else for their views on Palestine/Israel. I rather assume in feminist lefty circles that my views are very minority.

i had noticed that my GC feminist Twitter feed was also pretty pro-Israel, but I took this to be my own little echo chamber. I’d never assume that was a wider view.

My feminist ideas and reading started probably 50 years ago - way before “GC” feminism.

Toylibre · 11/10/2025 14:08

Mmmnotsure · 11/10/2025 13:49

“The vast majority of gender critical women are Zionists.”

Source and stats, please.

As someone who has been active on GC Twitter for the last few years I can confirm this is pretty much true unfortunately.

Mmmnotsure · 11/10/2025 13:49

TheLarkArising · 11/10/2025 13:08

I’m an unfashionable Zionist

The vast majority of gender critical women are Zionists.

“The vast majority of gender critical women are Zionists.”

Source and stats, please.

RedToothBrush · 11/10/2025 13:36

PriOn1 · 11/10/2025 13:25

Fairly sure that isn’t true.

Many of us refuse to take sides and wish to support all women and children affected by war, but supporting Palestine is so pervasive that not taking sides leads to accusations like yours.

This.

Not being rabidly Omnicause and failing to sport a keffiyeh does not equal Zionist.

It's like not feeling male does not equal female.

It's logical fail smearing. It's "you are either with us or against us" propaganda and sorry but I'm not getting involved in that particular pile of crap.

I personally think Hamas are appalling and the Israeli government are appalling. And honestly it's ordinary citizens who may utterly despise their own leadership who always come out worst in both camps.

I have never been able to get past the same paradox with the IRA and the British Government (keep in mind I was directly affected by an IRA bombing).

I think that it's awful what's happened to anyone who has been the victim of violence and state injustice in whatever form it takes and by whom.

Taking sides is pointless and diversive and only gets shit responses if 'why don't you care enough about x group'. I do care but it's pointless saying anything on the subject because of the abuse you set yourself up to for saying religious violence of all persuasions is fucking abhorrent because it's never good enough for those who are desperate to destroy the other and crush any sort of questioning of the behaviour of the side they support.

I've never thought it ok. I have demonstrated this in my own life on multiple subjects. We don't have to virtue signal our support for any cause if we do not choose to. It doesn't mean we are supportive of the other side because we haven't done this.

I'm over this bullshit.

PriOn1 · 11/10/2025 13:25

TheLarkArising · 11/10/2025 13:08

I’m an unfashionable Zionist

The vast majority of gender critical women are Zionists.

Fairly sure that isn’t true.

Many of us refuse to take sides and wish to support all women and children affected by war, but supporting Palestine is so pervasive that not taking sides leads to accusations like yours.

TheLarkArising · 11/10/2025 13:08

ParmaVioletTea · 11/10/2025 12:20

As I suggested earlier, if we look at both the history and the nature of the women’s movement, it’s obvious that we won’t all agree with each other.

The women’s movement comes from the grass roots, with a multiplicity of voices, issues, and arguments from 51% of the population. We need to learn to disagree and be disagreed with, without taking it personally or making silly personal comments.

But also, FILIA isn’t the only feminist organisation around. There are other groups.

Personally, I think it’s really disappointing that instead of celebrating FILIA’s success in bringing over 2000 women together, in all their diversity, and in the face of violent hostility from men, and the local MP, Sian Berry (who should hang her head in shame), some people are focusing on personal slights.

I couldn’t make the opening session (work gets in the way sometimes!) but I would have been uncomfortable with chants about Palestine. I’m an unfashionable Zionist, and I think Hamas are murderous butchers, and terrorist scum. But I also understand aspects of the Palestine cause. I think I may have left the auditorium, but I might also have stayed to listen, and accept that we are lucky to have freedom of thought and speech - unlike Afghani women, or those disagreeing with governments in Iraq or Iran.

but a couple of years ago in Cardiff I was at the opening session and joined in with the chant of “Women, freedom, life” led by a different speaker.

I’m an unfashionable Zionist

The vast majority of gender critical women are Zionists.