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Why are so many GC women pro-Israel?

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Krakinou · 21/08/2025 23:09

This is a feminist forum. It’s in the name. I’m a feminist, therefore logically atheist and frankly anti-religion. Certainly against any kind of religious nationalism (Christian, Hindu, Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist, etc.)

But surely feminism is about liberation for all women, not just the ones we agree with? The destruction of patriarchal structures, not of women and children who are conditioned by them?

I constantly see snarky comments in GC articles about Gaza and dehumanizing comments about Palestinians and Muslims generally on this board. And minimizing of the suffering of the tens of thousands of people being murdered in an internationally recognized genocide. I don’t get it. It seems out of sync with the general mumsnet feeling too - I get the impression most people on mumsnet are pretty horrified by Israel’s actions.

Does anyone else get the same impression? If so, what is the connection between being Gender Critical and being anti-Palestine? Is it just that the leftist terfs aren’t so represented here?

I’m in a feminist group in Spain and it doesn’t have the same issue at all.

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Namelessnelly · 08/10/2025 15:33

Shedmistress · 08/10/2025 15:30

Because 'transphobic' doesn't work any more?

True. I suppose they’re getting a bit desperate now.

Shedmistress · 08/10/2025 15:30

Namelessnelly · 08/10/2025 15:24

Oh this is a new take. So are you saying GC women are racist or Islamophobic? Why?

Because 'transphobic' doesn't work any more?

Gruffporcupine · 08/10/2025 15:29

How do Palestinian men treat Palestinian women, not to mention how they treated Jewish women on October 7th.

In Israel women have full human rights.

I know which situation is better for women.

Namelessnelly · 08/10/2025 15:24

Krakinou · 21/08/2025 23:09

This is a feminist forum. It’s in the name. I’m a feminist, therefore logically atheist and frankly anti-religion. Certainly against any kind of religious nationalism (Christian, Hindu, Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist, etc.)

But surely feminism is about liberation for all women, not just the ones we agree with? The destruction of patriarchal structures, not of women and children who are conditioned by them?

I constantly see snarky comments in GC articles about Gaza and dehumanizing comments about Palestinians and Muslims generally on this board. And minimizing of the suffering of the tens of thousands of people being murdered in an internationally recognized genocide. I don’t get it. It seems out of sync with the general mumsnet feeling too - I get the impression most people on mumsnet are pretty horrified by Israel’s actions.

Does anyone else get the same impression? If so, what is the connection between being Gender Critical and being anti-Palestine? Is it just that the leftist terfs aren’t so represented here?

I’m in a feminist group in Spain and it doesn’t have the same issue at all.

Oh this is a new take. So are you saying GC women are racist or Islamophobic? Why?

puffyisgood · 08/10/2025 15:22

Shortshriftandlethal · 08/10/2025 14:45

Arabs spend a good deal of time killing and slaughtering each other too. Arab society is diverse and very much clan based and doesn't fit neatly into the Western ideological concepts which are imposed upon it.

There are Arab jews, as well, by the way. Certainly from what have come to be understood Arabic countries, anyway. The whole history of the Middle East is predicated on the establishment of one kingdom or empire after another.

Estimates of the total number of deaths in the Syrian civil War by various war monitors, range between 580,000 as of May 2021, and approximately 656,493 as of March 2025

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Yes, the Middle East is a phenomenally dangerous place by Western standards, Jews can never be nearly as safe there as they would be in Western Europe or the US. But they're still very safe by Middle Eastern standards. Much (much much) safer than Palestinians.

Shortshriftandlethal · 08/10/2025 14:45

puffyisgood · 08/10/2025 14:33

Jewish immigration to the US in particular has been ridiculously successful, and Jews there are incomparably safer there than they'll ever be in Israel, however many hundreds of thousands of Arabs are slaughtered in the name of the colonial project.

Arabs spend a good deal of time killing and slaughtering each other too. Arab society is diverse and very much clan based and doesn't fit neatly into the Western ideological concepts which are imposed upon it.

There are Arab jews, as well, by the way. Certainly from what have come to be understood Arabic countries, anyway. The whole history of the Middle East is predicated on the establishment of one kingdom or empire after another.

Estimates of the total number of deaths in the Syrian civil War by various war monitors, range between 580,000 as of May 2021, and approximately 656,493 as of March 2025

puffyisgood · 08/10/2025 14:33

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 05/09/2025 09:59

I would consider left-wing to mean anti-colonialism, and a solution of one non-religious state.

Experience tells Jewish people that relying for their safety on the goodwill of people of a different faith who form a majority in the same country tends to end badly for Jewish people. Examples include 15th and 16th century Spain, and early 20th century Germany.

Wanting a country of their own in which they are the majority and hold the power is about self-preservation.

Jewish immigration to the US in particular has been ridiculously successful, and Jews there are incomparably safer there than they'll ever be in Israel, however many hundreds of thousands of Arabs are slaughtered in the name of the colonial project.

Shortshriftandlethal · 08/10/2025 14:20

confusedlady10 · 08/10/2025 12:44

Parrot? It's been internationally recognised as Genocide.

The UN is not to be taken seriously, unfortunately. It has had its day.

confusedlady10 · 08/10/2025 12:44

WishSheWouldGoAway · 21/08/2025 23:18

But surely feminism is about liberation for all women, not just the ones we agree with?

That's why the utter silence of most of the women on mumsnet, about the brutality and sexual torture, israeli women were subjected to on the seventh of october, appalls me.

You first as a feminist, have you not spoken out about the rape and torture these women were subjected to?

Or do you just parrot the word genocide like all the rest.

Parrot? It's been internationally recognised as Genocide.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 05/09/2025 09:59

I would consider left-wing to mean anti-colonialism, and a solution of one non-religious state.

Experience tells Jewish people that relying for their safety on the goodwill of people of a different faith who form a majority in the same country tends to end badly for Jewish people. Examples include 15th and 16th century Spain, and early 20th century Germany.

Wanting a country of their own in which they are the majority and hold the power is about self-preservation.

UmbrellaWeatherSolo · 30/08/2025 20:20

Heggettypeg · 30/08/2025 20:16

Well, if it's any comfort, I think you sound a very reasonable, fair-minded and decent person!

🤍

Heggettypeg · 30/08/2025 20:16

UmbrellaWeatherSolo · 30/08/2025 20:11

On my Facebook this past 2 years I have been accused of being an antisemite and on the side of nazis for sharing a video of a woman who makes amputee dolls for Palestinian child amputees

I have been accused of being an antisemite for saying I think Benjamin Netanyahu doesn't just want peace but I think he has a Messiah complex and quoting things he's literally said himself about a "historic and spiritual mission" and that he is "very attached" to the vision of Greater Israel.

And I have been accused of being a genocide sympathiser for defending Israeli friends who have been canceled and socially ostracised for the crime of being Israeli

And I have been called Islamophobic for saying I don't want Islam to take over

Now I don't have a Facebook

We can't seem to disagree without fighting or cancelling people everything turns into an attack 😕

Well, if it's any comfort, I think you sound a very reasonable, fair-minded and decent person!

UmbrellaWeatherSolo · 30/08/2025 20:11

On my Facebook this past 2 years I have been accused of being an antisemite and on the side of nazis for sharing a video of a woman who makes amputee dolls for Palestinian child amputees

I have been accused of being an antisemite for saying I think Benjamin Netanyahu doesn't just want peace but I think he has a Messiah complex and quoting things he's literally said himself about a "historic and spiritual mission" and that he is "very attached" to the vision of Greater Israel.

And I have been accused of being a genocide sympathiser for defending Israeli friends who have been canceled and socially ostracised for the crime of being Israeli

And I have been called Islamophobic for saying I don't want Islam to take over

Now I don't have a Facebook

We can't seem to disagree without fighting or cancelling people everything turns into an attack 😕

AliasGrace47 · 29/08/2025 01:45

ScrollingLeaves · 28/08/2025 23:32

Mary is extremely important to a lot of Catholics. Secretly more than Jesus sometimes. She is also recognised by Muslims.

Catholicism is patriarchal but puts women on a pedestal in many ways.

Hence the term Mariolatry...

I'm a mild kind of Catholic myself, and I do like the focus on Mary

ScrollingLeaves · 28/08/2025 23:36

stealthsquirrelnutkin · 25/08/2025 11:27

"Why are so many GC women pro-Israel?"

Perhaps it is due to our ability to think things through and make up our own minds, without being influenced by the latest omnicause? We've already been traduced for wanting to protect our own sex based rights and the healthy bodies of autistic and homosexual children, so when we see the bodies of raped young women thrown into the back of pickup trucks and driven through howling joyous mobs celebrating their horrible fate we find it easy to pick a side?
Perhaps it is because a lot of us are lesbians, so we respect Israel as the only democratic country in the region that protects the rights of homosexuals?
Perhaps it is because we are female and feel outrage and horror that babies were strangled and burnt alive by mobs of feral armed men who invaded their homes?
I dunno, perhaps we just don't fit in with the baying mobs of Jew haters that have been allowed to spoil London for normal people?

babies were strangled and burnt alive by mobs of feral armed men who invaded their homes?

Sorry, this is not supposed to be another Conflict in the Middle East Thread but that burnt babies story was debunked long ago.

ScrollingLeaves · 28/08/2025 23:32

Krakinou · 25/08/2025 02:30

Religions are man-made. They reflect and shape the societies they are in. So it really doesn’t matter if there is a female or sexless god running the universe after all. What matters is how religions are practiced.

I read that in societies where gods are female, childcare is often evenly shared; less so when gods are mixed sex; and even less where gods are thought of as male. So yeah, I guess you could have a feminist society with a goddess worshiping religion.

To the women in here trying to kid themselves that Christianity falls into that category though… just why? Just accept that you’ve chosen a patriarchal religion for whatever reason and move on. I don’t know much about Hinduism but it doesn’t seem to be working out great for Indian women.

Mary is extremely important to a lot of Catholics. Secretly more than Jesus sometimes. She is also recognised by Muslims.

Catholicism is patriarchal but puts women on a pedestal in many ways.

Howseitgoin · 28/08/2025 22:56

Gender Criticals being more likely to be authoritarian minded may be related.
www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/09589236.2024.2431569#abstract

Valeriekat · 28/08/2025 22:42

Krakinou · 21/08/2025 23:24

@WishSheWouldGoAway I think it should be obvious that I’m against sexual violence of any form especially as a weapon of war. I don’t think 50 deaths per person in revenge is proportionate response. You do?

Anyway, I’m not trying to make an argument about Palestine here. I’m asking for people’s feelings on the correlation (or not) on this board.

The total lack of sympathy for the young people who were kidnapped and raped was horrible. Even the BBC were reluctant to call it what it was. Sexual violence is reprehensible.

Fimofriend · 26/08/2025 10:29

Krakinou · 21/08/2025 23:37

@Catabogus I think you have a point about a reaction to forced teaming on the other side.

But I think that’s one thing I find especially depressing about it. For me, suddenly finding myself the “bad guy” for being GC made me realize how important it is to think critically about all issues rather than just accept the team view.

"Team view"????? What team? There is no team, no organization, no GC council, no secret GC cells!!! FFS! People from all over the political spectrum are gender critical because most people have common sense!!!

There is no correlation and you should stop listening to the crap the trans activists spew!

BeLemonNow · 26/08/2025 00:43

MurkyWeather · 25/08/2025 10:44

Why not appreciate that it's more complex than you realised and you can be a religious feminist?

This is why I don't call myself a feminist; so I can't be regularly accused of doing it wrong for one reason or another😁

😂best response to a question I've had on here I think!

BrunoNoNoMore · 25/08/2025 16:54

I don't agree. Most of the most TERFy women I know in real life are quite sympathetic to Palestinians right now. They know that Palestinian children aren't Hamas and are generally anti-war. People like things to be very black and white but they're not.

WishSheWouldGoAway · 25/08/2025 12:40

SidewaysOtter · 25/08/2025 11:52

To the women in here trying to kid themselves that Christianity falls into that category though… just why? Just accept that you’ve chosen a patriarchal religion for whatever reason and move on.

How about you accept that other women have views of religion different from yours? Stop telling other women what to think and how to do feminism “correctly”.

Or that Christianity has evolved in a way Islam hasnt and wont.

SidewaysOtter · 25/08/2025 11:52

To the women in here trying to kid themselves that Christianity falls into that category though… just why? Just accept that you’ve chosen a patriarchal religion for whatever reason and move on.

How about you accept that other women have views of religion different from yours? Stop telling other women what to think and how to do feminism “correctly”.

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 25/08/2025 11:38

We can see through BS

stealthsquirrelnutkin · 25/08/2025 11:27

"Why are so many GC women pro-Israel?"

Perhaps it is due to our ability to think things through and make up our own minds, without being influenced by the latest omnicause? We've already been traduced for wanting to protect our own sex based rights and the healthy bodies of autistic and homosexual children, so when we see the bodies of raped young women thrown into the back of pickup trucks and driven through howling joyous mobs celebrating their horrible fate we find it easy to pick a side?
Perhaps it is because a lot of us are lesbians, so we respect Israel as the only democratic country in the region that protects the rights of homosexuals?
Perhaps it is because we are female and feel outrage and horror that babies were strangled and burnt alive by mobs of feral armed men who invaded their homes?
I dunno, perhaps we just don't fit in with the baying mobs of Jew haters that have been allowed to spoil London for normal people?