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Why are so many GC women pro-Israel?

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Krakinou · 21/08/2025 23:09

This is a feminist forum. It’s in the name. I’m a feminist, therefore logically atheist and frankly anti-religion. Certainly against any kind of religious nationalism (Christian, Hindu, Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist, etc.)

But surely feminism is about liberation for all women, not just the ones we agree with? The destruction of patriarchal structures, not of women and children who are conditioned by them?

I constantly see snarky comments in GC articles about Gaza and dehumanizing comments about Palestinians and Muslims generally on this board. And minimizing of the suffering of the tens of thousands of people being murdered in an internationally recognized genocide. I don’t get it. It seems out of sync with the general mumsnet feeling too - I get the impression most people on mumsnet are pretty horrified by Israel’s actions.

Does anyone else get the same impression? If so, what is the connection between being Gender Critical and being anti-Palestine? Is it just that the leftist terfs aren’t so represented here?

I’m in a feminist group in Spain and it doesn’t have the same issue at all.

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deadpan · 22/08/2025 17:00

glassesandbeer · 22/08/2025 16:36

Its not annihilation though is it? We both hear people condemning Israel for telling civilians to move to avoid being killed in oncoming military action, and we hear people condemning Israel for civilians that are killed in military strikes. This means the only option that these critics will leave open for Israel is not defending itself and its citizens. And that is shameful. To think Israel, unique amongst countries of the world should not defend itself from attackers, is shameful.

And the condemnation you never hear from these critics of Israel is of Hamas for not shielding its citizens in the tunnels it has built all under Gaza for its fighters, but not for its own civilians. Its astonishing and shameful that Hamas is not being condemned by those who think they are pro-Palestinian. Where are the placards on the marches condemning Hamas for that? Where are the placards on the pro-Palestinian marches demanding Hamas hand back the hostages?

It is shameful to compare how Israel has conducted its military campaign to the way Hamas has. Hamas is not only trying to murder Israelis, but it regards the death of its own civilians, due to the conflict it caused, as a propaganda boon.

As for the imbalance in life, do you never consider where much of that imbalance comes from? Israel left Gaza in 2005. Hamas has since used the billions it got in aid to enrich itself, arm itself, build a huge tunnel network only for itself, and to prepare to start a war by massacring and torturing Jews on October 7th. It has not used those billions to build up Gaza into a successful, peaceful country that proves it can live prosperously alongside Israel in a genuinely two state solution. Instead, it used the aid to prove that cannot happen.

And the inequality in women's rights in Gaza and Israel is due entirely to Hamas and Gazans. And the inequality in LGBT rights is due entirely to Hamas and Palestinians. And the inequality in democracy is due entirely to Hamas.

"The inequality in women's rights in...... Israel is due entirely to Hamas and Gazans" 🤔

If you read what I said properly you'd see that I don't defend Hamas.

myplace · 22/08/2025 16:58

I’m going to have to go back to the beginning and read again more carefully, but thank you to all the women pushing back against purity spiralling and blanket condemnation of whatever we’re supposed to condemn.

As for the opening post, I’m a Christian. I didn’t realise that meant I couldn’t be a feminist. I must tell my colleagues working to dismantle remnants of patriarchy in the church. That patriarchy wasn’t baked in by the religion, but by the culture the religion existed in. Acts and the gospels are radical statements of equality. Inevitably the development of the institution in a sexist world leaders to sexism. That’s the church, not the faith. And like every other institution it takes a while to reform.

Writing off swathes of people for having the wrong beliefs is not very progressive.
Accusing women of racism for not buying the party line about the mess in Israel and Gaza.

We have seen how unreliable and one sided the press can be. We aren’t prepared to take our opinions on faith anymore, or trust views spoonfed by the newspapers. No thanks.

JeremiahBullfrog · 22/08/2025 16:48

Am I "pro-Israel" if I think the current ongoing actions of the Israeli government are horrific, and the Palestinians should have independence, but also a state of Israel should continue to exist and many leading Palestinians are also terrible people?

A big chunk of the popular left (the same is true of the popular right) does not like nuance, or independence. It thinks the world is made up of goodies and baddies. You agree with it as to who the goodies and baddies are, or you are yourself a baddie - unless you are a goodie anyway by virtue of your extremely oppressed status. These extremely oppressed goodies, it has been decided, include trans people and the Palestinians. The fact that some trans people, and some Palestians, might be murderous rapists, can be safely ignored.

GC people on the other hand are capable of nuanced, independent thinking. They don't decide who is good or bad on the basis of whatever list is being passed around: so they haven't fallen into the "trans people are angels" trap. But this way of thinking might lead to some dangerous views like "maybe we shouldn't imply that indiscriminately killing Jewish people is OK, actually". And those kind of views cannot be accepted by the inflexible left.

zanahoria · 22/08/2025 16:41

deadpan · 22/08/2025 16:16

To not realise that you sound one sided shows a lot.
Netanyahu may not be recognised as a terrorist group but his annihilation of ordinary people and children in response to the awful atrocities perpetrated by Hamas are as bad. The footage you saw didn't show every single palestinian supporting Hamas, just as not every single Irish Catholic supported the IRA or every single Protestant supported the UVF or the UDA.
There is no excuse for the actions of Hamas but have you ever looked in to the unbalanced life Palestinians live in in the occupied territories?

There is also ethnic cleansing in the West Bank that is not even controlled by Hamas

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 22/08/2025 16:37

Ramblingnamechanger · 22/08/2025 16:34

I think that women on all sides who want peace should have solidarity and act to stop wars by holding a sex strike and refusing to have more children to be used as cannon fodder. But then we see as feminists who actually have the right todo this and who doesn’t have control of their reproductive rights. Says a lot really .

You should write a play about that 😉

glassesandbeer · 22/08/2025 16:36

deadpan · 22/08/2025 16:16

To not realise that you sound one sided shows a lot.
Netanyahu may not be recognised as a terrorist group but his annihilation of ordinary people and children in response to the awful atrocities perpetrated by Hamas are as bad. The footage you saw didn't show every single palestinian supporting Hamas, just as not every single Irish Catholic supported the IRA or every single Protestant supported the UVF or the UDA.
There is no excuse for the actions of Hamas but have you ever looked in to the unbalanced life Palestinians live in in the occupied territories?

Its not annihilation though is it? We both hear people condemning Israel for telling civilians to move to avoid being killed in oncoming military action, and we hear people condemning Israel for civilians that are killed in military strikes. This means the only option that these critics will leave open for Israel is not defending itself and its citizens. And that is shameful. To think Israel, unique amongst countries of the world should not defend itself from attackers, is shameful.

And the condemnation you never hear from these critics of Israel is of Hamas for not shielding its citizens in the tunnels it has built all under Gaza for its fighters, but not for its own civilians. Its astonishing and shameful that Hamas is not being condemned by those who think they are pro-Palestinian. Where are the placards on the marches condemning Hamas for that? Where are the placards on the pro-Palestinian marches demanding Hamas hand back the hostages?

It is shameful to compare how Israel has conducted its military campaign to the way Hamas has. Hamas is not only trying to murder Israelis, but it regards the death of its own civilians, due to the conflict it caused, as a propaganda boon.

As for the imbalance in life, do you never consider where much of that imbalance comes from? Israel left Gaza in 2005. Hamas has since used the billions it got in aid to enrich itself, arm itself, build a huge tunnel network only for itself, and to prepare to start a war by massacring and torturing Jews on October 7th. It has not used those billions to build up Gaza into a successful, peaceful country that proves it can live prosperously alongside Israel in a genuinely two state solution. Instead, it used the aid to prove that cannot happen.

And the inequality in women's rights in Gaza and Israel is due entirely to Hamas and Gazans. And the inequality in LGBT rights is due entirely to Hamas and Palestinians. And the inequality in democracy is due entirely to Hamas.

Ramblingnamechanger · 22/08/2025 16:34

I think that women on all sides who want peace should have solidarity and act to stop wars by holding a sex strike and refusing to have more children to be used as cannon fodder. But then we see as feminists who actually have the right todo this and who doesn’t have control of their reproductive rights. Says a lot really .

busybusybusy2015 · 22/08/2025 16:32

Grammarnut · 22/08/2025 15:34

I support the twats too, they need help.

Indeed. That's real intersectional feminism from Grammarnut. It's so very very difficult sometimes 😫

RayonSunrise · 22/08/2025 16:22

Why has this not been moved to the Conflict in the Middle East forum yet, I wonder? Usually MNHQ is so quick to move anything about sex and gender here.

deadpan · 22/08/2025 16:16

Alltheprettyseahorses · 22/08/2025 09:42

I mean, I saw the footage of ordinary Palestinians cheering the October 7th terrorist atrocity so 🤷🏽‍♀️. It reminded me of the red hands attack, that wasn't Hamas either. Netanyahu is not Hamas, that is a shameful comparison. Would it make people happier if Israel took down its defences and let Palestine win the war it started?

To not realise that you sound one sided shows a lot.
Netanyahu may not be recognised as a terrorist group but his annihilation of ordinary people and children in response to the awful atrocities perpetrated by Hamas are as bad. The footage you saw didn't show every single palestinian supporting Hamas, just as not every single Irish Catholic supported the IRA or every single Protestant supported the UVF or the UDA.
There is no excuse for the actions of Hamas but have you ever looked in to the unbalanced life Palestinians live in in the occupied territories?

Grammarnut · 22/08/2025 15:34

Bumblebee72 · 22/08/2025 09:59

I consider myself a feminist. But I don't support all women, some women are twats.

I support the twats too, they need help.

glassesandbeer · 22/08/2025 15:09

@busybusybusy2015

An anti-Hamas demonstration in Palestine is entirely unimaginable

There was such a thing a few months ago. This is the sort of fate that befell these protestors. Oday Nasser Al Rabay was the name of one of the protestors. A 22 year old man. He was abducted off the streets by Hamas, tortured and beaten, stripped and dragged through the streets by a rope around his neck and dumped with his family who were told that this is the fate of everyone who defies Hamas. He died shortly afterwards in hospital.

Do you know what the Israeli government has been doing to the protestors in Israel against them? Nothing.

BeLemonNow · 22/08/2025 15:04

I just wanted to pop up and say any GC "pro-Israel" (whatever that means) women are of course welcome in this forum.

I'm not going to tell a woman who could have been a rape victim of Hamas, or know someone who was, that she's wrong to support Israel.

Not gonna. If you are OP, take a really close look in the mirror.

busybusybusy2015 · 22/08/2025 15:02

Catabogus · 22/08/2025 13:44

I agree with @SionnachRuadh , and I think this is a really fascinating question: How you get your list of approved underdogs is another matter, and it doesn't do to question this - how do these causes get approved? Why Palestine + TWAW, and not, say, Palestine + women’s rights? And what makes Palestinians so much more supportable by TRAs than, say, Uyghurs?

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Yep. Approved list of causes. Why aren't we in the streets advocating for the dying children of the Sudan? MiLLIONS of them. Nobody cares. Absolutely nobody. Probably because they're African and therefore expected by our prejudices to starve to death. Probably because there's so little news footage and we only react to images. Estimates of numbers starving herein https://civil-protection-humanitarian-aid.ec.europa.eu/where/africa/sudan_en#:~:text=Despite%20these%20critical%20needs%2C%20humanitarian,Sudan%20via%20multi%2Dmodal%20transport.
You may not want to read it. You may not want to chase down further information about raped women and dead children. Why do we behave as if Palestine is the worst conflict, the most important conflict? Would you be shocked if I simply.ignored it completely, and talked only about the refugees of the Western Sahara? (I'd bet my house that most people have never even heard of these lost people, living out their lives in camps, exiled from their homeland by an invader. Which, as it happened, wasn't Israel. But noone gives a toss about that landgrab, do they?) Hamas is wicked, Netanyahu is wicked, and around 500,000 Israelis went into the streets this week to say so. That's 5% of the entire population. A demonstration of an equivalent % in the UK is near-unimagjnable and would certainly bring down a government. An anti-Hamas demonstration in Palestine is entirely unimaginable. I am consumed with anger at governments, Hamas, the uninformed public, and The Omnicause.

Sudan

Sudan

Violent armed clashes broke out in Khartoum on 15 April 2023 between the Sudanese Armed Forces (SAF) and the Rapid Support Forces (RSF). 2 years into the conflict, its humanitarian toll is disastrous.

https://civil-protection-humanitarian-aid.ec.europa.eu/where/africa/sudan_en#:~:text=Despite%20these%20critical%20needs%2C%20humanitarian,Sudan%20via%20multi%2Dmodal%20transport.

GAJLY · 22/08/2025 15:00

WishSheWouldGoAway · 21/08/2025 23:18

But surely feminism is about liberation for all women, not just the ones we agree with?

That's why the utter silence of most of the women on mumsnet, about the brutality and sexual torture, israeli women were subjected to on the seventh of october, appalls me.

You first as a feminist, have you not spoken out about the rape and torture these women were subjected to?

Or do you just parrot the word genocide like all the rest.

This 👆 👆 👆

FourthInstar · 22/08/2025 14:15

It's threads like this that make me a sporadic visitor to MN.

No evidence offered for a premise that is far from being a generally acknowledged fact.

A highly complex conflict, with a long history, on which most MNers are insufficiently informed to comment with any authority, is reduced to a binary: pro-Israel or pro-Palestine, no nuance permitted.

moggly · 22/08/2025 14:14

The violent, murderous conflict between Israel and Palestine is being perpetuated by men, and it is overwhelmingly women and children who suffer the consequences. I'm on the side of the latter. Choosing between two teams of male-driven aggressors is nonsensical.

WhatterySquash · 22/08/2025 14:07

napody · 22/08/2025 14:00

This. Have seen absolutely zero sign of what you 'describe'.

I think it's unfair to suggest OP is deliberately throwing accusations around or being inflammatory. Some people may not have seen any evidence of this but many of us have, and I welcome it being brought up. It's a valid question, even if your answer is that you don't agree for this that or the other reasons.

If nothing else, I think it is good to be aware of and guard against omnicause-like thinking – I think we all should ideally, but just for myself I appreciate threads that reflect on it. That doesn't mean that if you do support either Israel or Palestine, you're doing so in an unthinking, omnicause-type way. As PPs show, many people have thought it through and have a considered opinion. But I have wondered if some GC people are "omnicausing" a bit. It's OK to ask the question and discuss it.

napody · 22/08/2025 14:00

SabrinaThwaite · 21/08/2025 23:20

OP, if you’re going to throw those kinds of accusations around, you’re going to need to produce the receipts.

I won’t hold my breath …

This. Have seen absolutely zero sign of what you 'describe'.

TomeTome · 22/08/2025 13:59

I haven’t seen that connection at all, though I should qualify that by adding that in RL there are very few people both feminist and not who I know who are positive in any way about Israel’s slaughter of the Palestinians. The vast majority of pro Netanyahu’s Israel are on line and I think mostly not from the uk. Those that are from the UK I would imagine have Israeli family etc.

WhatterySquash · 22/08/2025 13:56

Catabogus · 22/08/2025 13:44

I agree with @SionnachRuadh , and I think this is a really fascinating question: How you get your list of approved underdogs is another matter, and it doesn't do to question this - how do these causes get approved? Why Palestine + TWAW, and not, say, Palestine + women’s rights? And what makes Palestinians so much more supportable by TRAs than, say, Uyghurs?

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In my youth in the 80s it was like this (as no one had heard of gender identity or transactivism, and trans people were rare, almost exclusively male and not portrayed as the most oppressed marginalised victims evah) - Palestine supporters were likely to also be women's rights supporters - think brown-rice-eating, CND-marching, section 28-protesting types who also went on worthy exchange trips to East Germany and praised the feminist credentials of Chairman Mao. (Many were also Militant tendency)

I grew up in this milieu and these people also supported women's rights, genuinely so, despite the actual deep misogyny inherent in lefty structures. It was from women in this movement that I learned about people like Greer and Dworkin, borrowed Spare Rib, was exposed to ideas about pornography and prostitution that still inform my thinking now.

One of the most stunning coups transactivism has pulled off is turn women against women's rights by convincing them that tW are the saddest, most persecuted women of them all – thereby giving males back the control. Now, you can have "women's rights" and yell "smash the patriarchy" but conveniently they are not actually women's rights as they include women's oppressors - and furthermore any women who isn't on board with that can be righteously witch-hunted.

But ask a TRA or well-meaning ally and they will insist they care about women's rights. They just don't mean women, they mean "women".

glassesandbeer · 22/08/2025 13:55

OP, it is really noticeable that you are looking for any reason why a GC woman would be pro-Israel other than we perhaps have some valid points. You have only responded to people shoring up you view that we must be motivated by something other than sound reasons and arguments leading us to be pro-Israel's right to exist. Its possible to disagree with someone but still think they have valid arguments. But you don't seem to believe this.

Instead you ask a question but show no interest in engagement with anyone posting anything that does not concur with your pre-held view.

You have demonstrated a complete lack of curiousity for alternative viewpoints and I cannot respect that. Don't ask questions if you have not genuine interest in the answers. That's just a form of intellectual dishonesty.

Ddakji · 22/08/2025 13:47

SionnachRuadh · 22/08/2025 13:28

I think the rise of the Omnicause is part of the gentrified left having mostly abandoned class and economics as its central driver, and adopted Foucauldian postmodernism and critical theory.

What you get instead of class is an unthinking identification with any group identified as the underdog, based on an idea that they're all rebelling against the same power structure (call it capitalism, Yankee imperialism, the cisheteronormative patriarchy, The Man) and are therefore part of the same cause. How you get your list of approved underdogs is another matter, and it doesn't do to question this.

That's why you not only get Palestine flags on trans protests, or trans flags on pro-refugee protests, you get constant attempts to rationalise why these are actually the same thing. I stay in touch with what lefties are saying, and I'm currently hearing stuff like "those Epping mums who say they're worried about a migrant hotel near their daughters' school are just repeating racist lies about brown men's sexuality which are the same as terfs scaremongering about transwomen in toilets".

You know anyone in the left activist scene, you hear this sort of reasoning constantly. All their key issues are connected and somehow Palestine is the crazy glue that connects them.

And because of social pressure, people I know who'll privately admit that the left has both a misogyny problem and an antisemitism problem can't bring themselves to think that maybe their pet issues of trans and Palestine provide cover for lots of nasty impulses to hide in plain sight.

The right has its own omnicause tendencies, but they seem to me to be less severe, because the right is inherently less ideological and less driven to make every issue part of one consistent narrative. So someone like Douglas Murray is massively pro-Israel, but he doesn't feel the need to mention Israel when he's writing or speaking about unrelated issues. Compare that to say Owen Jones.

I'm not sure I'd say that I've moved right, though some people would say that. It's more that, having been cancelled from the left, I'm now free to not take all my opinions as a job lot. I can examine things I thought I believed, think about why I believed them, weight up the views of people I wasn't supposed to listen to, and maybe conclude I was wrong about certain things.

And finally: if people can lie to you that men are women, what else are they lying about?

Excellent post.

TheCatsTongue · 22/08/2025 13:47

Queers for Palestine sums it up, they seem oblivious that Hamas throw them off of buildings.

Someone blamed Palestine's homophobia on Israel (the country that has Pride) and if Israel didn't treat Palestine so badly there would be no homophobia. 🙄

WishSheWouldGoAway · 22/08/2025 13:45

glassesandbeer · 22/08/2025 13:42

And you see , that is where you are going wrong. Because you think Israel is in conflict with Gaza as an act of ' revenge' rather than fighting for survival against a coaltion of enemies explictly dedicated to its destruction, and where Hamas has explicitly stated its attempt to keep on committing October 7th attacks, and has fired 10s of thousands or rockets into Israel since Oct 7th and is still sending terrorists into Israel to murder civilians.

What other country would be expected to tolerate this?

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Only israel is expected to tolerate this, and only israel are never allowed to win.

Only israel is never allowed to defend their people.