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This thread is specifically for people who think JK Rowling is awful so..

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CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 05:44

If you don't think she is please don’t post. Please can you tell me specifically what she has said or done that is so bad. I promise that I will listen and not argue. If you could include links that would be great. If your inclination is to assume that I’m posting in bad faith and any reasonably well informed person must be stupid or bigoted not to know, then please just let the thread die.

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Brefugee · 09/12/2025 09:42

I thought you wanted to listen and hear an alternative view but is clear you were setting everyone up for failure.

Does NOBODY trying to catch JKR out actually read what they write?

JellySaurus · 09/12/2025 06:58

‘One of the most victimised groups in society’ - who would that be, then? Certainly not men, not even those wearing womanface.

ProfessoressaSazzasez · 08/12/2025 20:04

forthemanynotthefew100 · 07/12/2025 23:16

Her charity work is great and no woman should have to face any sort of abuse but she takes get pleasure in attacking mocking and marginalizing one of the most victimised groups in society. I am all for womans rights but this does not mean trans people should be protected as well. But according to her you only deserve support of you were born a woman. It's just plain wrong. If I murder someone but help out my elderly neighbours this does not cancel out the wrong that I have commited and it's the same in this case

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Today I Learned that…

saying

  • men are men, even if they don’t want to be
  • women exist & have rights

is exactly analogous to [checks notes] ‘murdering someone’.

(Which is something a SURPRISING number of trans identified men have in fact done, though JKRowling has afaik not)

JellySaurus · 08/12/2025 19:08

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:36

Maybe I should have been clearer that 1) and 2) in my post are both heterosexual women.

And all three of them have given birth to children.

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I still call bollocks. No woman will ever have been thrown out of a nightclub because she couldn’t prove she was a woman.

RedToothBrush · 08/12/2025 18:53

AsTreesWalking · 08/12/2025 18:51

Well...
You know what hapoened to the Messiah?

He got told off by his mum cos he was a very naughty boy?

AsTreesWalking · 08/12/2025 18:51

RedToothBrush · 19/08/2025 09:56

JKRowling could be the actual next messiah and she STILL would be 'getting it wrong' and not 'morally virtueous enough' for some of these people.

They just want to destroy her. And yet its supposedly her who is hateful.

And we are all supposed to not see this and pretend its not sexism.

Well...
You know what hapoened to the Messiah?

MarvellousMonsters · 08/12/2025 17:24

CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 05:44

If you don't think she is please don’t post. Please can you tell me specifically what she has said or done that is so bad. I promise that I will listen and not argue. If you could include links that would be great. If your inclination is to assume that I’m posting in bad faith and any reasonably well informed person must be stupid or bigoted not to know, then please just let the thread die.

I’m watching this thread with interest as I haven’t found anything really to justify the hate (and death threats) aimed at her, and I’m genuinely, honestly interested to hear what it is she’s done that is so heinous.

However, @CurlewKate, I suspect we’ll be waiting a long time to hear anything solid and real, just like I’m still waiting for the Leave voters to tell me how their lives have improved thanks to Brexit…..

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TheKeatingFive · 08/12/2025 16:28

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 16:24

Deleted it days later. After the damage was done. And didn't bother posting an apology or correction. Just quietly deleted it.

I'm not saying she should be burnt FFS. Just that all of these "we're just protecting women" speeches aren't about protecting women. They don't want to protect women who may not agree with them. They don't want to protect women who don't tick their boxes.

And? Is there a time frame after which deletions don't count or something? We don't know when she realised her mistake.

And you haven't addressed this?

What is your message to the men who infiltrated women's spaces that didn't belong to them, continue to do so, thus creating a climate where women can't be sure if their spaces are single sex or not?

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 16:24

TheKeatingFive · 08/12/2025 16:14

And she deleted it when she realised she was wrong, yes?

But by all means, let's burn this witch. Every woman getting challenged in the toilet clearly comes back to this specific action.

I mean, jeez. 🫠

What is your message to the men who infiltrated women's spaces that didn't belong to them, continue to do so, thus creating a climate where women can't be sure if their spaces are single sex or not?

Or are you blaming these men's actions on JKR too?

Deleted it days later. After the damage was done. And didn't bother posting an apology or correction. Just quietly deleted it.

I'm not saying she should be burnt FFS. Just that all of these "we're just protecting women" speeches aren't about protecting women. They don't want to protect women who may not agree with them. They don't want to protect women who don't tick their boxes.

TheKeatingFive · 08/12/2025 16:14

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 16:09

She retweeted someone claiming someone was trans, with their name, a link to their linkedin, and a photo of the person saying "you can see the five oclock shadow" (you couldn't. It was just a black and white photo). She has an enormous following, and with that comes the responsibility to double check that you're not putting someone at risk with your tweets.

If you can't see why that is, frankly, dangerous and the total opposite of 'protecting women', then I despair.

And she deleted it when she realised she was wrong, yes?

But by all means, let's burn this witch. Every woman getting challenged in the toilet clearly comes back to this specific action.

I mean, jeez. 🫠

What is your message to the men who infiltrated women's spaces that didn't belong to them, continue to do so, thus creating a climate where women can't be sure if their spaces are single sex or not?

Or are you blaming these men's actions on JKR too?

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 16:09

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/12/2025 15:53

She would only delete anything if she thought she’d got it wrong.

She did get it wrong.

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 16:09

TheKeatingFive · 08/12/2025 15:52

So you think this is JKR's fault because she retweeted and then deleted something?

Dear god in heaven, wtf is wrong with you?

Not a word about the men who created this climate off suspicion by infiltrating women's spaces in the first place, I note.

But why blame the men actually responsible when can burn the witch instead I guess? Much more satisfying. 🙄

She retweeted someone claiming someone was trans, with their name, a link to their linkedin, and a photo of the person saying "you can see the five oclock shadow" (you couldn't. It was just a black and white photo). She has an enormous following, and with that comes the responsibility to double check that you're not putting someone at risk with your tweets.

If you can't see why that is, frankly, dangerous and the total opposite of 'protecting women', then I despair.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/12/2025 15:53

She would only delete anything if she thought she’d got it wrong.

TheKeatingFive · 08/12/2025 15:52

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:47

As I said, JKR was involved with retweeting it. (She did delete them after a few days). It is JKR who is giving people the supposed freedom to abuse who ever they like (not JKR alone).

So you think this is JKR's fault because she retweeted and then deleted something?

Dear god in heaven, wtf is wrong with you?

Not a word about the men who created this climate off suspicion by infiltrating women's spaces in the first place, I note.

But why blame the men actually responsible when can burn the witch instead I guess? Much more satisfying. 🙄

murasaki · 08/12/2025 15:51

How is she giving anyone freedom to do anything? She just says what she thinks. What others do is not up to her.

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:47

TheKeatingFive · 08/12/2025 15:43

That's a total non sequitur.

What has this got to do with JKR?

As I said, JKR was involved with retweeting it. (She did delete them after a few days). It is JKR who is giving people the supposed freedom to abuse who ever they like (not JKR alone).

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:46

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 08/12/2025 15:42

You’ve been dining out on this for quite a while now.

I've posted about it in two threads on MN.

Do you fail to understand how hideous it was for her and her family? For her employers who literally received death threats? For her previous employers who had to get the police involved? For her daughters having to go to school knowing that people had been told their mother was trans? (Her son went to an all boys school, so was less of an issue).

Only someone truly hideous wouldn't find it utterly repellent if it happened to a friend of theirs.

TheKeatingFive · 08/12/2025 15:43

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:40

So, the fact that Graham Linehan tried to ruin a friends life is down to trans women, not him?

Riiight.

That's a total non sequitur.

What has this got to do with JKR?

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:43

MarieDeGournay · 08/12/2025 11:35

  1. A relative. A fair butch lesbian. Not even particularly tall. Wore a dress once for a night out. A group got her thrown out of a nightclub because she couldn't prove she was female and this group decided she shouldn't be using the women's toilets.

Good heavens, how many butch lesbians ARE there in the population?
And where were they all in my clubbing days??

They seem to be popping up everywhere now, and all of them have straight friends who post on MN, and all of them get not only challenged, but actually chased out of women's toilets.
I didn't know there were enough butch lesbians to go around!

Well, she's my niece, so yes, I did take it quite personally.

I see you haven't bothered taking offence about the two straight women I posted about.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 08/12/2025 15:42

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:40

So, the fact that Graham Linehan tried to ruin a friends life is down to trans women, not him?

Riiight.

You’ve been dining out on this for quite a while now.

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:41

Myalternate · 08/12/2025 12:01

Don’t believe the nightclub story….at all.

How nice for you. Always such a well thought out argument when someone says something you disagree with. "I don't believe you"

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:40

borntobequiet · 08/12/2025 12:00

Either this sort of thing was happening before trans became a thing (though I doubt it), in which case it’s some women being nasty, or it only started after trans became a thing, in which case it’s down to men self identifying into women’s spaces and spooking women. That’s if it’s really happening at all; it may be, IDK.

Either way it’s not the fault of JKR, or sex realistic beliefs women generally.

So, the fact that Graham Linehan tried to ruin a friends life is down to trans women, not him?

Riiight.

justteanbiscuits · 08/12/2025 15:36

JellySaurus · 08/12/2025 12:37

Funny, also, that these It’s True It Happened To A Friend stories are always about ‘butch lesbians’, as if no heterosexual woman has ever been challenged in the women’s toilets, or been addressed as ‘Sir’, or in any other way mis-identified. Only ever lesbians, hmm?

Maybe I should have been clearer that 1) and 2) in my post are both heterosexual women.

And all three of them have given birth to children.

MrsSkylerWhite · 08/12/2025 12:40

MarieDeGournay · 08/12/2025 12:21

When the sarcasm?
Last August!
The context might explain why the sarcasm.

🤷‍♀️

JellySaurus · 08/12/2025 12:37

KitWyn · 08/12/2025 12:03

I agree. All the lesbians I know were supremely delighted by the Supreme Court ruling. Including all the 'butch' ones. Now, finally, they can have lesbian-only events/apps free of bepenised people. And they all continue to be delighted by it, though cross with its bumpy, delayed-in-some-areas rollout.

Very, very occasionally, a woman (of any sexual orientation) may appear quite masculine to another woman. And she might get challenged with a "This is the ladies!?" for example.

But women - even very tall ones with very short hair, no makeup and wearing androgynous clothing - will still have a woman's voice, move like a woman and react to a challenge like a woman.

My lesbian friends don't know of any incidences where a quick (slightly embarrassing) chat hasn't resolved this confusion very quickly. And any claims to the contrary are misinformed nonsense on stilts.

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Funny, also, that these It’s True It Happened To A Friend stories are always about ‘butch lesbians’, as if no heterosexual woman has ever been challenged in the women’s toilets, or been addressed as ‘Sir’, or in any other way mis-identified. Only ever lesbians, hmm?

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