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This thread is specifically for people who think JK Rowling is awful so..

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CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 05:44

If you don't think she is please don’t post. Please can you tell me specifically what she has said or done that is so bad. I promise that I will listen and not argue. If you could include links that would be great. If your inclination is to assume that I’m posting in bad faith and any reasonably well informed person must be stupid or bigoted not to know, then please just let the thread die.

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justteanbiscuits · 18/08/2025 16:48

Namelessnelly · 18/08/2025 16:43

Which women is jk not wanting to protect?

I gave the example of my friend and her daughters. Read back.

viques · 18/08/2025 16:47

justteanbiscuits · 18/08/2025 14:09

I believe women are women and trans women are trans women. I don't believe they should be excluded from society, but I believe they are trans women.

The work I have done, and continue to do, is to keep the women / female category solely for those born female. This isn't perfect, because as we know, not everyone who is 'assigned female at birth' is actually female. But full DNA testing isn't a possibility in youth and amateur sport. So we generally take people at their word, and only their birth certificate would ever be asked for as proof if there were any serious doubts. Anyone, regardless of gender or sex, is able to compete in an Open category.

So at what point do trans identifying men stop being just men and become TIM? When they buy a lipstick and a pair of tights? When they buy a bra and stuff it with socks, or do they have to have bra filling surgery? What if they don’t have surgery and their trans identity remains cosmetic, does that count? If it is just a question of “I am what I say I am” why can’t we say no, actually you are still genetically a man, dress how you want, call yourself what you want but you really can’t go against the binary sexual arrangements that every other mammalian species and most other plant and animal species use on our planet just because you have a feeling which is more likely to either be a manifestation of your latent homosexuality or a product of some form of dysmorphic mental illness such as for example we readily accept is the case for anorexia. We really cannot have a society where to mollify a tiny proportion of disordered men other men, with adverse intentions, are as a by product of “kindness” given free access to vulnerable women and girls.

And btw people aren’t “assigned” a sex at birth, sex is observed using the very useful physical clues nature has provided. Sometimes, if there has been some sort of chromosomal glitch, and the child is unfortunate enough to be born in a country where medical provision is limited , and additionally the social stigma of a child felt to have a physical anomaly is very oppressive, a decision might be made which later proves to have been unwise, Caster Semanya and the Algerian boxer are unfortunate examples. But these are rare, and do not actually affect a human beings chromosomal identity of being male or female.

DNA testing in youth and most amateur sport should as you say be unnecessary, especially since once again there are usually sufficient physical markers which identify sex - especially in males post puberty - and which should be enough to make it clear whether an athlete should be competing in open or sexed classes. When it does become necessary, and should be obligatory, is when those very clear physical markers are ignored or deliberately fudged in order to obtain advantage in professional sport. This could be sorted by making a simple, universally accepted mouth swab test being obligatory for all professional athletes and sportspeople.

Merrymouse · 18/08/2025 16:45

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/08/2025 16:35

Surely she is on record as having said enough about trans issues for you to have an opinion on whether she is transphobic or not?

It's not as if she sits quietly thinking thoughts about trans issues, which may or may not be transphobic.

Her detractors are objecting to the comments she has made in writing, in a public space, over a period of almost 6 years. And yet they cannot quote a single one of those comments and give a coherent explanation as to why it is transphobic.

"It's not as if she sits quietly thinking thoughts about trans issues, which may or may not be transphobic."

Exactly.

You might not like the way she expresses herself or disagree with the substance, but she really isn't hiding her opinions.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/08/2025 16:44

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I'm not trying to bait you. It's obvious. You basically said that trans women are not like women in all the situations where sex is relevant.

SingingintheRadiator · 18/08/2025 16:44

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But you literally do? Everything you believe points to you not accepting that they're women in any real, meaningful way, which only leaves men. You can dress it up by calling them transwomen, but that's just another way of saying men.

Namelessnelly · 18/08/2025 16:43

justteanbiscuits · 18/08/2025 13:36

Yes thank you. I am quite sure this happened.

But I'm thrilled that quizzing me on this is more important than a group of adults causing teenage girls to be bullied. Which was my point. You see it across all areas at the moment - "we're just protecting the women" but actually, they're not. They want to protect some women, but not all of them.

Which women is jk not wanting to protect?

Haulage · 18/08/2025 16:43

I feel that so many of the anti-JKR replies here are precisely described in The Bewilderness’s Rules of Misogyny - particularly 2, 3 and 14. Just more rehashing of the expectation that women should appease be kind to men 🤪🙄

The Rules of Misogyny

#12. Women’s ability to recognize male behavior patterns is misandry

https://4w.pub/the-rules-of-misogyny/

justteanbiscuits · 18/08/2025 16:43

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/08/2025 16:42

justteanbiscuits · 18/08/2025 16:41

I have zero idea what you are talking about. You seem to think you've reached some amazing realisation. You keep saying I can't bring myself to say "trans women are women".. You just aren't making any sense.

I have held these views for a number of years. I am not having any gender awakening. I have known and cared about trans people for 30 years or more.

I said what I believe. Do not try and turn it into more than it is.

Yes. It's quite clear that you believe trans women are men.

justteanbiscuits · 18/08/2025 16:41

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/08/2025 16:12

Yes, OK.

But look at what you posted.

You admitted that there is no way to distinguish between a trans woman and a predatory male. (Correct. Why? Because both are male people whose inner thoughts and feelings we aren't privy to.)

You said that trans women have an unfair advantage over women in sport. (Correct. Because they are male people and their thoughts and feelings don't affect their sporting performance.)

And you said that trans women's experience isn't the same as women's experience. (Again, correct.)

You say "trans women are trans women". You can't even bring yourself to say "trans women are women", because you know it's stupid.

But "trans women are trans women" doesn't mean anything, any more than "spoons are spoons" means something.

Trans women are men, it just still feels taboo to say it.

You're just a year or so behind JK Rowling in your gender critical awakening.

I have zero idea what you are talking about. You seem to think you've reached some amazing realisation. You keep saying I can't bring myself to say "trans women are women".. You just aren't making any sense.

I have held these views for a number of years. I am not having any gender awakening. I have known and cared about trans people for 30 years or more.

I said what I believe. Do not try and turn it into more than it is.

Merrymouse · 18/08/2025 16:41

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:31

I genuinely do think it would have been unclaimed in the period I remember his supporters using that line.

As I said, for the longest time, it was a defence used by his fans. Because it was. It would hold no water now.

Sorry, when? His back ground is in football hooliganism and fraud. I'm not sure when he decided he could monetise racism, but he has never hidden it, and it's pretty easy to find evidence that he is a criminal thug.

Does it perhaps occur to you that his fans are not particularly bright?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/08/2025 16:37

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:31

I genuinely do think it would have been unclaimed in the period I remember his supporters using that line.

As I said, for the longest time, it was a defence used by his fans. Because it was. It would hold no water now.

Yes but none of his supporters are in a position to offer £1 million reward money, so that would be a completely empty offer.

Whereas for JKR it's pocket change.

SingingintheRadiator · 18/08/2025 16:36

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:30

No. I have no idea if she's transphobic, so I'm not making any claims to that effect.

Just that lack of written evidence in no way proves that she isn't transphobic.

And no, I'm not thought policing her either. I really don't care if she's transphobic or not.

But equally, it means no one has any reason to say she is either, no? You can't just magically intuit that someone is racist or transphobic or hates dogs just because when they've literally never said anything that would suggest they are.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/08/2025 16:35

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:26

Yes I think it probably is these days. He's stopped being so careful. But I can distinctly remember seeing the same 'SHOW ME HE'S RACIST' demands online and googling thinking, how hard can it be, and not finding anything.

He also indignantly claimed that he wasn't racist or anti-Muslim at his libel trial.

To be crystal clear, I'm not lumping JK Rowling in anything like the same pot as Tommy Robinson. But I don't think that the repetitive, triumphant demands for proof she's a transphobe are the 'gotcha' that people think they are. She might be a transphobe. She might not be. But she's definitely not stupid.

Surely she is on record as having said enough about trans issues for you to have an opinion on whether she is transphobic or not?

It's not as if she sits quietly thinking thoughts about trans issues, which may or may not be transphobic.

Her detractors are objecting to the comments she has made in writing, in a public space, over a period of almost 6 years. And yet they cannot quote a single one of those comments and give a coherent explanation as to why it is transphobic.

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:31

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/08/2025 16:24

Right, but the most difficulty we have in responding to such a stupid comment is deciding which of the thousands of very racist things Yaxley-Lennon is on record as having said to quote first.

JK Rowling's detractors literally cannot find one transphobic thing she has said to quote.

Do you really think a £1m reward for finding a racist quote by Yaxley-Lennon would ever have been offered, much less sit unclaimed for years?

I genuinely do think it would have been unclaimed in the period I remember his supporters using that line.

As I said, for the longest time, it was a defence used by his fans. Because it was. It would hold no water now.

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:30

CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 16:24

So are you saying that JKR is transphobic but has never actually committed anything transphobic to paper/twitter/SMS?

No. I have no idea if she's transphobic, so I'm not making any claims to that effect.

Just that lack of written evidence in no way proves that she isn't transphobic.

And no, I'm not thought policing her either. I really don't care if she's transphobic or not.

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:26

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 18/08/2025 16:15

The difference being that it is astonishingly easy to find something racist that Stephen Yaxley Lennon said.

Yes I think it probably is these days. He's stopped being so careful. But I can distinctly remember seeing the same 'SHOW ME HE'S RACIST' demands online and googling thinking, how hard can it be, and not finding anything.

He also indignantly claimed that he wasn't racist or anti-Muslim at his libel trial.

To be crystal clear, I'm not lumping JK Rowling in anything like the same pot as Tommy Robinson. But I don't think that the repetitive, triumphant demands for proof she's a transphobe are the 'gotcha' that people think they are. She might be a transphobe. She might not be. But she's definitely not stupid.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 18/08/2025 16:26

CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 16:24

So are you saying that JKR is transphobic but has never actually committed anything transphobic to paper/twitter/SMS?

It’s the thought police.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/08/2025 16:24

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:08

For the longest time, this was how Tommy Robinson's supporters defended him. For all I know, they still do. "Go on then, show me something our Tommy has said that's racist. Come on - show me! I'm waiting. You can't, can you? Because he ISN'T RACIST."

I'm not saying JK is or isn't transphobic. Just that this line of defence - she's never committed it to paper - doesn't prove anything either way, and reminds me v much of the extremely lame defences of known racists.

Right, but the most difficulty we have in responding to such a stupid comment is deciding which of the thousands of very racist things Yaxley-Lennon is on record as having said to quote first.

JK Rowling's detractors literally cannot find one transphobic thing she has said to quote.

Do you really think a £1m reward for finding a racist quote by Yaxley-Lennon would ever have been offered, much less sit unclaimed for years?

CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 16:24

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:08

For the longest time, this was how Tommy Robinson's supporters defended him. For all I know, they still do. "Go on then, show me something our Tommy has said that's racist. Come on - show me! I'm waiting. You can't, can you? Because he ISN'T RACIST."

I'm not saying JK is or isn't transphobic. Just that this line of defence - she's never committed it to paper - doesn't prove anything either way, and reminds me v much of the extremely lame defences of known racists.

So are you saying that JKR is transphobic but has never actually committed anything transphobic to paper/twitter/SMS?

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SingingintheRadiator · 18/08/2025 16:24

Merrymouse · 18/08/2025 16:22

Do you think trans men don't know that their sex is female?

'Woman' should be a completely gender neutral word. You no more have to identify with being a woman than you have to identify with having an elbow or a blood type.

Why is it helpful to assert that 'woman' has to be attached to a specific identity, moreover one that is linked to women's oppression?

I used to think everyone knew their sex, but when even a male doctor states he's a biological woman under oath, you have to wonder...

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 18/08/2025 16:24

justteanbiscuits · 18/08/2025 16:00

I've never claimed to be anything, or not be anything. I have simply related a story and then answered questions.

To add to it, I support the use of language in medical situations such as "women and those with a cervix" as I think it is important to ensure that trans men still receive adequate healthcare.

That isn’t what you did though is it? You made an accusation about JKR, which you couldn’t substantiate, and when asked for proof of it you became abusive, angry and defensive, and made some extraordinary comments to me in particular, does the word disgusting ring any bells? How else do you explain some of your posts being deleted by @MNHQ ?

Merrymouse · 18/08/2025 16:22

justteanbiscuits · 18/08/2025 16:00

I've never claimed to be anything, or not be anything. I have simply related a story and then answered questions.

To add to it, I support the use of language in medical situations such as "women and those with a cervix" as I think it is important to ensure that trans men still receive adequate healthcare.

Do you think trans men don't know that their sex is female?

'Woman' should be a completely gender neutral word. You no more have to identify with being a woman than you have to identify with having an elbow or a blood type.

Why is it helpful to assert that 'woman' has to be attached to a specific identity, moreover one that is linked to women's oppression?

takealettermsjones · 18/08/2025 16:19

Bloozie · 18/08/2025 16:08

For the longest time, this was how Tommy Robinson's supporters defended him. For all I know, they still do. "Go on then, show me something our Tommy has said that's racist. Come on - show me! I'm waiting. You can't, can you? Because he ISN'T RACIST."

I'm not saying JK is or isn't transphobic. Just that this line of defence - she's never committed it to paper - doesn't prove anything either way, and reminds me v much of the extremely lame defences of known racists.

It's hardly a lame defence to ask for the evidence of something of which a person is accused.

SingingintheRadiator · 18/08/2025 16:19

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 18/08/2025 16:15

The difference being that it is astonishingly easy to find something racist that Stephen Yaxley Lennon said.

Yes, people will argue the stuff he's said is not racist, but the stuff can actually be produced and debated as to whether it is racist or not. I don't think anyone's produced any evidence for us to debate about JK's transphobia at all. That's the difference.