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Richard Coles embarrassing himself

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LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 17/08/2025 18:08

Why do these mediocre men need to keep speaking? You’d think this was written by a 12 year old, who uses the word ‘baddie’ ffs? 🤦‍♀️ It’s so full of virtue signalling, ‘look at me with all these young people showing them how cool I am’ it’s absolutely tragic.

Richard Coles embarrassing himself
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LittleBitofBread · 22/08/2025 13:14

Alltheprettyseahorses · 22/08/2025 10:49

I don't think opinions regarding JKR are divided by age. I find there's a class divide and a feedback loop within that class where different middle-class generations reinforce that opinion to each other. Ie younger people are taught by older authority figures that JKR is against them and older people decide to dislike her because younger ones do so it makes them feel young again and they have a tendency to expect the world to treat their children as more important than they are.

I don’t think it’s entirely class or entirely age, which is why I said ‘ somewhat’ divided by generation.
It was the younger staff at Bloomsbury, wasn’t it, who staged that ‘ protest’ and said they wouldn’t work on her books any more?

LittleBitofBread · 22/08/2025 13:12

Shedmistress · 22/08/2025 12:57

No, absolutely not. People who are older are more than capable of taking photos with people who are younger without calling other older and completely unrelated random people 'baddies'. These older people are just trying to be 'down with the kids' and it really is cringeworthy.

He didn’t call her a baddie. He said they think she is one.
Yes, he used that word, but it is part of his usual posting style to be mild and somewhat old-fashioned in his turn of phrase.

crumpet · 22/08/2025 13:11

My main question about Coles though is why does he never appear to be at home? Endless perambulations around the country and a pro as it seems

crumpet · 22/08/2025 13:11

The thing is, he could have made a nice post about whatever the event was without the “tee hee, I am down with the kids, who like me and not JKR”, so it’s a pity that he chose to do so.

Shedmistress · 22/08/2025 12:57

LittleBitofBread · 22/08/2025 09:49

She is a massive opinion-divider and it's at least somewhat divided by generation, so seeing as his post was about the similarities/differences between him and these younger people I'd say it makes perfect sense that he mentioned her.

No, absolutely not. People who are older are more than capable of taking photos with people who are younger without calling other older and completely unrelated random people 'baddies'. These older people are just trying to be 'down with the kids' and it really is cringeworthy.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 22/08/2025 10:49

I don't think opinions regarding JKR are divided by age. I find there's a class divide and a feedback loop within that class where different middle-class generations reinforce that opinion to each other. Ie younger people are taught by older authority figures that JKR is against them and older people decide to dislike her because younger ones do so it makes them feel young again and they have a tendency to expect the world to treat their children as more important than they are.

LittleBitofBread · 22/08/2025 09:49

Shedmistress · 22/08/2025 09:46

There was literally no reason to mention JKR at all.

She is a massive opinion-divider and it's at least somewhat divided by generation, so seeing as his post was about the similarities/differences between him and these younger people I'd say it makes perfect sense that he mentioned her.

Shedmistress · 22/08/2025 09:46

Lins77 · 21/08/2025 18:53

I don't see what he has said here that is so bad. He seems to be just observing some generational traits.

There was literally no reason to mention JKR at all.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 22/08/2025 06:57

Weepixie · 21/08/2025 19:11

@Tunnocksmallow
in 40 years we will look back, horrified at how we treated other humans just for being different and be ashamed at the suffering we caused

It will be a cold day in hell before that happens.

Exactly how we look back now at how people treated gay men during the AIDS crisis

There’s absolutely no comparing the two to begin with let alone anything else.

I do just love a bit of false equivalence. What we’ll look back on in horror is the medicalisation of vulnerable children, which includes the surgical removal of young girl’s healthy breasts, to treat what is, in most cases, a temporary MH issue, which resolves it itself after puberty, with many of these children being same sex attracted. How many of these virtue signalling, oh so cool posters who support this dogma seem able to forget the utter horror of what is being done to children in the name of this insidious, male centred, ideology never ceases to amaze me.

What will be looked back on is how so many people collectively lost their minds, and their objectivity, in order to centre the needs of creepy men with a fetish, because they didn’t have the courage to call this out for what it is, a regressive, misogynistic, homophobic, insidious ideology.

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Weepixie · 21/08/2025 19:11

@Tunnocksmallow
in 40 years we will look back, horrified at how we treated other humans just for being different and be ashamed at the suffering we caused

It will be a cold day in hell before that happens.

Exactly how we look back now at how people treated gay men during the AIDS crisis

There’s absolutely no comparing the two to begin with let alone anything else.

Weepixie · 21/08/2025 19:07

Screamingabdabz · 17/08/2025 21:42

Loved Brain Cant. As a child he was the kind of man I was going to grow up and marry! (Kind, handsome, twinkle in his eye).

As for JKR - she most definitely is a Baddie B to me! The woman is a bloody legend, a hero and a fucking warrior for women’s rights. Those who have a problem with her ‘views’ must have a problem with the innate laws of nature, physics, the universe. Reality denying dimwits.

Hear Hear

Weepixie · 21/08/2025 19:04

@LadyBracknellsHandbagg* his is a man who pretended to have AIDS in the 90’s and whose brother is a creep. He has no moral high ground whatsoever.
Last time I looked I get to decide what I ‘waste energy on’.*

His brother being a creep is no reflection at all on the Rev Cole’s.

Lins77 · 21/08/2025 18:53

I don't see what he has said here that is so bad. He seems to be just observing some generational traits.

SirBasil · 21/08/2025 18:21

also apols to him, he didn't tag JKR.

The problem with the internet is that it is too tribal now. Any perceived slight and BAM! pile on.
i don't like it.

TyroleanKnockabout · 21/08/2025 18:21

JamieCannister · 21/08/2025 16:46

Surely the issue is that he was sat with proud homophobes and misogynists and refusing to call them out.

No good person sits with proud homophobes and misogynists unless they absolutely have to, or unless they use their time with them to call them out. I don;t believe he had to sit there, and I don't believe he couldn't have called them out

Almost everyone I know (bar my own family) thinks that JKR is a baddie (in a bad way), probably because I’m 25 and work in the heritage industry. These are not terrible people, they’ve mostly just taken what they’ve heard for granted and not done their research. I have argued (politely) with people in the past, but if I called them all out I would end up very isolated. Maybe it’s easier for those who know more likeminded people. I think RC was calling them out, actually (for being hypocrites). I don’t like that he’s had to delete his Twitter over this.

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 21/08/2025 18:08

SirBasil · 21/08/2025 17:12

i think his plan to be seen by loads of people who then thought how wonderfully right-on he is by tagging JKR on his post has backfiree. He's now deleted his X account.

I couldn't work out why, given how anodyne his account was (flowers! seabirds!), but it looks as if he got piled on because everyone thought he was calling jkr a baddie:

https://x.com/AjaTheEmpress/status/1957019590761775566

Ludicrous.

https://x.com/AjaTheEmpress/status/1957019590761775566

SirBasil · 21/08/2025 17:12

i think his plan to be seen by loads of people who then thought how wonderfully right-on he is by tagging JKR on his post has backfiree. He's now deleted his X account.

JamieCannister · 21/08/2025 16:46

yetanotherusernameAgain · 17/08/2025 18:31

I don't understand what you're het up about. That he had the temerity to mention people he is working with don't like JKR?

Surely the issue is that he was sat with proud homophobes and misogynists and refusing to call them out.

No good person sits with proud homophobes and misogynists unless they absolutely have to, or unless they use their time with them to call them out. I don;t believe he had to sit there, and I don't believe he couldn't have called them out

CurlewKate · 21/08/2025 16:34

Lifelover16 · 21/08/2025 14:32

Urgh! I didn’t know that!i never liked him much before, but gone right off him now.
What a horrible thing to do.

He agrees with you.

LlynTegid · 21/08/2025 15:07

zanahoria · 20/08/2025 15:52

The geeky one behind the keyboards in an 80s synth pop duo.

I wonder what Chris from the Pet Shop Boys or Dave from Soft Cell thinks of all this

Nothing to with Richard Coles, but Dave Ball and Mark Almond when they were planning to retire and had a farewell gig seemed to have a respect for each other.

SirBasil · 21/08/2025 14:40

CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 05:28

I find it extraordinary that anyone can say “gay men weren’t treated badly during the ‘80s!!”

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yep, i was there. It was awful.

SirBasil · 21/08/2025 14:34

he's a bit of a self absorbed nob who, while he was still a priest, lied to his bishop about not having sex with his "husband" who he, against the rules in place at the time "married" secretly in a church, IIRC

and is no longer a Ref but writes (of course, big names can always get published) books.

he can nob off.

Lifelover16 · 21/08/2025 14:32

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 20/08/2025 16:36

Yep, he pretended for years to have AIDS for attention apparently. He said even though he knew many people that had died from it, pretending he had it gave him ‘a weird glamour’. I just don’t know how sick you have to be to do that, it’s reprehensible.

Urgh! I didn’t know that!i never liked him much before, but gone right off him now.
What a horrible thing to do.

Lifelover16 · 21/08/2025 14:30

I’d rather they do that and listen to each other than be dismissive.
Rather smug of him to post it though, I feel.

CurlewKate · 21/08/2025 14:28

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 20/08/2025 16:36

Yep, he pretended for years to have AIDS for attention apparently. He said even though he knew many people that had died from it, pretending he had it gave him ‘a weird glamour’. I just don’t know how sick you have to be to do that, it’s reprehensible.

He agrees with you.