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TRAs appropriate "Safe Spaces" phrase

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IwantToRetire · 15/08/2025 19:14

As we know many politicians use this phrase to avoid having to say single sex ie biological women only

How strange (not) that it is now being used as a campaign to create "safe spaces" for trans people in local communities!

No suprise to find the campaign started in Bristol.

https://www.bristol247.com/lgbtq/features-lgbtq/safe-spaces-the-group-calling-for-bristol-businesses-to-support-trans-rights/

Safe Spaces: the group calling for Bristol businesses to support trans rights

Safe Space Bristol is uniting businesses against the EHRC'S new proposed Code of Practice

https://www.bristol247.com/lgbtq/features-lgbtq/safe-spaces-the-group-calling-for-bristol-businesses-to-support-trans-rights/

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2025 19:09

You are correct that trans rights activists appropriate everything and often get a kick out of the outrageous reversal of reality to portray them as the victim and the real victim is the offender (DARVO) , which is something common to cluster B personality disorders such as NPD. But I don’t think this is a particularly egregious use of the phrase here based on how they see things, it’s generally just hyperbole anyway. I also don’t think they used it because of Keir Starmer.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2025 18:59

So it’s you who is missing the point.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2025 18:59

It was a phrase in public use, people literally took the piss out of it all the time.

IwantToRetire · 17/08/2025 17:32

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2025 08:29

I’m not sure the British public were hanging on Keir Starmer’s every word about it either. Yes I think it was an attempt to use an activist buzzword to avoid committing himself on the issue either way, and allowing people to interpret the law as it then stood in a way favourable to the message the government wanted to send, which was broadly “inclusive” without directly supporting what trans rights activists wanted, ie self ID.

That's the point.

Until the media picked up on it because (in their minds) it made Starmer seem even more squirmy, it was not a phrase in public use.

Going on about how anyone as an individual may have heard about is not the same as it becoming part of mainstream media.

And quite honestly I suspect that those who have set up this trans safe space are part of that. Young ideologues who have no memory or knowledge longer than their last SM posting, thought they had hit on something unique to women, and so thought wouldn't it be brilliant to reverse it and make it all about trans.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2025 08:29

I’m not sure the British public were hanging on Keir Starmer’s every word about it either. Yes I think it was an attempt to use an activist buzzword to avoid committing himself on the issue either way, and allowing people to interpret the law as it then stood in a way favourable to the message the government wanted to send, which was broadly “inclusive” without directly supporting what trans rights activists wanted, ie self ID.

Signalbox · 17/08/2025 08:23

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2025 00:47

No, the term “safe spaces” did not only make the mainstream media when Labour started using it to fudge their intentions. You are simply wrong.

I agree. I was well aware of the concept of “safe spaces” well before the trans issue took hold and before I started using this board. Its use was rife in lefty politics and university culture. Perhaps the British public at large are less aware of its significance but I do wish KS and other politicians would be challenged on it whenever they say it. It’s even more important to challenge if TRAs think it’s a way to circumnavigate the law (which presumably is why KS started using it as a term in the first place)

ErrolTheDragon · 17/08/2025 00:54

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2025 00:47

No, the term “safe spaces” did not only make the mainstream media when Labour started using it to fudge their intentions. You are simply wrong.

It also made PMQs (Theresa May) and South Parks.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/08/2025 00:47

No, the term “safe spaces” did not only make the mainstream media when Labour started using it to fudge their intentions. You are simply wrong.

IwantToRetire · 16/08/2025 20:17

Just to repeat because many on FWR are well informed they then presume the general public is.

In terms of main stream media, media discussion "safe spaces" only made headlines when Labour started using it.

So it has nothing to do with whether I know about its history, or anything else.

Most people do not do detail. They dont have time. They have other priorities.

If you aren't aware of campaigning, or use of weasel words then you are never going to be able to counteract the narrative that those you disagree with are using.

This isn't about an esoteric university debate.

Being on FWR is obviously positive etc..

But to use it as the yardstick by which issues are being discussed by the public and the media, it just out to lunch.

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Brainworm · 16/08/2025 09:47

(1) The term ‘psychologically safe space’ was originally used to refer to the psychological environment that supports high performance, innovation and learning. They were defined as spaces where people feel free to speak up with ideas, questions or concerns without fear of punishment or embarrassment.

(2) Spaces designed to provide a refuge from judgement, criticism and uncomfortable thoughts and feelings get called ‘safe spaces’. These conditions align with conditions created for the purpose of respite and healing.

(3) ‘Safe spaces’ can refer spaces where steps are taken to minimise physical harm.

Each of these can exist in isolation. 1 and 3 can be paired, as can 2 and 3. 1 and 3 conflict.

When ‘safe space’ is thrown into the mix, I always ask for clarification. People often state all 3 purposes, and I point out that 1 and 2 conflict. They tend not to like this, especially when 1 is highlighted as reflective of psychological safety. People often operate under the misguided assumption that psychological wellbeing is supported under conditions of 2.

EmpressaurusKitty · 16/08/2025 09:11

FrippEnos · 15/08/2025 19:57

Yes they are,

A paradox then. Anywhere that’s marked a ‘safe space’ on these terms is likely to be unsafe for women.

ErrolTheDragon · 16/08/2025 09:08

Yes, ‘safe spaces’ had been appropriated in the ‘public discourse’ in the U.K. years ago by the deplatformers etc, including transactivists but also other groups eg antisemitic. It’s become a banal ‘snowflake’ phrase - imo at this point the transactivists are welcome to it, but we need to push for clarity and the use of ‘single sex facility/service’.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/08/2025 08:24

I remember in the Bailey tribunal there was a TRA who said the building (Garden Court Chambers) wouldn’t be “safe” for a planned TRA group meeting with her there. As if they were at physical risk from Allison Bailey in a legal office.

Enough4me · 16/08/2025 08:19

As people with dysphoria can be either sex, does this mean they are campaigning for unisex facilities separate from single sex facilities to help them to feel safe?
Do people with dysphoria trust all others who say they have dysphoria and want to only share facilities with those with the same condition?
(Surely some will have dysphoria, some will be making it up, how can they tell?)

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/08/2025 08:12

Shortshriftandlethal · 15/08/2025 19:32

'Safe spaces' predates the movement against trans ideology..and was part of the culture of safetyism that arose in the early/mid 2010's.

It was highly annoying when Starmer started using the term when really he should have been saying 'single sex' spaces, which is far more accurate.

The culture of safetyism was one that sought to censure and to shield the fragile from views that they didn't like; or from being confronted with challenging ideas.

Exactly.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/08/2025 08:11

You might not have been aware of it then @IwantToRetire but I was, and it was partly what was so insidious about Labour’s more recent use of it as a way to avoid saying single sex spaces. So no, the TRA group isn’t necessarily “appropriating” they are using it in the same hyperbolic sense.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 16/08/2025 06:47

Something else they want to make all about them.

IwantToRetire · 16/08/2025 00:53

Everyone keeps missing the point.

Being on FWR you know of a more complicated history.

But as we know right up until the Supreme Court ruling "Safe Sapces" was the Labour misnomer that they sold to the public was that women were therefore protected.

No newspaper ever challenged that.

It is the same as all those women who still think Women's Aid is Refuge, which means even though they are a rich corporate entity they get more publicity and money.

So what is going on here is about the public discourse, not what is happening in the (sorry to say) quite narrow world of women's sex based rights.

It is not accident they have used this. Just more appropriation.

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knittin · 15/08/2025 21:43

Kier Starmer kept using this annoying, patronising term during the election campaign and he was legally inaccurate. Single Sex Spaces not Safe Spaces.

ErrolTheDragon · 15/08/2025 21:21

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/08/2025 21:06

As pp said “safe spaces” was a fashionable buzzword before trans hit the mainstream and before the Labour Party started to use it as a fudge for single sex spaces. It goes along with feeling “unsafe” when someone disagrees with you. It was quite disingenuous of Labour to use it for this meaning. The sex fudge that they favoured pre SC ruling.

Yes, one of the more egregious areas of misuse was uni events where ‘safe space’ seemed to equate to ‘being shielded from being exposed to different opinions’. Fortunately the idea that free speech and challenging ideas are kinda vital in unis is reasserting itself.

DragonRunor · 15/08/2025 21:14

We should absolutely encourage ‘safe spaces’ to be available for trans people, so they don’t feel they can use the single sex spaces which the rest of us find convenient. Trans allies can use the ‘safe spaces’ too, to help them stay safe <feel I may have missed the point 😆>

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/08/2025 21:06

As pp said “safe spaces” was a fashionable buzzword before trans hit the mainstream and before the Labour Party started to use it as a fudge for single sex spaces. It goes along with feeling “unsafe” when someone disagrees with you. It was quite disingenuous of Labour to use it for this meaning. The sex fudge that they favoured pre SC ruling.

Bannedontherun · 15/08/2025 20:38

Yes like businesses give a shite either way mostly.

it was a PR virtue signalling opportunity, that is going out of fashion.

And add the risk of losing insurance and potential litigation this is not going to gain traction with business's large and small.

personally never expected the SC ruling would be an overnight sea change.

But i am happy to wager that this time next year we will see a significant shift.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 15/08/2025 20:07

More than happy for them to have ‘safe spaces’ as long as TW stay out of our single sex spaces

The use of ‘safe spaces’ as opposed to ‘single sex’ was of course entirely deliberate because everyone should be safe.