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Virgin Active update their T&C to explicitly state members must use changing spaces that reflect biological sex. Wording is very clear. "By Law" (Title edited by MNHQ at request of OP)

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 15/08/2025 14:46

https://www.virginactive.co.uk/the-legal-stuff/club-rules

"By law, our members and visitors who use a changing room marked as ‘male’ or ‘female’ must select the one that matches their biological sex.
Our unisex and single-occupancy facilities can be used by everyone, and we are updating our signage to ensure these spaces are clearly marked and easy to find."

I assume there will be a lot of these changes happening in the very near future, and the guidance is about to arrive if we are lucky. Do not think Virgin would put their head above the parapet on their own.

Our Club Rules & Policies | Virgin Active

We want to make sure everyone is comfortable here, so we've got some basic club rules to help make the most of your experience.

https://www.virginactive.co.uk/the-legal-stuff/club-rules

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CriticalCondition · 24/09/2025 19:11

Gosh, GLP and the fox botherer are really itching to get sued. I hope Virgin don't take the bait.

Now that the law is crystal clear the cases they can pursue as claimants are limited. So they need some to defend. Those lawyers gotta get their fees somehow.

NotAtMyAge · 24/09/2025 19:04

DustyWindowsills · 24/09/2025 18:28

And this one. 😁

😂😂 I still miss the laugh emoji.

DustyWindowsills · 24/09/2025 18:28

MarieDeGournay · 24/09/2025 18:10

I thought it was going to be a bit of creative graffiti - like the feminists who went around adding bits to existing ads, like this famous one.
But breaking into an advertising panel and putting in their own is a different matter. Less creative too!

And this one. 😁

Virgin Active update their T&C to explicitly state members must use changing spaces that reflect biological sex. Wording is very clear. "By Law" (Title edited by MNHQ at request of OP)
MarieDeGournay · 24/09/2025 18:10

I thought it was going to be a bit of creative graffiti - like the feminists who went around adding bits to existing ads, like this famous one.
But breaking into an advertising panel and putting in their own is a different matter. Less creative too!

Virgin Active update their T&C to explicitly state members must use changing spaces that reflect biological sex. Wording is very clear. "By Law" (Title edited by MNHQ at request of OP)
TomorrowisThursday · 24/09/2025 17:52

Honestly just glancing at it, like most busy Londoners, I'd have thought it was an advert for Virgin Active. 😅

"Don't follow transphobes follow the law". Fab. How many people are gonna bother with the small print...

RedNine · 24/09/2025 17:19

OMG. Total cray-cray.

LizzieSiddal · 24/09/2025 17:10

Confused Which law do GLP think they should be following?! They are utterly bat shit aren’t they.

RedToothBrush · 24/09/2025 17:09

UnmarketableTomato · 24/09/2025 17:07

But but but Virgin Active are following The Law, and they haven't banned anyone ... they just expect them to follow the law and use the correct changing room.

How can GLP claim other wise?

They can't. They are defaming Virgin.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 24/09/2025 17:09

RedToothBrush · 24/09/2025 17:02

https://x.com/GoodLawProject/status/1970878903171604814?t=Lwf53Oghrsq2NhQYc4SWwQ&s=19

Couldn't Virgin sue them for this stuff?

Isn't this vandalism / fly posting without permission and couldn't they be done for that too?

What utter nutters GLP are

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 24/09/2025 17:07

Isn’t that statement about who can use which changing rooms clear, simple and unambiguous? Not complicated at all innit?

UnmarketableTomato · 24/09/2025 17:07

But but but Virgin Active are following The Law, and they haven't banned anyone ... they just expect them to follow the law and use the correct changing room.

How can GLP claim other wise?

RedToothBrush · 24/09/2025 16:57

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/09/2025 16:27

If I remember correctly, with the exception of student unions, the majority of those businesses are one man bands / small businesses with few if any employees and likely a toilet in their own home where they work from 😂

Not sure they represent much more than 650 mates of mates.

And the known battshittery that is Lush.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/09/2025 16:27

MarieDeGournay · 24/09/2025 16:15

Perhaps what-his-name who owns Virgin could have a word with the
More than 650 organisations have urged Bridget Phillipson to ‘take immediate action to prevent these proposals from moving forward’
because they claim
“The proposals made in the EHRC’s draft Code of Practice under the Equality Act would have serious and far-reaching consequences for UK businesses, our employees, and our customers.
Hundreds of firms warn new guidance on single sex spaces is ‘unworkable’ and would cause ‘significant economic harm’ | Mumsnet

He could tell them to calm, down, dears, Virgin did it and the sky didn't fall in...so to speak.

If I remember correctly, with the exception of student unions, the majority of those businesses are one man bands / small businesses with few if any employees and likely a toilet in their own home where they work from 😂

Not sure they represent much more than 650 mates of mates.

MarieDeGournay · 24/09/2025 16:15

Perhaps what-his-name who owns Virgin could have a word with the
More than 650 organisations have urged Bridget Phillipson to ‘take immediate action to prevent these proposals from moving forward’
because they claim
“The proposals made in the EHRC’s draft Code of Practice under the Equality Act would have serious and far-reaching consequences for UK businesses, our employees, and our customers.
Hundreds of firms warn new guidance on single sex spaces is ‘unworkable’ and would cause ‘significant economic harm’ | Mumsnet

He could tell them to calm, down, dears, Virgin did it and the sky didn't fall in...so to speak.

BundleBoogie · 24/09/2025 16:13

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 24/09/2025 15:59

GLP picked their story up on this again today, dunno what changed in last 4 weeks though - https://goodlawproject.org/virgin-active-caves-in-to-transphobic-threats/

Gosh what a dishonest and incoherent rant.

So asking for the law to be enforced is transphobic 🤔

They were correct in one sentence - the law hasn’t changed. But the law has never ever said that people can use the spaces ‘of their choice’ - what absolute numpties.

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GallantKumquat · 17/08/2025 13:18

BundleBoogie · 15/08/2025 21:11

Yes, this is the bit I don’t understand.

In which ‘case’ will a man believe allowed into the women’s changing room and in which case will they not?

Does the man have to have made at least some effort and out a dress on, or not? Does he have to wear a nice dress and remove his penis (not that anyone would want to ask for proof) and maybe brush his hair/put some heels on?

Does he have to ask nicely or is it the pushy, shouty ones they will let in? Does his entry permission get revoked if he doesn’t behave and starts parading around naked? What if there are two of them that want entry at the same time?

These ‘case’ assessments could be complicated.

With this response,

  • In the interim period, we recommend that facility operators manage situations on a case-by-case basis, acting with sensitivity and understanding to continue to ensure all customers are treated with dignity and respect, and are supported while policies are under review. The EHRC states that employers and other duty-bearers must follow the law and should take appropriate specialist legal advice where necessary. Please refer to the interim update provided by the EHRC on Friday 25 April for further information until full guidance is provided

what's remarkable is that Virgin is actually paying UKActive for a service in which they are

  1. wrong (yet again) in the advice they give: "case-by-case", and
  2. passing along the free advice the EHRC is providing which is to pay someone with legal expertise who will (unlike UKActive) give you actual legitimate information on policy.

Why exactly does Virgin retain a relationship with UKActive, an organization that's caused great harm to their brand, put them in legal jeopardy and is exerting a pernicious influence on the rest of the industry. Why aren't organizations like UKActive - who exist to help businesses like Virgin, for a membership fee(!), but end up harming them instead - held to account to face consequences?

RoastOrMash · 17/08/2025 12:41

Thank you @EyesOpening and @LeftieRightsHoarder for your suggestions - I will follow both :-)
Will contact Sex Matters for advice, and if/when there is any update I will start new thread!
Thx again!

MarieDeGournay · 17/08/2025 10:50

ArabellaScott · 17/08/2025 10:01

That could risk being 'indirect discrimination'. A lack of provision for women where there is adequate for males would not be fair.

A note that building regs differ throughout the UK. The ones you posted are for England, Marie.

Thanks, Arabella- I just use Doc T as an Inspirational Text😁

SadSadTimes · 17/08/2025 10:48

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/08/2025 10:28

Odd isn't it?
I often watch Free Speech Nation on GB News - it unashamedly platforms women who speak about facts, the law, women's rights and child safeguarding. For some reason the BBC, ITV etc have repeatedly failed to allow these women a platform. So I'm very grateful that GB News exists and concerned at the open, anti safeguarding bias of the rest of the press.

I often watch Free Speech Nation too. I have even sat in on a recording of an episode when I attended Battle of Ideas.

It saddens me to read I cannot put into words how much I despise GBNews and it's entire viewership because it illustrates our difficult struggle to regain women's rights.

"Proper" news outlets won't cover the issues so people assume we are loonies when we bring issues up. "What are you on about? This never happens. You must be a conspiracy loon".

GB News does cover it, and well, but anyone who watches it is considered despicable and...a conspiracy loon.

Heads you win tails I lose.

WithSilverBells · 17/08/2025 10:32

BundleBoogie · 16/08/2025 20:35

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It makes me wonder how the policy meetings went. Were there arguments that revealed these ridiculous failings that make the policies impossible to implement properly so the safest thing is to let all men in? Was a decision taken in the knowledge this would be the outcome?

Did some activist just hold the meeting to ransom, dictate the policy and threaten to report anyone who questioned the wording?

Were the policy writers just too dim to think it through?

UKActive signposted Stonewall and Gendered Intelligence in their 'Guidance For Front Line Staff To Assist Trans People To Access Leisure Facilities', so I imagine they outsourced their thinking to the activists, just as the Leisure Centres outsourced theirs to UKActive.

The EHRC should shoulder much of the blame. It's guidance at the time opened all the doors for the activists.

ArabellaScott · 17/08/2025 10:01

TheWatersofMarch · 16/08/2025 14:55

I think the sting in the tail will be that there will be fewer womens facilities as more and more will be designated unisex. At National Theatre at least one set of women’s toilets now unisex - long queues at the ‘Ladies’, not sure about the unisex. But I think this is still better than the alternatives and is a sensible compromise.

That could risk being 'indirect discrimination'. A lack of provision for women where there is adequate for males would not be fair.

A note that building regs differ throughout the UK. The ones you posted are for England, Marie.

MarieDeGournay · 17/08/2025 09:45

ErrolTheDragon · 16/08/2025 16:53

I see that’s from 2010. So together with the law - which of course hasn’t been changed - if an organisation has built/rebuilt and not adhered to that they’ve really no leg to stand on, they need to comply with the law.

Building regs re toilet provision was updated in 2024 -

2024 edition This approved document supports Part T of Schedule 1 to the Building Regulations 2010. This approved document takes effect on 1 October 2024 for use in England. Full details of the transitional arrangements can be found in Circular 02/2024 published on gov.uk.
Toilet accommodation: Approved Document T

I'm not an expert on UK Building Regs, to say the least, though I seem to have the URL of Doc T on speed-dial😁and I know the regs have limited application, i.e. mostly new builds.

However I think they are useful in that the 2024 update strongly reinforced the primacy of single-sex toilet provision in public buildings - yes you can have unisex facilities as well as, but, as I understand it, only in the case of a lack of space can you have them instead of single sex facilities.

'Document T' is an assertion that the standard, and the 'direction of travel' in the future, is single-sex toilets, and it's valuable for that reason alone.

There are other regulations that cover single sex facilities - workplace regs, health and safety, equality legislation - so it's always worth looking at the full range of relevant regs rather than - as has happened a lot in the wake of the SC ruling - just the Equality Act to make a case.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 17/08/2025 08:48

@RoastOrMash , your post is worth starting a new thread, as you’ll get more replies.
If you go up to the top of the page and click on the downward arrow beside Feminism: Sex and gender discussions, it gives you the Start a new thread option.
Good luck with your case.