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Why can’t you just do as we say?

37 replies

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 14/08/2025 11:09

Boy George here, mansplaining to Sall Grover that if she would only do as she was told and comply with the wishes of men with a fetish, that life could be ‘gorgeous’. I am so sick of this rank misogyny and hatred of women.

Why can’t you just do as we say?
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JellySaurus · 14/08/2025 12:15

the world cannot be ironed out to suit your understanding of gender or what it means to be male or female.

Whose, then? Your's? Tickle's?

AnSolas · 14/08/2025 12:10

I can state that I would not want to share a space with any man
• who thinks that buying another human is ok or
• who carries out acts of violence on a human while the humans hands were bound to prevent defensive actions and body tethered to prevent escape.

As for advice from that man?
I am old fashioned and will state

"Would you please be kind enough to shut up and fuck right off if I ever need advice from a violent druggie I will keep you in mind as someone who can keep fucking off and not seek advice from."

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5390387-is-it-ever-acceptable-for-women-to-tell-men-to-fuck-off

Is it ever acceptable for women to tell men to fuck off? | Mumsnet

Or does it make us look unintelligent, unreasonable, unkind, irrational or uncouth so we shouldn't do it? Should we care about this?

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5390387-is-it-ever-acceptable-for-women-to-tell-men-to-fuck-off

JustFish · 14/08/2025 12:02

'If we cannot share this space together'
Well, Giggle wasn't intended as a shared space, it was Salls creation and business. The Apps entire raison d'etre was to carve out a space for women because men, including those with special gender identities can't share online space without problematic male pattern behaviours. RT had no business trying to access that space, was not invited, was not the target group, had nothing to contribute apart from more of the same male intrusion and domination - as evinced by the fact that one sulky, grifting man's hurty feels have derailed Salls entire life, time and business and not only prevented the development of Giggle as a potentially useful female developed and centred space online, but had a chilling effect on the development of other female centered services.

Perhaps the Culture Club Criminal could lambast a chap for a change ( no, not literally this time, George) by criticising the selfish behaviour men who won't be told no, and can't behave appropriately towards women?

Sskka · 14/08/2025 12:01

Goodness me, is he still living in 2015? Making out like it’s normies’ fault for questioning [unprecedented and increasingly strange innovation] doesn’t really work anymore, and in fact hasn’t worked for some time.

Helleofabore · 14/08/2025 11:55

Yeah? Nah! No fucking way, George.

And I couldn’t give a fuck whether George has any fondness for Australia. He is a patronising and condescending arse.

How fucking blind do you have to be to not understand that Tickle did do something to Sal. When rejected he perused her personally to harass her after getting her personal details.

In fact, imagine what Tickle would do on the app if rejected by women on the app!

Glamourreader · 14/08/2025 11:50

Dear creepy men of the world,

No one owes you sex, or flirting, or a frisson or their attention.

Signed, everyone else

lcakethereforeIam · 14/08/2025 11:43

Oh, fuck off George. He's no idea what it's like living as a woman in this world. Unfortunately part of too many men's 'gorgeous, free lives' seems to be hurting women and children.

DeanElderberry · 14/08/2025 11:40

Obsession with JKR? ✅

Dodgy grammar? ✅

Oz reference making me think wistfully about huge saltwater crocodiles? 🐊✅

I do know that he's probably full of nasty additives that would be bad for the poor crocs.

TomatoSandwiches · 14/08/2025 11:39

I'm not surprised, that's the same Boy George that chained up a man in his house and abused him sexually and physically and got a tiny slap on the hand for it. He obviously doesn't have respect for other people's boundaries or autonomy.

Why does he still have a platform?

Supersimkin7 · 14/08/2025 11:35

No hatred or ignorance from women here - abuse of rights, dignity and rejecting facts is down to the boys on this one.

ArabellaScott · 14/08/2025 11:30

'If we cannot share this space together' - we? Is George trying to access the app for women now, too?

Glamourreader · 14/08/2025 11:15

Yes, there's no onus on men to stick to the vast majority of apps that welcome them and respect the boundaries of lesbians who just want to date each other.

A litle bit of respect and being left in peace, that's all these app users wanted.

Denied to them, and how dare they want it in the first place.