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Why can’t you just do as we say?

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LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 14/08/2025 11:09

Boy George here, mansplaining to Sall Grover that if she would only do as she was told and comply with the wishes of men with a fetish, that life could be ‘gorgeous’. I am so sick of this rank misogyny and hatred of women.

Why can’t you just do as we say?
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Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/08/2025 14:37

Glamourreader · 14/08/2025 11:50

Dear creepy men of the world,

No one owes you sex, or flirting, or a frisson or their attention.

Signed, everyone else

Old George missed that memo a long time ago when he chained a young male escort to his radiator.

BendoftheBeginning · 15/08/2025 14:08

He suddenly saw the light and accepted that TWAW when he wanted to make a comeback in the music business. Much like RTD did when he realised that funding for future projects needed him to toe the line, as well.

Glinner’s treatment had a strong chilling effect in show biz, and it’s easy for gay men to throw women under the bus.

MarieDeGournay · 15/08/2025 13:55

What I really dislike about this is the tone of injured tolerance, as if he was the Patron Saint of #BeKind, looking down, more in sorrow than in anger, at sinners like Sal 😠

Enough4me · 15/08/2025 00:33

George is bored and boring. He wants an income boost. He's found a way to generate interest and kerching!
I don't think he actually cares as years ago he was commenting about not being bothered about pronouns etc. (not bothered to respond then to the new fad).

WallaceinAnderland · 15/08/2025 00:30

deadpan · 14/08/2025 18:14

Like she needs advice from someone convicted of false imprisonment and assault. I mean why wouldn't you?

Remember when he used to be able to say "I'm a man, without conviction..."

These times sure are sad times for poor old George.

deadpan · 14/08/2025 21:42

DuesToTheDirt · 14/08/2025 20:45

I wish he'd just go back to making shite music, instead of pushing an nonsensical agenda. "None of us can even exist without each other." I sure as hell could exist without him (and without Roxanne Tickle too, come to that).

It's like the old adage, if no ones there to hear them do trees make a sound if they fall in a forest. Yes they do, and they're still men even he says they aren't.

AlexandraLeaving · 14/08/2025 21:22

Ugh. And he's an apostrophe criminal on top of all that.

DuesToTheDirt · 14/08/2025 20:45

I wish he'd just go back to making shite music, instead of pushing an nonsensical agenda. "None of us can even exist without each other." I sure as hell could exist without him (and without Roxanne Tickle too, come to that).

ErrolTheDragon · 14/08/2025 19:45

i wonder if he ever stops for a moment to ponder if just possibly it might be his (mis)understanding of gender and ‘what it means to be male or female’ which can’t be ‘ironed out’ to fit the reality of the world?

Love? How about you show a little love - and respect - for women by letting us who we do and don’t want to share our spaces with, hey George? There are plenty of mixed sex spaces for all those that want them, what ‘love’ is there in demanding women can’t have anywhere of their own?

deadpan · 14/08/2025 18:14

Like she needs advice from someone convicted of false imprisonment and assault. I mean why wouldn't you?

tobee · 14/08/2025 14:03

DialSquare · 14/08/2025 12:46

What a load of old bollocks in response to the word No. We don’t want to share our single sex spaces with men, George, no matter how they identify. It’s not fucking hard to understand.

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dredsa · 14/08/2025 13:38

I used to be such a big fan. He’s done a complete U turn on this. He used to be openly gender critical. He’s now making TRA his whole personality. What a giant waste of oxygen.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 14/08/2025 13:16

It just reeks of mediocre male privilege, the reason these creepy men want the green light to enter SSS is because they know that women wouldn’t ordinarily interact with them for love nor money, so they have to force the issue.

Every male abuser on the planet blames their victim, it’s so easy to spot these predatory men, whether they pretend to be women or not.

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Iamnotalemming · 14/08/2025 13:09

Oh dear he's just pushed me a little higher up the peak. Ass-hat.

RedToothBrush · 14/08/2025 13:00

ArabellaScott · 14/08/2025 11:30

'If we cannot share this space together' - we? Is George trying to access the app for women now, too?

'We'.

He acknowledges that a male is trying to access a female space with that we. 'We' means males and females. So 'us' males should have access to 'your' (female) spaces.

Language is important. It reveals a lot. Some of which isn't intended.

But the bottomline here is that Boy George sees Tickle as like him as male.

Which is amusing whilst he spouts off at transphobia.

Helleofabore · 14/08/2025 12:54

Helleofabore · 14/08/2025 11:55

Yeah? Nah! No fucking way, George.

And I couldn’t give a fuck whether George has any fondness for Australia. He is a patronising and condescending arse.

How fucking blind do you have to be to not understand that Tickle did do something to Sal. When rejected he perused her personally to harass her after getting her personal details.

In fact, imagine what Tickle would do on the app if rejected by women on the app!

And that would be 'pursued' her, not 'perused' her.

hholiday · 14/08/2025 12:51

‘None of us can exist without each other…’ what crass nonsense is this? Hundreds of thousands of women and girls tragically no longer exist, thanks to male violence. Their lives mattered. Women’s lives matter. And that is precisely why we need spaces away from violent, predatory men.

DialSquare · 14/08/2025 12:46

What a load of old bollocks in response to the word No. We don’t want to share our single sex spaces with men, George, no matter how they identify. It’s not fucking hard to understand.

GetDressedYouMerryGentlemen · 14/08/2025 12:45

Does he not see the irony of "none of us can even exist without each other".
Every person only came to be because sex is binary and important.

NeverOneBiscuit · 14/08/2025 12:43

He really is a painted arse. Can’t all you women just let us creepy men go wherever we like? We’re glorious, & if you just recognised that we’d be living in harmony!

Of course if you disagree with the prat in a hat you might find yourself unable to detach yourself from a heating appliance. But hey, chill…

Helleofabore · 14/08/2025 12:33

"We teach best what we need to learn. I'm sure you are a great person after a couple of glasses of wine but you have put a spotlight on yourself. You could have stopped this before it started."

Um.. Well George. Imagine telling a harassed woman that it was all her fault and they could have stopped the law suits etc if she just accepted a male person in a female single sex space...

ArabellaScott · 14/08/2025 12:21

Glamourreader · 14/08/2025 11:50

Dear creepy men of the world,

No one owes you sex, or flirting, or a frisson or their attention.

Signed, everyone else

Quite.

That goes twice for convicted violent men.

Beowulfa · 14/08/2025 12:19

Wouldn't the world be safer and happier for men, if men could just do whatever they please with their cocks! Thanks for saying it out loud, George.

childofthe607080s · 14/08/2025 12:18

I guess if you have a strong male default then the world is a safer better place for men if they get their way / otherwise he comes across as ignorant

lcakethereforeIam · 14/08/2025 12:16

You'd think that part of living gorgeously and freely is having the ability to say 'no' and having that refusal respected.

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