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Drag Queen on Strictly

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HelenaWaiting · 13/08/2025 17:38

I didn't see a thread on this, and it seems to have been slipped out quietly. I'm assuming this man in woman-face will be taking the place of a female?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/2025/strictly-come-dancing-la-voix#:~:text=A%20powerhouse%20of%20charisma%2C%20comedy,no%20stranger%20to%20national%20television.

La Voix is the seventh celebrity contestant announced for Strictly Come Dancing 2025

The legendary singer, entertainer and Drag Race UK finalist will enter the famous ballroom when Strictly returns to BBC One and BBC iPlayer this September

https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/2025/strictly-come-dancing-la-voix#:~:text=A%20powerhouse%20of%20charisma%2C%20comedy,no%20stranger%20to%20national%20television.

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StrictlySequinsandStiIettos · 14/08/2025 18:38

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Raimondo and Giovanni did an elegant waltz to Skyfoal-crumbbowl on Balando - sadly, no longer on YouTube but first segment below.

I think what you have on Glitterball more frequently these days is the higher production/style over substance/showmanship/creating a moment/pressure now, which means that sophisticated/understated/traditional - irrespective of the sexual preference of the couples, is less evident. Except for Aljaz, who can always be relied upon to do a decent waltz, many avoid it as not being showy enough. John and Johannes did one routine out of a whole series that celebrated him being gay. The rest didn't focus on that aspect of him at all, aside from his contemporary (he did suffer from internalised homophobia growing up). But we can agree to disagree. As you know, I like and watch all of them globally, irrespective of who they are/what they do for a living. Keep dancing! <3 <3 <3

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Digidestined · 14/08/2025 18:20

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LittleBitofBread · 14/08/2025 17:20

StrictlySequinsandStiIettos · 14/08/2025 15:28

That showdance was choreoed by Jason Gilkison, so I'd expect nothing less.
I still think it was important for young gay (and for some, possibly closeted) male viewers to get the chance with their mum to see a gay man unapologetically dancing with another gay man, on mainstream telly on a Saturday night.
And I don't see the issue with celebrating their sexual preference through the freedom and expression of dance. Because so many young men do not feel pride, they suffer from homophobia at school and that can become internalised homophobia.
I felt the same when Layton danced with Nikita. So many young, black men have not had that representation, not in the mainstream, not on a Saturday night.
I liked your post because I agree that sexual orientation should be unremarkable in this day and age but, in reality, in the classroom and on the playground that simply isn't true. It's getting better but we ain't there yet, where teens don't pass judgement.

I absolutely agree there is a lot of ground still to be made up on teens/young people and homophobia (well, not just young people), and on representation of all stripes.
And I am all for a gay man unapologetically dancing with another gay man, on mainstream telly, on a Saturday night.
I just meant that that routine seriously piled on the gay.

I think we'll have real acceptance and equality when two men do a nice quiet waltz or a fun jive together without streamers or rainbows or a soundtrack of 'I'm Coming Out'.
Again, though, I do agree with you we are not there yet.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:42

You don't dismantle oppression by erasing it's history and minimising it.

Oh the irony! You don't say...

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:39

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:36

You're attacking too many people you can't even keep us straight 😂 Never called you far right.

The one making attacks is you. You've made racist and misogynist attacks.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:38

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:34

@ThatBlackCat I'm not even going to respond to you, complaining about misogyny while making multiple sexist comments to any woman who disagrees with you being on her knees and making offensive racist comments too. You must be near the limit of being deleted from this thread alone with all your personal attacks. Here's hoping.

More gaslighting and DARVO. You are the one making sexist comments and offensive racist comments to a black woman. You've already had a few posts deleted. One would think you would have learned and showed some respect.

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:36

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:34

I didn't say you were, I said if a person is. You're the one making the personal attacks. You're the one that accused me of being right wing. You keep personally attacking me and others for pointing out your lack of knowledge. Instead of doubling down, you could admit that you lack knowledge and experience in this. Instead of accusing people of being 'far right wing'. Thanks for reminding me to report that post though.

You're attacking too many people you can't even keep us straight 😂 Never called you far right.

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:34

@ThatBlackCat I'm not even going to respond to you, complaining about misogyny while making multiple sexist comments to any woman who disagrees with you being on her knees and making offensive racist comments too. You must be near the limit of being deleted from this thread alone with all your personal attacks. Here's hoping.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:34

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:31

I'm not desperate for male approval and I'll be reporting your post, I notice you keep personally attacking a lot of people. You don't dismantle oppression by erasing it's history and minimising it. If you thought blackface was solely about mocking in a way that the two are at all comparable, I suggest you go and reread your history books.

I didn't say you were, I said if a person is. You're the one making the personal attacks. You're the one that accused me of being right wing. You keep personally attacking me and others for pointing out your lack of knowledge. Instead of doubling down, you could admit that you lack knowledge and experience in this. Instead of accusing people of being 'far right wing'. Thanks for reminding me to report that post though.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:32

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:29

Again you're equating the discomfort of western middle class white women with a drag performer with the systemic racism of American and the function blackface used in dehumanising people who were raped, lynched, murdered and enslaved men, women and children. If you genuinely can't critique it as a black woman without comparing it to literal blackface, you have some relaxing internalised racism inside of you really think women (all women) have historically been solely in the oppressed class.

Again you are showing your young age and your ignorance. Women have been systemically oppressed. Males mocking us, calling us fishy, bitchy and going by the names of Anne Abortion, Miss Carriage, etc is evidence of this. Why you are on your knees for male approval only you know. But you are very deeply ill-informed of the systemic oppression and mockery of women by the oppressor sex - males. I don't know what they taught you at school, but your ignorance is really sad.

illinivich · 14/08/2025 15:32

I think the truth has been half admitted in the responses.

Its a parody of women. But from an oppressed class which makes it acceptable. I'm guessing here, but if drag was seen as a tradition of working class white men on stags, there wouldnt be a rush to defend the art. Not from the same people and the bbc wouldnt be interested because it wouldnt promote DEI.

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:31

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:28

Hint; you don't dismantle oppression by enabling men to mock us even if you're desperate for male approval.

I'm not desperate for male approval and I'll be reporting your post, I notice you keep personally attacking a lot of people. You don't dismantle oppression by erasing it's history and minimising it. If you thought blackface was solely about mocking in a way that the two are at all comparable, I suggest you go and reread your history books.

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:29

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 13:07

Firstly, your ignorant assumption that I'm white shows your bigotry and naivette. No, I'm not white. Secondly, your ignorance as to the oppression and slavery of the female sex is both parts horrific and sad. Males have since time memorial enslaved females. Used rape as a tool. I know that too. As I'm a rape victim. Rape is also a weapon of war crime. But from the sounds of you I don't think you would even know this.

Women have been subjugated and enslaved. Mocking us via dressing up like us is a tool, a weapon and a signal of that subjugation and oppression. Drag is as deeply offensive and insulting to woman as blackface is to my race and fellow non-white people. Big tits. Talking about 'fishy' vaginas. Drag names like 'Anne Abortion'. 'Miss carriage'. 'Molestia child'. These are from the last 30 years. Even if those terms mean nothing to someone as ensconced in your echo chamber as you? Drag even before then is still deeply offensive.

I suggest before you lecture a non-white woman like me? You look in mirror and ask yourself why you are so desperate to seek accolades from a sex that rapes, assaults, murders and subjugates women by dressing up as obscene caricatures of the female sex. Have a look in the mirror. And ask yourself some hard questions before you ever dare lecture me with your white privilege and your ingrained internalised misogyny. You know something? Men laugh at you for defending their mockery of us. You won't win their favour. They laugh at you. I'm proud to defend not only my race but my sex. And what about you? Think hard.

Again you're equating the discomfort of western middle class white women with a drag performer with the systemic racism of American and the function blackface used in dehumanising people who were raped, lynched, murdered and enslaved men, women and children. If you genuinely can't critique it as a black woman without comparing it to literal blackface, you have some relaxing internalised racism inside of you really think women (all women) have historically been solely in the oppressed class.

StrictlySequinsandStiIettos · 14/08/2025 15:28

LittleBitofBread · 14/08/2025 13:00

I know it's their choice, I just think it'd be refreshing to see a gay man dancing with a woman like their sexual orientation is unremarkable, as it should be. Like Susan and Kevin, as you say.
I just keep thinking of Johannes and John Whaite(?), in the final when they went all out on rainbow lights and Pride colours and glitter and it was all a bit much.

Yes, I'm on the main Strictly thread too, so see you there!

That showdance was choreoed by Jason Gilkison, so I'd expect nothing less.
I still think it was important for young gay (and for some, possibly closeted) male viewers to get the chance with their mum to see a gay man unapologetically dancing with another gay man, on mainstream telly on a Saturday night.
And I don't see the issue with celebrating their sexual preference through the freedom and expression of dance. Because so many young men do not feel pride, they suffer from homophobia at school and that can become internalised homophobia.
I felt the same when Layton danced with Nikita. So many young, black men have not had that representation, not in the mainstream, not on a Saturday night.
I liked your post because I agree that sexual orientation should be unremarkable in this day and age but, in reality, in the classroom and on the playground that simply isn't true. It's getting better but we ain't there yet, where teens don't pass judgement.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:28

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:25

@HelenaWaiting also your whole "oh because some women kind of took part in oppressing black people doesn't mean they were equal to the men" is very revealing of your point of view. Clue - feminism isn't getting an equal 50% of oppressive power off of the men, it's about dismantling oppression.

Hint; you don't dismantle oppression by enabling men to mock us even if you're desperate for male approval.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 14/08/2025 15:27

‘I also hope they don't pair him with a man just because he's gay. That seems regressive.’

Best comment so far IMHO. The Beeb seem obsessed with sex, as long as it isn’t vanilla.

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:27

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Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:25

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@HelenaWaiting also your whole "oh because some women kind of took part in oppressing black people doesn't mean they were equal to the men" is very revealing of your point of view. Clue - feminism isn't getting an equal 50% of oppressive power off of the men, it's about dismantling oppression.

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:22

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RedToothBrush · 14/08/2025 15:17

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 15:07

Oh look, more delusional gaslighting. I'm a card-carrying Labour member and left wing feminist.

Hateful misogyny the likes of which you spew is far right wing. FEMINISM, is LEFT WING. Now go back to idolising Andrew Tate.

Steady now.

The left wing has plenty of misogyny it doesn't want to take responsibility for.

Don't enable that.

RedToothBrush · 14/08/2025 15:14

Emonade · 14/08/2025 15:05

God all this far right wing bullshit pretending to be feminism blows my mind.

Bingo!

RedToothBrush · 14/08/2025 15:13

Emonade · 14/08/2025 14:15

I think you all need to actually look at the history of drag and listen to drag artists talking about it. You all pretend to be clever but you really aren’t you are so close minded and doing so much damage to our world.

Are you familiar with FWR?

It's a bold move to question the education and knowledge of women here.

We do our research. Many do know the history. They don't agree with modern day interpretations of that history though.

You are going to have to do a little better than simply scold.

Try creating an argument and debating.

Rosesandteashops · 14/08/2025 15:13

RedToothBrush · 13/08/2025 18:01

I agree.

Given it's been the running joke that it's the BBC there's a Drag Queen story, it really is a surprise they haven't done this before.

They've had Craig Revel Horwood in drag. He jumped out of a cake, IIRC, and was wafting about. He looked amazing - pretty, with female make-up as opposed to drag make-up like in the pic upthread. He was very graceful too. I didn't recognise him for a minute. But I'm not keen on drag artistes generally.

elozabet · 14/08/2025 15:13

LittleBitofBread · 14/08/2025 14:54

I think Paul O’Grady would have been on the show, not Lily Savage. He was very clear that Savage was a character and a performance.
He was also very clear that he didn’t like the direction drag has taken in recent years; his version of it was a salute to the women in his past, whereas much of the character of it now is misogynistic and crudely sexualised.
As I’ve said already, I’ll be interested to see if it will be La Voix who is on Strictly, or her creator as himself.

I agree. I will reserve judgement until I see him on the show.

LittleBitofBread · 14/08/2025 15:07

Emonade · 14/08/2025 15:05

God all this far right wing bullshit pretending to be feminism blows my mind.

Can you elucidate?