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Drag Queen on Strictly

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HelenaWaiting · 13/08/2025 17:38

I didn't see a thread on this, and it seems to have been slipped out quietly. I'm assuming this man in woman-face will be taking the place of a female?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/2025/strictly-come-dancing-la-voix#:~:text=A%20powerhouse%20of%20charisma%2C%20comedy,no%20stranger%20to%20national%20television.

La Voix is the seventh celebrity contestant announced for Strictly Come Dancing 2025

The legendary singer, entertainer and Drag Race UK finalist will enter the famous ballroom when Strictly returns to BBC One and BBC iPlayer this September

https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/2025/strictly-come-dancing-la-voix#:~:text=A%20powerhouse%20of%20charisma%2C%20comedy,no%20stranger%20to%20national%20television.

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Enough4me · 15/08/2025 00:28

ThatBlackCat · 15/08/2025 00:11

Their homophobia is bizarre. They are saying that gay males are misogynistic and that their misogyny is ok as long as they're gay. The racism, homophobia, femphobia and intolerance from these MRAs has to be seen to be believed! Fancy thinking because a man is gay that means his misogyny is ok?

Yes, it is all messed up.
I don't think it's an issue with men who are gay being sexist or misogynistic, as many men regardless of sexuality wouldn't dream of mocking women.
Some TRAs/MRAs are unfairly trying to pull all gay men into the discussion (as though they are one group with no voice).
Leave gay men alone and leave women alone is my message to those posters.

ThatBlackCat · 15/08/2025 00:11

Enough4me · 15/08/2025 00:00

Its very simple, women shouldn't be mocked.
Not a little bit, not a lot, not by gay men, not by straight men.
It doesn't stop men being included as males so there's no intolerance of males being male (whatever their sexuality).

Their homophobia is bizarre. They are saying that gay males are misogynistic and that their misogyny is ok as long as they're gay. The racism, homophobia, femphobia and intolerance from these MRAs has to be seen to be believed! Fancy thinking because a man is gay that means his misogyny is ok?

ThatBlackCat · 15/08/2025 00:09

Emonade · 14/08/2025 23:50

Fucking hell the ignorance and intolerance is so funny. If you think the threat to women is gay men, from a community that is immensely supportive to women, doing drag which is a wildly over the top portrayal of a very stereotypical type of femininity then you are totally mental and very sheltered

The ignorance and lack of English comprehension of the Toxic Masculinity cohort is unbelievable. Who said anything about being gay? FFS. He is MALE!!! No one gives a flying fluck if he is gay or straight or in between. Or nothing. As I said jusst above, "They can be trans, non-trans, binary, half-binary, non-binary, hetrosexual, homosexual, non-sexual, ever-sexual, metrosexual. A male is a male is a male, and just because a male"

Misogyny is misogyny is misogyny. Whether the male is gay or straight. Being gay is NOT a free pass to be misogynistic, so don't pull that. Being gay has nothing to do with being misogynistic, but once again, we have people showing their homophobia.

Enough4me · 15/08/2025 00:00

Emonade · 14/08/2025 23:50

Fucking hell the ignorance and intolerance is so funny. If you think the threat to women is gay men, from a community that is immensely supportive to women, doing drag which is a wildly over the top portrayal of a very stereotypical type of femininity then you are totally mental and very sheltered

Its very simple, women shouldn't be mocked.
Not a little bit, not a lot, not by gay men, not by straight men.
It doesn't stop men being included as males so there's no intolerance of males being male (whatever their sexuality).

Emonade · 14/08/2025 23:50

Fucking hell the ignorance and intolerance is so funny. If you think the threat to women is gay men, from a community that is immensely supportive to women, doing drag which is a wildly over the top portrayal of a very stereotypical type of femininity then you are totally mental and very sheltered

Emonade · 14/08/2025 23:49

Fucking hell the ignorance and intolerance is so funny. If you think the threat to women is gay men, from a community that is immensely supportive to women, doing drag which is a wildly over the top portrayal of a very stereotypical type of femininity then you are totally mental and very sheltered

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 23:35

I thought engaging in this thread would be ok because it's not about trans

If you thought engaging in a feminist thread would be ok "because it's not about trans" then that shows you don't get it at all. We are against MALES mocking women. Whether they are trans or not, is irrelevant. They can be trans, non-trans, binary, half-binary, non-binary, hetrosexual, homosexual, non-sexual, ever-sexual, metrosexual. A male is a male is a male, and just because a male isn't trans doesn't mean their misogyny is acceptable to us.

If you thought our issue was trans and only trans, this shows you have no idea whatsoever what we're about. Trans has never been relevant per se. This issue has always been MALES. This thread should finally make you understand that. Any male that mocks women is wrong. Being trans or non-trans has never been the issue and you severely misjudged us and did not 'get it' if that's what you thought. We call misogyny out wherever we see it. The gender identity of that male is totally irrelevant. Do you get it now?

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 23:29

Enough4me · 14/08/2025 23:22

Women, know your place, stop having opinions about men who try to be you!
Perhaps some moderators can come along to silence you... no, thought not.
Women haven't been silenced in the UK hurrah!

Yes, the MRAs are so transparent in their attempt to get not just women but women of colour silenced. How dare we defend womens rights and not be on our knees for the patriarchy. Don't we know we women are just shit under the shoe of Anne Abortion and Miss Carriage?

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 23:26

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ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 23:24

Digidestined · 14/08/2025 20:55

Couldn't agree more.

Unfortunately the feminism here is incredibly toxic and puts many posters off. I thought engaging in this thread would be ok because it's not about trans people and all the bile that gets spewed about them but no, they're all vile here too!

If this is what people call feminism these days I want nothing to do with it.

If you fighting against men who mock women is 'toxic', then the misogynistic agenda here from a few posters is incredibly clear. We're against males mocking females. Males. That should be the clue to you that our problem is males. But no, you still don't get it. Anyone defending womanface needs to ask themselves some hard questions. That, is Toxic Masculinity. And it should not be defended on a feminist site. There are plenty of Mens Rights sites that attitude can be championed on.

Enough4me · 14/08/2025 23:22

Women, know your place, stop having opinions about men who try to be you!
Perhaps some moderators can come along to silence you... no, thought not.
Women haven't been silenced in the UK hurrah!

ThatBlackCat · 14/08/2025 23:21

ipredictariot5 · 14/08/2025 18:40

I am requesting that @ThatBlackCat and others stop attacking other women here. This is the most toxic ‘feminism’ I have ever come across and the personal abuse in shameful.I hope Mumsnet take note and act to protect the integrity of this site which I always thought was women supporting other women.

I am not attacking anyone, I am responding to posts. I suggest you stop attacking me. Calling feminism 'toxic' really says so much about you and your agenda. And how about you try supporting women, for once, instead of attacking us.

HelenaWaiting · 14/08/2025 23:19

ipredictariot5 · 14/08/2025 18:40

I am requesting that @ThatBlackCat and others stop attacking other women here. This is the most toxic ‘feminism’ I have ever come across and the personal abuse in shameful.I hope Mumsnet take note and act to protect the integrity of this site which I always thought was women supporting other women.

Do you really believe that presenting a wholly dishonest and one-sided summary of the debate will fool anyone, let alone the moderators? Shall we talk about the reasons why accusations of toxicity are only ever directed at contributors who are women of colour?

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HelenaWaiting · 14/08/2025 23:15

Digidestined · 14/08/2025 18:20

Congratulations on being patronising 🙄

It was deliberate, for those who have the intellect to see it. 🙄

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Plasticwaste · 14/08/2025 22:42

Digidestined · 14/08/2025 08:24

Now here is some top notch misogyny!

Claiming women are too stupid to understand what's good for them because they are distracted by sequins!

God forbid they just have a different opinion than you without being stupid 🙄

Enjoying men pretending to be caricatures of women is pretty stupid, tbh.

Pointing that out isn't misogynistic, though.

NooNakedJacuzziness · 14/08/2025 20:55

Never have a Drag King do they

Digidestined · 14/08/2025 20:55

ipredictariot5 · 14/08/2025 18:40

I am requesting that @ThatBlackCat and others stop attacking other women here. This is the most toxic ‘feminism’ I have ever come across and the personal abuse in shameful.I hope Mumsnet take note and act to protect the integrity of this site which I always thought was women supporting other women.

Couldn't agree more.

Unfortunately the feminism here is incredibly toxic and puts many posters off. I thought engaging in this thread would be ok because it's not about trans people and all the bile that gets spewed about them but no, they're all vile here too!

If this is what people call feminism these days I want nothing to do with it.

taxi4ballet · 14/08/2025 20:29

LittleBitofBread · 14/08/2025 19:06

Agree. I guess she'd never seen a really good ballet production.

'You're not making fun of it, you're making fun out of it' – well, I'd say that about (to invoke her again) Lily Savage, but not so much Cheryl Hole, for example. Drag can be and has been one thing, but it is undeniable that it's changed and evolved, and not in a good way IMO.

As far as I am aware in my long experience of dance, there are only two classical ballets in which female characters are played by male artists, one is Cinderella, and the other is La Fille Mal Gardee. The roles are what one would describe as pantomime dames and ugly sisters.

There is of course Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte Carlo, a phenomenally good comic ballet company parodying the usual conventions.

Those examples are not representative of the art of classical ballet as a whole.

HelenaWaiting · 14/08/2025 19:28

Unrulyscrumptious · 14/08/2025 15:25

@HelenaWaiting also your whole "oh because some women kind of took part in oppressing black people doesn't mean they were equal to the men" is very revealing of your point of view. Clue - feminism isn't getting an equal 50% of oppressive power off of the men, it's about dismantling oppression.

I'd answer this, were it not wholly incoherent.

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LittleBitofBread · 14/08/2025 19:06

taxi4ballet · 14/08/2025 18:53

"High Camp is the whole emotional basis for ballet, for example"

Oh no it isn't.

Agree. I guess she'd never seen a really good ballet production.

'You're not making fun of it, you're making fun out of it' – well, I'd say that about (to invoke her again) Lily Savage, but not so much Cheryl Hole, for example. Drag can be and has been one thing, but it is undeniable that it's changed and evolved, and not in a good way IMO.

StrictlySequinsandStiIettos · 14/08/2025 18:54

Oh yes it is.

Sorry, thought we were doing panto now.

taxi4ballet · 14/08/2025 18:53

foxyariel · 14/08/2025 09:00

I reject the notion that drag is inherently misogynistic. I find the analogy to blackface too deeply superficial(!) and an attempt to cut down the debate by taking the moral high ground. I refer you to Susan Sontag's Notes on Camp. A quick Google yielded this [years since I read this- no time for a more considered reference]:

You thought it meant a swishy little boy with peroxided hair, dressed in a picture hat and a feather boa, pretending to be Marlene Dietrich? Yes, in queer circles they call that camping. … You can call [it] Low Camp…High Camp is the whole emotional basis for ballet, for example, and of course of baroque art … High Camp always has an underlying seriousness. You can't camp about something you don't take seriously. You're not making fun of it, you're making fun out of it. You're expressing what’s basically serious to you in terms of fun and artifice and elegance. Baroque art is basically camp about religion. The ballet is camp about love …[10]

"You're not making fun of it, you're making fun out of it"
So yes, my position is that, more often than not, I can appreciate the joy and artistry that goes into a good drag performance, low camp though it may be.

"High Camp is the whole emotional basis for ballet, for example"

Oh no it isn't.

Grammarnut · 14/08/2025 18:49

Lesbians are not women impersonators. That's a daft comparison to a man in womanface.

TheWatersofMarch · 14/08/2025 18:47

I can’t get upset about this. Strictly contestants come from the whole range of backgrounds and Drag performers are as showbiz as the other celebs. It’s not a children’s show. It’s a bit fringe to worry about this person taking a spot from a woman, I don’t think this show insists on equal numbers of male and female participants.

ipredictariot5 · 14/08/2025 18:40

I am requesting that @ThatBlackCat and others stop attacking other women here. This is the most toxic ‘feminism’ I have ever come across and the personal abuse in shameful.I hope Mumsnet take note and act to protect the integrity of this site which I always thought was women supporting other women.