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Drag Queen on Strictly

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HelenaWaiting · 13/08/2025 17:38

I didn't see a thread on this, and it seems to have been slipped out quietly. I'm assuming this man in woman-face will be taking the place of a female?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/2025/strictly-come-dancing-la-voix#:~:text=A%20powerhouse%20of%20charisma%2C%20comedy,no%20stranger%20to%20national%20television.

La Voix is the seventh celebrity contestant announced for Strictly Come Dancing 2025

The legendary singer, entertainer and Drag Race UK finalist will enter the famous ballroom when Strictly returns to BBC One and BBC iPlayer this September

https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/2025/strictly-come-dancing-la-voix#:~:text=A%20powerhouse%20of%20charisma%2C%20comedy,no%20stranger%20to%20national%20television.

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HelenaWaiting · 15/08/2025 12:12

Digidestined · 15/08/2025 09:20

And yet, many of Black Cats and the OPs posts have been deleted for breaking talk guidelines due to being so aggressive...

Steady on. I certainly haven't had "many" posts deleted and you can't possibly know the reasons for moderators deleting any posts. I won't delve into the irony of you accusing other posters of being aggressive.

Whilst you have made your contempt for me (a person you have never met) abundantly clear, when criticism goes beyond what individuals have actually posted, it's time to stop. I'll bow out of this thread now. I can get berated for being female, brown and having opinions in real life.

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Doseofreality · 15/08/2025 11:57

viques · 15/08/2025 11:40

Will he be dancing as himself or as a man wearing woman face? Sorry, rhetorical question.

Remains to be seen which male professional is asked to fall on their sword and accept being voted out before the Halloween special.

I think you are taking it all a bit too seriously for a light entertainment show.

AuntieAgnesPoodle · 15/08/2025 11:51

illinivich · 15/08/2025 10:07

AuntieAgnesPoodle, your first sentence on this thread was "Hello, outraged denizens of Mumsnet."

Then claimed that misogyny is everyehere, so why worry about this.

I thought the expression "outraged denizens" was mildly amusing. It was in response to all the shouting at people by people on this thread.

As for misogyny being everywhere, what point are you trying to make by asking me not to worry about it? I'm saying we have experienced it all our lives.

viques · 15/08/2025 11:40

Doseofreality · 13/08/2025 18:05

They are a person, Drag is their profession.

Will he be dancing as himself or as a man wearing woman face? Sorry, rhetorical question.

Remains to be seen which male professional is asked to fall on their sword and accept being voted out before the Halloween special.

OneWildBengal · 15/08/2025 11:21

I am conflicted on this. Like many I believe that drag is adult entertainment and should be nowhere near children’s story hours etc. I am also fed up of seeing it so often on the BBC given that it is niche adult entertainment (not family friendly IMO). But then I wonder if it was Lily Savage or Dame Edna in the competition would I view it the same way. They were mainstream and family friendly. What do others think?

illinivich · 15/08/2025 10:07

AuntieAgnesPoodle, your first sentence on this thread was "Hello, outraged denizens of Mumsnet."

Then claimed that misogyny is everyehere, so why worry about this.

AuntieAgnesPoodle · 15/08/2025 09:59

There's no time to think on this thread. People are flinging out bitter insults apropos of absolutely nothing.

"hello enabler"
"you are on your knees to the patriarchy"
"have a look in the mirror and reset your white privilege"
"You are the one that is closed minded, and bigoted and brainwashed by the oppressor sex class"

Others have made valid points in posts -
"Try creating an argument and debating."

"I am really staggered that in these days of wanting to 'cancel' everything so many people seem to have lost all perspective and sense of humour"

Why must we tear each other apart because we disagree? This thread reminds me of feminist infighting in the 1970s. Polarised positions, all of them humourless, arguing about political theories, whether it is okay to be a mother, whether it is okay not to be a lesbian, how people are betraying the sisterhood with their thoughts.

It's a power struggle and I really don't like it. I don't want to be shouted down or shouted at. Also I don't want to be afraid to say what I think and then be deprived of the opportunity to change my mind, or to modify my position, if I want to.

SirChenjins · 15/08/2025 09:50

Exactly. This form of mockery of one of the protected characteristics as mainstream entertainment has (rightly)been consigned to the dustbin - hopefully drag will go the same way in time.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 15/08/2025 09:34

What for? So the judges and presenters can all use the word fabulous a lot about a man who no doubt won't be fabulous at all?

Drag nowadays is rubbish anyway. Far too many sub-mediocre performers jumping on the bandwagon since it became mainstream and Americanised. We've lost the gentler British tradition of female impersonation.

Digidestined · 15/08/2025 09:20

Enough4me · 14/08/2025 23:22

Women, know your place, stop having opinions about men who try to be you!
Perhaps some moderators can come along to silence you... no, thought not.
Women haven't been silenced in the UK hurrah!

And yet, many of Black Cats and the OPs posts have been deleted for breaking talk guidelines due to being so aggressive...

Digidestined · 15/08/2025 09:10

ThatBlackCat · 15/08/2025 00:11

Their homophobia is bizarre. They are saying that gay males are misogynistic and that their misogyny is ok as long as they're gay. The racism, homophobia, femphobia and intolerance from these MRAs has to be seen to be believed! Fancy thinking because a man is gay that means his misogyny is ok?

Your definitions of these words is very bizarre. Posters defending gay people are homophobic!? Posters defending black people are racist!? Wtf is wrong with you?

It's also bizarre yet entirely predictable that you call everyone you disagree with an MRA.

LittleBitofBread · 15/08/2025 09:08

NooNakedJacuzziness · 14/08/2025 20:55

Never have a Drag King do they

THAT would be interesting!

Digidestined · 15/08/2025 09:05

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Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Bingo!

If you don't like posters point of view accuse them of being men 😂

Digidestined · 15/08/2025 09:02

HelenaWaiting · 14/08/2025 23:15

It was deliberate, for those who have the intellect to see it. 🙄

Well obviously. I'm letting you know what I think of you within the talk guidelines 😘

That was clear to anyone with the intellect to recognise it.

Namelessnelly · 15/08/2025 05:55

SnowFrogJelly · 15/08/2025 01:11

Many people find drag queens hugely entertaining and not at all misogynistic.. I don’t see the problem

People used to find the black and white minstrel show highly entertaining and not at all racist….. so you’d be ok if that was still shown? If not, why not?

Namelessnelly · 15/08/2025 05:54

Emonade · 14/08/2025 23:50

Fucking hell the ignorance and intolerance is so funny. If you think the threat to women is gay men, from a community that is immensely supportive to women, doing drag which is a wildly over the top portrayal of a very stereotypical type of femininity then you are totally mental and very sheltered

So you’re ok with men mocking women? Why? Why are you ok with men with womanface mocking women but would be upset at a show like the black and white minstrels? What is the difference?

Plasticwaste · 15/08/2025 04:37

ThatBlackCat · 15/08/2025 00:11

Their homophobia is bizarre. They are saying that gay males are misogynistic and that their misogyny is ok as long as they're gay. The racism, homophobia, femphobia and intolerance from these MRAs has to be seen to be believed! Fancy thinking because a man is gay that means his misogyny is ok?

You can tell a lot of these people came to gay rights advocacy a bit too late, so now they pick up any old flag with a rainbow on it without realising it's actually bright red.

ThatBlackCat · 15/08/2025 03:54

As we can see, the history of blackface and womanface is very tightly intertwined.

Not even the MRAs on this thread can deny it now.

ThatBlackCat · 15/08/2025 03:53

Around the same time in the United States, female impersonators starred in racist minstrel shows, during which mostly white actors wore blackface to portray racial stereotypes of African Americans. A common character in these minstrel shows was a “yaller” gal, or a man dressed as a light-skinned Black woman, Lady J says.

www.nationalgeographic.com/history/article/drag-queen-drag-balls-early-history-pop-culture

ThatBlackCat · 15/08/2025 03:06

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Drag Queen on Strictly
ThatBlackCat · 15/08/2025 01:34

Emonade · 15/08/2025 01:13

But it isn’t mockery that is what you aren’t understanding

It IS mockery! That's what you are not understanding! That's what we've all tried to tell you! Laughing about women smelling 'fishy', 'fishy vaginas' and using stage names like Anne Abortion and Miss Carriage is certainly mocking to any normal person! Drag is hateful, misogynistic and is mocking women.

AuntieAgnesPoodle · 15/08/2025 01:30

Emonade · 15/08/2025 01:13

But it isn’t mockery that is what you aren’t understanding

Many posters on here argue that it is mockery, mocking women, when a man dresses as a woman for a drag show.

What do you think is actually going on, if not mockery, then what is it?

Emonade · 15/08/2025 01:13

Enough4me · 15/08/2025 00:00

Its very simple, women shouldn't be mocked.
Not a little bit, not a lot, not by gay men, not by straight men.
It doesn't stop men being included as males so there's no intolerance of males being male (whatever their sexuality).

But it isn’t mockery that is what you aren’t understanding

SnowFrogJelly · 15/08/2025 01:11

Many people find drag queens hugely entertaining and not at all misogynistic.. I don’t see the problem