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Men are pushing women over in the street - as a trend

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IwantToRetire · 12/08/2025 16:56

Experts fear that new types of misogyny and harassment – including spitting and pushing women over – are taking hold in the UK as they move offline

This type of targeted shoulder barging has a name: butsukari otoko. The term, which originated on the streets of Japan in 2018, describes a type of violence against women that is done in a crowded public space, most commonly train stations.

It could at first appear accidental, but it is actually intentional; it is gendered (men doing it to women), and done for misogynistic reasons.

Researchers fear it is gaining traction in the UK, spreading from online videos to real-life encounters. “It’s come out of a subculture that existed years ago in Japan,” says Megan Hughes, a researcher at the Alan Turing Institute’s Centre for Emerging Technology and Security, which tracks online extremism. “It is something that’s been around for a long time, and people are now recognising it and are speaking out, but it’s a really difficult thing to track.

“They are sometimes subtle collisions, which are designed to appear accidental. They’re making victims second-guess intent or motive, and that then makes it really difficult for people wanting to report a crime. So it’s really hard for us to monitor.”

Street harassment isn’t new, but many believe it’s getting worse. A poll by Zencity, which surveyed 1600 women, found that 69 per cent said they had first or secondhand experience of women being ill-treated within the last 12 months; 75 per cent of women surveyed said violence and harassment was a serious problem and asked whether it had got worse in the last five years – 42 per cent agreed, and 30 per cent thought it was the same.

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Men are pushing over women in the street as a trend – it happened to me

Experts fear that new types of misogyny and harassment – including spitting and pushing women over – are taking hold in the UK as they move offline

https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/men-pushing-over-women-street-trend-3845874?srsltid=AfmBOoq29csw2CYnH2QwNMgW8lX9zoYcwXTwbx8cTQP2Fr1LzvR33aT5

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Cailleach1 · 25/02/2026 13:27

On ‘Crimecall’ after roughly 3 months. I suppose it is safe to air it now. Enough time under the bridge to give that vicious thug an advantage.

EdithStourton · 24/02/2026 22:12

Genesis1v27 · 24/02/2026 19:44

A vicious assault by a man on a woman on a night out in Cork city centre last November was shown on RTE's Crimecall yesterday, it has been all over X since. The man struck the woman walking by in the face with his elbow, breaking an orbital bone and knocking her unconscious. The footage is quite violent, so watch with caution.

A clip can be seen here: https://nitter.net/WorldDailyFeed/status/2026285929581945260

A local news report: https://www.corkbeo.ie/news/local-news/coward-who-attacked-woman-cork-33480454

That's horrific.
Bloody hope they catch the little shit.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 19:49

That's awful @Straycats 💐

Genesis1v27 · 24/02/2026 19:44

A vicious assault by a man on a woman on a night out in Cork city centre last November was shown on RTE's Crimecall yesterday, it has been all over X since. The man struck the woman walking by in the face with his elbow, breaking an orbital bone and knocking her unconscious. The footage is quite violent, so watch with caution.

A clip can be seen here: https://nitter.net/WorldDailyFeed/status/2026285929581945260

A local news report: https://www.corkbeo.ie/news/local-news/coward-who-attacked-woman-cork-33480454

Straycats · 24/02/2026 00:23

porridgecake · 12/08/2025 17:06

The jogger who tried to push a woman under a bus on Putney Bridge was never found. It is only a matter of time before a woman is killed by this.

I was seven months pregnant, very noticeably so when a group of men early twenties when one of them pushed me onto the road in front of a bus in Clapham Junction, that was 26 years ago. Somehow I managed to sidestep, I was too shaken and frightened to have said anything then at the time.

MouseQueen · 24/02/2026 00:08

Sidebeforeself · 13/08/2025 09:53

That’s not my point. Nobody should be doing it so “ men do it more often” doesn’t appease me . And a woman or women can be just as physically dangerous depending on the circumstances . This isn’t about showing who is worse for doing xyz. It’s abominable behaviour that

Why did your sentence suddenly end? Run out of ai tokens?

MouseQueen · 23/02/2026 23:59

SnowFrogJelly · 13/08/2025 01:06

This thread is another excuse for some man and TRA bashing

Well, should we not give credit where credit's due? If they do not want to be mentioned in the same breath as male violence, they should not be perpetrators of it.

SqueakyDoor · 23/02/2026 20:28

user9637 · 23/02/2026 19:31

Carry your keys out

I carry "stunt keys" as I worry about someone knocking my real keys out of my hand and then I'm locked out. Or scrabbling around to find them, which is a whole new danger.

user9637 · 23/02/2026 19:31

Carry your keys out

IwantToRetire · 23/02/2026 17:59

But also an alarming reminder that it seems so many men just hate women.

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beadystar · 23/02/2026 17:55

I was barged into at a local train station outside my office quite recently. The male was quite young, rough looking, but it was the look of abject hatred he gave me. Another one pushed me out of the way in a department store, the way you’d push a door open. Both times I had to pick the battle for my own safety. I honestly think we need tasers or something. Men are out of hand.

Mosman2020 · 23/02/2026 17:52

I’m gonna start Wearing a body cam and send the footage each and every day to the local police station I think it would boggle their minds if they saw the scale on which this happens

Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 23/02/2026 17:46

Those three accounts are really horrible, so sorry those happened to you all!

EdithStourton · 23/02/2026 17:27

I had something similar about a year ago. I was waiting to get off a train which lurcher as it slowed. I very slightly bumped into the man in front of me. I'm a polite person, but it didn't strike me that I'd done anything wrong. It wouldn't have bothered me if the person behind had nudged into me in the same way.

Then as I went down the steps from the platform the man who had been in front of me shoved past me - he must have held back to do this - and raked his shoe down my ankle and onto my foot. I looked up in surprise and he said, 'That's what happens when you stand too close to someone' and shoved off through the crowd at a fast walk. I wasn't hurt as his shoes were soft and his aim was terrible, but it was unpleasant and disturbing.

Which, clearly, was his intention - though he wanted to hurt me too.

Imupforthat · 23/02/2026 17:05

Oh my goodness. This makes for horrific reading. Similar but slightly different happened to me last year which I struggled to get my head round but makes more sense in the context of this thread.

Pickup lockers were being installed outside of the supermarket (Sainsbury’s - maybe it’s something in the water?) and an area cordoned off. As I trotted towards it looking for a safe place to cross (they’d parked their big works van outside the entrance causing traffic chaos) one of the workmen downed tools came out of the cordon, walked over to where I was and shooed me whilst going “can you just “whistling noise” off”. I was shocked and confused in equal measure so was a bit lost for words but did note he’d gone for the dumpy, middle aged lass as opposed to any of the men or younger women.

I crossed the road pretended to film him (cue more glaring from his end) then contacted the COO of the company named on the van. Pointed out that women have a right to be and feel safe on our streets, his employees shouldn’t be harassing women in a public place whilst at work and if he was confident enough to do that in broad daylight in front of colleagues what the heck was he doing when no one was looking

They took it really seriously and when questioned he apparently even admitted he’d done it, accepted that he’d really shaken me up and been out of order, but couldn’t explain his motivations.

The13thFairy · 23/02/2026 16:16

This happened to me around 25 years ago, coming off a train at Stratford. I was with a crowd of people getting off the train and a man shoulder charged me with such force that I fell backwards and I would have hit the ground, but for several people catching me. A few men chased him but he'd gone.

ScrollingLeaves · 18/02/2026 18:14

IwantToRetire · 12/08/2025 18:44

Absolutely. And not unlike TRAs feel they have this very special halo of rightness as they are so green they can do whatever they want.

On the pavement.

On a pedestrian crossing.

MAMILS

IwantToRetire · 18/02/2026 18:03

... a man shoved me out of his way on an empty pedestrian street. I didn’t even see him coming – well, I wouldn’t have, as he came up from behind me.

I had walked in his path, he barked at me. “What path?” I thought, baffled, as I took in the huge expanse of empty pavement around us. I was so stupefied by the encounter that I found myself frozen to the spot, watching him walk away in his blue anorak and technical rucksack. He could have been any man from anywhere on his way to work. ...

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/feb/17/men-push-abuse-women-street-stranger

Still happening.

A man pushed me in the street, he wanted to teach me a lesson. Is that OK now? | Lucy Pasha-Robinson

Many women reading this will have experienced something similar: a warning that sharing public space isn’t a man’s job, it’s a woman’s, says Lucy Pasha-Robinson, a Guardian assistant Opinion editor

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/feb/17/men-push-abuse-women-street-stranger

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Ablushingcrow · 14/12/2025 20:51

Bannedontherun · 13/08/2025 00:11

@cheesycheesy except for the Tim’s. I had two maybe late teens sidle up to me last summer at the shoe section in TKMAX.

they were both dressed like Dylan Mulvaney, Much taller than me (I am 4ft 11)

Making lots of girly noises about shoes i moved away and they just followed me.

In the end i said the size nines are over there mate….

I think I love you 😊

Brefugee · 14/12/2025 19:46

Bumblebee72 · 12/08/2025 21:54

Is this just the end result of patriarchy chicken?

victim blaming bollocks.

TreesAtSea · 14/12/2025 19:29

Dolphin78 · 14/12/2025 18:55

This happened to me today. I was so shocked. It’s stayed with me all day and I just thought I’d search online and had no idea how often this happens.
I was in Sainsbury’s and this guy really hit me with his shoulder. I knew it was deliberate as it was so hard and it really hurt. I sad “ hey why did you do that” he just kept walking but said really loud over his shoulder “ you walked into me. Love” it was said with such contempt.
Im 6ft and not invisible! I wish I’d asked his girlfriend if she was going to be ok with this level of misogyny. I can’t decide if I should report it..

I'm sorry this happened to you.

If nothing else, I'd definitely consider reporting it to Sainsbury's as he could well be a regular customer and they may even have had similar incidents reported by other women. Plus there's the possibility that the assault was captured by CCTV.
Realistically there may not be much they can do unless his behaviour repeats or escalates, but they should be made aware of such serious anti-social behaviour taking place in their store.

The inidents I experienced, detailed up-thread, were not as physically violent as yours but they still left me shocked, angered and unable to let go of what had happened. Unsurprising, of course, as they are criminal assaults with a good dose of misogyny thrown in.

Shortshriftandlethal · 14/12/2025 19:13

Dolphin78 · 14/12/2025 18:55

This happened to me today. I was so shocked. It’s stayed with me all day and I just thought I’d search online and had no idea how often this happens.
I was in Sainsbury’s and this guy really hit me with his shoulder. I knew it was deliberate as it was so hard and it really hurt. I sad “ hey why did you do that” he just kept walking but said really loud over his shoulder “ you walked into me. Love” it was said with such contempt.
Im 6ft and not invisible! I wish I’d asked his girlfriend if she was going to be ok with this level of misogyny. I can’t decide if I should report it..

I've been very aggressively shoulder barged too; whilst walking along the street - by a man in his twenties. It really did feel like an assault - as it came out of nowhere.

It also happened on another occasion...but this time by a man in his early fifties. It really did feel like he'd been bottling something up and then I got the full force.

NotrialNodeal · 14/12/2025 18:59

porridgecake · 12/08/2025 17:06

The jogger who tried to push a woman under a bus on Putney Bridge was never found. It is only a matter of time before a woman is killed by this.

This literally took my breath away to read. How absolutely fucking terrifying.

Dolphin78 · 14/12/2025 18:55

This happened to me today. I was so shocked. It’s stayed with me all day and I just thought I’d search online and had no idea how often this happens.
I was in Sainsbury’s and this guy really hit me with his shoulder. I knew it was deliberate as it was so hard and it really hurt. I sad “ hey why did you do that” he just kept walking but said really loud over his shoulder “ you walked into me. Love” it was said with such contempt.
Im 6ft and not invisible! I wish I’d asked his girlfriend if she was going to be ok with this level of misogyny. I can’t decide if I should report it..

RoamingToaster · 07/11/2025 19:21

I’d completely forgotten about the Putney Bridge jogger. That’s so frustrating he hasn’t been found. We should do a crowdfund to hire a private detective. His identity can’t be that difficult to find.

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