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Regulating Access to Single Sex Provision in the Workplace

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Brainworm · 08/08/2025 12:42

We have heard a lot from TRAs about the futility of trying to prevent transwomen from accessing female only provision. I am sharing a case study that I have been involved in that provides evidence that this isn’t the case:

  1. They reviewed their facilities and made changes to ensure adequate single sex and mixed sex provision was available
  2. Clear communication was provided across the organisation that there are 3 types of bathroom and changing facilities – male, female and unisex and these should be used in line with biological sex (female/male) or preference (unisex)
  3. They are in the process of delivering mandatory training for staff to understand the legal definition of sex and gender and to explained the legal framework upon which the decision to provide 3 types of provision is based. The training also directs people to who to raise concerns with should the policy and practice concern them. The deadline for all staff having completed this training is nearing.
  4. All managers have been provided training to help them handle any arising upset, frustration, or anger. This includes directing upset team members, where appropriate, to the organisation’s employee assistant programme where they can access counselling and legal advice.
  5. The HR team are aware of their duties to monitor compliance and have published the auditing process that they will follow.
  6. Protocols have been developed for managing non-compliance (e.g. reminders/ clarification, formal warning, dismissal) and for legally verifying sex, should that be needed.
Senior representatives from the organisation’s Pride Network were required members of the working party that developed the above strategy. They didn’t want to participate at first but were directed to do so. In being part of the working party, they witnessed the commitment the organisation had to respecting rights and dignity of all staff and they did end up making useful contributions that will benefit their network. Some Pride Network members have left the network, in protest, but have not yet resigned. The organisation has good terms and conditions within the sector, which probably accounts for the lack of resignations!
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JamieCannister · 11/08/2025 14:33

Merrymouse · 08/08/2025 17:40

Many work places have just one toilet.

For places that have one toilet I recommend that it is is unisex (open to both sexes, but single sex in use).

But for bigger companies I believe that "best practice" involves both providing the safest options (single sex spaces) and NOT PROVIDING more dangerous options even though some people might choose to put themselves at risk by using them.

Why on earth should less safe spaces be provided simply because a tiny proportion of men wish to uses spaces with women, and a proportion of women have been gaslit into believing that some men are women and vulnerable when they are not?

Fire brigades give their staff the best, most fire-resistant kit they have at their disposal. They do not give staff the option of using the less effective kit from the 1970s. Why should toilet provision not be held to the same standards?

PrettyDamnCosmic · 10/08/2025 16:55

TicklishLemur · 10/08/2025 16:34

'Protocols have been developed for managing non-compliance (e.g. reminders/ clarification, formal warning, dismissal) and for legally verifying sex, should that be needed.'

I'm curious as to what those protocols are, as I'd have thought that the ability to change passports and birth certificates (with a GRC) would make it very difficult to legally verify someone's sex if they were inclined to lie about it.

The judgment in Croft v Royal Mail when discussing where a transexual employee can be accommodated states.

Circumstances could arise in which any employee might reasonably be asked for proof of anatomical sex.

I imagine a medical report confirming biological sex would suffice rather than a genital inspection by HR.

TicklishLemur · 10/08/2025 16:34

Brainworm · 08/08/2025 12:42

We have heard a lot from TRAs about the futility of trying to prevent transwomen from accessing female only provision. I am sharing a case study that I have been involved in that provides evidence that this isn’t the case:

  1. They reviewed their facilities and made changes to ensure adequate single sex and mixed sex provision was available
  2. Clear communication was provided across the organisation that there are 3 types of bathroom and changing facilities – male, female and unisex and these should be used in line with biological sex (female/male) or preference (unisex)
  3. They are in the process of delivering mandatory training for staff to understand the legal definition of sex and gender and to explained the legal framework upon which the decision to provide 3 types of provision is based. The training also directs people to who to raise concerns with should the policy and practice concern them. The deadline for all staff having completed this training is nearing.
  4. All managers have been provided training to help them handle any arising upset, frustration, or anger. This includes directing upset team members, where appropriate, to the organisation’s employee assistant programme where they can access counselling and legal advice.
  5. The HR team are aware of their duties to monitor compliance and have published the auditing process that they will follow.
  6. Protocols have been developed for managing non-compliance (e.g. reminders/ clarification, formal warning, dismissal) and for legally verifying sex, should that be needed.
Senior representatives from the organisation’s Pride Network were required members of the working party that developed the above strategy. They didn’t want to participate at first but were directed to do so. In being part of the working party, they witnessed the commitment the organisation had to respecting rights and dignity of all staff and they did end up making useful contributions that will benefit their network. Some Pride Network members have left the network, in protest, but have not yet resigned. The organisation has good terms and conditions within the sector, which probably accounts for the lack of resignations!

'Protocols have been developed for managing non-compliance (e.g. reminders/ clarification, formal warning, dismissal) and for legally verifying sex, should that be needed.'

I'm curious as to what those protocols are, as I'd have thought that the ability to change passports and birth certificates (with a GRC) would make it very difficult to legally verify someone's sex if they were inclined to lie about it.

Keeptoiletssafe · 09/08/2025 13:35

Moremountains · 09/08/2025 13:14

@Keeptoiletssafe I agree with you, the situation I was/am in my workplace is a luxury one, and wouldn't work for more public spaces. I want to expand also on schools, totally enclosed spaces are more risky, at an age when teens are more likely to take risky, inappropriate or violent behaviours. It would only work if heavily checked by adults. In school, even truly single sex spaces are often avoided because of the irresponsible behaviour of a few.

Yes. I have spent the last few years listening to views, trying to work out how to solve privacy v health&safety but the traditional, widely used solutions are there because they worked best.

Moremountains · 09/08/2025 13:14

@Keeptoiletssafe I agree with you, the situation I was/am in my workplace is a luxury one, and wouldn't work for more public spaces. I want to expand also on schools, totally enclosed spaces are more risky, at an age when teens are more likely to take risky, inappropriate or violent behaviours. It would only work if heavily checked by adults. In school, even truly single sex spaces are often avoided because of the irresponsible behaviour of a few.

Igmum · 09/08/2025 12:50

Good case study thank you @Brainworm. Every employer and service provider should be thinking about the best way to implement the SC judgement and the more examples of good practice we have the better.

Keeptoiletssafe · 09/08/2025 12:37

Moremountains · 08/08/2025 22:33

I think the main provision should always be the safer, single-sex with cubicles with gaps option. However, I agree that offering a private, self-contained, single occupancy option is not a bad idea. There are situations where I am myself happy to use it: when I have a very heavy period, and emptying my mestrual cup becomes a messy process, I like to have a very private space where I can wash my hands immediately. On one occasion, I had food poisoning while at work, and I was glad to have a private space (for myself and for the other people as well). I had alerted a colleague that was checking on me.
I really appreciate the work you are doing, @keeptoiletssafe, as my sister has epilepsy, but I also think that sometimes people might have their reasons to choose something marginally more risky.
It also depends on the settings: what's appropriate in a workplace is not, in my opinion, good for schools, or certain public spaces, like a station.
There could also be campaigns about safety in toilets with stickers inside the toilets :)
Anyway, I'm glad, OP, that your workplace is trying to apply the SC ruling in an appropriate and balanced way.

In an ideal world, everyone would like the comforts of their home loo - privacy, just their own use etc.

Studies show 80% of people refrain from using toilets outside the home. I think it is more subtle and this figure obviously changes depending on location.

Making all out-of-home toilets cubicles completely private will lead to more deaths and more sexual assaults. It is situational but that’s what will happen overall. I track the changes. Making more out-of-home toilet cubicles completely private will still lead to more deaths and sexual assaults because there will be more locations for these to happen.

The most common call out for London fire brigade? A collapsed person behind a locked door.

Designers have tried to find ways of keeping toilets safe whilst completely private. For example, proper building regs mean no public toilet door is truly secure as they need to have a mechanism to open and pull the door outwards so you can get to a body. Stickers aren’t going to work. Currently alarms aren’t pulled when someone is attacked or falls ill in disabled toilets due to several reasons (pull cord doesn’t work or is tied up, people are too embarrassed, person is too ill to reach, person wants harm to come to themselves, consciousness is impaired before collapse, ‘freezing’ response, it’s too dangerous, it does work but no one attends). These are the things that have been tried: heat sensors, weight limits that open doors to prevent 2 people being in the same toilet, intercom systems that send emails to wardens if a person mentions calls out a certain phrase or sound, making the cubicle so small you can physically only fit one person in, doors springing wide open after a certain occupancy time. None of them are as cheap, easy to maintain and reliable as a floor-to-door gap for instantly knowing if someone is in danger.

Going back to your examples, your office loos are like a home situation in that you had the ‘luxury’ of being private whilst ill safely because it sounds like you are a healthy person normally and you weren’t alone - people knew where you were and care for you and would assist quickly. This is the best situation. I think you are lucky to be in this situation at work and I don’t think it was risky.

People with medical conditions and those who haven’t got a person in the actual vicinity who knows they are ill and will check on them, haven’t got those luxuries. Neither has anyone led/pushed into their cubicle where people don’t come to their aid. This can be in surprisingly public places.

If you were on your own in the office, I would recommend the office door being unlocked, having a phone next to you getting as close to the entrance as possible and phoning someone to come and check on you physically. This is the same advice paramedics give people who live on their own who call them.

Moremountains · 08/08/2025 22:33

I think the main provision should always be the safer, single-sex with cubicles with gaps option. However, I agree that offering a private, self-contained, single occupancy option is not a bad idea. There are situations where I am myself happy to use it: when I have a very heavy period, and emptying my mestrual cup becomes a messy process, I like to have a very private space where I can wash my hands immediately. On one occasion, I had food poisoning while at work, and I was glad to have a private space (for myself and for the other people as well). I had alerted a colleague that was checking on me.
I really appreciate the work you are doing, @keeptoiletssafe, as my sister has epilepsy, but I also think that sometimes people might have their reasons to choose something marginally more risky.
It also depends on the settings: what's appropriate in a workplace is not, in my opinion, good for schools, or certain public spaces, like a station.
There could also be campaigns about safety in toilets with stickers inside the toilets :)
Anyway, I'm glad, OP, that your workplace is trying to apply the SC ruling in an appropriate and balanced way.

Keeptoiletssafe · 08/08/2025 18:41

Brainworm · 08/08/2025 17:02

The risk of physical harm occurring in these toilets and changing rooms, even in they were mixed sex, is extremely low. You can never say never, but robust vetting is undertaken before joining. Should anyone threaten or intimidate a colleague, anywhere within the building, they would be immediately dismissed for gross misconduct.

Privacy and dignity are the most significant factors at play. I really don’t see the harm, and see the benefits, from providing a mixed sex option for those for whom this affords greater privacy and dignity. No one is forced to use them, it’s just an option.

I disagree. Health and safety should be the most significant factors at play. Safety is an absolute right.

What do you think is extremely low?
There are many people who die on the toilet because it’s where you go when you feel ill. 11% of cardiac arrests happen on the toilet. You can’t mitigate for that.

There is at least one rape per school day in a British school. These happen in private areas.

The more I investigate, the more incidents I find. WRN found horrendous levels of abuse in hospitals (locations unknown). BBC journalists were the ones finding the figures in schools.

Absolute privacy is not a friend of safety.

Raquelos · 08/08/2025 18:37

Keeptoiletssafe · 08/08/2025 15:13

That assumes people are going to use the accessible toilets for the reasons they were intended. These toilets are used for lots of different things already which is why they are left in such a state for the people that have no other options.

If there is any excuse to misuse a toilet people will take it. Some public toilets don’t even last a day before they are closed down due to vandalism etc.

It’s a difficult balance but I find people constantly overestimate how nicely toilets will be treated.

Accessible toilets really need to be respected more.
https://www.euansguide.com/campaigns/safer-toilets/

That's a fair point and I don't disagree tbh, but that is already true and I don't think that extending the user pool to transpeople makes that particular problem worse.

There is certainly a good case to increase the provision of accessible facilities across the board, but that is a different battle.

Merrymouse · 08/08/2025 17:40

JamieCannister · 08/08/2025 16:40

If they are going to provide single use occupancy toilets then SURELY the safest place for them is in single sex spaces?

We have two sets of toilets, based on sex, for reasons of privacy, dignity and safety. There is literally no need to provide any more, not least as every single person can use their correct sex space, and if they can;t then surely they have a right to use the disabled because they have a debilitating mental health issue.

Many work places have just one toilet.

Harassedevictee · 08/08/2025 17:36

JamieCannister · 08/08/2025 13:32

I think the company concerned are appalling.

The evidence suggests that women are less safe in mixed sex toilets, therefore any organisation who provides them is basically saying "some of our female staff may be stupid or vulnerable or terrified-of-being-shamed, woke, virtue-signallers, but we would rather validate a man's desire not to use the men's with the other men, than do everything we can to ensure women are safe".

No one is being forced into mixed sex toilets. There are single sex female, and male, toilets as well. Having the unisex provision as an extra option is the right compromise.

Brainworm · 08/08/2025 17:02

JamieCannister · 08/08/2025 16:48

Imagine an incredibly high-risk role dealing with HIV positive mentally ill drug users. Anti-retro-virals are available for anyone who has an incident which risks HIV infection. Imagine someone, based on no evidence at all, came along and said "I don't want to use those retro-virals, I want to use those other ones that we used to use until 10 years ago - you need to supply the old ones and make them available to staff who prefer them to the new ones".

The old retro-virals were only half as effective as the new ones, which is why we have moved onto the new ones.

If you were the boss would you provide a choice of retro-virals to your staff, even though the evidence was clear that if the staff used the old ones they were twice as likely to end up with HIV?

Can it ever be acceptable for a boss to give staff two choices, one which is much less safe than the other?

The risk of physical harm occurring in these toilets and changing rooms, even in they were mixed sex, is extremely low. You can never say never, but robust vetting is undertaken before joining. Should anyone threaten or intimidate a colleague, anywhere within the building, they would be immediately dismissed for gross misconduct.

Privacy and dignity are the most significant factors at play. I really don’t see the harm, and see the benefits, from providing a mixed sex option for those for whom this affords greater privacy and dignity. No one is forced to use them, it’s just an option.

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JamieCannister · 08/08/2025 16:48

Brainworm · 08/08/2025 13:43

That viewpoint is taking paternalism to the extreme!

Imagine an incredibly high-risk role dealing with HIV positive mentally ill drug users. Anti-retro-virals are available for anyone who has an incident which risks HIV infection. Imagine someone, based on no evidence at all, came along and said "I don't want to use those retro-virals, I want to use those other ones that we used to use until 10 years ago - you need to supply the old ones and make them available to staff who prefer them to the new ones".

The old retro-virals were only half as effective as the new ones, which is why we have moved onto the new ones.

If you were the boss would you provide a choice of retro-virals to your staff, even though the evidence was clear that if the staff used the old ones they were twice as likely to end up with HIV?

Can it ever be acceptable for a boss to give staff two choices, one which is much less safe than the other?

JamieCannister · 08/08/2025 16:40

Merrymouse · 08/08/2025 13:42

I think these are unisex facilities so a room for single use occupancy and to be used by either men or women.

I think it's difficult to argue that they don't have a place, because they will be the only option in many small workplaces.

If they are going to provide single use occupancy toilets then SURELY the safest place for them is in single sex spaces?

We have two sets of toilets, based on sex, for reasons of privacy, dignity and safety. There is literally no need to provide any more, not least as every single person can use their correct sex space, and if they can;t then surely they have a right to use the disabled because they have a debilitating mental health issue.

Keeptoiletssafe · 08/08/2025 15:14

CassOle · 08/08/2025 15:13

Single sex disabled facilities are definitely something that needs to be done more.

Yes!

CassOle · 08/08/2025 15:13

Single sex disabled facilities are definitely something that needs to be done more.

Keeptoiletssafe · 08/08/2025 15:13

Raquelos · 08/08/2025 14:12

I disagree with this when there is no option for a fourth space.

I understand the frustration linked to the perception that those who need accessible facilities are being edged out because the pool of people using the facilities has been extended, but given the small number of transpeople involved, I think the impact will be negligible. In an imperfect world, I think extending the use of accessible facilities to transpeople is a reasonable solution which balances the needs of all of the user groups.

That assumes people are going to use the accessible toilets for the reasons they were intended. These toilets are used for lots of different things already which is why they are left in such a state for the people that have no other options.

If there is any excuse to misuse a toilet people will take it. Some public toilets don’t even last a day before they are closed down due to vandalism etc.

It’s a difficult balance but I find people constantly overestimate how nicely toilets will be treated.

Accessible toilets really need to be respected more.
https://www.euansguide.com/campaigns/safer-toilets/

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Join our campaign to make every accessible toilet safer.

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Brainworm · 08/08/2025 15:02

Merrymouse · 08/08/2025 13:39

Did the Pride Network argue that the policy was unenforceable because it is impossible to know somebody's sex and that there is an Article 8 right to conceal sex?

If so, how did the organisation respond?

They didn’t argue that the policy was unenforceable because the policy stated what was expected and
the measures taken to ensure it would be upheld.

The organisation has a very active Disability Network and much of their work focuses on safeguarding. The reps in the working party would have reacted strongly to the suggestion that sex isn’t anyone else’s business (their take on this hasn’t be gender identity focussed to date).

The organisation is very disability aware. Accessible areas were already integrated into single sex toilets and changing areas.

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Raquelos · 08/08/2025 14:12

MarieDeGournay · 08/08/2025 13:23

That's an encouraging case study, thank you Brainworm.

I'd like to see a statement that the accessible facilities are specifically for the use of people with disabilities - there was an example on another thread of a 99% acceptable statement about access to single sex facilities in a local authority-run venue, but then it offered up the disabled toilets as an alternative!🙁

In cases where there is no gender-neutral toilet there may be pressure to re-badge a women's toilet or the accessible toilet as 'unisex'.

If there is no fourth space i.e. a unisex/gender-neutral toilet, males have to use the men's and females have to use the women's, and the disabled toilet should not be offered up to placate 'uncomfortable' transfolx.

I disagree with this when there is no option for a fourth space.

I understand the frustration linked to the perception that those who need accessible facilities are being edged out because the pool of people using the facilities has been extended, but given the small number of transpeople involved, I think the impact will be negligible. In an imperfect world, I think extending the use of accessible facilities to transpeople is a reasonable solution which balances the needs of all of the user groups.

Keeptoiletssafe · 08/08/2025 13:49

It’s interesting to see how this will all pan out.
Disabled people don’t even get to call their loo the third space and have the benefits of a single sex loo.
Now they’ll have extra wait times too if more people go in the accessible toilets.

Because of the designs differences, it isn’t a ‘neutral’ solution. This is because of the dangers of a private space leading to a public area. It’s worse if that private space is mixed sex.

Brainworm · 08/08/2025 13:43

JamieCannister · 08/08/2025 13:32

I think the company concerned are appalling.

The evidence suggests that women are less safe in mixed sex toilets, therefore any organisation who provides them is basically saying "some of our female staff may be stupid or vulnerable or terrified-of-being-shamed, woke, virtue-signallers, but we would rather validate a man's desire not to use the men's with the other men, than do everything we can to ensure women are safe".

That viewpoint is taking paternalism to the extreme!

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Merrymouse · 08/08/2025 13:42

JamieCannister · 08/08/2025 13:32

I think the company concerned are appalling.

The evidence suggests that women are less safe in mixed sex toilets, therefore any organisation who provides them is basically saying "some of our female staff may be stupid or vulnerable or terrified-of-being-shamed, woke, virtue-signallers, but we would rather validate a man's desire not to use the men's with the other men, than do everything we can to ensure women are safe".

I think these are unisex facilities so a room for single use occupancy and to be used by either men or women.

I think it's difficult to argue that they don't have a place, because they will be the only option in many small workplaces.

RedToothBrush · 08/08/2025 13:40

If you want to be up on a disciplinary, possibly looking at dismissal and police intervention it's very easy to do too.

Make a choice.

Merrymouse · 08/08/2025 13:39

Did the Pride Network argue that the policy was unenforceable because it is impossible to know somebody's sex and that there is an Article 8 right to conceal sex?

If so, how did the organisation respond?