Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Does the general public want to watch programmes about Transwomen?

209 replies

TiredOldHen · 08/08/2025 09:13

Media like The Guardian, Independent, BBC…etc really seem to push and promote any programmes with a very prominent transwoman/transwomen content. I just wondered how popular they actually are with viewers. For example there was lots of Trailers and ‘You must watch this’, ‘Essential viewing’… for What it Feels Like for a Girl. Do viewing figures reflect the same level of interest amongst viewers for programmes launched like this or Drag Race. I would genuinely like to know if they are satisfying a demand. Most programmes for young people now seem to have at least one trans person. It’s hard to tell in my bubble how interested people are outside the GC/TWAW debate.or if it’s just (in a Dr Who way) pushed upon them as something they should be aware interested in.

OP posts:
Annoyedone · 08/08/2025 23:03

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 22:51

I have never seen a drag queen mock abortions. Obviously that is offensive.

What about Ana Bortion? Is thst not mocking abortions?

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 23:03

Annoyedone · 08/08/2025 22:20

so you are saying that wearing dresses, makeup and fake boobs doesn’t make you a woman but a man dressing up as a woman? But they are not dressing as feminine men are they? They’re wearing woman face and caricaturising women. They are taking all the nasty sexist stereotypes thrown at women and utilising them for their own amusement.

Look. You find drag offensive. Fine.

I don't, all the other women who watch and enjoy it don't. Also fine. We can agree to disagree.

Trying to coin a phrase that plays on blackface is crass and offensive in my opinion. Slavery, public lynchings, Scape goating for crime, not being allowed in the same buildings or on the same buses as white people, the racism against black people in recent history just isn't comparable to the issues women face. Sexism and misogyny is awful and we continue to fight it but I would never compare drag and it's effects on women (I don't believe there are any beyond some being offended) to the effect of black face on black people entrenching negative stereotypes that made it ok to continue abusing them. No one looks at a drag queen and says see! Women are so stupid! Make them get the stupid person bus I don't want them on my normal person bus!

BundleBoogie · 08/08/2025 23:03

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 22:51

I have never seen a drag queen mock abortions. Obviously that is offensive.

There is one called Anna Bortion.

Waitwhat23 · 08/08/2025 23:02

Bit baffled as to why MNHQ have hidden my last post. It is literally a list of names of drag queens which were listed in an article entitled '18 of the funniest drag queen names' on a publicly accessible website.

If it's considered to have broken any talk guidelines, then that says more about the offensiveness of the names than anything else.

LoverOfTerriers · 08/08/2025 22:54

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 22:51

I have never seen a drag queen mock abortions. Obviously that is offensive.

There’s plenty that do, and not just abortions, but women’s bodie and bodily functions , their interests, all kinds of things. You only have to look at the names some of them give themselves to see the misogyny.

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 22:51

LoverOfTerriers · 08/08/2025 22:23

Like, they could just be effeminate men who like to wear makeup and dresses they don’t have to mock abortions or call each other fishy or act out sexist female tropes. It’s that stuff that many women find offensive. Men who like doing their makeup and wearing fancy dresses, I would have no problem with.

I have never seen a drag queen mock abortions. Obviously that is offensive.

Waitwhat23 · 08/08/2025 22:47

This reply has been hidden

This reply has been hidden until the MNHQ team can have a look at it.

Justwrong68 · 08/08/2025 22:34

BundleBoogie · 08/08/2025 10:13

The right to ask for a female doctor and expect a female to appear.

The right to ask for a female only hospital ward and no men on it being presented as women.

The right to complain about a violent man in a female hospital ward without getting removed from the hospital.

The right to change in a female only space.

The right not to be labelled as ‘cis’ against my will.

The right not to have to declare my ‘gender’ or ‘gender identity’ on forms and therefore be forced to participate in a harmful anti women ideology.

I didn’t have to witness young girls I know have an elective double mastectomy and ruin their future health with testosterone to make themselves look like a boy.

I didn’t have to witness men marching into women’s spaces and removing my privacy and dignity.

I didn’t have to watch union after union throw their female members to the wolves and refuse to represent them and actually directly advocate against their interests and safety.

I had the right to speak up without my job being threatened.

My daughters are forced to use mixed sex toilets at school and have a bit in their sports team. My other female family members also were forced to compete at county level against mediocre boys.

The 11 yr old girls sexually assaulted by a man allowed into the ladies because he said he was a woman might disagree with your sweeping minimisation if the issue and the woman raped in a female ward by a trans identifying man who the staff lied to the police didn’t exist, the woman who’s life was out at serious risk by a hospital who cancelled her operation because she asked that the man in a female nurses uniform not be in her care team or the countless women who have been bullied at work or lost their jobs and the millions frightened into silence by seeing all of the above being condoned by those in authority and uninformed ‘pick me’s.

We can worry about more than one issue at a time. What gave you been doing to campaign on the issues you think are more important? And why do you have an issue with women discussing the issues that concern them? Why do you know better? If you can’t see the depth of harm and consequences of this ideology on women that’s on you. There’s lots of info on this board.

This

LoverOfTerriers · 08/08/2025 22:23

Like, they could just be effeminate men who like to wear makeup and dresses they don’t have to mock abortions or call each other fishy or act out sexist female tropes. It’s that stuff that many women find offensive. Men who like doing their makeup and wearing fancy dresses, I would have no problem with.

LoverOfTerriers · 08/08/2025 22:21

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 22:17

All of the drag queens I ever have seen are gay effeminate men. They're not blokey blokes from down the pub just taking the piss out of their MIL by chucking a wig on.

Drag started as effeminate gay men expressing their feminine side when it was unacceptable for men to be feminine, a cover for them if you like. That is obviously not the case any more, though a lot of men really seem to be uncomfortable around effeminate gay men and especially drag queens so it's clearly still not openly accepted. I certainly don't think the effeminate gay men who appear in drag race are in positions of power in society and oppressing women.

Whether you all think it's acceptable or not, you simply cannot deny the artistry of it. Many modern make up techniques including contouring were invented by drag queens.

Yes, they’re gay effeminate men ( although I know of a few that aren’t particularly). But they’re still acting out misogynistic stereotypes of women for the most part.

The power they have is that they’re men and men are the oppressor class, taking the piss out of women, who are the oppressed class.

I don’t deny some of them have talent, but they could use that talent in a way that doesn’t take women down, no?

Annoyedone · 08/08/2025 22:20

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 21:49

Femininity is not a culture that can be appropriated like native Indians or black culture.

Feminine men exist. Native indianish white people don't exist.

so you are saying that wearing dresses, makeup and fake boobs doesn’t make you a woman but a man dressing up as a woman? But they are not dressing as feminine men are they? They’re wearing woman face and caricaturising women. They are taking all the nasty sexist stereotypes thrown at women and utilising them for their own amusement.

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 22:17

LoverOfTerriers · 08/08/2025 21:50

But they’re not just feminine men. They’re men pretending to be women, often playing out misogynistic stereotypes as they do so.

All of the drag queens I ever have seen are gay effeminate men. They're not blokey blokes from down the pub just taking the piss out of their MIL by chucking a wig on.

Drag started as effeminate gay men expressing their feminine side when it was unacceptable for men to be feminine, a cover for them if you like. That is obviously not the case any more, though a lot of men really seem to be uncomfortable around effeminate gay men and especially drag queens so it's clearly still not openly accepted. I certainly don't think the effeminate gay men who appear in drag race are in positions of power in society and oppressing women.

Whether you all think it's acceptable or not, you simply cannot deny the artistry of it. Many modern make up techniques including contouring were invented by drag queens.

LoverOfTerriers · 08/08/2025 21:50

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 21:49

Femininity is not a culture that can be appropriated like native Indians or black culture.

Feminine men exist. Native indianish white people don't exist.

But they’re not just feminine men. They’re men pretending to be women, often playing out misogynistic stereotypes as they do so.

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 21:49

Annoyedone · 08/08/2025 21:31

So gay men decided to dress as women for their own benefit and amusement. And you don’t think that’s wrong? Would you be ok with someone dressing as a native Indian to “express themselves” if they weren’t Indian? If not, why not? How do you know what every black person would think and feel?

Femininity is not a culture that can be appropriated like native Indians or black culture.

Feminine men exist. Native indianish white people don't exist.

Annoyedone · 08/08/2025 21:31

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 20:27

Drag was not created to mock or deride like black face. It was created for effeminate gay men to express themselves in a way that wasn't allowed at the time, then grew in popularity because people enjoyed it. The intention matters.

I certainly don't believe that effeminate gay men are oppressing women or that they have more privilege than us.

The majority of drag audiences are gay men a d straight women. The women watching clearly don't feel mocked or derided by drag or they wouldn't be watching. I certainly don't feel "mocked by my oppressor" when watching drag. At no point ever would a black person watch the minstrels and not find it offensive so it's clearly not comparable.

So gay men decided to dress as women for their own benefit and amusement. And you don’t think that’s wrong? Would you be ok with someone dressing as a native Indian to “express themselves” if they weren’t Indian? If not, why not? How do you know what every black person would think and feel?

Bookery · 08/08/2025 21:30

Bookery · 08/08/2025 21:18

I will dig out the link but just because you haven’t seen it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

I looked up the readily available polls and the analyses, and in the interest of being neutral consulted Republican data and conservative pollsters as well.

Republican strategists did claim their messaging on the transgender movement may have been effective among undecided voters, but even they did not claim the issue was the number one vote driver among undecideds.

There were Republican-supporting groups that commissioned polls, such as APP, which showed Trump's messaging might have influenced voters, but the polls did not specify whether the influenced voters were in the undecided group.

There was a group that claimed 6% of US voters thought the issue was the most important one, but the data was about voters in general, not undecided voters.

Edited

I can't seem to edit the last sentence; what I'm trying to get across is without even getting into how accurate the data is (especially the 6% one), even data from Trump-aligned groups has not demonstrated that the issue was the number one concern for undecided voters. That doesn't mean, again, that women should remain silent. It just means that particular argument about undecided voters has not been fully verified.

Bookery · 08/08/2025 21:18

I will dig out the link but just because you haven’t seen it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

I looked up the readily available polls and the analyses, and in the interest of being neutral consulted Republican data and conservative pollsters as well.

Republican strategists did claim their messaging on the transgender movement may have been effective among undecided voters, but even they did not claim the issue was the number one vote driver among undecideds.

There were Republican-supporting groups that commissioned polls, such as APP, which showed Trump's messaging might have influenced voters, but the polls did not specify whether the influenced voters were in the undecided group.

There was a group that claimed 6% of US voters thought the issue was the most important one, but the data was about voters in general, not undecided voters.

Bookery · 08/08/2025 20:56

BundleBoogie · 08/08/2025 20:50

But you led with ‘this is misinformation’. Before you asked for any verification. I will dig out the link but just because you haven’t seen it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

Re: misinformation, it appears that you missed my other comment and why I've qualified the term with "to the best of my knowledge" and added a request for a link to said reliable polls. You might have only focused on the term and skipped the rest of the comment, which is why I asked if you've read it in its entirety.

"The term "misinformation" is not being used in an accusatory manner here; it simply means inaccurate information, which is why I used it and not "disinformation" (inaccurate information intended to deliberately mislead or deceive).

It's good to be vigilant of information being spread without verification, as that's what some of those who believe women are being oversensitive about transgender identity movement have done to muddy the waters. We (as in people concerned about erosion of female rights) should not be doing what they are doing, even if some unverified or inaccurate information might seem entirely plausible."

HidingBehindTheWallpaper · 08/08/2025 20:51

Aaron95 · 08/08/2025 09:47

Most people don't care one way or another. MN users are obsessed with this but if you asked random people in the street I doubt 25% would care one way or the other.

I’m willing to bet more than 25%would agree that someone with a dick is a man.

BundleBoogie · 08/08/2025 20:50

Bookery · 08/08/2025 20:04

I'm not sure if you've read my comment in its entirety, because I've actually asked for that.

"The analyses I've come across showed inflation and cost of living (i.e., economy) as the most significant factors in the undecided group; could you link to an example that shows otherwise?"

Edited

But you led with ‘this is misinformation’. Before you asked for any verification. I will dig out the link but just because you haven’t seen it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

LoverOfTerriers · 08/08/2025 20:48

I have no objection to shows featuring transpeople (obviously) but it does get tedious when they’re featured that everyone has to bang on about how super special and beautiful they are in a way they never do for anyone else.

The only show I can think of that didn’t particularly fall into that trap was The OA. One of the kids was trans and it just wasn’t a major deal. One of my favourite shows in recent times.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 08/08/2025 20:46

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 20:27

Drag was not created to mock or deride like black face. It was created for effeminate gay men to express themselves in a way that wasn't allowed at the time, then grew in popularity because people enjoyed it. The intention matters.

I certainly don't believe that effeminate gay men are oppressing women or that they have more privilege than us.

The majority of drag audiences are gay men a d straight women. The women watching clearly don't feel mocked or derided by drag or they wouldn't be watching. I certainly don't feel "mocked by my oppressor" when watching drag. At no point ever would a black person watch the minstrels and not find it offensive so it's clearly not comparable.

Why do they always have offensive names that denigrate women then?

Jamfirstest · 08/08/2025 20:46

In all honesty I’m not interested full stop. This is different to my interest in lgb issues. I watched Its a Sin with great interest and cried my eyes out. But I have also seen My Night With Reg, Milk and loads of other lgb series and films. I generally enjoy them and sympathise with the characters.
i eye rolled so hard when I saw that Paris lease thing. I also wasn’t interested in Butterfly on itv either. I’m gc so that one bothered me a lot. I think the BBC and delusional really.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 08/08/2025 20:45

SugarSoiree · 08/08/2025 18:34

Good grief.

Woman face isn't a thing.

What are drag queens then?

ninjahamster · 08/08/2025 20:29

It doesn’t bother me. I’m not transphobic, have trans friends and family so it is quite normal to me to see them represented in the media.