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UK has got ‘fat’ on decades of free labour by women - Jess Phillips

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IwantToRetire · 05/08/2025 01:08

The minister for safeguarding and violence against women and girls said the country has relied on women providing charity, adding it was a “fundamentally sexist” practice that meant the government was less willing to provide the service itself.

She said she “hated” the title of her role and added that safeguarding against gender-based violence should be “business as usual in every single government department”.

“Do you know what it is? Free labour of women is where it comes from.

“It comes from a fundamentally sexist place in that women didn’t have these services, so a load of women across the country got together and made these services and offered them to other women for free, and they didn’t get paid for their labour.

“So they put down a mattress and made a refuge. They set up counselling services and got people who were trained to be therapists and got their voluntary hours and set it up for free.”

Phillips said people do not recognise how heavily the UK has relied on women providing support that previously did not exist.

“That is what the women in our country did in the 1960s and 1970s and 1980s and we got fat on that expectation that that service will be provided for free.

“And we also belittled it as an issue that wasn’t absolutely, fundamentally mainstream to the safety and security of our nation.

“Undoing that is really hard and it’s going to take a long time.”

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/aug/02/uk-has-got-fat-on-decades-of-free-labour-by-women-says-mp-jess-phillips

UK has got ‘fat’ on decades of free labour by women, says MP Jess Phillips

Minister points to ‘sexist’ practice of country relying on women to provide services so government did not have to

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/aug/02/uk-has-got-fat-on-decades-of-free-labour-by-women-says-mp-jess-phillips

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Sausagenbacon · 08/08/2025 09:55

I remember travelling through Romania, recently, where there were restaurants which were more like canteens. You would pay by the weight of the meal you bought.
Communism was totally into everybody being part of the machine and everything else was run by the state.
On another note, I remember being a happily sah mother and feeling utterly devalued by the message that Labour and Feminism were putting out. Not everything can be valued by a pay check.
I think the problem has been just this - people like JP think that an activity can only be perceived of as valuable by money and that there is no value in something that has no monetary value. Echoed by Feminism.
And it also forgets that most people have shit jobs and would probably prefer to be at home.

IwantToRetire · 07/08/2025 20:46

Going back to unpaid work, one of the early ideas of Women's Liberation was that households with or without children would be able to survive with 2 adults each working part time.

With the deliberate idea that the other part time would be for voluntary work, so that local communities could be more in control of provision for services etc..

But funnily enough once capitalism realised that women were prepared to go out to full time work (and come home and still do the domestic work) somehow the cost of housing etc., increased to the extent that in fact households needed two full time salaries to survive.

ie the notion was to equalise out not just who earned the wage, but also who took on the voluntary work whether in the home, or in the community.

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ArabellaScott · 07/08/2025 20:42

Yep. Clydebank Women's Aid has recently been forced to close.

www.clydebankpost.co.uk/news/25234792.first-minister-asked-closure-clydebank-womens-aid/

IwantToRetire · 07/08/2025 20:41

ArabellaScott · 07/08/2025 20:28

I actually think that JP was making a narrower point.

She was, sorry - just that I think that it's part of a wider issue of how women are expected to work for no reward/pay.

It's absurd that refuges are supposed to fund themselves, somehow. They absolutely should be funded by LAs.

Nothing to be sorry about!

Its just I keep reading about closure of refugees by bean counters in local councils, and the threat to rape crisis centres, and worry we will find by next year a very thin level of service providers for women.

In an ideal world each council or LA area would have a local women's groups keeping an eye on women's services quietly disappearing, or at best being "incorporated" into generic service provider.

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ArabellaScott · 07/08/2025 20:28

I actually think that JP was making a narrower point.

She was, sorry - just that I think that it's part of a wider issue of how women are expected to work for no reward/pay.

It's absurd that refuges are supposed to fund themselves, somehow. They absolutely should be funded by LAs.

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IwantToRetire · 07/08/2025 17:17

I really dont think we should let it seem that a fixation on the trans issue, means we are happy to throw the baby out with the bath water.

I actually think that JP was making a narrower point.

About the fact that if women hadn't voluntary set up support services for women suffering male violence there would be no support. And now when (tokenistically) political parties recognise the need for such groups they dont want to fund them. A huge number of refuges have closed this year, not because of TW but because funders do not think these services are a priority in a time of cuts. And it is projected that over half of RCC will have to cut counselling services.

And I know other services are being cut, but given the high level of male violence and women needing support it seems unrealistic to think that both refuges and RCC could go back to being totally voluntarily run.

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ArabellaScott · 07/08/2025 16:18

Sausagenbacon · 07/08/2025 15:32

I am aware that I am looking at the messenger rather than the message, and I respect what you post arabellascott
But 2 flawed messengers diminishes the impact of an interesting argument, and it's probably my problem.

It's a perfectly valid point. The UN have really fucked up a lot of the good work they've done. I think there's still space for them to be a force for good, but I see them as immensely flawed and compromised these days. I expect genderism is more of a symptom than a cause.

Sausagenbacon · 07/08/2025 15:32

I am aware that I am looking at the messenger rather than the message, and I respect what you post arabellascott
But 2 flawed messengers diminishes the impact of an interesting argument, and it's probably my problem.

Sausagenbacon · 07/08/2025 15:19

Oh yes, the same UN women that is so tuned into Women that it appointed Munroe Bergdorf as their representative for UK women.

ArabellaScott · 07/08/2025 11:23

Uk stats:

https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwork/earningsandworkinghours/articles/womenshouldertheresponsibilityofunpaidwork/2016-11-10

'Women carry out an overall average of 60% more unpaid work than men, ONS analysis has shown.
ONS analysis1 of time use data shows that women put in more than double the proportion of unpaid work2 when it comes to cooking, childcare and housework.
On average men do 16 hours a week of such unpaid work, which includes adult care and child care, laundry and cleaning, to the 26 hours of unpaid work done by women a week.
The only area where men put in more unpaid work hours than women is in the provision of transport – this includes driving themselves and others around, as well as commuting to work.
When looking at economic status, full-time students do the least amount of unpaid work, while mothers on maternity leave do the most.
ONS figures for 2014 show that total unpaid work had a value of £1.01tn, equivalent to approximately 56% of Gross Domestic Product (GDP).'

Women shoulder the responsibility of 'unpaid work' - Office for National Statistics

https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwork/earningsandworkinghours/articles/womenshouldertheresponsibilityofunpaidwork/2016-11-10

ArabellaScott · 07/08/2025 11:21

I appreciate this is broadening Phillips' original point, but I feel it would be disengenous to talk about unpaid labour without pointing out how unfathomably massive the assumption is that women are the unpaid skivvies of the world.

https://ilostat.ilo.org/topics/unpaid-work/measuring-unpaid-domestic-and-care-work/

'Every day, more than 16 billion hours are devoted to unpaid domestic and care work around the world. As global populations age, these figures are set to rise, with a disproportionate impact on women.

Measuring unpaid domestic and care work - ILOSTAT

Discover a practical tool for measuring unpaid domestic and care work and find out how we can assist you in making time-use data collection and analysis faster, easier, and more accurate.

https://ilostat.ilo.org/topics/unpaid-work/measuring-unpaid-domestic-and-care-work/

ArabellaScott · 07/08/2025 11:19

Although of course, people have tried:

https://www.unwomen.org/en/news-stories/statement/2024/10/care-a-critical-investment-for-gender-equality-and-the-rights-of-women-and-girls

'If women’s unpaid work were assigned a monetary value, it would exceed 40 per cent of GDP in some countries. Globally, women and girls spend more than 2.5 times as many hours a day on unpaid care work than men. This disparity prevents women and girls from fully realizing their rights and opportunities, throughout their lives. Women and girls remain the default providers of poorly paid and unpaid care work everywhere, and the most marginalized women – those who live in poverty, migrant women, women in informal work, and women from minority groups – shoulder the largest share of unpaid care work. An estimated 80 per cent of paid domestic workers worldwide are women.

Care: A critical investment for gender equality and the rights of women and girls | UN Women – Headquarters

When we invest in comprehensive care systems, we are investing in women, communities, societies and economies.

https://www.unwomen.org/en/news-stories/statement/2024/10/care-a-critical-investment-for-gender-equality-and-the-rights-of-women-and-girls

ArabellaScott · 07/08/2025 11:18

UpDo · 07/08/2025 10:58

Elder care in particular I think.

Care of babies, children, care of the elderly. The value of women's unpaid labour is incalculable.

endofthelinefinally · 07/08/2025 11:09

She is right but she is also a massive hypocrite. This makes it difficult for me to respect her.

UpDo · 07/08/2025 10:58

JHound · 06/08/2025 17:28

She’s right but it’s not decades: it’s centuries.

And as women withdraw from some of that free labour (such as elder care and child care) and society does not want to fund it, we start to have issues of affordability and availability.

Elder care in particular I think.

Sausagenbacon · 07/08/2025 10:47

She'll lose her seat next time around to a Muslim candidate.
She's desperate to get some relevence, while ignoring two of the major things to effect women.
Nice try Jess

ArabellaScott · 06/08/2025 22:46

She's right. The world relies on women's unpaid labour.

BadSkiingMum · 06/08/2025 18:47

Almostwelsh · 05/08/2025 12:17

I used to volunteer at playgroup and at school. I don't volunteer any more anywhere. I got tired of female volunteers being taken for granted, there was not a single man volunteering and if a dad so much as helped stack some chairs away after an event he was thanked profusely.

Women are even the majority when donating blood, even though male donors are more useful practically, as they have bigger, more easily accessible veins, can donate more frequently and are less likely to be anaemic. But fewer volunteer than women.

If I'm working, I want to be paid. I am done with providing labour for free.

I have found volunteering hugely rewarding, but have also had huge issues with it at times!

Breastfeeding peer support is a big one for me. If it was a male health issue, would male volunteers be there propping up the NHS by providing the support that health professionals don't have time to provide? Somehow I don't think so!

BadSkiingMum · 06/08/2025 18:45

I don't think she's wrong, although her point becomes somewhat (rightly) obscured by the wider issue of violence against women and girls.

So many significant social goods have come out of unpaid female labour. Referring mostly to the history of England, as I am less sure how things developed in the rest of the UK:

18th and 19th Century: Before the Education Acts, primary schools often grew from Sunday schools, which were often taught - unpaid - by the wives and/or daughters of clergymen. 'Teaching in the school' is often alluded to in 19th Century novels as a suitable activity for middle class women.

Clergymen's wives were expected to perform social-care functions in their local community, such as visiting the sick and providing meals for people in need.

Nursing was often undertaken by volunteers.

Health visiting initially grew out of voluntary activity by middle-class women, who then employed female workers to visit the homes of poor families. History of Health Visiting - IHV

20th Century:

Women volunteered to serve in WW1 and WW2. I am not sure how many women served on a voluntary or paid basis, but there was certainly substantial, informal female labour involved in both war efforts.

The playgroups movement was a initially a volunteer-led movement, with mothers getting together to establish pre-school education for their children: Who we are | early years alliance

All the non-medical support services around birth originally began with volunteers: NCT, La Leche League, Breastfeeding Network...

Girlguiding, which for years was one of the few extra-curricular activities for girls.

Where should I stop? 😀

History of Health Visiting - IHV

The year 2012 was identified as marking 150 years since the start of health visiting in 1862, but the profession’s early days were not clearly documented. There had been a plethora of different home visiting initiatives, of which many stemmed from reli...

https://ihv.org.uk/about-us/history-of-health-visiting/

JHound · 06/08/2025 17:28

She’s right but it’s not decades: it’s centuries.

And as women withdraw from some of that free labour (such as elder care and child care) and society does not want to fund it, we start to have issues of affordability and availability.

IwantToRetire · 05/08/2025 17:17

Sorry if previous post seemed a bit off topic. And it doesn't bother me that someone who I have no particular support for, is provoked into speaking the truth. The problem is the political system that requires party members to only utter the approved line on any number of issues.

It amazes me for any number of reasons, why so many remain loyal to the Labour Party.

But as they are the current Government we have to work with what the voters have imposed on us. Hmm

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IwantToRetire · 05/08/2025 17:13

Part of the problem was in fact created by Labour under Blair.

Just as he thought nurses wouldn't be respected if they didn't have university degrees, he assumed that voluntary and community groups wouldn't be offer services of a "professional" level if they were voluntary so brought in funding. ie bring in university graduates with no real skills to tell women what they could and couldn't do and made to be seen to be the equivilent to private companies. (this elitist attitude also turned social housing providers into corporate hostile exploiters)

And I suspect that for Blair, and no doubt many others, a lot of this attitude is based on complete disregard for women and not seeing them as competent human beings.

Although it was women as volunteers who set the standards for support for a number of services, not just service for women who have suffered male violence.

And of course once you are the funder you are more able to set the agenda of a group.

Not quite the same, but just as the National Lottery that was specifically set up to allow small groups to apply for money based on quite niche requirements (eg we are a small rural community with little public transport and want a mini bus, mobile library, whatever that cost would be £xxxx) The intent being that small groups whould be enabled to carry out the work that was important to them.

Now the Lottery money is basically allocated on a politically approved list of projects that meet political targets. Or replace public services that cuts to councils have resulted in closures.

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Sausagenbacon · 05/08/2025 17:00

While i appreciate this argument, it's a shame that things are brought down to money (which is what we're talking about here).
When I was a sah mother, and now that i'm retired, I enjoy giving something back and helping, when I could.
Imo that's how Society should work.
And, as far as i'm concerned, JP can take a running jump. She's been utterly useless in Gender matters, and facing up to militant Islam in her constituency.
Perhaps she should call out misogyny closer to home.

PocketSand · 05/08/2025 15:37

It is good that she is talking about free labour, the fact this is disproportionally supplied by women and the role this plays in propping up society but this is the thin end of the wedge. It’s not just safeguarding its providing care to the young and disabled in our own families. The disability benefit cuts may mean that unpaid carers no longer receive carers allowance. The payment is a pittance to begin with but the loss of daily living allowance plus carers allowance is devastating to those already on a low income. What’s the end plan? Not that disabled people will end up in social care at great expense leaving carers to rejoin the workforce. More likely that the disabled will be left to cope alone whilst their carers are forced into minimum wage jobs whilst also providing free labour to make ends meet.

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