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A small change by my local surgery - firmly asking for sex at birth

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IwantToRetire · 30/07/2025 17:45

On one level I wish they wouldn't keep doing it but my local surgery had developed a new online form.

And these it was after name and age, they firmly ask for your sex (at birth) and explain as medical practioners they need this information not someone's gender identity.

I forgot to screen shot it, and am not saying this is the exact working but I was just amazed.

Not just that they are asking for it, but making the point that in terms of providing medical services this information is central!

I am hoping this is being used across the NHS.

Has anyone else seen or had to use anything making this bold statement about biological reality?

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ConstanzeMozart · 31/03/2026 08:48

ApplebyArrows · 26/03/2026 08:35

"Sex at birth" would still be a ludicrous category in any sane society. I would be strongly tempted to write "same as now". As it is for everyone!

Yeah, I agree with this. In the current/recent context of trans madness the OP's GP surgery using this wording is a victory, I don't deny that, but ideally 'at birth' wouldn't be used, as it's redundant.

IwantToRetire · 31/03/2026 00:33

popery · 30/03/2026 21:27

Was the new form asking for gender in addition to sex, or instead of?

Instead of!

But luckily I could complete the rest of the form without filling in that bit.

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popery · 30/03/2026 21:27

IwantToRetire · 30/03/2026 18:24

Just a reminder, or to make clear, I posted about the new form because there are often threads on FWR about maybe we are making progress against everything being transed. And here was an example of within the past 2 years of a part of the NHS being transed.

Angry

Was the new form asking for gender in addition to sex, or instead of?

ScaryFaces · 30/03/2026 19:51

nocoolnamesleft · 26/03/2026 04:05

It is essential to know a patient’s sex to be able to treat them safely. Or have we all forgotten the transman whose baby died because no one thought of pregnancy?

This story is often quoted in GC circles but - in common with a lot of other information commonly shared in GC spaces - it has been misrepresented and the reality is more complex.

The patient’s medical records did state “M” however the patient told medical staff on arrival at the hospital that he was transgender, and that he had taken a home pregnancy test which was positive. He was also given another pregnancy test at the hospital. There was never any point where his care team thought he was a cis man.

However, because the patient was obese, his abdominal pain was assumed to be related to this rather than to his pregnancy. This lead to a delay in recognising the baby was in distress and resulted in the baby dying.

To be honest, the story says a great deal more about how medical professionals treat fat people rather than trans people.

Source: https://metro.co.uk/2019/05/20/pregnant-transgender-mans-baby-died-because-nurse-didnt-realize-he-was-in-labor-9613972/

Pregnant transgender man's baby died when nurse didn't realize he was in labor

A pregnant transgender man delivered a stillborn baby, although medical experts claim it may have been better handled if hospital staff would have recognized his pregnancy upon his arrival to the hospital.

https://metro.co.uk/2019/05/20/pregnant-transgender-mans-baby-died-because-nurse-didnt-realize-he-was-in-labor-9613972/

IwantToRetire · 30/03/2026 18:24

Just a reminder, or to make clear, I posted about the new form because there are often threads on FWR about maybe we are making progress against everything being transed. And here was an example of within the past 2 years of a part of the NHS being transed.

Angry
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CelticSilver · 30/03/2026 11:42

'At birth'. As if it later changes 🙄

Scaryscarytimes · 30/03/2026 09:34

My GP surgery has a screen you have to press when you arrive for an appointment. You can press either male or female. The forms for joining the surgery give you 2 options - male and female. There's no mention of transgender, but there are a lot of options for race and ethnicity. As far as I know the practice have stuck with reality throughout the trans craze, and they're in Scotland, so they earn extra brownie points.

ThatBlackCat · 30/03/2026 08:56

terfterffff · 26/03/2026 03:51

you are such a victim omg


poor baby im so sorry you had to deal with pronouns and identity. that must be sooo hard for you. such a delicate person, idk how you could survive that

At least she is not claiming her experience is 'literal genocide'.... Talk about victims!

Musicaltheatremum · 30/03/2026 08:17

nocoolnamesleft · 26/03/2026 04:05

It is essential to know a patient’s sex to be able to treat them safely. Or have we all forgotten the transman whose baby died because no one thought of pregnancy?

Or the transwoman with bone pain due to metastatic prostate cancer because you wouldn't do a PSA in a woman.

BeSpoonyTurtle · 30/03/2026 07:44

allthesmallthingsarehere · 30/07/2025 19:38

Intersex is a genuine condition. Different to trans.

It is, but people with DSDs are still one sex or the other and a sex would have been recorded at birth.

PriOn1 · 26/03/2026 20:38

ApplebyArrows · 26/03/2026 08:35

"Sex at birth" would still be a ludicrous category in any sane society. I would be strongly tempted to write "same as now". As it is for everyone!

The addition of “At birth” is indeed ludicrous and one day, it will be dropped. I guess it’s a stepping stone though from “assigned at birth” so can only be a good thing as the word assigned is an active lie, whereas “at birth” is merely redundant.

NotAtMyAge · 26/03/2026 20:13

terfterffff · 26/03/2026 03:51

you are such a victim omg


poor baby im so sorry you had to deal with pronouns and identity. that must be sooo hard for you. such a delicate person, idk how you could survive that

Identity is irrelevant where health and medicine are concerned. What matters is sex, as the International Olympic Committee has today confirmed in restricting female sport to those born female.

IwantToRetire · 26/03/2026 19:24

nocoolnamesleft · 26/03/2026 04:05

It is essential to know a patient’s sex to be able to treat them safely. Or have we all forgotten the transman whose baby died because no one thought of pregnancy?

Thanks for bothering to reply to someone who clearly isn't in touch with reality.

But also explains that when the unicorns are tasked with data collection they always FU!

Or rather try to ensure that accurate facts aren't recorded.

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borntobequiet · 26/03/2026 09:08

terfterffff · 26/03/2026 03:51

you are such a victim omg


poor baby im so sorry you had to deal with pronouns and identity. that must be sooo hard for you. such a delicate person, idk how you could survive that

It requires quite remarkable stupidity not to realise that sex, not gender, is what matters in medicine.

ApplebyArrows · 26/03/2026 08:35

"Sex at birth" would still be a ludicrous category in any sane society. I would be strongly tempted to write "same as now". As it is for everyone!

popery · 26/03/2026 08:26

I'm sure the post making a cringey joke about "pronouns" will be deleted, but I was amused to see they were so desperate to make up something to mock that they were the only person in the thread to even mention pronouns Grin

OP was the recent gender question in addition to asking bio sex, or instead of?

WittyLimeBiscuit · 26/03/2026 08:06

IwantToRetire · 30/07/2025 17:45

On one level I wish they wouldn't keep doing it but my local surgery had developed a new online form.

And these it was after name and age, they firmly ask for your sex (at birth) and explain as medical practioners they need this information not someone's gender identity.

I forgot to screen shot it, and am not saying this is the exact working but I was just amazed.

Not just that they are asking for it, but making the point that in terms of providing medical services this information is central!

I am hoping this is being used across the NHS.

Has anyone else seen or had to use anything making this bold statement about biological reality?

I recently had to do some urine samples for my GP and the stickers they printed off said Gender: F but the form with all the details of what needed to be tested said Sex: F.
I crossed out Gender and wrote Sex and my sample mysteriously got lost. Did the same second time around and there were no problems. Was it coincidence that there was a rainbow lanyard wearer on reception when I dropped everything off?

wheresthesnowgone · 26/03/2026 05:16

IwantToRetire · 30/07/2025 17:45

On one level I wish they wouldn't keep doing it but my local surgery had developed a new online form.

And these it was after name and age, they firmly ask for your sex (at birth) and explain as medical practioners they need this information not someone's gender identity.

I forgot to screen shot it, and am not saying this is the exact working but I was just amazed.

Not just that they are asking for it, but making the point that in terms of providing medical services this information is central!

I am hoping this is being used across the NHS.

Has anyone else seen or had to use anything making this bold statement about biological reality?

I imagine it's because patients have been providing incorrect biological information based on their own fantasies rather than actual facts.

nocoolnamesleft · 26/03/2026 04:05

terfterffff · 26/03/2026 03:51

you are such a victim omg


poor baby im so sorry you had to deal with pronouns and identity. that must be sooo hard for you. such a delicate person, idk how you could survive that

It is essential to know a patient’s sex to be able to treat them safely. Or have we all forgotten the transman whose baby died because no one thought of pregnancy?

terfterffff · 26/03/2026 03:51

you are such a victim omg


poor baby im so sorry you had to deal with pronouns and identity. that must be sooo hard for you. such a delicate person, idk how you could survive that

IwantToRetire · 25/03/2026 20:20

Just adding on to this old thread as last week I had the dispiriting experience of completing an on-line form for a hospital clinic I have been attending for years.

And for the first time they asked for my "gender". They had never done this before. It was always sex.

Hard to believe they would have taken this retrograde step particuluary after all the legal cases the NHS has been going through.

I didn't complete the section, but had no way of saying why.

Overall it was a badly designed form, and wondered if they had taken on some keen and thoroughly "modern" graduate as surely NHS management must have had internal memos about the difference between sex and gender.

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Chersfrozenface · 31/07/2025 07:06

Igneococcus · 31/07/2025 06:34

They often don't believe it. This might have changed since one of the far right politicians (I'd need to google his name) changed his sex when going to prison, that attracted a lot of attention and might have made some people realize the reality of the law change. I'm back in D later in the year I see if people are more aware.

According to an article from May this year, the authorities were still trying to work out what to do with Sven/Marla-Svenja Liebich, who had lost his/her appeal and had to go to prison. But which one?

SwivelEyedHagBot · 31/07/2025 06:53

There are two other 'gender markers' in the UK: U and I, but neither are 'advised' by PCSE. They still haven't fixed the gender v sex marker issue, but I note that you can now change your gender marker without getting new NHS number. This is an improvement in that old notes are less likely to be redacted or lost or difficult to interrogate (including safeguarding stuff) but it is still very far from ideal.

But it sounds like some sense is returning on an ad hoc basis - and surgeries are growing the gonads to publicly use that sense - which is great.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 31/07/2025 06:41

I was asked by an online pharmacy form in a similar wording. I also noted it seems much less apologetic than these things used to.

A small change by my local surgery - firmly asking for sex at birth
Igneococcus · 31/07/2025 06:34

Chersfrozenface · 31/07/2025 06:29

What happens when you tell them people can change their registered gender every year if they feel like it?

They often don't believe it. This might have changed since one of the far right politicians (I'd need to google his name) changed his sex when going to prison, that attracted a lot of attention and might have made some people realize the reality of the law change. I'm back in D later in the year I see if people are more aware.