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I have a DSD and am fed up.

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DSDFury · 27/07/2025 13:34

A DSD (Disorder/Difference of Sexual Development) is a congenital medical condition, usually resulting in sterility, as it does in my case. Broadly, it means there is chromosomal or other genetic anomaly which has resulted in the foetus not developing along typical lines for a male or female. Not all the resulting abnormalities are external, and we are certainly not hermaphrodites.

I am sick to death of DSDs being co-opted by the trans movement as "proof" that sex isn't binary. I am not some weird third sex, I am not part of a spectrum, and I don't feel the need to tell everyone about my condition.

I am sick to death of DSDs being misrepresented as an identity (looking at you, Fife NHS). It comes with some shitty elements such as infertility, but that is just one of many, many things that makes me who I am. I am a very ordinary middle-aged woman who shops in M&S and doesn't have blue hair.

I don't want to be in the sodding rainbow, I don't want to be on a flag and I absolutely don't want to be seen as synonymous with trans (looking at you, Women's Institute).

To (possibly) coin a phrase, I have "gender euphoria". I have never doubted for a second that I am female and I was delighted to finally go through puberty once I had been diagnosed. I don't believe that my spirit has been fortuitously put in the correct body or any such nonsense; I am female because I embody a body which has a womb and a vagina rather than a penis and testicles. I look, and sound, entirely female in every respect.

I do want our existence to be acknowledged, as in certain situations (mainly medical, but some legal) it is important to recognise this group of conditions. However I think conflating us with trans hinders this far, far more than helps, as it obfuscates the issue.

I am not particularly concerned about the implications of the Supreme Court ruling, certainly don't regard it as genocide (ridiculous hyperbole) and think it would have been insane for it to go any other way, although I fervently hope that anyone in charge of policy has sufficient knowledge of these conditions to be aware that there will be people whose chromosomes do not match their phenotype/appearance because of a medical condition rather than because they are trans.

People on the Feminism board seem to be extremely knowledgeable, but I bet a sizeable sector of the general population would be surprised by more than one thing I have written,

Thank you for reading.

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DSDFury · 30/07/2025 13:58

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 11:17

But you're still misrepresenting biological function as biological purpose by saying it's redundant because it can't do something when science doesn't actually say that. Science just describes how some can or can't reproduce, it doesn't make any comment further than that. When you start oversimplifying to these talking points of the purpose and correct and incorrect then it's an easy slippery slope to repeating the same arguments used to discriminate homosexuality and class it as "wrong"

My understanding is that "The fundamental purpose of living organisms, from a scientific perspective, is survival and reproduction."

Perhaps that is incorrect - I do not claim to be an expert. Either way it's certainly not a value judgement.

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spannasaurus · 30/07/2025 13:51

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:48

Did you also miss the many threads on this topic last week then? Perhaps go back and share your opinion there

I have shared this opinion on many posts.

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:48

spannasaurus · 30/07/2025 13:47

I've never been called a TRA or received abuse on this board for saying that someone with CAIS is female

Did you also miss the many threads on this topic last week then? Perhaps go back and share your opinion there

spannasaurus · 30/07/2025 13:47

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:44

How do they claim to have a problem with it? From what I've seen on here anyone who tries to have any sort of nuance definition of sex or gender, like for example that it's unnecessarily hurtful to insist on falling someone with CAIS male after being asked not to gets labelled a TRA and quite a lot of abuse tbh. I mean, you were on one of the recent threads about this and I note you didn't challenge anyone on this?

I've never been called a TRA or received abuse on this board for saying that someone with CAIS is female

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:44

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 13:40

That wasn’t my meaning. I can understand why transactivists have problems with this (or claim to). I don’t understand why other feminists get hung up on it.

How do they claim to have a problem with it? From what I've seen on here anyone who tries to have any sort of nuance definition of sex or gender, like for example that it's unnecessarily hurtful to insist on falling someone with CAIS male after being asked not to gets labelled a TRA and quite a lot of abuse tbh. I mean, you were on one of the recent threads about this and I note you didn't challenge anyone on this?

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 13:40

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:34

Lmao a poster is immediately labelled a TRA of they state this regardless of if they're GC. It's the majority opinion of this board.

That wasn’t my meaning. I can understand why transactivists have problems with this (or claim to). I don’t understand why other feminists get hung up on it.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 30/07/2025 13:37

For those who are looking for a better understanding of the CAIS DSD, this is very well written (imo), and also gets properly into the “how
do people with this disorder get classified”:

theparadoxinstitute.org/read/the-case-of-cais-understanding-the-complexity-of-sex-reversal

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:36

@DSDFury did you start this thread coincidentally after there were multiple threads on the topic of DSDs here over the last week?

Molinia · 30/07/2025 13:36

@DSDFury
I'm a biomedical scientist. The arrogance and scientific illiteracy of the general public still appals me. The main thing I've learned from FWR is that the sex distribution of the arrogance required to assume that a superficial trawl of the internet makes one qualified to comment on a 'technical'/scientific topic probably isn't as skewed as I previously thought.

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:34

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 12:53

Yes. I have no idea why anyone (except transactivists) have problems understanding and accepting this.

Lmao a poster is immediately labelled a TRA of they state this regardless of if they're GC. It's the majority opinion of this board.

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 13:33

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:23

Not trying to force a gotcha at all, I'm asking what then did the SC mean when it said biological women of we're including people who are biologically male? Personally I'm of the opinion that it makes sense for those with CAIS to be biologically male but considered women, hence why I think the SC decision discriminates against them. I don't see how the argument goes that they are biologically female.

Asthe likes of Robert Winston and their own clinicians say they’re biologically women, and this tallies with what @girljulianhas posted re legal position, I’m not sure our opinions matter much. I really don’t think that there should be any issue for CAIS women as a result of the SC judgment.

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:25

girljulian · 30/07/2025 12:10

This is interesting:

"In the UK, all individuals born with DSD have a registered sex at birth, which is considered their biological sex. When a baby is born with an atypical genital appearance, further medical assessments are conducted. A multidisciplinary healthcare team, in consultation with the family, determines the appropriate sex assignment, which is legally recorded as the child's biological sex. Similarly, when a young woman is diagnosed with DSD, e.g. during puberty, comprehensive evaluations are performed to understand the atypical sex development pathway. Unless she, supported by her medical team, chooses to apply for a revision, her registered sex remains her biological sex.

It is uncommon for individuals with DSD to seek a revision of their sex registration and there are limited systematic data available on this matter. DSD-specific provisions for revising sex registration have already been established through the General Register Office (GRO) and require medical evidence. Our current understanding is that the revised sex registration reflects the individual's biological sex. We have contacted the GRO and the Office for Equality and Opportunity to confirm this and to obtain specific legal documents related to this process."

So presumably if a person with 5-ARD or any similar condition was registered female at birth then they are legally female and there's no legal basis for ousting them from women's spaces?

It was uncommon for individuals to seek revision of their sex registration because we didn't have legislation barring them from using spaces associated with their appearance. I suspect many more will seek to change it now.

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:24

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 12:48

I’m afraid quite a few women on FWR - some on this thread, quite a few the other thread referred to seem to have been stuck in an oversimplified dogmatic view that XY == ‘male’ , without the proper consideration for SRY gene, functioning androgen receptors.
Its unhelpful all round.

It is unhelpful though I note very few challenge it on this forum

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 13:23

myplace · 30/07/2025 13:00

Hang on, spell it out for the hard of understanding like me.

CAIS is a male DSD, but people with CAIS are biologically female? Because their SRY gene doesn’t function?

I was content to say male for very specific purposes (medical, olympics) but pragmatically female.

Whatever the case, DSDs aren’t relevant to the trans/women’s rights discussion and I’m sorry it’s upsetting for those caught up against their will. Melons is clearly trying to force a ‘gotcha’ rather than engaging with the discussion.

Can you tune it out, knowing it isn’t aimed at you?

Not trying to force a gotcha at all, I'm asking what then did the SC mean when it said biological women of we're including people who are biologically male? Personally I'm of the opinion that it makes sense for those with CAIS to be biologically male but considered women, hence why I think the SC decision discriminates against them. I don't see how the argument goes that they are biologically female.

myplace · 30/07/2025 13:00

Hang on, spell it out for the hard of understanding like me.

CAIS is a male DSD, but people with CAIS are biologically female? Because their SRY gene doesn’t function?

I was content to say male for very specific purposes (medical, olympics) but pragmatically female.

Whatever the case, DSDs aren’t relevant to the trans/women’s rights discussion and I’m sorry it’s upsetting for those caught up against their will. Melons is clearly trying to force a ‘gotcha’ rather than engaging with the discussion.

Can you tune it out, knowing it isn’t aimed at you?

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 12:53

girljulian · 30/07/2025 12:14

Not true per what I've just posted above about their legally registered sex being considered their "biological sex". So objectively, the fact is that they are biologically women.

Yes. I have no idea why anyone (except transactivists) have problems understanding and accepting this.

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 12:48

OldCrone · 30/07/2025 11:16

Who is insisting that people with CAIS should be called male? DSD Families, a charity for people with DSDs and their families say that CAIS is a female DSD.

46, XY DSD Sensitivity to Androgens :: DSD Families

And this is their statement about the Supreme Court ruling.

Supreme Court Ruling 2025 :: DSD Families

Discussions around the ruling may further exacerbate the oversimplification, misrepresentation, and weaponisation of DSD/Intersex by third parties, resulting in an overemphasis on the body in ways that dehumanise the person.

This is what you seem to be doing.

I’m afraid quite a few women on FWR - some on this thread, quite a few the other thread referred to seem to have been stuck in an oversimplified dogmatic view that XY == ‘male’ , without the proper consideration for SRY gene, functioning androgen receptors.
Its unhelpful all round.

girljulian · 30/07/2025 12:14

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 12:12

Well that's the prevailing objective fact on this forum, no? . OP very coincidentally set up this thread right after those insisting people with CAIS should be called male and man were talking about how those with CAIS don't want to be in this debate. According to the SC judgement, those with CAIS have been excluded from womanhood now and I suppose single sex spaces also.

Not true per what I've just posted above about their legally registered sex being considered their "biological sex". So objectively, the fact is that they are biologically women.

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 12:12

girljulian · 30/07/2025 12:08

Funny how you've banged on earlier in the thread about how women with CAIS should stay out of women's spaces then?

Well that's the prevailing objective fact on this forum, no? . OP very coincidentally set up this thread right after those insisting people with CAIS should be called male and man were talking about how those with CAIS don't want to be in this debate. According to the SC judgement, those with CAIS have been excluded from womanhood now and I suppose single sex spaces also.

girljulian · 30/07/2025 12:10

This is interesting:

"In the UK, all individuals born with DSD have a registered sex at birth, which is considered their biological sex. When a baby is born with an atypical genital appearance, further medical assessments are conducted. A multidisciplinary healthcare team, in consultation with the family, determines the appropriate sex assignment, which is legally recorded as the child's biological sex. Similarly, when a young woman is diagnosed with DSD, e.g. during puberty, comprehensive evaluations are performed to understand the atypical sex development pathway. Unless she, supported by her medical team, chooses to apply for a revision, her registered sex remains her biological sex.

It is uncommon for individuals with DSD to seek a revision of their sex registration and there are limited systematic data available on this matter. DSD-specific provisions for revising sex registration have already been established through the General Register Office (GRO) and require medical evidence. Our current understanding is that the revised sex registration reflects the individual's biological sex. We have contacted the GRO and the Office for Equality and Opportunity to confirm this and to obtain specific legal documents related to this process."

So presumably if a person with 5-ARD or any similar condition was registered female at birth then they are legally female and there's no legal basis for ousting them from women's spaces?

girljulian · 30/07/2025 12:08

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 11:20

About 40 odd pages of posters on the previous thread on DSDs, perhaps go read it. Apparently it's asking too much of women to call those with CAIS woman or she. It's not what I'm doing actually, I happen to think those with CAIS are women but then that's because I didnt agree with people's oversimplified description of biological sex .

Funny how you've banged on earlier in the thread about how women with CAIS should stay out of women's spaces then?

DSDFury · 30/07/2025 11:22

AlexandraLeaving · 30/07/2025 07:21

I understood OP to be saying that there are two common over-simplifications about chromosomes that are both based on out-of-date knowledge.

Previously, we thought it was the Y chromosome that made someone male. Now we know that it is the SRY gene, which is usually found on the Y chromosome but sometimes is not, and sometimes is missing. So people without an SRY gene are classed as female (inc Swyers syndrome people) which means there are - very very occasionally - women with XY chromosomes.

Previously, we also thought that humans have 46 chromosomes. Now we know that some humans (those with Down’s) have 47. Theoretically, we could have stuck to our “humans have 46 chromosomes” previous knowledge, therefore meaning Down’s people cannot be human. But it is much more logical to supersede the previous knowledge with the new knowledge that “most humans have 46 chromosomes but a few have 47” and therefore that people with Down’s are (obviously) human.

And, of course, none of this relates to transness, as per original OP frustration.

Thank you. Yes, this is all exactly in line with what I meant.

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melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 11:20

OldCrone · 30/07/2025 11:16

Who is insisting that people with CAIS should be called male? DSD Families, a charity for people with DSDs and their families say that CAIS is a female DSD.

46, XY DSD Sensitivity to Androgens :: DSD Families

And this is their statement about the Supreme Court ruling.

Supreme Court Ruling 2025 :: DSD Families

Discussions around the ruling may further exacerbate the oversimplification, misrepresentation, and weaponisation of DSD/Intersex by third parties, resulting in an overemphasis on the body in ways that dehumanise the person.

This is what you seem to be doing.

About 40 odd pages of posters on the previous thread on DSDs, perhaps go read it. Apparently it's asking too much of women to call those with CAIS woman or she. It's not what I'm doing actually, I happen to think those with CAIS are women but then that's because I didnt agree with people's oversimplified description of biological sex .

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 11:17

DSDFury · 30/07/2025 10:59

No, that is a misrepresentation of what I said. I said, "in evolutionary terms an organism is redundant if it can't propagate the species". Can't, not doesn't.

Whether or not you agree with that, I was talking about evolution, not making a value judgement about existing humans who happen to be attracted to other humans of the same sex and so consequently may not have offspring.

And purely in biologically terms, most same-sex people of the (biologically) appropriate age can reproduce. I don't know many lesbians, but those I do know have been pregnant and given birth.

But you're still misrepresenting biological function as biological purpose by saying it's redundant because it can't do something when science doesn't actually say that. Science just describes how some can or can't reproduce, it doesn't make any comment further than that. When you start oversimplifying to these talking points of the purpose and correct and incorrect then it's an easy slippery slope to repeating the same arguments used to discriminate homosexuality and class it as "wrong"

OldCrone · 30/07/2025 11:16

melonsandlemonsandpears · 30/07/2025 11:00

Of course it's different, no one said it wasn't. Why insist then that a woman has to be a biological adult human female? And that those with CAIS need to be called male etc?

Who is insisting that people with CAIS should be called male? DSD Families, a charity for people with DSDs and their families say that CAIS is a female DSD.

46, XY DSD Sensitivity to Androgens :: DSD Families

And this is their statement about the Supreme Court ruling.

Supreme Court Ruling 2025 :: DSD Families

Discussions around the ruling may further exacerbate the oversimplification, misrepresentation, and weaponisation of DSD/Intersex by third parties, resulting in an overemphasis on the body in ways that dehumanise the person.

This is what you seem to be doing.

46, XY DSD Sensitivity to Androgens :: DSD Families

https://www.dsdfamilies.org/parents/what-dsd/brief-overview/androgens