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"Biological sex is a multidimensional variable with various components" - Thread 3

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 09:55

Starting a new thread so I can respond to @suggestionsplease1 's most recent post.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:55

⚖️ Key Legal Distinctions

Under UK law (Sexual Offences Act 2003), only someone with a penis can be charged with rape; women, whether cis or trans, can only be charged with sexual assault or causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent.

Here, for example, ChatGTP appears to be using the term "women" to mean women or trans men.

Hang on, will check.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:54

Haha ChatGTP appears to be peaking.

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lifeturnsonadime · 27/07/2025 17:54

These, perhaps, are the worst group, but it must be remembered that for every Commander Waterford, there’s a Serena Joy standing behind him, ready to pin a handmaiden down as her husband rapes her.

So much this.

@suggestionsplease1 you have said upthread that you think that the trans women in women's prisons have used self ID to access women in prison yet don't seem to join the dots to understand that men may do the same to access women in other single sex spaces.

And that we have the protection of single sex spaces precisely to stop the bad actors whether they have true trans identities or otherwise from gaining easy access to women.

Don't you see what you are doing to women when you dismiss the needs of actual women in favour of a group of males some of whom you acknowledge use this identity to deliberately access women in what should be single sex spaces?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:52

MissScarletInTheBallroom to ChatGPT:

Have there been any recorded instances of a cisgender woman sexually assaulting another woman in women's toilets in the UK?

ChatGPT to MissScarletInTheBallroom:

There are no publicly documented cases in the UK of a cisgender woman (someone assigned female at birth and identifying as a woman) sexually assaulting another woman in a women’s toilet. Such incidents appear to be extremely rare or simply not reported in accessible legal or media records.


🔍 What the evidence shows

  1. Sexual violence in female toilets in the UK has typically involved individuals assigned male at birth, including cases where they identified as female (i.e. trans women or cases where perpetrators claimed a gender change).
  2. For example, in Birmingham New Street station in March 2022, a man assaulted a woman in the female toilets after entering them disguised as female; he was convicted and imprisoned.
  3. Other UK-related incidents involved trans prisoners assigned male at birth who assaulted women in custody settings (e.g., Karen White in a women's prison, Isla Bryson before transition)—but again, not cisgender women in public women’s facilities.
  4. The Crown Prosecution Service toolkit clarifies that sexual abuse between women does occur—but it does not list any recorded case involving a cisgender woman attacking another woman in a female restroom area.
  5. Data on public sexual assault statistics (including perpetrators’ sex or gender) are limited; Freedom of Information responses indicate no public dataset tracking sexual assault specifically in women’s restrooms by cis women or transgender individuals.

⚖️ Key Legal Distinctions

Under UK law (Sexual Offences Act 2003), only someone with a penis can be charged with rape; women, whether cis or trans, can only be charged with sexual assault or causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent .

While sexual violence between women does happen, it is generally more underreported due to social stigma, under-recognition, or reluctance to approach law enforcement . But this does not mean there are recorded cases involving cisgender women in women’s toilets.


✅ Summary Table

Scenario Recorded in UK?

Cisgender woman assaulting another woman in a public women’s toilet No known cases
Male-assigned-at-birth person (including those identifying female) assaulting woman in women’s toilet Yes, documented cases
Sexual assault between women (e.g. within relationships, in private settings) Yes, but typically not public restroom cases


🧠 Why You Might Not Find Documented Cases

Sexual violence between women is historically invisible in mainstream discourse and research, which may lead to underreporting or misclassification.

Public restroom assaults are rare compared to other settings, and offenses by cisgender women in such spaces may go unreported or unpublicized.

Media, legal, and public data sources—as of mid‑2025—contain no evidence of cisgender women committing this specific type of offence in UK women’s toilets.


If You're Exploring This Topic Further

Consider that lack of evidence doesn’t equal proof of absolute non‑occurrence, but given extensive media and legal scrutiny of restroom safety, any high‑profile instance would likely have been reported.

Support or antidepress/statistical studies on female-perpetrated sexual violence may provide context—though they rarely focus on public lavatories.

If you’re seeking academic or victim‑advocacy perspectives, reports on sexual violence dynamics between women (outside restrooms) may offer broader insight.


🏁 Final Word

There is no verifiable or reported instance in the UK of a cisgender woman sexually assaulting another woman in a women’s toilet. The cases that have occurred in that setting have involved individuals assigned male at birth, including those identifying or presenting as female.

If you have specific inci
dents or references in mind, I can research those further—just let me know!

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Annoyedone · 27/07/2025 17:49

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:11

This is just another false attribution.

I could ask you why do you want female sex offenders to have access to women's toilets?

But if women’s toilets are so full of female sexy offenders, wouldnt males with a trans identity be unsafe? If women’s toilets are so dangerous, surely it would be wisest if males with a trans identity used the make toilets. I mean, if sharing spaces either makes is fine for women, surely it’s even safer for males with a trans identity right?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:48

Perhaps @suggestionsplease1 is actually getting at something else when s/he says that there is no evidence of self ID increasing risks to women and girls' safety.

It's not actually self ID that is the issue, it is men in women's spaces that increases the risk to women and girls' safety. This doesn't technically have anything to do with self ID because no one is checking IDs on toilet doors.

In the UK, the Supreme Court has confirmed that a man having a silly piece of paper saying he is a woman should have no impact on whether he is allowed in women's spaces or not. This principle should hold, regardless of how easy or difficult it is to get that piece of paper.

In reality, countries which allow a man to get a silly piece of paper very easily are also going to be the same countries which allow him to use women's spaces whether he has that silly piece of paper of not. With such disregard for women, I cannot imagine they are scrupulously collecting data recording the impact of their policies for women.

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Keeptoiletssafe · 27/07/2025 17:41

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:21

To repeat what I have said before, there is absolutely no evidence of increased risk to women as a result of gender self-ID processes. You are talking about speculative potential, but you have zero empirical evidence.

Are you not interested in the facts?

I have lots of empirical evidence about toilets.
It’s very time consuming and depressing to collate.

Keeptoiletssafe · 27/07/2025 17:35

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:21

To repeat what I have said before, there is absolutely no evidence of increased risk to women as a result of gender self-ID processes. You are talking about speculative potential, but you have zero empirical evidence.

Are you not interested in the facts?

Aren’t you?
It is a fact that the design of toilets becomes private when it is not single sex. This means it’s less safe for all but particularly women, girls, boys and those medically vulnerable.

TheKeatingFive · 27/07/2025 17:34

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:21

To repeat what I have said before, there is absolutely no evidence of increased risk to women as a result of gender self-ID processes. You are talking about speculative potential, but you have zero empirical evidence.

Are you not interested in the facts?

Even if that were true (it isn't), it doesn't matter.

There's nothing that justifies trans identifying men getting special privileges and entry into women spaces.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:24

That's not a fact, it's a lie identifying as a fact.

An example of a fact is "trans identifying men have been convicted of committing violent sexual offences against women and children in the UK".

Can you explain why you think we should open up all women's spaces to any man who wants access?

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WarriorN · 27/07/2025 17:23

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:21

To repeat what I have said before, there is absolutely no evidence of increased risk to women as a result of gender self-ID processes. You are talking about speculative potential, but you have zero empirical evidence.

Are you not interested in the facts?

the fact is that UK law disagrees with you.

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:21

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:18

Because they're female, where else would they go?

And there are not 500,000-1 million of them walking around.

I don't understand what you think is false about my question. You can't allow special men with transgender identities access to women's single sex spaces and keep all other men out. If you're letting your nice friends in you're also letting in any other man who wants to be in there for any reason. You understand this, right?

Letting male people use women's single sex spaces on a self ID basis means you are giving tacit permission for any man to use any women's single sex space at any time and for any reason.

To repeat what I have said before, there is absolutely no evidence of increased risk to women as a result of gender self-ID processes. You are talking about speculative potential, but you have zero empirical evidence.

Are you not interested in the facts?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:18

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:11

This is just another false attribution.

I could ask you why do you want female sex offenders to have access to women's toilets?

Because they're female, where else would they go?

And there are not 500,000-1 million of them walking around.

I don't understand what you think is false about my question. You can't allow special men with transgender identities access to women's single sex spaces and keep all other men out. If you're letting your nice friends in you're also letting in any other man who wants to be in there for any reason. You understand this, right?

Letting male people use women's single sex spaces on a self ID basis means you are giving tacit permission for any man to use any women's single sex space at any time and for any reason.

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suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:18

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:02

Bumping this.

Why do you want male sex offenders to have access to male toilets?

TheKeatingFive · 27/07/2025 17:16

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:11

This is just another false attribution.

I could ask you why do you want female sex offenders to have access to women's toilets?

It's not a false attribution at all.

Given we have take the decision to keep men out of women's spaces for safeguarding reasons, what justification is there for exempting one group of men from that?

needtostopnamechanging · 27/07/2025 17:16

Basically you are saying that men and women should always be mixed because it’s nicer for men even if it disadvantages women

you do know that female sex offenders are rather rare whereas male sex offenders are incredibly common

if you analyse the ONS data ( self reported on assault rates as opposed to assaults that have gone through the criminal system ) you could easily get to 1 in 10 men had probably committed a sexual offence - that’s assuming men commit multiple offences

anyway I have heard your proposal and I reject it
as does my husband and I expect most decent men

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:11

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:02

Bumping this.

This is just another false attribution.

I could ask you why do you want female sex offenders to have access to women's toilets?

TheKeatingFive · 27/07/2025 17:05

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:02

Bumping this.

The only plausible answer to this is 'so that men can get what they want' - surely?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:02

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 15:26

Why do you want between half a million and a million male sex offenders in the UK to be given free access to women's single sex spaces?

I don't care what happens in other countries.

Bumping this.

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BackToLurk · 27/07/2025 16:01

I mean it seems to have passed some posters by that women have been, and continue to be, ignored when it comes to the impact of public policy. Why they think anyone suddenly thought “we should definitely consider the impact on women and girls” when it comes to this particular area is anyone’s guess.

BackToLurk · 27/07/2025 15:57

TheKeatingFive · 27/07/2025 15:30

Thing is, what if these countries aren't looking for evidence?

In Ireland, we have one brave journalist telling the stories of the women being traumatised by being locked up with men in Limerick Prison.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/4kiybGqqnUZjRMWDmYLjOF?si=JRpSkO9BSEiSu86zJZh8yA

But the authorities are turning a blind eye, let alone actually amassing evidence on the topic. In the meantime, Barbie Khardashian physically attacks his female social worker, threatens to rape and murder his female prison officer and another female inmate. But where is this showing up in your evidence? Clue. It isn't.

Your point is irrelevant anyway. Women don't have to give into men's demands unless they can prove it will harm them. No is a complete sentence.

Which brings us back to this

We have been unable to find evidence that any mechanism was put in place for evaluating the impact of the change on the experience of women and girls, for example in relation to single sex services and spaces. This may reflect the wider context: in 2014 the European Agency for Fundamental Rights ranked Denmark as the EU country with the highest occurrence of male physical violence and sexual assault against women.
https://murrayblackburnmackenzie.org/2022/06/18/lessons-from-denmark/

Lessons from Denmark? - Murray Blackburn Mackenzie

On Tuesday 21 June 2022, the Equalities, Human Rights and Civil Justice Committee will take evidence from Dr Chris Dietz  of the University of Leeds, whose research addresses the regulation of gender, with a specific focus upon how gender recognition l...

https://murrayblackburnmackenzie.org/2022/06/18/lessons-from-denmark/

Fidgetbreak · 27/07/2025 15:53

@Tandora
I've enjoyed our conversation so far. Seems you missed my last question.

In the absence of a person telling you their sex is there any way to correctly determine their sex?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 15:36

TheKeatingFive · 27/07/2025 15:34

Exactly.

What is the justification for granting this one group of men exemptions to the rules that apply to all men??

It's not even that.

In theory, we could exempt trans identifying men from the rules that apply to all men about staying out of women only spaces.

In reality, we can only exempt all men.

If a trans identifying man can enter a space, so can any man.

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Keeptoiletssafe · 27/07/2025 15:35

Why do public toilets have door gaps?

‘ChatGPT said:
Public toilet doors often have gaps for a few reasons, even though it might seem odd or uncomfortable. Here are the main reasons:

  1. Safety & Security: The gap allows people to quickly see if a stall is occupied, which can help prevent unnecessary knocking or waiting. It also makes it easier for someone to notice if someone inside the stall is in distress, unconscious, or in need of assistance.
  2. Cost and Practicality: Doors with gaps are cheaper and easier to manufacture. It’s less material and effort to install, which is often a consideration for public spaces that have many stalls.
  3. Ventilation: The gap provides better air circulation in the stall, which helps to prevent unpleasant smells from building up. Ventilation is particularly important in public restrooms, where air quality can be a concern.
  4. Maintenance & Cleaning: Gaps make it easier for janitorial staff to check if a stall is being used, and they can also help with easier cleaning since they allow access to the corners of the stall.
  5. Reducing Privacy Concerns: In many cases, the gap actually helps prevent some people from getting too "comfortable" or trying to take advantage of the space, though this is a controversial theory.
It's not ideal for privacy, but these are some of the practical reasons behind it.’ ————-

Interesting it says ‘Janitor’ so that shows American bias. American toilet door gaps are huge and they have them along the sides too - so there’s a difference too to the U.K. I think the rest of it is applicable to this country.

As single sex toilets are the only ones regulated to have door gaps in the U.K., from the above I conclude:

These single sex toilets are safer, more secure, are easier to assist if someone is distressed or unconscious or distressed, cheaper to build, easier to maintain, prevent smells and increase air quality, easier to check if someone is in there, more hygienic, and increase the turnover on users (handy for lessening queues). They are less private.

The data I have collated over the last few years agrees with this.

So let’s look at increasing privacy without decreasing health and safety. Firstly we don’t have gaps at the sides and the gaps aren’t 30cm plus like some in America. 15cm is generally considered enough in this country. We can make the waiting area in front with sinks single sex. That helps with women because it’s overwhelmingly men who spy. Men spy on men but it seems to be from the top (they stand on the toilet in the other cubicle). So ways to stop that maybe to make people more aware of who is around so the door resting in open positions.

But also there’s so many small cameras hidden in toilets nowdays that there needs to be ways of stopping this more riskfree voyerism. Making toilets totally private to give men all the time to set these devices up is not a good idea. If they have to go into a single sex area first, that’s going to make them even less likely to try. There has also got to be an awareness that the locks on public toilets aren’t ‘secure’ - they are not designed to keep people out completely - due to safety reasons. It’s a good idea to know if anyone is outside your cubicle door.

It terms on comfort, I feel more at ease in a single sex toilet for all the reasons above.

The design we’ve left with is the standard single sex design that’s been used for decades around the world. Because, taking everything into account it’s the best design.

BUT it relies on single sex being single sex.

TheKeatingFive · 27/07/2025 15:34

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 15:33

To quote Sall Grover:

"Wah wah waaaah! Why do you need female only spaces anyway?"

"Because we want them."

Exactly.

What is the justification for granting this one group of men exemptions to the rules that apply to all men??