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"Biological sex is a multidimensional variable with various components" - Thread 3

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 09:55

Starting a new thread so I can respond to @suggestionsplease1 's most recent post.

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suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:53

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 20:48

What do you mean by "abused" in this context?

Manipulated successfully by bad faith actors

TheKeatingFive · 27/07/2025 20:50

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:48

Well take my situation - I'm in several lesbian groups and the Supreme Court judgment seemed to indicate that trans women could be barred from these groups, if they consist of over 15 members I believe, I'm sure someone will correct me. Now we do accept trans women who assert a lesbian identity to our groups, and they have been very valuable members who have contributed a lot in terms of organization, participation and support for all other members. Some have been with us for over a decade. It would be a real loss to us and to them if they were forced out of groups that they have been a welcome part of for years. That would just seem to be callously cruel.

Make it a unisex group then

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:48

Annoyedone · 27/07/2025 20:41

No. You’re not quite getting it. What material benefit will women get for allowing males with a trans identity into their spaces. You’ve done a lot of waffle about helping transpeople. Now what about women? What do we get out of this?

Well take my situation - I'm in several lesbian groups and the Supreme Court judgment seemed to indicate that trans women could be barred from these groups, if they consist of over 15 members I believe, I'm sure someone will correct me. Now we do accept trans women who assert a lesbian identity to our groups, and they have been very valuable members who have contributed a lot in terms of organization, participation and support for all other members. Some have been with us for over a decade. It would be a real loss to us and to them if they were forced out of groups that they have been a welcome part of for years. That would just seem to be callously cruel.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 20:48

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:44

The reality is that gender self ID laws have not been abused in the countries that they have been implemented in.

Can you show me evidence to the contrary?

What do you mean by "abused" in this context?

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Annoyedone · 27/07/2025 20:48

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:44

The reality is that gender self ID laws have not been abused in the countries that they have been implemented in.

Can you show me evidence to the contrary?

Well according to the TRa Isla Bryson, Katie Dolowski and Karen White are not trans even though they are men claiming to be women. So either transwomen are just as dangerous to women as other men or men are pretending to be trans to abuse women, therefore abusing self I.D. Which is it? And either way, males don’t belong in women’s spaces.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 20:47

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:37

I've already referenced the potential problems for women that could arise out of attempts at implementing policy. Namely that there could be harassment of women that appear more masculine and invasions of their privacy.

The Supreme Court also incredibly outlined scenarios where transmen (females in GC understanding) could be banned from using both male toilets as they are not male biological sex, and female toilets if they look too masculine, potentially leaving them with no facilities to use. Although I believe the Supreme Court suggested that option should be available to them they will understandably feel incredibly nervous now about using either men's or women's toilets as the Supreme Court has said they could be barred from both options. This is an incredibly harmful impact on born females.

Although my position clearly appears out of step on Mumsnet FWR, it is in line with the approaches of the best countries in the world for women, in highly respected international comparator tables. The top countries in the world for women who have solid track records over decades of strong performance for women have seen fit to make this decision - after so many years of so many good decisions for women why do you suddenly think that these countries are suddenly now making a bad decision for decision? There is no evidence whatsoever that since their implementation of gender self ID there has been any harm to women.

In general the better a country performs for its most vulnerable members, the better it also performs for women; that is what these countries are showing. And when a country starts dissembling rights for its most vulnerable populations, sure enough women are just a little bit further down the line of being negatively impacted themselves. Trump's America will be a worked example of this in the next few years.

I've already asked you several times why you think it is likely that masculine presenting female people will be confused for feminine presenting male people but...tumbleweed.

I agree that the part of the Supreme Court judgment about trans men potentially being excluded from both men's and women's spaces is problematic. I can absolutely see the logic for it but it wasn't a question that was asked and it was only partially answered. They didn't elaborate on what passing trans men are supposed to do it there is no unisex facility available. However...in reality...we've had trans men on here saying that they try to avoid both the men's and the women's anyway. They avoid the women's because they don't want to cause alarm to women (or out themselves) and they avoid the men's because they don't feel safe. They are already seeking out unisex alternatives or using disabled facilities. Ultimately people who choose to alter their appearance to the point where they are no longer recognisable as a member of their own sex do need to take some responsibility for their choices. And I see no evidence that trans men are not taking responsibility for their own choices. I doubt this will change much, if anything, for passing trans men.

People have pointed out the flaws in your "but the top countries for women in the WORLD!!!!" analysis. It seems you ignore any posts pointing out that statistics don't tell the whole truth and explaining why these countries might not be as great for women as they seem.

PS - trans identifying men are not among the most vulnerable members of society. Not even close.

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BackToLurk · 27/07/2025 20:45

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:44

The reality is that gender self ID laws have not been abused in the countries that they have been implemented in.

Can you show me evidence to the contrary?

Why do you think some males are less of a threat to women than other males?
Why do you want to give some males, but not others, access to single sex spaces?

TheKeatingFive · 27/07/2025 20:44

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:37

I've already referenced the potential problems for women that could arise out of attempts at implementing policy. Namely that there could be harassment of women that appear more masculine and invasions of their privacy.

The Supreme Court also incredibly outlined scenarios where transmen (females in GC understanding) could be banned from using both male toilets as they are not male biological sex, and female toilets if they look too masculine, potentially leaving them with no facilities to use. Although I believe the Supreme Court suggested that option should be available to them they will understandably feel incredibly nervous now about using either men's or women's toilets as the Supreme Court has said they could be barred from both options. This is an incredibly harmful impact on born females.

Although my position clearly appears out of step on Mumsnet FWR, it is in line with the approaches of the best countries in the world for women, in highly respected international comparator tables. The top countries in the world for women who have solid track records over decades of strong performance for women have seen fit to make this decision - after so many years of so many good decisions for women why do you suddenly think that these countries are suddenly now making a bad decision for decision? There is no evidence whatsoever that since their implementation of gender self ID there has been any harm to women.

In general the better a country performs for its most vulnerable members, the better it also performs for women; that is what these countries are showing. And when a country starts dissembling rights for its most vulnerable populations, sure enough women are just a little bit further down the line of being negatively impacted themselves. Trump's America will be a worked example of this in the next few years.

The top countries in the world for women who have solid track records over decades of strong performance for women have seen fit to make this decision - after so many years of so many good decisions for women why do you suddenly think that these countries are suddenly now making a bad decision for decision?

The Irish government / politicians who voted self id in hadn't a clue about the implications of what they were supporting. Many have said as much.

And what's your message to the women in Limerick Prison (I posted about them upthread). Or do you just not care about these women?

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:44

BackToLurk · 27/07/2025 20:40

@suggestionsplease1 Why do you think some males are less of a threat to women than other males?
Why do you want to give some males, but not others, access to single sex spaces?

You can illustrate your reasons with a chart if you want

The reality is that gender self ID laws have not been abused in the countries that they have been implemented in.

Can you show me evidence to the contrary?

WithSilverBells · 27/07/2025 20:43

Not much of a benefit is it? Comply, or the transmen and butch women are stuffed. Was hoping for something that would be an easier sell tbh

Annoyedone · 27/07/2025 20:42

BackToLurk · 27/07/2025 20:40

@suggestionsplease1 Why do you think some males are less of a threat to women than other males?
Why do you want to give some males, but not others, access to single sex spaces?

You can illustrate your reasons with a chart if you want

Or a diagram! We love a diagram.

Annoyedone · 27/07/2025 20:41

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:37

I've already referenced the potential problems for women that could arise out of attempts at implementing policy. Namely that there could be harassment of women that appear more masculine and invasions of their privacy.

The Supreme Court also incredibly outlined scenarios where transmen (females in GC understanding) could be banned from using both male toilets as they are not male biological sex, and female toilets if they look too masculine, potentially leaving them with no facilities to use. Although I believe the Supreme Court suggested that option should be available to them they will understandably feel incredibly nervous now about using either men's or women's toilets as the Supreme Court has said they could be barred from both options. This is an incredibly harmful impact on born females.

Although my position clearly appears out of step on Mumsnet FWR, it is in line with the approaches of the best countries in the world for women, in highly respected international comparator tables. The top countries in the world for women who have solid track records over decades of strong performance for women have seen fit to make this decision - after so many years of so many good decisions for women why do you suddenly think that these countries are suddenly now making a bad decision for decision? There is no evidence whatsoever that since their implementation of gender self ID there has been any harm to women.

In general the better a country performs for its most vulnerable members, the better it also performs for women; that is what these countries are showing. And when a country starts dissembling rights for its most vulnerable populations, sure enough women are just a little bit further down the line of being negatively impacted themselves. Trump's America will be a worked example of this in the next few years.

No. You’re not quite getting it. What material benefit will women get for allowing males with a trans identity into their spaces. You’ve done a lot of waffle about helping transpeople. Now what about women? What do we get out of this?

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:41

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:37

I've already referenced the potential problems for women that could arise out of attempts at implementing policy. Namely that there could be harassment of women that appear more masculine and invasions of their privacy.

The Supreme Court also incredibly outlined scenarios where transmen (females in GC understanding) could be banned from using both male toilets as they are not male biological sex, and female toilets if they look too masculine, potentially leaving them with no facilities to use. Although I believe the Supreme Court suggested that option should be available to them they will understandably feel incredibly nervous now about using either men's or women's toilets as the Supreme Court has said they could be barred from both options. This is an incredibly harmful impact on born females.

Although my position clearly appears out of step on Mumsnet FWR, it is in line with the approaches of the best countries in the world for women, in highly respected international comparator tables. The top countries in the world for women who have solid track records over decades of strong performance for women have seen fit to make this decision - after so many years of so many good decisions for women why do you suddenly think that these countries are suddenly now making a bad decision for decision? There is no evidence whatsoever that since their implementation of gender self ID there has been any harm to women.

In general the better a country performs for its most vulnerable members, the better it also performs for women; that is what these countries are showing. And when a country starts dissembling rights for its most vulnerable populations, sure enough women are just a little bit further down the line of being negatively impacted themselves. Trump's America will be a worked example of this in the next few years.

*Disassembling

BackToLurk · 27/07/2025 20:40

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:37

I've already referenced the potential problems for women that could arise out of attempts at implementing policy. Namely that there could be harassment of women that appear more masculine and invasions of their privacy.

The Supreme Court also incredibly outlined scenarios where transmen (females in GC understanding) could be banned from using both male toilets as they are not male biological sex, and female toilets if they look too masculine, potentially leaving them with no facilities to use. Although I believe the Supreme Court suggested that option should be available to them they will understandably feel incredibly nervous now about using either men's or women's toilets as the Supreme Court has said they could be barred from both options. This is an incredibly harmful impact on born females.

Although my position clearly appears out of step on Mumsnet FWR, it is in line with the approaches of the best countries in the world for women, in highly respected international comparator tables. The top countries in the world for women who have solid track records over decades of strong performance for women have seen fit to make this decision - after so many years of so many good decisions for women why do you suddenly think that these countries are suddenly now making a bad decision for decision? There is no evidence whatsoever that since their implementation of gender self ID there has been any harm to women.

In general the better a country performs for its most vulnerable members, the better it also performs for women; that is what these countries are showing. And when a country starts dissembling rights for its most vulnerable populations, sure enough women are just a little bit further down the line of being negatively impacted themselves. Trump's America will be a worked example of this in the next few years.

@suggestionsplease1 Why do you think some males are less of a threat to women than other males?
Why do you want to give some males, but not others, access to single sex spaces?

You can illustrate your reasons with a chart if you want

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 20:37

WithSilverBells · 27/07/2025 18:04

This is a great question. What's in it for us?
Shame you never got an answer

I've already referenced the potential problems for women that could arise out of attempts at implementing policy. Namely that there could be harassment of women that appear more masculine and invasions of their privacy.

The Supreme Court also incredibly outlined scenarios where transmen (females in GC understanding) could be banned from using both male toilets as they are not male biological sex, and female toilets if they look too masculine, potentially leaving them with no facilities to use. Although I believe the Supreme Court suggested that option should be available to them they will understandably feel incredibly nervous now about using either men's or women's toilets as the Supreme Court has said they could be barred from both options. This is an incredibly harmful impact on born females.

Although my position clearly appears out of step on Mumsnet FWR, it is in line with the approaches of the best countries in the world for women, in highly respected international comparator tables. The top countries in the world for women who have solid track records over decades of strong performance for women have seen fit to make this decision - after so many years of so many good decisions for women why do you suddenly think that these countries are suddenly now making a bad decision for decision? There is no evidence whatsoever that since their implementation of gender self ID there has been any harm to women.

In general the better a country performs for its most vulnerable members, the better it also performs for women; that is what these countries are showing. And when a country starts dissembling rights for its most vulnerable populations, sure enough women are just a little bit further down the line of being negatively impacted themselves. Trump's America will be a worked example of this in the next few years.

"Biological sex is a multidimensional variable with various components" - Thread 3
Keeptoiletssafe · 27/07/2025 18:26

When the Good Law Project mentioned they were adding the Health & Safety executive to their complaint I did think it would be interesting how they justify this.

I would love to see their evidence. I am trying to find a solution for everyone.

Keeptoiletssafe · 27/07/2025 18:21

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 18:16

Yeah....nah.

(I have the evidence as well that this is not correct).

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 18:16

Keeptoiletssafe · 27/07/2025 18:11

I can answer the ‘what’s in it for us’ question. One theory is if there are more people around, then the good men will protect the women from the bad men, and men may hear the moment of collapse if a woman collapses in a fully enclosed sound resistant unisex cubicle and come and rescue her.

However this fails any scrutiny.

Yeah....nah.

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needtostopnamechanging · 27/07/2025 18:15

There is no evidence that self id doesn’t add to risk for women … there is a lack of evidence , and in some cases a lack of common sense also

Keeptoiletssafe · 27/07/2025 18:11

I can answer the ‘what’s in it for us’ question. One theory is if there are more people around, then the good men will protect the women from the bad men, and men may hear the moment of collapse if a woman collapses in a fully enclosed sound resistant unisex cubicle and come and rescue her.

However this fails any scrutiny.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 18:10

BackToLurk · 27/07/2025 18:09

Why do you want to give some males, and not others, access to single-sex spaces?

You can't give some males and not others access though. I don't mean legally, but practically. So in practice she wants to give all males access.

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BackToLurk · 27/07/2025 18:09

suggestionsplease1 · 27/07/2025 17:21

To repeat what I have said before, there is absolutely no evidence of increased risk to women as a result of gender self-ID processes. You are talking about speculative potential, but you have zero empirical evidence.

Are you not interested in the facts?

Why do you want to give some males, and not others, access to single-sex spaces?

WithSilverBells · 27/07/2025 18:04

Annoyedone · 27/07/2025 13:09

No. I mean what benefit do women as a whole get from allowing their spaces to become mixed sex? You are wanting women to give up their sex based rights to single sex spaces. What’s in it for them? You’ve focused a lot on how it will benefit males. Now explain how it will benefit women as a whole.

This is a great question. What's in it for us?
Shame you never got an answer

Enough4me · 27/07/2025 17:59

Why don't men recognise that some men want to walk around in dresses and/or wear lipstick and/or call themselves a female name and welcome them into male facilities?
Males need to be more inclusive, it's not a female problem and we don't have to solve it.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 27/07/2025 17:58

ChatGPT to MissScarletInTheBallroom:

Final Clarification on the Line You Quoted

When I said:

> “Women, whether cis or trans, can only be charged with sexual assault or causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent…”

That was too imprecise. Here's a more accurate phrasing:

> “Individuals without a penis — including cisgender women, trans men without a penis, and others assigned female at birth — cannot be charged with rape under Section 1, but can be charged with other serious sexual offences. Trans women who retain a penis can legally commit rape under this section.”

Thank you for catching that — it's an important legal and ethical nuance.

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