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DorothyWainwright · 01/08/2025 22:10

"Never underestimate the Pricey" sadly didn't age well did it.

I assume the same will happen for Blue. Massive overspending, unexpected tax bill, dodgy accountant siphoning off the odd extra few grand, several family members on her payroll, £££ on more cosmetic surgery.

SionnachRuadh · 01/08/2025 13:44

A while ago I caught a podcast interview with Angela White, who probably genuinely is the biggest name in porn, and has been for years. It was an interesting contrast - I stress at the beginning that I'm not holding up AW as some kind of exemplar.

I know appearances can deceive, but the superficial differences are very striking. In conversation AW comes across as relatively normal. She smiles and jokes. She certainly makes good money, but she's not constantly bragging about her earnings.

More substantially, AW said that she's always been into pretty kinky stuff, and her work allows her to do that in a curated, relatively safe manner. She's working for studios, with guys who have been vetted and tested, and there are crew on hand in case anything goes wrong. This, she says, is a lot safer than hooking up with random guys from the internet.

My general impression of AW was - this is a woman who's highly intelligent, rational, has a shrew business sense and also knows that she's in a grubby business and needs to take care of her safety. That probably accounts for her longevity, having been doing this for 20 years.

The one point of similarity seems to be an unusual ability to dissociate sex from emotion. That's common among women in porn, and we might speculate about reasons for it. But, even though AW has done some extreme stuff that I have no interest in seeing, I can't imagine her going in for the clickbait-grabbing dangerous stunts that BB does. She's too professional, if that makes sense.

I also don't believe AW has ever been gifted the front page of the Guardian, but there you go. Maybe BB has discovered the old Malcolm McLaren rule that, if you say it's a cynical grift, you render yourself critic proof.

Lalgarh · 01/08/2025 13:24

SueSuddio · 01/08/2025 12:54

That was my reaction tbh.

The pedestrian way she talks about having over 1000 men have intercourse with her on a day sounded like she was just having a cup of tea and a biscuit with them.

Something is switched off in there.

If I was her I'd take the money and run, having an enormous amount of sex with strangers might not be psychologically slaying her, but physically she's playing a dangerous game - with injury or catching something.

I just remember that when she was Blues age, Katie Price was hailed as a genius businesswoman. There's no way she'd do this (though there are some videos circulating 🤑), but blues plan is the same as all the other porno ppl: they think they'll make a fortune and get out. Somehow it doesn't work out like that

FranticFrankie · 01/08/2025 13:12

It's all very distasteful; I feel quite sorry for her. There have to be issues there.
Agree re dissociation- how would you cope otherwise? As for her mum; words fail me
This does nothing for feminism but gives misogynists plenty of fodder
Sad

SueSuddio · 01/08/2025 12:54

wheresmymojo · 25/07/2025 22:54

I’m obviously not diagnosing her as I have zero background to do so, but I have found myself wondering if she’s a sociopath.

She seems incredibly emotionally flat and not remotely bothered - compare that to the other girl who slept with 100 men in a day (I forget her name but there’s a very good documentary about her on YouTube).

That was my reaction tbh.

The pedestrian way she talks about having over 1000 men have intercourse with her on a day sounded like she was just having a cup of tea and a biscuit with them.

Something is switched off in there.

If I was her I'd take the money and run, having an enormous amount of sex with strangers might not be psychologically slaying her, but physically she's playing a dangerous game - with injury or catching something.

Sweetbeansandmochi · 31/07/2025 23:49

I wish sexual empowerment was spoken about more often. The joy, un- inhibition, the energy, the tenderness, the connection to yourself…

I did see any of that in the BB doc. I saw exploitation, commodification and loneliness.

PennyAnnLane · 31/07/2025 23:33

I’ve watched it and it was unpleasant, for any ordinary woman it would be terrifying and revolting in equal measure to have a queue of naked men in their socks and balaclavas queueing up to have sex with you, groups of strange men groping your naked body as they take turns penetrating you. I wasn’t surprised she had flu after her 1,000 men stunt, I bet that’s not all she caught.

I can only think she is disassociating to an extreme degree or she has some sort of personality disorder.

No way would I do what she does for £1 million, it would cost me more than that in therapy afterwards.

They didn’t really touch on it but I can only think that part of her success must come down to the fact she is very conventionally attractive with a model like figure, she wouldn’t look out of place in a high fashion magazine, much more so than the young girls she had on with her with their thick makeup and bad teeth who I think will regret their foray into only fans much more and much sooner than her, when they don’t have any money to fall back on and can’t get a ‘boring’ office job because when you google their names you get a video of them naked with sex toys. At least she will be able to take the money and live quietly in her old age.

Hiptothisjive · 31/07/2025 17:57

Mildorado · 25/07/2025 15:09

Do you think it's about the money? The notoriety?

Yup. She hails herself as an astute business woman. Wants to be the biggest in thr porn industry. Wants to earn five million a month. Sees herself as an exceptional marketeer.

Shes also married btw.

DrBlackbird · 31/07/2025 17:54

TonTonMacoute · 28/07/2025 14:23

I couldn't read it all, it completely sickened me. The thing is, she has made money because she's one of the first to do it. How soon before it's nothing special and no one will pay up any more? And young women's lives are marred for nothing.

This excerpt, mentioned by PPs, is very disturbing. If a man was promoting this they would rightly be condemned. This is not alright because it's a woman doing it.

"To feed online rage, she has just filmed a “sex education” lesson in a classroom with very young-looking OnlyFans creators dressed in school uniforms. All look nervous; none has ever had sex in public. The boys are flushed from taking Viagra. Bonnie talks on camera of these girls needing to be “stretched out” by men

That is sickening. As is the fact that there’s a documentary on her and her ‘business plan’. As is the fact that The Guardian did an interview and pasted on their front page.

It’s not just this woman though is it? Or this women’s mother.

The SU at various British universities offer guidance on ‘sex work is work’ whilst sexual harassment and violence is rife, anal injuries are the fastest growing health complaint for young women on US colleges/universities, Amnesty international says sex work is work and should be decriminalised, ads for Tinder imply that you won’t be lonely in a new place if you hook up with everyone going male and female, every ‘edgy’ new young adult series/film etc. promotes transactional emotion free sex. Everyone is so bloody liberal now that nothing must be challenged or be off limits.

Our daughters are the losers here. I’m not sure what can be done to push back against this horrible pornification of society but it is distressing to see.

Thingyfanding · 31/07/2025 10:24

I watched the documentary the other night and her mother said how proud she was and that anyone would get their bits out if they could earn a million in a month.
That’s her guide and role model. WTF

Shortshriftandlethal · 31/07/2025 10:15

Lalgarh · 31/07/2025 09:56

The articles all say she seems to not feel anything about all this, with Mangan wondering if Blue might be a sociopath.

Surely it's just a high level of disassociation?

The only time in the documentary when she displayed any real feeling, even if she was trying not to show it, was when the young girls were being prepared for the screening of live sex. It was clear they were vulnerable and nervous, and even the male 'performer' had his doubts.

She was suggesting she was simply offering a business opportunity and had no responsibility for the girls or for any other young women who might see this stuff and think it represented a normal way to make money. I think this scene in the documentary was actually getting closer to the original 'event' that caused her to detach and deaden her emotional response.

She said she first had sex age 13, and i do wonder whether that was a rape, or experienced by her as such. Her sexual response has been formed by, and framed around, her earliest experiences. All of the talk about 'control' is reminscent of many othe women who become involved in prostitution or 'sex work' who turn out to have suffered sexual trauma or abuse.

it was as if she was sacrificing the girls to her original fate. But this time she was going to take control and make money out of it ( even if they were not).That was my feeling anyway.

Lalgarh · 31/07/2025 09:56

The articles all say she seems to not feel anything about all this, with Mangan wondering if Blue might be a sociopath.

Surely it's just a high level of disassociation?

Lavenderandbrown · 31/07/2025 03:10

Pelvic floor disorder

Lalgarh · 31/07/2025 02:14

The Accused

SwedishEdith · 30/07/2025 19:01

I've watched the documentary now. It's as horrible as I imagined (I'd never heard of her but knew of the phenomenon of shagging x number of blokes in one session). Utterly joyless - dead eyed and flat voiced. The scene with the nervous young "content creators" at the end, creating content over a load of shabby back street garages was like some mass grooming exercise. The men are as revolting and reminded me of the Jodie Foster film about the rape in the bar - can't remember the name. I'm glad I'm old but worry about young girls who think this is "empowering". Kind of wish I hadn't watched it now 🤮

AnnunciataM · 30/07/2025 16:56

Not sure why my previous post has been hidden as it was just a link to another interview with Bonnie. One that was so uncritical that it was ridiculous.

GrumpyExpat · 30/07/2025 16:06

Galdownunder · 26/07/2025 03:00

She must have a cast iron snatch I'll say that. I can't go more than two normal rounds with my partner without feeling tender lol. I'll never make a prn star.

😂

Superhansrantowindsor · 30/07/2025 16:01

Imagine loving money and material possessions more than your own child? You can’t. Her mother is seriously mixed up in her head.

GrumpyExpat · 30/07/2025 16:00

She says she does it for money, making millions in a month (or whatever the crazy figure is)... so how much money is enough? On a certain level, I can sort of see 'I'm going to do this to make several million dollars, stop and live the rest of my life comfortably'. Jamie Leigh Curtis's character in Trading Places comes to mind.
But if she's coming up with more and more gruesome porn... well something about her is off. Sociopathic, really.

Beowulfa · 30/07/2025 15:54

I struggle because she insists she's in control and happy, as well as rich and famous. How much money will ever be enough?

I genuinely have no frame of reference for a mother who helps organise a gang bang for her daughter.

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TonTonMacoute · 28/07/2025 14:23

I couldn't read it all, it completely sickened me. The thing is, she has made money because she's one of the first to do it. How soon before it's nothing special and no one will pay up any more? And young women's lives are marred for nothing.

This excerpt, mentioned by PPs, is very disturbing. If a man was promoting this they would rightly be condemned. This is not alright because it's a woman doing it.

"To feed online rage, she has just filmed a “sex education” lesson in a classroom with very young-looking OnlyFans creators dressed in school uniforms. All look nervous; none has ever had sex in public. The boys are flushed from taking Viagra. Bonnie talks on camera of these girls needing to be “stretched out” by men

BlueEyedBogWitch · 28/07/2025 07:54

She’s completely disassociated.

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