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Swivel eyed transphobes

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TonTonMacoute · 19/07/2025 14:42

Apparently it's people who don't believe you can magically change sex who are the loonies! Who knew?

www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2025/07/19/transphobes-swivel-eyed-says-labour-mp-leaked-audio/

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Notfinanciallyresponsibleforyou · 21/07/2025 10:52

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MagicSexEssence · 21/07/2025 10:49

TonTonMacoute · 21/07/2025 10:45

But the AGPs seem to have the loudest voices, have dominated and bullied their way into prominence, all the while insisting that they most definitely aren't AGPs and 'how dare you suggest that you fucking TERF.'

It's them who have pushed the 'ordinary trans people who just want to quietly get on with their lives' under the bus, not women.

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They've pushed them so far under the bus that they seem to have disappeared.

TonTonMacoute · 21/07/2025 10:45

But the AGPs seem to have the loudest voices, have dominated and bullied their way into prominence, all the while insisting that they most definitely aren't AGPs and 'how dare you suggest that you fucking TERF.'

It's them who have pushed the 'ordinary trans people who just want to quietly get on with their lives' under the bus, not women.

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letsallchant · 21/07/2025 10:42

PruthePrune · 19/07/2025 18:00

Slightly OT but WTF is "Queering Academia"? Why does everything have to be "queered"?

Also, they're 25 years too late. Already thoroughly queered!

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 10:33

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 04:39

Surely transsexualism is always a sexual thing, which is one reason I have such a strong objection to the idea that children can 'be trans'.

This this doesn't just apply to AGPs, it applies equally to gay men like Paris Lees and Juno Dawson, for whom being trans is all about having sex 'as a woman' (plenty of quotes online from both of them referring to this).

I really think it's an over generalisation to say it's always a sexual thing. It's sex as in people with dysphoria feeling like they should be the other sex, but not always sexual as in getting sexual gratification from it. Yes the AGP's do but they are a separate group. I appreciate a lot of people have fixed views that all trans people are the same.

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 10:23

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 04:45

When you say many trans people are also gay, are you referring to those who are gay before transition or the men who think they're lesbians when they transition in middle age after years of being married to a woman and fathering children? Because the second group is much larger than the first.

I was referring to those who were gay before transition and are now with same sex partners, i.e trans man with female partner and vice versa. These are the people I know. I don't know how the figures and percentages pan out however. Happy to take your word the second group is larger unless you want to share any studies. I do agree there's a certain group that have taken over, the second group you mention I imagine and I really wish the other group who aren't being loud would now step forward and show some reason. I can't believe that all trans people go along with the TRA's.

MagicSexEssence · 21/07/2025 09:47

Waitwhat23 · 21/07/2025 09:08

Has this been posted yet?

That asshole being a universal vagina comment gets me each time. It's just so wrong.

borntobequiet · 21/07/2025 09:18

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 04:39

Surely transsexualism is always a sexual thing, which is one reason I have such a strong objection to the idea that children can 'be trans'.

This this doesn't just apply to AGPs, it applies equally to gay men like Paris Lees and Juno Dawson, for whom being trans is all about having sex 'as a woman' (plenty of quotes online from both of them referring to this).

My thoughts too.

Notfinanciallyresponsibleforyou · 21/07/2025 09:11

Well some politicians are good at detecting where the Overton window is and clearly in the UK loads don’t. Tim Roca is a good example of not keeping up with the Overton Window and recognising that the TRAs have actually overshot public opinion.

Maybe we could have a referendum?

Waitwhat23 · 21/07/2025 09:08

Has this been posted yet?

Swivel eyed transphobes
ItsCoolForCats · 21/07/2025 08:37

It's very telling that they are plotting in a private WhatsApp group, rather than openly calling for the law to be changed. They know the overton window has shifted and they have no chance of the changes they want standing public scrutiny. So instead they are going to do everything they can to manipulate things behind the scenes.

MagicSexEssence · 21/07/2025 08:01

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 04:39

Surely transsexualism is always a sexual thing, which is one reason I have such a strong objection to the idea that children can 'be trans'.

This this doesn't just apply to AGPs, it applies equally to gay men like Paris Lees and Juno Dawson, for whom being trans is all about having sex 'as a woman' (plenty of quotes online from both of them referring to this).

I think you're probably right. I can see gender non conformity like wearing a pretty dress and makeup as being arty self expression but actually calling yourself a woman, yes I think that does have inherently sexual undertones.

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 04:45

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 00:51

Many trans people are also gay though so they have that in common. It's not just the pervy men we're talking about. But yet they are the only ones that are discussed. Nobody acknowledges the considerable number of gay paedophiles. I'm glad we don't lump all gay people into that group anymore but we shouldn't do it with trans people either.

When you say many trans people are also gay, are you referring to those who are gay before transition or the men who think they're lesbians when they transition in middle age after years of being married to a woman and fathering children? Because the second group is much larger than the first.

OldCrone · 21/07/2025 04:39

MagicSexEssence · 21/07/2025 02:21

@TrainedByCats I've had the same experience. I've only met one TIM in real life and he was/is a total creep. It's clearly a sexual thing for him and I want no part in it.

Surely transsexualism is always a sexual thing, which is one reason I have such a strong objection to the idea that children can 'be trans'.

This this doesn't just apply to AGPs, it applies equally to gay men like Paris Lees and Juno Dawson, for whom being trans is all about having sex 'as a woman' (plenty of quotes online from both of them referring to this).

MagicSexEssence · 21/07/2025 02:21

@TrainedByCats I've had the same experience. I've only met one TIM in real life and he was/is a total creep. It's clearly a sexual thing for him and I want no part in it.

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 00:55

Anyway final thoughts is that this MP is part of the problem and not helping anything. Using such disgusting language just pushes people further away from trying to make anything better for anyone.

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 00:51

TonTonMacoute · 20/07/2025 19:56

I completely agree that equating being transgender is no different from being homosexual is the very first big deception in the whole TRA argument.

Genuinely gay, you are sexually attracted to people of your own sex.

Genuinely trans. What does that mean? You can call yourself Dolores/Derek, dress differently, take hormones, undergo the most horrendous surgery, and you are still the sex you were born.

This is bad enough when applied to adults, but teachers are encouraging children in this delusion, even in primary schools, and behind the backs of and against the wishes of the children's own parents. Something that I assume Tim Roca, an elected MP, is thoroughly in favour of.

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Many trans people are also gay though so they have that in common. It's not just the pervy men we're talking about. But yet they are the only ones that are discussed. Nobody acknowledges the considerable number of gay paedophiles. I'm glad we don't lump all gay people into that group anymore but we shouldn't do it with trans people either.

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 00:45

MarieDeGournay · 20/07/2025 20:04

Lots of people adopt an appearance that doesn't correspond to the stereotype of the sex they were born into - me, for instanceSmile - and that's fine, but there's a difference between gender-non-conforming people like me, and people who present as the opposite sex, whether or not they actually believe 'TWAW'.

If the quiet ordinary intelligent transwomen do not believe they have really changed sex and are now women, what is their motive for trying to 'pass', ie. wanting people to think they are women, when they know it's not true?

I can't speak for the psychology of what causes a man or woman to have dysphoria and want to dress and present as the opposite sex, therefore I can't say what their motive is other than to feel more comfortable with themselves. It's not just men but women too. I don't believe they should be able to take any serious steps towards this until they're 25 so that they've had a chance to work through and see if this is what they really want.

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 21/07/2025 00:30

TrainedByCats · 20/07/2025 20:20

And I don’t assume any of those groups you mentioned are because of a few but I do wonder why without exception every single trans identified male I’ve met IRL has been sexually creepy, including young males which surprised me and depressed me at the time. I don’t believe every single trans identified male is sexually creepy I’ve engaged in discussion with some online that seem pleasant people but I’ve not met them IRL.

That said I had to wonder what % are that I’ve never met one in person that isn’t? I very much wanted to believe I was just very unlucky years ago as I said I was an uninformed ally then but eventually I couldn’t convince myself anymore. If that offends you so be it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Having noticed that pattern and then read about the acronym I’m unsure whether we can name it here it made more sense. Again if that view offends you I can live with that.

I’ve never knowingly met any trans identified females so have no personal view.

Your views don't offend me! Obviously people's views will be based on their own experience and you haven't had any positive experiences with trans people. I have had positive experiences so I just think it's important not to lump a whole group together and say they're all the same. But again it's just my view. I'm trying to be positive and hope that the recent reset will bring about change so everyone can live more comfortably with each other. That does have to start with the reasonable trans people though, no one else can do it for them.

BlackeyedSusan · 20/07/2025 21:54

TrainedByCats · 19/07/2025 16:57

Whilst it’s not the main point I find a MP using an ableist comment like swivel eyed as a slur disheartening. It’s not really in the spirit of what DEI should be.

glad someone else picked up the ablist comment about a vision condition/disability. And a pejorative about mental health conditions too. Same mentality as racists really. Which sadly is the only IST that seems to count.

CandidLurker · 20/07/2025 21:14

On the politics side of things I think I did the numbers at the time. If you added together the Conservative and Reform votes, Tim would still have won, but by a very slim margin. Can’t remember exactly what the numbers were.

The demographic of the town is definitely changing. There’s definitely a younger, trendier crowd now (there’s a Gail’s and everything!). It’s changed a lot from a relatively small, working class mill town surrounded by farms.

OldCrone · 20/07/2025 20:51

JimmyNailsCrocodileShoes · 20/07/2025 19:52

I really don't agree that they all believe they can change sex, I think most of them will be more intelligent than that. As for whether they adopt a feminine/ masculine appearance etc I couldn't care less. But it's time for the quiet ordinary ones now to take the reins and show that they can respect single sex spaces, sports and all the other things where it's important. The SC court ruling has been a jolt for some I'm sure but if the majority can be respectful that's the only way forward now. So that's what I'm hoping for. The loud mouths must be seeing that their way isn't going to wash anymore.

All trans people, by definition, are pretending to be the opposite sex. So even if they are sane enough to know that they can't change sex, a man who calls himself a 'transwoman' is pretending to be some sort of woman, rather than a type of man.

If he just wanted to be a gender non-conforming man he could do that - it's the appropriation of womanhood by men which is the problem. It doesn't matter how nice he is as a person in other respects, if he's pretending to be a woman that's offensive to all women. 'Woman' is not a costume.

A man playing dress up as a woman is perpetuating stereotypes. He's reinforcing the idea that women should look or behave a certain way, that there are certain attributes (other than a female body) which makes someone a woman. If he likes wearing dresses, high heels and make up, fine (as long as he doesn't have fake breasts or wear an outfit so tight or skimpy that we can all see how much he enjoys wearing his costume). He doesn't have to pretend to be a woman to do this.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 20/07/2025 20:40

CandidLurker · 20/07/2025 20:35

I’ve sent my email to Tim. Not holding my breath for a response. I did make myself listen to the recording again so I could quote him correctly. Listening to it again there were new things that annoyed me. He talks about some what’s app group being their safe space and how upset and angry they were when this was breached. They’ve got a different what’s app safe space now so that’s ok. But does he not see the quite obvious parallels with other groups who might want real (not just virtual) safe spaces for more important reasons. He also talked about the importance of rationality and compassion. There was simply none of that
present in his words. Rather the opposite.

I’ve discovered via X that it’s possible to make a complaint to the Labour Party so I might try that tomorrow. Again might not achieve much but worth it to me to express my thoughts.

Well done, if people don't even try to speak out or hold their elected officials accountable for what they do and say, nothings going to change.
If he doesn't answer then that's on him and is just more proof of how useless he is a representative.
Registering a complaint with the Labour party about what he said seems fair, they are after all responsible for making sure the people who are their MP's act according to the rules.

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