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Gregg Wallace: I've bloody heard it all now

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SidewaysOtter · 09/07/2025 22:45

https://www.thetimes.com/article/048274a6-0f4d-4840-a6d6-a762f3cd89b4?shareToken=c179de101201f5ff427273be03361fa3

Apparently, in addition to him being the "true victim" in the BBC's investigation (see his statement of yesterday on Instagram where "nothing was done to investigate my disability" or "protect me from...a dangerous environment"), his "friends" now claim that incidents such as him opening doors with a sock on his penis while he shouted "hooray" were due to his autism which, in turn, meant he couldn't wear underwear.

I have no words other than to say I know quite a few autistic people. Not one of them behaves as, or uses autism to excuse being, a sex pest.

Whoever is doing his crisis PR has really pulled out all the stops.

Gregg Wallace’s autism means he can’t wear underwear, say friends

Sources close to ex-MasterChef presenter claim he has ‘hypersensitivity’ to tight clothing and his condition is partly to blame for his inappropriate behaviour

https://www.thetimes.com/article/048274a6-0f4d-4840-a6d6-a762f3cd89b4?shareToken=c179de101201f5ff427273be03361fa3

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RedToothBrush · 11/07/2025 13:46

SidewaysOtter · 11/07/2025 12:41

Let's face it, if he thinks he's been discriminated against he should take the BBC to court.

He has recently got an autism diagnosis according to this article. I wonder when that happened and why that happened.

If he didn't have a diagnosis when working at the BBC how can he expect the BBC to have 'protected him' on the basis of a diagnosis he didn't have?

If he's got a diagnosis to try and retrospectively have a stick to beat the BBC with, good luck with that given the sheer length of the rope he was given by the BBC to hang himself.

There's no way they won't have sought legal advice on this given how much of a twat he is.

murasaki · 11/07/2025 13:26

When she's on it, she's on it.

Beowulfa · 11/07/2025 13:22

murasaki · 11/07/2025 13:11

That is utterly glorious writing. Well done Marina.

Fizbosshoes · 11/07/2025 13:07

WholesaleNoodleBuyer · 11/07/2025 12:49

Can you remind me of a time when opening your door naked except for a sock was acceptable?

Also the sort of behaviour that’s now not ok was only just acceptable in the 80s - 40 years ago - I’m quite happy to have a problem with men cocky enough to think that they can behave in these ways despite having 40 years to learn not to. At what point do you say it’s ok to let it lie?

I've worked in a male dominated industry for nearly 30 years.Apart from a couple of colleagues who, maybe 10ish years ago, followed that stupid trend of wearing your jeans halfway down your arse, I've no idea (neither do I want or need to know) the underwear status of any of my colleagues! There has definitely been banter and misogyny, but thankfully never any opportunity where someone got their tackle out. It wasn't ok, or in any way normal, in the late 90s, when i started and it isn't ok now.

SidewaysOtter · 11/07/2025 12:51

Can you remind me of a time when opening your door naked except for a sock was acceptable?

When you try to pass it off as "bantz"?

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WholesaleNoodleBuyer · 11/07/2025 12:49

SquishedMallow · 09/07/2025 23:37

I don't know the ins and outs of the accusations, I'll be honest.

But I do think there is a culture of hunting down men on TV for behaviour that once was considered 'ok' (over flirtatious behaviour towards females guests/sexist 'banter' for example) and publicly witch-hunting them and judging them by today's standards.

Today, we (thank god ) know better and women are treated far more equal and it's now socially unacceptable to paw at women on TV and treat them like some kind of pretty little dolly that's good for groping and treating like they have an IQ of 30.

But there is balance. I think when behaviour is historic we have to be careful about whether the public frenzy and blood thirstiness strikes the balance over the actual alleged 'crime'.

Can you remind me of a time when opening your door naked except for a sock was acceptable?

Also the sort of behaviour that’s now not ok was only just acceptable in the 80s - 40 years ago - I’m quite happy to have a problem with men cocky enough to think that they can behave in these ways despite having 40 years to learn not to. At what point do you say it’s ok to let it lie?

SidewaysOtter · 11/07/2025 12:41

https://www.thetimes.com/article/8b13d9d9-098c-430d-875d-1e422f98deb7?shareToken=3b17f5535bfbf976e13ac6a8934467b7

The theme of which seems to be "He was warned but didn't listen".

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SionnachRuadh · 11/07/2025 12:32

The fact of him already having had coaching in 2019 will be a big factor. The BBC can then say, we did what we could to train him to behave appropriately, but he's just not capable of it.

Similar in some ways to what's panning out in Hollywood with John Cusack and his antisemitic memes. You reach a point where nobody's willing to work with this guy.

CarefulN0w · 11/07/2025 12:06

I’m glad the mail has quoted disability charities. GregG should not be attempting to blame a disability for his despicable behaviour and it is shameful that he has tried.

Cattery · 11/07/2025 10:54

Good! The man’s a giant helmet

SinnerBoy · 11/07/2025 10:20

Oh dear, poor Ggreg will now have to sit and wallow quietly in his millions.

reesewithoutaspoon · 11/07/2025 09:09

The cult of celebrity in the media is a huge part of the problem, I don't get it, none of these stars are irreplaceable, I'm sure there are thousands who could do the job. Yet these presenters are pandered to, allowed to call the shots and act with impunity because of some perceived value.

He probably is shocked that hes being called out for his behaviour and feels aggreived, because for years no one has stopped him, in fact they covered for him and protected him. He was given the green light to continue by those around him. The young female freelancers were considered valueless and dispensable and they knew it, complaining risks destroying your career before you have even started.

I don't blame them for not coming forward, because even when they do they are not taken seriously,or accused of only doing it for fame and compensation.

Hes one of thousands of mysoginistic awful men, unfortunately he found himself in a position were he was allowed to be himself without any correction to his behaviour.

CarefulN0w · 11/07/2025 09:07

It’s depressing enough that there are too many GreGG s in the world making women the butt of their jokes and a source of sexual gratification, but to blame women - FFS. Really?

Women aren’t jumping on a bandwagon, they are trying to get out of the way of a juggernaut.

KnottyAuty · 11/07/2025 08:45

MoominUnderWater · 10/07/2025 21:56

He surely can’t sue the bbc successfully for not taking his autism into consideration? Because if he won wouldn’t that mean it’s a green light for any autistic man to sexually harrass female colleagues ? Which obviously wouldn’t happen! And people with autism apart from gregg manage to not behave like this.

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It’s really odd that bit - an employer isnt responsible for attending to his medical needs. Why is it for the BBC to get him diagnosed?

KnottyAuty · 11/07/2025 08:41

SidewaysOtter · 09/07/2025 23:14

I can imagine the PR management conversation:

”Trans is a bit over now, everything’s gone a bit Supreme Court. Addiction…could we say he’s got an addiction? Tricky, I suppose, when there’s no stories of drug or alcohol abuse, and sex addiction is such a difficult sell. WAIT! I’ve got it - neurodiversity! It’s the very thing!”

TBH when I heard the story first time I assumed it was undiagnosed ADHD. The sensory stuff combined with impulsivity could produce some startling behaviour and unlikeability… (See the Owen Jones thread for example).

It’s certainly not an excuse but if no one told Greg in very plain terms about the complaints then it is feasible he had no idea people were upset.

Interesting the bit about 2018 and his claim of changing his behaviour. If he can demonstrate that all these complaints are prior to this then he probably deserves another chance.

SidewaysOtter · 11/07/2025 08:26

The older I get the less respect I have for men in general. It's like the Y chromosome has some special creep sauce on it. Double ugh.

That missing “leg” of the otherwise-X chromosome (ie a Y is an X that’s missing a bit) must contain most of the “don’t be an entitled arsehole” genes.

Mind you, if Gregg’s PR team thought like that they’d be claiming he has a genetic condition too 🙄

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CarefulN0w · 11/07/2025 07:47

hholiday · 10/07/2025 05:00

It reminds me of a former landlord. When I was in my 20s, I lived in a flat at the top of his house with a couple of female students. Every time his wife was away, he would walk around in his pants on the stairwell and try to hug us. He got really angry when I challenged him and said he couldn’t wear clothes because he’d once had cancer and they made him too hot. The stuff these men come out with is utterly despicable.

As someone said on the radio yesterday, it’s the Prince Andrew defence.

despicable.

unsurewhattodoaboutit · 11/07/2025 03:43

I heard on the radio yesterday that he jumped on some young researcher and pinned her to the couch. When she complained to her manager she was told ‘look you are over 17 it’s not like you’ve been jimmy savilled or anything’!

Kimwestonhelpless · 11/07/2025 01:03

There are photos of him wearing shorts..why couldn't he wear boxers of the same fit etc..hes so full of shit.

theDudesmummy · 11/07/2025 00:38

I hadn't come across this cunt before. Just reading about him tonight. What an awful person! Has he no shame whatsoever, blaming women, blaming autism, blaming his employer...what an entitled, cowardly prick. Ugh.

My DS is 16 and autistic, he is also non-speaking and has moderate leaning disability. He knows how to behave both in public and when interacting with people at school or other places.

It's not always easy for him as he can be impulsive sometimes, and you can see him gritting his teeth as he stops himself from hopping about in the supermarket or stimming in a restaurant. Never in a million years would he be sexually inappropriate anywhere, he knows perfectly well that he can't do that (he went through a phase a year or two ago of wanting to hold hands with every little girl he met, we explained to him (once) why he couldn't do that now he is growing up, and it never happened again).

The older I get the less respect I have for men in general. It's like the Y chromosome has some special creep sauce on it. Double ugh.

RawBloomers · 10/07/2025 23:36

MoominUnderWater · 10/07/2025 21:56

He surely can’t sue the bbc successfully for not taking his autism into consideration? Because if he won wouldn’t that mean it’s a green light for any autistic man to sexually harrass female colleagues ? Which obviously wouldn’t happen! And people with autism apart from gregg manage to not behave like this.

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I’d like to think this was unlikely but the courts have accepted all kinds of non-excuses for male predation on women.

SerafinasGoose · 10/07/2025 22:54

FairViewRosie25 · 10/07/2025 22:41

He’s playing the autism card to cover his twat tendencies. I’ve worked with him he’s just a sleazebag

You have my full sympathies.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 10/07/2025 22:47

What an utter twat. And a predator.