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Girls Using Walking Sticks

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Arran2024 · 08/07/2025 18:57

I saw a post about this on X this morning. Apparently it is a trend.

Anyway, I went into town this afternoon and sure enough, I saw a number of young women with walking sticks. None of them looked like they were leaning hard on their stick, just kind of walking along like it was a big umbrella.

Is anyone else seeing this?

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BettyBooper · 07/08/2026 00:30

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 06/08/2026 22:37

It's not exactly great if you're seeing young people with walking sticks and you're (general you're) automatically using it to buy into conspiracy theories about social contagion and people who are trans.
Transphobia (for want of a better word) really does harm everyone, it seems.
Even those who are disabled now.

No, I certainly wouldn't want to buy into conspiracy theories.

But I equally wouldn't want to ignore an issue just because of being afraid to raise it in case I was called names for doing so.

This works both ways.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 06/08/2026 22:50

Charlize43 · 08/07/2025 23:31

I've noticed this too on the tube - young women with sunflower lanyards and walking sticks. Last week, one was asking a man to give up his seat as she wanted to sit. He was about my age, late 50s and he looked like a builder as his clothes were splattered. He looked absolutely shattered! She was around 20.

I've seen 10 in total. I did wonder if it was some some of TFL disability research exercise as they were all girls and youngish (under 35) except 1 young man.

Is this a thing then?

I feel for the tired workman. I also feel for people of any age with a genuine disability. But from what I’ve seen, imaginary illnesses are part of a whole set of victim-status conditions, including gender dysphoria, claimed by certain people, as part of a current fad.

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 06/08/2026 22:37

BettyBooper · 06/08/2026 22:32

If there are lots of young women walking around with walking sticks are we supposed to ignore it? Not ask any questions at all?

Noticing a sudden general trend shift in a particular population isn't a bad thing, surely? What if something is going badly wrong and it is being ignored?

It's not exactly great if you're seeing young people with walking sticks and you're (general you're) automatically using it to buy into conspiracy theories about social contagion and people who are trans.
Transphobia (for want of a better word) really does harm everyone, it seems.
Even those who are disabled now.

InQuiresandplaceswheretheysing · 06/08/2026 22:37

AlexandraLeaving · 08/07/2025 19:02

OMG! I have never in my life before been On Trend!!

Me neither! Although I prefer to use a crutch as it’s more comfortable, and no one bats an eyelid to someone my age using a crutch. When I used a normal stick, people were always asking why I had one. (MS)

BettyBooper · 06/08/2026 22:32

If there are lots of young women walking around with walking sticks are we supposed to ignore it? Not ask any questions at all?

Noticing a sudden general trend shift in a particular population isn't a bad thing, surely? What if something is going badly wrong and it is being ignored?

SodOffbacktoaibu · 06/08/2026 21:27

Hugely disappointing article from Stock. People seriously don't know what ambulatory wheel chair user means.

People with disabilities do not need this crap.

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 06/08/2026 20:20

AmateurNoun · 06/08/2026 20:12

I don't think we should be speculating about a particular individual's disabilities. I posted the link above which contains the video as it is mentioned in the Stock article.

I agree. Speculating whether "they're more able than they make out" is 🙄
Surely that just completely misses the fact that some people who are disabled and use wheelchairs/sticks or whatever can have days where they're better than others? Doesn't mean they're bound to them all the time otherwise they must be putting it on which is what's being insinuated!
Horrible thread all round really.

AmateurNoun · 06/08/2026 20:20

blunderdul · 06/08/2026 20:16

I think it’s perfectly fine to speculate actually. If someone regularly posts vastly contradictory information should we never question it? I mean I haven’t done anything other than mention it in the context of the thread, which I think is entirely reasonable. It’s the entire personality of many of these TikTok creators: it’s ok for people to wonder.

I just don't think it's safe to speculate about individual cases. I am not a doctor and don't know the individual's medical history.

I do think though that one can legitimately remark on the massive increase in numbers which may suggest that their might be some sort of psychosomatic origin of a social contagion, in the same way that there has been with gender dysphoria and more recently with Tourette's

blunderdul · 06/08/2026 20:16

AmateurNoun · 06/08/2026 20:12

I don't think we should be speculating about a particular individual's disabilities. I posted the link above which contains the video as it is mentioned in the Stock article.

I think it’s perfectly fine to speculate actually. If someone regularly posts vastly contradictory information should we never question it? I mean I haven’t done anything other than mention it in the context of the thread, which I think is entirely reasonable. It’s the entire personality of many of these TikTok creators: it’s ok for people to wonder.

PollyNomial · 06/08/2026 20:13

My grandad, when he was in his late 90s, could very slowly climb stairs and walk a short distance but amazingly, for longer journeys (more than 50m), he needed a wheelchair.

People lucky enough not to have a disability themselves and ignorant enough to not know anyone with a disability should keep their unhelpful comments to themselves, including and especially such renowned medical experts on disability with a huge platform as, checks notes, philosophers and authors.

AmateurNoun · 06/08/2026 20:12

I don't think we should be speculating about a particular individual's disabilities. I posted the link above which contains the video as it is mentioned in the Stock article.

blunderdul · 06/08/2026 19:58

CassOle · 06/08/2026 16:37

Archive version. https://archive.ph/OMv9c

This article mentions the same tiktoker I mentioned upthread. I got absolutely slated and have only realised now that my post which actually detailed what she did has been deleted, no idea why, it was factual, as is my belief that she is far more able than she makes out. Her TikTok is an absolute eye opener. I have no idea what’s going on but it seems to be some sort of trend for some people.

Shmoigel · 06/08/2026 17:47

This has been picked up by the media today

https://www.facebook.com/share/1b48uVjcXB/?mibextid=wwXIfr

I have definitely noticed it increasing in the last year especially on TikTok. I fear this might be a trend.

CassOle · 06/08/2026 16:37

Archive version. https://archive.ph/OMv9c

Seriestwo · 06/08/2026 16:34

Hood read, thanks

AmateurNoun · 06/08/2026 16:25

Kathleen Stock on this subject in The Times today

https://www.thetimes.com/comment/columnists/article/young-women-walking-sticks-gen-z-disability-2ssv95mws

underthecokesign · 18/06/2026 18:01

CassandraWebb · 18/06/2026 17:56

Are you sure you aren't just identifying as disabled?
Instead of sticks you could just identify as able bodied and then you will magically get better Grin

Damn, why didn't I think of that? 😄

CassandraWebb · 18/06/2026 17:56

underthecokesign · 18/06/2026 17:52

Absolutely, and I'm so glad we live in more enlightened times. You wouldn't think it'd be hard for people to grasp the facts you outlined here, would you, but apparently some people do struggle to comprehend these things even in this day and age. I'm off now to swap my purple floral stick for a standard grey NHS-issue one lest anyone think I'm committing the cardinal sin of not being ashamed that I sometimes need a stick... removes tongue from cheek 😂

Are you sure you aren't just identifying as disabled?
Instead of sticks you could just identify as able bodied and then you will magically get better Grin

underthecokesign · 18/06/2026 17:52

TransportNerd · 18/06/2026 14:58

This thread was thoroughly nasty when it first appeared, and is still nasty.

You see more young people with walking sticks now because in the past young disabled people would have been largely housebound or institutionalised, and in a number of cases quite possibly dead.

Provisions for disabled people are better across the board now. When I was a kid, the schools I went to had absolutely no provision for wheelchair users at all, completely blocking them from mainstream education.

Absolutely, and I'm so glad we live in more enlightened times. You wouldn't think it'd be hard for people to grasp the facts you outlined here, would you, but apparently some people do struggle to comprehend these things even in this day and age. I'm off now to swap my purple floral stick for a standard grey NHS-issue one lest anyone think I'm committing the cardinal sin of not being ashamed that I sometimes need a stick... removes tongue from cheek 😂

underthecokesign · 18/06/2026 17:45

Everlore · 17/06/2026 17:49

Yes, why can't we go back to the good old days when disability was seen as something shameful and unseemly to be kept out of sight where possible and many disabled people were institutionalised and separated from wider society.
Things were so much better then when people were rightly ashamed of their conditions and didn't have the brass neck to wander around being visibly disabled and giving nosy judgemental parkers a fit of the vapours by not hiding away like anyone decent would do if they happened to be disabled.
I am, for the avoidance of doubt, being sarcastic, just in case that needed clarifying!

Absolutely this! The pp you were replying to here sounds very frightened of anyone who looks/behaves differently to how they do. I wonder why?

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/06/2026 17:17

Girls and young women are struggling massively. I'd rather they had an external and useful crutch than internalise society's messages and do permanent damage to their bodies. They have all their lives to throw the stick away, when they are strong enough to stand on their own two feet.

This thread is misogynist, ableist and ageist.

CassandraWebb · 18/06/2026 17:08

Abhannmor · 18/06/2026 16:42

This is a bit of a quantum leap. I had a classmate with a serious disability. She wore a caliper on one leg. Of course she wasn't denied education or confined to an institution because I'm talking about the 20th century not the 18th.

Well my son had a serious injury earlier this year that left him unable to walk much for quite a long time (note, although a teen, he didnt just identify as injured and his crutches weren't just a fashion accessory) and he had to miss a lot of school because the classrooms werent accessible. And that's a quarter of the way into the 21st century

Abhannmor · 18/06/2026 16:42

TransportNerd · 18/06/2026 14:58

This thread was thoroughly nasty when it first appeared, and is still nasty.

You see more young people with walking sticks now because in the past young disabled people would have been largely housebound or institutionalised, and in a number of cases quite possibly dead.

Provisions for disabled people are better across the board now. When I was a kid, the schools I went to had absolutely no provision for wheelchair users at all, completely blocking them from mainstream education.

This is a bit of a quantum leap. I had a classmate with a serious disability. She wore a caliper on one leg. Of course she wasn't denied education or confined to an institution because I'm talking about the 20th century not the 18th.

CassandraWebb · 18/06/2026 15:24

ModerateOrGoodOccasionallyPoor · 18/06/2026 12:34

I honestly don't even care if some teens are using sticks as a fashion accessory. If it makes it easy for the teens who need one to use one then I'm all for it.

It's not a 'fashion' accessory as such though. It's an accessory that they've convinced themselves they need because they identify as someone feeble and chronically unwell, whether they are or not. That's not fashion, that's a form of social contagion that points to an unhealthy mindset.

Social contagion..... Or feeling more confident to be open about it and gravitating towards people with similar experiences?

Quite a few of my friends also have serious chronic conditions. Not because we have all copied off each other but because we have bonded over shared understanding and battles.

Until had a wheelchair I spent a lot of time housebound. As electric wheelchairs have become more affordable and accessible many more people with my condition have them not because we "identify and weak and feeble" (what nasty wording) but because they open up the world for us.